Romance › Re: How Do I Change From An Extreme Introvert To An Extrovert by tobby20: 12:41am On Oct 20, 2019 |
victorian: Op I was once an Introvert too. As in extreme introvert with stammer join.
Lol 
But what changed me?
After my degree, I wanted to float my own company and also teach, sighs how can I achieve such huge feat. My late mum mocked me without end that how can I be so quiet and expect to succeed in life and in fact before I can even say a sentence sef, all my employees and students would have been so bored to death with my presence. Lol And she's not wasting a dime, to assist me in my business plan unless I stop to stammer and come out of my shell wit people.
And no customer will even have the patience to wait until I finish one sentence, so I have to seat up and change! Or else no money for me o. I was in great tears when she was saying it. That night I made up my mind, no more stammering, no more avoiding people, no more keeping to myself. I must talk and I must be bold to face people.
As long as people are not crazy to bite, when I talk to them. 
So with time., I realise if I'm not social and friendly, my company will fold up and I will suffer greatly.
Mehn I buckle up o and changed.
Remember people will not kill you, if you talk to them. They will even look at you with either curious or bored eyes wondering what u want to say. So say your mind with wisdom jare and be free!!!!!!
Freedom. Is Power! 
And my next challenge now. My Pastor is organizing a convention, where other pastors from other churches home and abroad with delegates and close to 1 million viewers for 7 days are going to seated watching people chosen to dance. And sighs he has chosen me to dance Infront of so many people on a wide stage. Initially I was angry, why can't this man just let me be jeje but he made me understand if I don't dance, he won't talk to me again. 
And I admire my Pastor, I don't want to fall his hand, so I accepted , especially as he called me out infront of congregation. Sighs, I'm practicing my Micheal Jackson and moon walker skills already joined with break dance 
May God help me o. I pray I won't collapse and fall flat on that day. Ewoooo!!!! 
It's a challenge I must go through, so says my mind . Devil is a liar! That's called determination. but not every one can be like you. congrats |
Sports › Re: Sergio Aguero Crashes Range Rover While Driving To Training by tobby20: 10:04pm On Oct 18, 2019 |
oloriLFC: Ok o. Since Wednesday that the crash happened, una just dey post am. No be for only Nairaland we dey read news o Even Aguero has forgotten he had a crash   |
Romance › Re: IS THIS A GREEDY OR A WICKED GIRLFRIEND? by tobby20: 10:32pm On Oct 17, 2019 |
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Romance › Re: IS THIS A GREEDY OR A WICKED GIRLFRIEND? by tobby20: 7:11pm On Oct 17, 2019 |
Alexaonfleek: with ur face like nairaland emoji  Lol , I'll send an email , you will send me your whatsap number , no disrespect just friends ,I dont want it to be public ........... |
Romance › Re: IS THIS A GREEDY OR A WICKED GIRLFRIEND? by tobby20: 5:15pm On Oct 17, 2019 |
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Health › Re: Be Honest Girls…would You Date A Bald/balding Guy? by tobby20: 5:13pm On Oct 17, 2019 |
mysticgal: Man, I guess you want to make me the promiscuous female of the thread but yea, bald men are sexy no doubt Promiscuous , I didn't say that .lol |
Health › Re: Be Honest Girls…would You Date A Bald/balding Guy? by tobby20: 1:27pm On Oct 17, 2019 |
mysticgal: Bald men are sexy af  I'm bald ooo guess I'm sexy |
Romance › Re: IS THIS A GREEDY OR A WICKED GIRLFRIEND? by tobby20: 12:44pm On Oct 17, 2019 |
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Romance › Re: IS THIS A GREEDY OR A WICKED GIRLFRIEND? by tobby20: 11:20pm On Oct 16, 2019 |
Alexaonfleek: no problem na.lets be friends[[quote author=Alexaonfleek post=83205278]no problem na.lets be friends Lol just like that , you stay lag |
Phone/Internet Market › Re: Facebook Account 4 Sale by tobby20: 10:26pm On Oct 16, 2019 |
Text me bro and how many years iwn |
Romance › Re: IS THIS A GREEDY OR A WICKED GIRLFRIEND? by tobby20: 9:50pm On Oct 16, 2019 |
