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carefreewannabe:
Since women were given equal chances in some parts of the world, they have been outperforming men. Yet, I would NOT make such an ignorant remark that intelligence is determined by gender.

It is results that brought me to dat conclusion.

carefreewannabe:
First of all, educate yourself on the inventions made by women.

Secondly, you should also consider that women have been excluded from education for centuries which made it very difficult for them to contribute.

Thirdly, women have faced many hurdles receiving credit for their inventions. They were not allowed to own property and therefore they were not allowed to obtain patents for their inventions for a very loooooooong time, even in Europe. Consequently, some of the female inventions were obtained in the name of their fathers or husbands.

Yet we still heard about some prominent women some even collected Nobel award. What were d rest doing. Like I said speaking only won't solve it.

Shirley07:
Women are definately smarter.

Some Women are smarter no doubt but on d average men are smarter. Compare d innovation and discovery of men and women. I used my environment as d case study. U can research if u like.

carefreewannabe:
Do you think this comment was smart?

Well I quess u are smarter. Disprove any of d point I made.

From a Christian perspective, when man sin God punished man and woman. The punishment of woman is that man will rule over her and pains during child birth. U can't believe in one and not d other.

From evolution perspective, only d strong survive. Most males are stronger than d females but d female dat survive rule.

So if u want equality work for it and not just say it.
On d average men are stronger, smarter than women. The best may b a woman but out of 50, 38 are men.

So it is and so it shall be.

carefreewannabe:
It already is in full progress.
The never ending debates on NL are one of the many signs that it is.
As long as people are talking about it, something is happening.

Yes it is in progress but like I said it will b achieved
in d nx 600 years.don't people campaign abt racism and most guys campaign 4 it but feminism only abt 60 percent are in support.

carefreewannabe:
It already is in full progress.
The never ending debates on NL are one of the many signs that it is.
As long as people are talking about it, something is happening.

Yes it is in progress but like I said in d nx 600 years.don't people campaign abt racism and most guys campaign 4 it but feminism only abt 60 percent are in support.

carefreewannabe:
I guess, you are not aware of how quickly women emancipated themselves in the West when they decided to.

Dat why I said good luck,in d nx 50 yrs just come and quote me on d progress of feminism.

Godmystrength:
Please where did you see me mention anything about NAME in my comment?? besides who told you that any name is dieing??
Maybe you didn't read the comment i quoted and the portion i highlighted...

because a woman is married and now bears her husband's name doesn't mean she shouldn't have anything to do with the father

U know I don't mean it like dat, it d change of name we ar talking about.U can't abandon ur family even if u want 2.

Godmystrength:
This one is strong o
So my own father that doesn't have a son now should forget that he has children anywhere when all of us get married abi? Or maybe keep trying till he gets a son that will have something to do with him even after marriage...

Won't d name still die after u,since ur children will be bearing ur husband's name. What is d point. It only if u and ur husband agree to change ur surnames together.

Sorry bro,A guy somwhere as taken her attention and she has already started to compare and found u inferior. It best to straight and ask her is she is still interested and I am 99
% sure she is not.

A wise woman will run away from a man that will do dat.

Pls NL,how long does it take d school 2 send me my cas. I av fulfilled all d requirements. It just d visa application dat remains.it already entering the 3rd week now.

Most introvert ar like extrovert 2 d people dey love. Not all girls like d shy type. Som1 like me I prefer d bossy ladies,dey ginger me and I cool dem down.

Most people confuse dirty wit disorganized, only a few guys ar tidy wen on their own. If u don't yet know dat d house belongs 2 d lady den I don't see wat u ar looking 4 in marriage.this is not a problem at all.

U can't ban something cos u don't like it. If it immoral wat are u doing with d link. I don't watch d show and non of my family do. It just like porn u watch it or u don't. Not come hear and start complaining it is bad.

If it took close to 400 years for slavery to stop and still racism still occurs in dis time well I wish all d feminist goodluck. Equality will be achieved in d nx 600 years.

swaggzo:
boy you're being totally pointless.
Even the devil knows that there is a whole lot of differences between masculine and feminine jobs.

