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me 3 partnet 2

Me: june
Partner: june

me 5 and partner 11

Jbluv55:
Tmx21. Please who is choosing your Q.

I am and I chose 1

question 1

am sorry, my partner has not been able to post anything. Just few secs pls

lanxlot:
Tmx21 and Bholutife.....greetings.

i pour-straight sire

Nobleval:
Darling

tmx21 and bholutife18! Present ma!

[quote author=luxanne post=28833081][/quote]ok. Where's bholutife, we havent talked in days. This competition will be exclusively funny. Fingerzcruxed though

luxanne:
Oahray, Tmx21, DaveP : receipt confirmation from Jb

Abpatrick7 and Obinoscopy: waiting to hear from jb on ur entries, he's been crazily busy but will join us soon

ok! That's good

Creamish:
I dont get it either..dint even get the mention for this plea..which BTW was a plea i made earlier dat u guys waved off...


nwayz, AYE...tho

something has to be done about that
tag: luxanne

luxanne:


Let's hear what ur fellow contestants has to say about this request of urs dear mod, who knows

Aii,

Over to y'all fellow contestants, what say you to this solemn request for the change of dates?

A Aye or A Nay?

P.S: Its just the first round of the competition, the Questions and Answers segment that requires ur presence, but for the second round, ur projects will do the talking for you.

Thank you

And to other contestants who are yet to submit in their projects, pls be reminded that the deadline for submissions is still friday, the 5th of Dec., 2014

whats the point of tagging it 'competition' if we cant help one of us to fall in, its a aye for me though. BTW luxanne, i don't get your mentions, any reason(s) for that?

Lorlaahlozz:
Hello....Good evening nd happy new month to u all....hope u all good

yeah! Miss lorlaahlolz, same to you sweetie, hope you're cool?

Sis cheriepet, good mid-night

Bholutife18:
wow! You'll do the poem, essay and errm the drawing; dont worry about me, I'll do the inspiring

all those on me?!

Bholutife18:
Bholutife18 and tmx21 cc: luxanne

well well well, thats good

Xtarxhyne:
Dre11
jbluv55
charijee
cheriepet
trypa
tmx21.....Come n vote oo
vote for naijaboiy


tanks

ok! I Vote Naijaboy

toniro:
=tmx21::: hmmmm. See outpour of luv abi na encomium! Ohh I heard u r a product of oxford dictionary ...I mean to say university
Lanicky, u r lucky oooooooo.


Ehhh back to you my man tmx21: i be get one essay to write o. Can I forward it.

Cheers baba

sure man, pls do forward it

naturally, NO! But contextly, I might.

Big4wig:
Guys wat will you do? If yhu go 2 an hospital wit a friend of urs and a busty nurse is eyein yhu?

I'll just tell her am not having problems wif ma eyez so i dont really need an optician.... you know, it might be a means of advertising her kinda job. #JustSaying

lanicky:
Wow! Thankz xoxo tmx21....u're d best

nah! Seriously, you are the best!

CEtoO:
Good to have a good working psp

psp?! Come off it gurl, get a gamecube

charijee:
What a beautiful poem to our Land-lady Lanicky
Tmx21 you too much

its nothing jooo, lanicky worth more than that

damn! Hope am not too late for the show dre11, errm, Lanicky, happy birthday jare, love that outfit o, you are too gbasky: where dem drinks?

[center]
we have an amazing e-friend
with love, our time, we spend
living in a house built with milk and honey
a friend worth much more than money
.
If you stumble, count us there
with you e-family, no need to fear
your words are clear always on our mind
understanding between us, we'll always find
.
Lanicky, a great moniker on Nairaland
cute and preety like the queen of my fatherland
we'll join you to celebrate cos we care
today is your day so dont fret
.
Happy birthday to you sweetie
in peace and happiness shall you finish your journey
men of valour shall be the shadow of your beauty
the world will bow at your feet so no worries
.
You are a friend we love the most
the landlady we run to when we feel lost
the one who help us ward off out ghost
when we need you, you're always close
.
On a special day we have a wish for you
fist is happiness, long lasting one that's true
forget all the sadness, never be blue
now give us a smile, a big on will do.
[/center]
.
.
.
Happy Birthday to you on behalf of the whole family
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cheriepet charijee, jefferyjamez, jennimma, xtarxhyne, dre11 toniro, 3Dimension kingtom kingphilip, trypa, daveP, sexysaphire, lorlaahlozz, chibwike, shahzadnonso Tuntheycr7
Snowprince36 Kayjuu PrinceAdepoju noble4d MissAnne
Tonetonz dre11 Jigsawkillah Mzholaah tmx21 MzPreshie SexySapphire Princesschi Lagunna

