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Upon all d research being done on d brain,little is being known dat why people keep bringing different report.But if we shud carry out our own research on who more emotional just by d way people behave. An ideal research should b an only girl in a house full wit boys and vice versa. Do d girl still expresses more emotion dan d guys ? will give u d result nx week.av a nice week ahead

carefreewannabe:
Didn't you complain a few pages ago that the choice of studies presented by some people here is one-sided?
Why do you complain about something that you do yourself?

You search for studies that support your views and neglect all studies that contradict your views and there are plenty of them, too.
Why would you choose to ignore the criticism regarding the interpretation of the findings you have quoted here?
There are plenty of neurologists out there that CLEARLY say that the findings have been misinterpreted.

Some decades ago so called experts claimed that men were more intelligent because they had bigger brains. No serious scientist would agree with this view today. Some decades ago so called experts claimed that white men were more intelligent because their brains differed from those of "Negros".

Today some people use neurology to claim that women are less capable of making sound decisions based on reason as they are too emotional.

Before you tell me to read more sources that support your views, do me a favor and get familiar with sources that contradict your views.
I am very familiar with studies supporting your views.

Here is something to begin with:

"Why it's time for brain science to ditch the 'Venus and Mars' cliche
Reports trumpeting basic differences between male and female brains are biological determinism at its most trivial, says the science writer of the year"

http://www.theguardian.com/science/2013/dec/07/brain-science-ditch-male-female-cliche

"A neuroscientist has claimed the expression 'Men are from Mars and women are from Venus' has no scientific grounding, and that instead our brains are changed by the roles society forces us to play.
According to Gina Rippon, a professor at Aston University in Birmingham, stereotypes - such as women's supposed inability to read maps, or the idea men are bad at multitasking - have no links to science.
Instead of being wired in different ways, Professor Rippon said that men and women are only dissimilar because the world we live in encourages gender role-playing."


http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2576241/Men-NOT-Mars-Scientist-claims-male-female-brains-gender-stereotyping-makes-different.html


By the way, I am very happy with my brain and I never wish to be a man.

The only problem I have, is that some people interpret science as it suits them to tell me and other women what they should do with their lives, what they are capable of and that their decisions are of poorer quality because they base them on emotions instead of using reason, which they are not able to do as well as men anyway.


Besides Nonso has shown us that women score better at EI.

EI

"Emotional intelligence (EI) refers to the ability to perceive, control and evaluate emotions."

http://psychology.about.com/od/personalitydevelopment/a/emotionalintell.htm

SO even if we believe the interpretation of the studies you have quoted that women are more emotional, we must also consider that women are better at controlling emotions, which makes men (not women) more prone to acting and decision making based on emotions.

Furthermore, women have higher IQs and girls have long outperformed boys in ALL school subjects, which must make us re-consider if we can afford it to claim that women should be the ones to take on traditional gender roles and that men should be the HEAD, when their heads perform worse concerning IQ tests and school performance.

Isn't it logical?

In d spectrum of IQ (1-10) d most women falls on is 5-8 and most men are found in d 1-4 and 8-10 so in summary d highest IQ will be men and d lowest IQ will be men.So it all depends on d category in which IQ d man falls on.
Will send u a reference soon.

Our worst performance dis season bt 3pt is all dat matters.

Most guys knows hw 2 cook bt just chose not 2.talking of boys I agree dey shud learn hw to cook and d girls should learn hw to wash cars and turn on d gen,4 does like me dat av bushes in my house dey can learn hw to cut grass.No more differential housework for kids.

kingson001:
In addition or in correction, they don't even take pictures.

That very true, u can't find any of my pics on my phone, and I av only 3 pics on Facebook. People usually beg me 2 change my profile pic.

D main fact is dat d court is biased toward men in d issue of child custody,we don't hear feminist complaining abt dat.I am not talking of abuses homes.who said some men cannot take care of my 2,4,6 yrs child as good as their wives. Don't tell me it because of som special bond if so, den d equality dey ar fighting for is flawed. An uncle of mine who is in missionary work in Netherlands lost his children to his wife after divorce.

BananaBender:
Thanks. I also wish you happy married life when or if you find a girl suffering from mental slave.

We all know dey are out dere, just av 2 pick d perfect one out of d many.

BananaBender:
You are not logically sound, at all.

Like, I am scared I might lose my patience with you. My brother, go on in ignorance

Thanks, wishing u happy marriage life when or if u do.

