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BusinessRe: Football (+/other Sports) Betting Season 20➜ ➜ ➜ by tobeezman: 6:37pm On Jan 10
Try ya luck! NFVY50

BusinessRe: Football (+/other Sports) Betting Season 19 ➜ ➜ ➜ by tobeezman: 6:01pm On Nov 10, 2025
Game above starts by 6pm which is live now. All the best!
BusinessRe: Football (+/other Sports) Betting Season 19 ➜ ➜ ➜ by tobeezman: 6:00pm On Nov 10, 2025
stake big with your full chest. If this game cast make I bend. SPORTYBET BOOKING CODE: MYWQ8E

BusinessRe: Football (+/other Sports) Betting Season 19 ➜ ➜ ➜ by tobeezman: 5:22am On Nov 09, 2025
Kelvinnchucks:
Pretty sure your receding hairline is now fully bald.

Can't believe you've been doing this for 3 years and all the progress you made was to move from a low budget Samsung to a low budget Redmi.

Gambling 10k and 20k lol, thats poverty betting... 3 years as a gambler or investor your highest stake is still 25k to win 28k, then you'll say i got 10k profit this week grin grin grin grin lord... and you are happy leading people to live your type of life?, take it from me, you can't truly win in gambling. I'd advice you stop. Honestly. it's wired to get you into debts no matter how hard or careful or strategic you might be. You have a better chance in crypto or actually working than sports betting tbh

if i tell you I've lost 10million on 1.03 odds would you believe? grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin

I thought i had a STRATEGY too grin grin grin grin... if you see how i was wasting money ehnnn, i'm mostly here to remind myself i can't win by looking at foolish losses.

anyways this would be my last post here. Byeee guys
Good morning Bro, pls, Stake on this single draw with confidence. ga me starts by 7am this morning. HVZYR1

BusinessRe: Football (+/other Sports) Betting Season 19 ➜ ➜ ➜ by tobeezman: 3:42pm On Nov 07, 2025
stake low and cut 2

P7R25Q

RomanceRe: Why I Lost Interest After Meeting A Pretty And Intelligent Lady by tobeezman(op): 7:05pm On Oct 31, 2025
Honestly speaking, I have learnt a lot from the comments here. The lady in question has also seen my post before I even reached out to her today. Sometimes we conclude too quickly. I feel bad for concluding way too fast. Although I now understand her reason for not using her igbo name on her business card, but I still believe nobody should be ashamed to speak their native language especially when they can speak the language. Let love lead! ya gazie! shalom.
RomanceRe: Why I Lost Interest After Meeting A Pretty And Intelligent Lady by tobeezman(op): 5:03pm On Oct 31, 2025
OvertheTop:
tobeezman,
Please send this brother the Contact.
he is interested.
till cork grows tiff
RomanceRe: Why I Lost Interest After Meeting A Pretty And Intelligent Lady by tobeezman(op): 9:03pm On Oct 30, 2025
thomas2024:
Noted. I’ve responded.
likewise
check your whatsapp
RomanceRe: Why I Lost Interest After Meeting A Pretty And Intelligent Lady by tobeezman(op): 8:54pm On Oct 30, 2025
thomas2024:
You can mail me then. I’ll inform her beforehand…
lol
I don mail you.
RomanceRe: Why I Lost Interest After Meeting A Pretty And Intelligent Lady by tobeezman(op): 8:51pm On Oct 30, 2025
thomas2024:
She is a Yoruba, from Ondo State.
Okay, I have good friends from Ondo state.
RomanceRe: Why I Lost Interest After Meeting A Pretty And Intelligent Lady by tobeezman(op): 8:47pm On Oct 30, 2025
thomas2024:
lol😂 But to be sincere, this is not about my ex. The person I’m talking about is a relative like that, a responsible babe that I can vouch for. No scam zone ooo. If you’re ready, mail me, I’ll connect you together. You can call her on WhatsApp video call, and if she’s your type, especially when you eventually click, na 100 yam you go personally deliver to me ooo😂
lol 100 tubers of yam is not a problem, I can even double it with Joy. Make I see her first, If I like her na small thing. no pretense, Where is she from sef?
RomanceRe: Why I Lost Interest After Meeting A Pretty And Intelligent Lady by tobeezman(op): 8:36pm On Oct 30, 2025
thomas2024:
You need babe right? Make I match-make one responsible babe for you. I see you as a serious person. If you’re ready, you can mail me
You wan use me compensate your ex wey you scatter her heart okwa ya??
RomanceRe: Why I Lost Interest After Meeting A Pretty And Intelligent Lady by tobeezman(op): 8:01pm On Oct 30, 2025
DrChukki:
Nwanne, biko kee mmanya Ị na aṅụ ka m zụtara gi?

