I know how you feel girl, I thought i needed another man to fill the void in my life too.  But truth is, there are only a few good men that can fill the void and eventually they will want some sex.  My spouse is more like a room mate not a soul mate.
He wants the cake and eat it too.  Spends all his free time at the club every weekend  then he wants to check the block with one family outing. I stopped trying to please him. Just waiting for him to give me papers to sign because divorce is against my religion and if he divorces me I can remarry.