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Hi guys, I havent been online for a while but just last week I got back online and tried posting an advert on nairalist but I couldn't find any link to it.
Pls I need your advice on how to go about this, Thanks

I wish him speedy recovery

You appear to be confused as you really do not know what you want.Why ask B out when you are already with A?

I suggest you leave both of them and set your priorities right.I believe that when you are clear on that,you will make a good choice of a girlfriend.

Goodluck.

i guess ure right lilian,,maybe i should really find out what i realy want.thanx

Hi NL's. I need ur advice on this. Presently I have two pretty girlfriends A and B and im having problems choosing who i really want.

Both are students, I met A shortly before i was about to complete my NYSC, and initially when i asked her out then she declined and I guessed it was because she felt I was incapacitated financially and she even remarked casually that she wont date some1 who isnt financially o.k. and even ignored my calls delibrately anytime we agreed to meet. Thanks to God, months later there was a transformation cos i got employed in another firm, got a ride and my status changed and was on a kind of revenge mission to date any girl whom i gave attention and love but treated me like trash and eventually dump them afterwards and luckily i had my way on most occasions. I later asked A out and she agreed and I was eager to have SEX, but contrary to my initial belief I discovered that she was a virgin and this even made me appreciate her more.Also she is not in any way materialistic, so im tempted to think it wasnt for the money, and most importantly she loves me and I also have deep feelings for her.

B on the other hand is very God fearing, cool headed, purpose driven, brilliant etc. I met her after i joined the firm and when i asked her our she accepted.she too is not materialistic but she occasionally asks for money.what discourages me is that she was not a virgin when we had sex, she is part calabar part yoruba her dad is late and her mom is from calabar, no playa hating but i dont know what is it in me that makes me that makes me feel uneasy with calabarians , maybe its because of the way their language sounds, the general notion that they eat dog meat or they are not easily satisfied in bed.

I sometimes think of them being my wife but i get confused, I love them both and dont want to make a mistake by breaking up with the girl that should be my wife.


I NEED UR ADVICE

wat is the minimum qualification, minimum age etc

nice one