About soldiers... If I was given charge to recruit 10 soldiers out of 50 males and 50 females, I'ud pick 7 males and 3 females.
Some things are just too masculine for the feminine gender.
But when it comes to freedom of making decisions and being leaders in the society... I don't see why women deserve so little of everything.

U deserve to be a leader because of hw good u ar not because u ar male or female.U will find out dat when it comes to leadership and skills males ar more efficient because right from when a boy is small he is taught to b in charge wen d father is absent. we shouldn't pick a female because dey are more males in a position of authority but because dey can do d job.

Sophyrocks:
So God creating animals before adam also means something too? That means animals are higher than humans simply because they were created before humans?

He didn't create man from animal.well aside from dat most women are at fault u will hear a phrase like I want him to take charge and protect me. They are actually d one dat gave us d power in d first place.

Only beating I don't condone, if I want help ask, if u nag at me I won't eat ur food. Well I don't see it as malice because we will still talk I see it as d silent treatment,who can I report u to if not ur family. The type of treatment depends on d type of wife.

Rockyfancino:
how will a girl know that I'm still a virgin? Somebody explain

Only an insecure and immature man will lie about it. If u say u are it enuf.

patfem:
It is neva a Big deal 2 remain virgin until mariage. Just consult Baba God wen u are ready 2 marry, u wil surely c D bone of ur bone,d apple of ur eye. Even if d girl is not a virgin, she should just b d right one.My broda Sex is not all n all in marriage

If virginity isn't a big deal while did God tell us to wait till marriage. I guess our generation must be smarter dan God.

BananaBender:
You didn't use nature to explain sh1t, you just quoted a storybook.

Let's assume that storybook is true, Jesus came to cleanse us from our sins and remove the curse/punishment from us, right? If what is written in the new testament is true, why are we still suffering from the curse/punishment placed on humanity in Garden of Eden??

God is not mocked whatever a man sows he will reap . gal 6 vs 7. Jesus has forgiven us but every sin has a consequence u just have to pay 4 it. See d lives of David, Paul, Samson. They all suffered after they repented.

BananaBender:
How did nature prove/indicate that the man is the head of the family? You still didn't answer the question.

I don't believe in creation from evolution bt I know God created the world and as punishment for eating the Apple she will always be under a man and suffer pains at child Birth. Being under a man means he is the head.

Cheating is not good. But the reason men cheat more because the temptation is higher than that of women, since men just need to see a beautiful lady to be tempted. So that stereotype is still in d mind of the society, just as dey say when u do something often it becomes a norm. Since when I was born 95% of cheating are from d man and some of their wife forgave dem. But women Cheating is rare so wen u hear of it, is sounds weird. So sorry 4 saying men hardly forgive dere wife 4 Cheating and ladies forgive men for d same thing. It just one of those things that has being around for thousands of year and it cannot take a few centuries to change it. But it can change. That just how our world is.

I will say I wouldn't cheat on my wife but I can't be certain I will not cheat on her. Cheating is bad and it hurt, but the society and the nature of man itself make things difficult. We men are aroused by sight and with girls of nowadays if she target u, it will take a man of willpower to overcome. The Bible even encourages us to flee from strange women. When she set her eyes on u only God will help u. Just imagine the amount of time guys think abt sex a day. Sex is 50 percent reason why a responsible man will marry. So d wife also has enuf things to do in d marriage to increase his willpower, dress well and pray harder.

Whizzdom:
So being Beautiful is more creditable and recognized dan being Brilliant abi?

I prefer being Brilliant, She is Beautiful but she doesn't have something upstairs

That is a very bad thing .... Giving her Laptop but the Beautiful girl got A Car.

Well not ma concern jawe.

Who said she isn't intelligent. U think it is beans to study law in Unilag and reach 400 level. I will always chose beauty and brains not one over d other.

I don't know what d fuss is all abt .Entertainment av sponsors and dey spend money. This is how d world is. Are celeb or musicians scholars? What of footballers. Pls stop all dis cry me a river of beauty and d brains and do something like bill gates so everyone will know u. This is just how d world is simple.

Pls,for those who paid pre tuition fees to get d unconditional offer,hw many days did u wait to receive the offer after payment. That wat is delaying me 4 applying 4 visa.

As long as man and woman are not equal,gender equality cannot be achieved.