Freshtomato:
I tried to read it. I really did. But it is just too long

aww sorry, i'll post another article but not the long type. Hop you'll follow it.

lanicky:
Hey! Don't u dare pretend as if u don't know what i'm talking about

seriously, I can't recollect

If you’ve grown up in Western culture, you’ve been inundated
from the time you were born with images and beliefs about love.
Most, if not all, of these images are predicated on the archaic
paradigm of romantic love. Romantic love is not real love.
Romantic love is, most simply put, infatuation. It’s based on the
model of longing for someone that you can never completely
have, and it’s this longing that then becomes mistaken for real
love. Being in a state of longing is a dramatic and fully alive
experience. It creates butterflies in your belly and light-
headedness in your mind. If not understood properly, the one in
the longing position can easily believe that she or he is “in love.”
If the object of the longing, often called “the beloved”, does
reciprocate, “the lover” often runs the other way. And so begins
an all-too familiar game of chase with each participant alternating
between the pursuer or distancer roles. The game is emotionally
intense but ultimately unsatisfying. The bottom line is that real
intimacy never occurs. It’s dramatic but safe. It’s temporarily
painful but there’s no long-term risk involved. And it certainly
isn’t a healthy model on which to base a marriage!
Real love, on the other hand, requires that both people show up
for each other in the same place at the same time. There is no
game-playing, which creates more consistent stability in terms of
the intensity of emotion; gone are the ecstatic highs and
despairing lows that defined the unhealthy relationships of the
past. As such, real love requires that both people risk their hearts
to form a bond of true intimacy.
One of my clients recently asked me to define real love. So here
is my list of the beliefs, attributes, and precepts that define real
love (with the caveat that I’m not sure that anyone understands
love in its totality!):
1. Real love is a conscious choice that often employs the
rational part of our brains. Some couples have a “free ride” in
the early stages of their relationship where they experience the
intense feelings characterized by romantic love, but not
everyone. And these feelings certainly aren’t necessary for real
love to emerge as the relationship grows, as evidenced by the
success rate of arranged marriages in other parts of the world.
It’s when the infatuation feelings diminish that the couple has to
learn that love is a choice, not a feeling, as M. Scott Peck says in
“The Road Less Traveled.”
2. Real love accepts that your partner is a fallible,
imperfect human, just as you are. Unlike romantic life, which
ascends the object of desire to the realm of a god, part of the jolt
down to earth that many of clients experience during their
engagement is the realization that their partner is not perfect –
that he isn’t as smart or witty or fun or good-looking as she
thought the person she would marry would be. The romantic
bubble of marrying Prince Charming is burst. Most of my clients
focus on one missing area – sometimes to the point of obsession
– and it’s often an attribute that never bothered her before they
were engaged. As time passes, the real fears are addressed, and
love is redefined, the obsession mellows and she learns to accept
and fully love her partner exactly as he is.
3. Real love ebbs and flows in terms of interest, ease,
and feelings. In other words, in any healthy relationship there
will be times when things effortlessly work, where the spark is
alive and the couple is interested in one another and life. And
there will be times of, for lack of a better word, boredom. Part of
accepting real love is understanding that the boredom is normal
and not a symptom that something is wrong with the
relationship or that you don’t love your partner enough.
4. Real love is based on shared values and a solid
friendship. You genuinely like each other (even though you
might not like everything about your partner).
5. Real love is action. Real love asks that you give even when
you don’t feel like giving (in a healthy way, not a codependent
way). Real love is more concerned with how you can give to
your partner than what you can get from him or her.
6. Real love is a spiritual practice in that your focus is not
how you can change your partner to alleviate your anger,
pain, or annoyance but how you can assume full
responsibility for those feelings and find healthy and
constructive ways to attend to them . When you change in
positive ways, the relationship will positively change as well. Real
love is a lifelong practice. You’re not expected to know how to
give and receive real love at the onset of marriage, but are
expected to work at it so that over the course of your life together
your capacity to love grows.
So the next time you watch a romantic comedy and find yourself
doubting if you love your wonderful, supportive, honest, loving
partner enough, read over this list and see if your anxiety finds
containment as you redefine what love really is.

lanicky:
tmx21....If i catch u ehn....I saw what u wrote to KingTom.

*turning deaf ears* eerrm i heard a movie was aired today titled 'Nigeria', I am confused, is Nigeria not a musical group anymore? was actually in france so am confused. Anyhelp?

Xtarxhyne:
oooooops....I cnt cope

sowie, I'll come visit ya