donaldtruman: Hmm,those of u saying this story is fake is b'cos u ve not found yourselves in that kind of situation. There are girls like that o and even worse.They just take advantage of the nice guys that come their way.I ve had encounters with such wicked girls. The OP shld just man up and get rid of d girl. Hmm , I have never dealt with such girls sha But I have heard stories that touch. Lol |
Romance › Re: IS THIS A GREEDY OR A WICKED GIRLFRIEND? by tobby20: 9:49pm On Oct 16, 2019 |
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Romance › Re: IS THIS A GREEDY OR A WICKED GIRLFRIEND? by tobby20: 10:52pm On Oct 15, 2019 |
Alexaonfleek:
some people and audio stories be like 5 and 6 Lemme come and be going joor,there's no story *Yawns* But seriously about the "lets be friends part nko" |
Romance › Re: IS THIS A GREEDY OR A WICKED GIRLFRIEND? by tobby20: 10:31pm On Oct 15, 2019 |
Alexaonfleek: no on a serious note the story is just irritating if not fake.in this economy someone is still paying a girl 50k for free.it just shows d guy doesn't value his hard earned money The story itself looks fabricated , imagine buying iphone x for my babe , with my hard earned money , my mama never use hot 6 sef |
Romance › Re: IS THIS A GREEDY OR A WICKED GIRLFRIEND? by tobby20: 10:16pm On Oct 15, 2019 |
Alexaonfleek: Stories like this just dey annoy person
You're asking if she's greedy She's not greedy You can see how kind she is to you Mtchewww
The story sef was probably made up to bash ladies again*sighs* Chilax nah , would you be greedy with me if we are friends |
Romance › Re: My Girl Said She No Longer Loves Me Anymore by tobby20: 10:07pm On Oct 15, 2019 |
AwkaetitiBabe: My dear December is around the corner and many are cutting loose the unprepared boyfriend to go stick with the prepared man who will marry them come December...  Gimme your number let's chat, I'm a prepared Boyfriend, you never can tell , #no disrespect |
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Health › Re: My Ulcer Becoming Unbearable by tobby20: 11:35pm On Oct 13, 2019 |
P TARABA911: Please doctors in the house and traditional experts should come to my help,this days I hardly work the number of hours I usually work the ulcer is getting me weaker everyday please I don,t mind the cost just let me have the perfect medicine I stay in Jalingo Taraba state capital I stay Lagos I also have ulcer , I'll testify if it work |
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Crime › Re: EFCC Arrests 18 Yahoo Boys In Lagos (Photos) by tobby20: 10:14pm On Oct 08, 2019 |
1kBabyShoesNG: Yoruba and Yahoo  Igbos no dey do yahoo abi , omo igbo chinedu oshi |
Celebrities › Re: MC Galaxy Gifts Ike, Khafi & Frodd N500k Each by tobby20: 10:05pm On Oct 08, 2019 |
But she wasn't referring to you , neither did she insult you , you are immature |
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Health › Re: Staphylococcus Syphilis Gonorrhoea by tobby20: 8:13am On Oct 08, 2019 |
How much is the treatment , and do you do payment after treatment, tired if scams |
Romance › Re: Do You Like My NEW LOOK? by tobby20: 7:59am On Oct 08, 2019 |
AfroKnight: Guy, if you’re still into music, don’t let your youthful years slip by.
Better to know you gave it your all than to later wish you had put in more effort.
Peace. ✌️ Are you into music |
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Health › Re: Top 5 Most Dangerous Drinks Consumed In Lagos by tobby20: 1:32pm On Oct 06, 2019 |
biGDhAp: .. Mary and Joana, hope you get it now..
Maryjoana.. Mah niggar , ill try that out sometime sha |
Health › Re: Top 5 Most Dangerous Drinks Consumed In Lagos by tobby20: 12:00am On Oct 04, 2019 |
rollUP: Who needs drink when u can get better feeling with Mary jane. Abeg make I comot here go light one. What's mary jane |
Romance › Re: Freaky Whatsapp Group For Matured Minds by tobby20: 11:51am On Sep 27, 2019 |
08084155668 |
Romance › Re: Merlin Season 6 Trailer Is Out by tobby20: 12:10am On Sep 17, 2019 |
Scam[b][/b] |
Celebrities › Re: Davido Remembers His Mother, Veronica Adeleke, 16 Years After Her Death (Photo) by tobby20: 10:43pm On Sep 10, 2019 |
EmekaBlue: i hear say his papa use her blow if u know what i mean
wetin consign me tho.Keep Resting mama Lol ode, i dey suspect too |