BananaBender:
I never insulted you, I used a conditional clause "if".

Let me rephrase, 'any man that thinks a woman belongs to him because she changed her last name to his is a r*etard!"

Let me follow your logic for a second,
You just said, a woman changing her last name to yours is a sign of respect. Right??

I am going to ask you this, Does a wife deserve respect from her husband?

If yes, why don't you also change your last name to hers since changing of last names is a sign of respect to you??

Like I said my principles is based on d Bible. Adam named his wife, because dey are not more 2 but 1.He called her d bone of my bone and d flesh of my flesh. Paul said a man shud marry one woman. The husband 2 show love and d wife 2 respect. A man will choose respect over love asking him 2 chose one at gun point. 4 ladies since u are emotional creatures u will chose love. Dat why most husbands are older than their wives. Respect is important 2 dem. A woman dat decide 2 keep her name wit d husband aving no say does not respect him. Period

BananaBender:
The man's acceptance or permission is not needed here, the husband has no weight in this matter. If he doesn't like her choice, then the woman can always kick him out of her life.

It is also a man's choice to marry a woman suffering from low self-esteem that will change her name to his and be mother to his kids; and she will thereby pass on her self-esteem issues to her children.

No marriage on this planet earth was successful because the wife changed her last name to her husband's. Don't be stup1d, you are repeatedly sounding like someone who can't think.

No marriage was also successful because she kept her name. It d reason 4 her changing dat can make d marriage successful.

BananaBender:
You are undoubtedly r*etarded, if you took a woman is yours because she bears your last name.

Give me a marriage that was successful because the woman changed her last name to that of her husband.

Dis why I hate arguing wit kids, dey results to insult because dey don't understand. Love comes from small things 2 me d reason 4 taking my name shows she respect me and she is humble, it just a small part in all d things l like. To me if u decide to keep ur name just because her friend bananabender is doing it den she is not committed 2 d marriage simple. If she keeps her name that doesn't mine I will also have an happy marriage.

BananaBender:
LMAO! The above doesn't contradict my point. Go back and read again, I gave you exaples of why a woman might not want to take her husband's last name.

'She' doesn't have to make up excuses because at the end of the day, it is her choice to make not the man's.
She will decide if she wants to take her husband's name or not.

Of course it is her choice, marriage is also a choice. D husband can either accept or not. She can decide to av an happy marriage or not. Every human being has a choice to do some thing stupid. A man cannot force a woman 2 marry him.

BananaBender:
Ask your parents what made their marriage successful and they will tell you it has nothing, absolutely nothing to do with your mum changing her last name.

"Success is based on history" LMAO! Where did you get that from?

You live in a patriarchal society that oppresses women, therefore you'll hardly find men that took on their wive's last names.

Example.
Jay Z is legally known as Shawn Knowles-Carter
Antonio Villar married Corina Raigosa, they combined both of their last name, now he bears Anotnio Villaraigosa
Todd Baechle adopted his wife's last name and now bears Todd Fink
Barry Chalfin Lenair made his "maiden" name(Chaflin) his middle name, and took his wife's last name.

So many men dude, and they are happily married

There is nothing new under d earth, if u want 2 b successful in a business, look and read about d people dat av being dere and know why some succeed and some failed. Dat history.
Who told u all dis people u mentioned are happily married. If dat is d case talk of Hillary Clinton, late akinyuli, melida gates etc. The secret to marriage is understanding, that why I am not generalizing if d husband understand no problem. But if it because of all dis excuse u feminist give it a sign dat she is not mine.

BananaBender:
You can't answer my question?? Typical!

Your wife doesn't have to take on a new name because it adds no value to her. Let's assume you have a brand name that is successful, she might not want to live in your shadow. She might want to make her own difference and mark in the world. And she doesn't want to be known as tmosco's wife but as her own person.

Change of name is an unnecessary inconvenience. Her diplomas, publications, achievements and awards she got while single will be in a different name.

If her last name is a brand name or a household name, changing it might cost her influence, money and power.

She wants to carry on the legacy of her father. She wants to make a name out of her father's name because she believes she owes him that much.

If your problem is unity, why can't you adopt her own last name??

I don't even believe the children should bear the man's name but let's not go there.

Your last statement is right, it is your choice. As long as you do not impose it on your children or demand it from women in general, you're good.

