@Acidetalk the whole project(building of the cold room house and office and installation of the cold room) started in February, my dad was abroad all the while he came back june and that's when I started having issues with him(he is disappointed that I am not yet settled and my younger brothers are though they made it through yahoo and were lucky although I tried same means but was not as lucky). I am not married but in a 13 years relationship, I have been delayed in life because I am not financially stable. The latest now is that, there is no manager yet as at now, and according to my mum they are getting ready to start marketing with fliers. My woman just graduated as a science lab tech. And has been out there lOoking for job, cos her business is not doing really well (make up artist, training of students, selling of make up accessories) due to fall in customer base. I really would like to get married this year or early next year to enable us start having babies cos time is not on her side any more and my brother as u already know women, the delay has caused many issues with me n her even as I write.

I had a job opportunity that I lost, after building a cold room of 30 tonnes in a market area, for my dad who is 73 years of age and I am the first son. I was to be the manager on an initial salary of 10,000 naira. But things fell apart when my father started disregarding me through insults and other means so I got frustrated and left the whole thing. Now I am back to the labour market I am 37 and no job with a lady of 34 with me stiLl looking for a job too. I am a sham to return to my dad. I am confused...