Like I said I will do Wat works, tell me of a man dat took his wife name and they are still together den I might consider, I av enuf examples of people dat d wife took d guy name and are leaving happily. Success is based on history if it works 4 my parent while not me.
My main aim of is to have an happy marriage.

They are enuf examples of women that are more influential dan their husbands. Don't tell me about d man, s shadow. Which loving daughter doesn't appreciate her father. All dis are excuses. Only if d change will drastically affect her career.

Chiamaka01:
Wait, there is a difference. Let me illustrate, you are Mr. Tmosco and you get married to Jean Wesley. 'Hyphenating' in this context, means her bearing Jean Wesley-Tmosco. How can you not see the difference?

Sorry I can't see, it not like she is passing d name 2 our kids and doesn't want d name 2 die out.. She must av a good reason.

BananaBender:
Tell me one logical reason why a woman should change her last-name to that of her husband's??

D question should b why doesn't she want her husband's name. If she has a good reason to keep it sure, but while will all my children b bearing d same name and she doesn't, unconsciously dat it self causes dis unity and do remember if it works 4 my parents why change it. That why I said it's my own opinion. Some guys don't see anything in it and it works 4 dem but not 4 me.

Chiamaka01:
Your response and the question asked are two parallel lines. I'm sorry, did you read the topic?

I am a reasonable guy, if ur name goes wit ur job why not let her keep d name, bt if it for some reason like man are cheating women and all dat, I don't see any difference btw hphenating and keep ur name.

BananaBender:
Which of the marriage did he create? Polygamy or Monogamy?

Gen 5:2: "Male and female he created them, and he blessed them and named them Man(Adam) when they were created."

Eve allowed herself to be named. She already had a name

What was are name

BananaBender:
LMAO! Don't run away yet. Who is the creator of marriage?? God?

I thought Jesus was God??

Yes He is God, and He created marriage and also remember d first husband gave his wife d name he wanted her to bear.I am a Christian and my principle is based on it.

BananaBender:
LMAO! Don't run away yet. Who is the creator of marriage?? God?

I thought Jesus was God??

Yes He is God, and He created marriage and also remember d first husband gave his wife d name he wanted her to bear.

BananaBender:


You mean people were not getting married before Jesus?? How come Jesus created something that already existed?

Sorry 4 arguing wit u.If u don't know d creator of marriage,dere is notin 2 say 2 u.

BananaBender:
We have male feminists all over the world, why would I hate my fellow feminists?

Your wife doesn't need your permission, she can bear whatever name she so desires. You are not OK

Dat why u ar or will b som1 husband nt me, if she is not ok wit it dere ar other guys dat will b ok. But my wife will b ok it no need 4 convincing or permission.why do u think divorce rate has increase,it because some people tink dey are smarter than d creator of marriage.

BananaBender:
Why do you have to be okay with it?? Why are you demanding from your wife what you can't give her??

Can you take her last name?? Why ask another human being to do what you can't do, you are a selfish fvcktard......

..but don't worry, there is always a woman suffering from mental slavery somewhere that would conform to your demands.

Are u sure u're OK cos I don't see wat I wrote 2 get dis reply and u will come here 2 say feminist don't hate men.

Please can some1 differentiate btw feminism and human right,because I see Jesus and an human right activist dan a feminist.

Sorry,nobody can b an angel and suddenly change into a demon. U can't say u neva knew abt some of his character b4,u just chose to ignore it. Some guys are wicked, since u av married him,continue 2 b a good wife not a mugu and pray 4 him. God can change anybody.

Whether d wife takes d husband name or not depends on d couple,if d guy is ok wit it no p. But as 4 me she av 2 take mine. We ar no more 2 but 1 and dere is difference btw 2 and 1. I believe in God's definition of marriage not man's own.

Mat 5:32 Jesus spoke to d man but nowadays women initiates 75% of divorces and u can't tell me all of them is as a result of fornication.

I will always want 2 knw d truth no mata hw bad.

crown86:
Robert Gordon do usually take time though. Be patience and follow up with them.

Thanks

crown86:
Most schools takes 2-5 days at most..after the money is confirmed. What is the name of your school

Regards

Robert Gordon it may b because I am resuming january,

carefreewannabe:
When people do not know how to back up their gibberish, they tell other people to google to find prove for the gibberish they produced.
Do you think this is smart?

Like I said b4 u must be smarter dan me. See u wen u achieved feminism. Once again goodluck wit ur struggle.

carefreewannabe:
wHICH RESULTS?

Visible Contributions to d environment.google will help u wit dat.