You acted exactly like me 🤝
cheesy cheesy cheesy
Budweiser
Thanks. I have no regrets for taking that action.
RomanceRe: Why I Lost Interest After Meeting A Pretty And Intelligent Lady by tobeezman(op): 4:40pm On Oct 30, 2025
Makapounse:
you're still young and never ready to be in serious relationship , stop this flimsy excuse
lol, I am not that young. 4th flour.
RomanceRe: Why I Lost Interest After Meeting A Pretty And Intelligent Lady by tobeezman(op): 2:40pm On Oct 30, 2025
deavicky:
from ur words it appears u can’t marry in other tribe. If not why not just assume u are dating an English lady and move on. At least u will not do a traditional marriage.
Not true! I can marry from any tribe. You still don't get the point. If she was Yoruba or any other tribe and she wears her native name with pride, I would still be in touch and the connection will still be there.
RomanceRe: Why I Lost Interest After Meeting A Pretty And Intelligent Lady by tobeezman(op): 2:33pm On Oct 30, 2025
franvincoop:
By that time my brother, erection go be na after every 8-10 hours.
grin grin grin grin grin cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy I reject that IJN!
RomanceRe: Why I Lost Interest After Meeting A Pretty And Intelligent Lady by tobeezman(op): 2:12pm On Oct 30, 2025
valentineuwakwe:
You and girl meet at an event n you forget to ask her for her name; isn't introduction meant to come in first?
So you wait til after the event before you begin ask grin
Dey play
Calm down and read again, abi na person explain the story give you?
RomanceRe: Why I Lost Interest After Meeting A Pretty And Intelligent Lady by tobeezman(op): 2:10pm On Oct 30, 2025
spencekat:
Speaking the language depends on a lot of factors. Some of them were not taught by their 'forming' parents, especially those parents(father and mother) from the same tribe.
Understandable but what about her native name?
RomanceRe: Why I Lost Interest After Meeting A Pretty And Intelligent Lady by tobeezman(op): 2:07pm On Oct 30, 2025
Originalsly:
According to you .... she said she does not like her name and she does not like speaking Igbo.

It was automatic for you to ask her why instead of ghosting her. How can you not ask her? ... that's the common sense follow up question? Instead you jump to conclusion and wasn't even man enough to tell her why the friendship has to end . If she later marries out of her tribe I'm sure you will join the bashing of Igbo professional women for not choosing their tribesmen.

Many people do not like their name ... that's common. She used her name on her business card ... is it the same name on her certificates? Is it the same name she used for the registration of her business? Is it the same name she uses for official business? She is wayyyy more business savvy than you. If she uses an Igbo name on her business card .... then the reality in Nigeria is she would be limiting herself to Igbo clients only. If she uses an English name she will be attracting more clients from all tribes because of the foreign is better mentality. She does not like speaking Igbo can be for the same reason .... she can lose clients who do not like Igbos. She is trying to stay neutral....it is good for business. That does not mean she has distanced herself from or rejected her culture. If it's no it too late ...I suggest you call her up ... let her know what went down and ask for another chance. But in the other hand ... she may not accept since she would reason if you can ghost her because of name ...what else would you ghost her for if she picks up the relationship?;

A man may want five things in a relationship ... he usually settles for three ....to get four he considers the woman his soul mate. To get all five is God sent but God rarely sends. You had four but be looking for five. Gooood luck.
I never really thought about that but She should have mentioned the native name regardless and then tell me why she does not like to bear the name which I will obviously understand because its my language too.
RomanceRe: Why I Lost Interest After Meeting A Pretty And Intelligent Lady by tobeezman(op): 2:01pm On Oct 30, 2025
franvincoop:
Tobechukwu, dis table you are shaking, the leg no too good ooo.
Hmm...... abeg sun dey hot, make I find police station go complain first
cheesy cheesy grin complain about what? the weather is cool here.
RomanceRe: Why I Lost Interest After Meeting A Pretty And Intelligent Lady by tobeezman(op): 12:49pm On Oct 30, 2025
ARISHEM:
Why not Kuku go to the village and find the 110% Igbo wife material or Igbo caricature you are looking for. If not there are tech companies who you can contact to design Igbo sex robots with more than 100 percent AI functionality that defines your required specs
cheesy cheesy cheesy
you play too much!
RomanceRe: Why I Lost Interest After Meeting A Pretty And Intelligent Lady by tobeezman(op): 12:44pm On Oct 30, 2025
SouthSouth1914:
You are either not serious or not telling the full story. Girls laughing and joking with doesn’t mean you are her type. Get in line, and get real!
How can I not be serious at my current age? I am very serious and I just gave the summary of the full story. I don't think i left any important details out of the story. Me wey be say if i see serious person today, i go marry her before January. I would have married her this year if not for that "red flag" that others might not read any meaning to or practically ignore. There are little details that I don't just ignore.
RomanceRe: Why I Lost Interest After Meeting A Pretty And Intelligent Lady by tobeezman(op): 12:30pm On Oct 30, 2025
SuperOnyi:
shocked



Good decision. She can keep speaking her lovely English sprinkled with thick African accent.

When I have kids, none of them would bear English names. I make it clear to any girl I talk to. I love English language, it has made communication easier for me, and made me money and equally opened barriers for me; however, it would be disingenuous I embrace another man's language and insult that of my fathers.

How foolish can a person be?

I would rather advise my children to speak multiple languages than speak "I dey go, I dey come." That's why I speak only Igbo to my sister's kids. I only speak English with the one whose father isn't Igbo and my ignorant sister only speaks English to.
Nice one!
RomanceRe: Why I Lost Interest After Meeting A Pretty And Intelligent Lady by tobeezman(op): 12:27pm On Oct 30, 2025
fyneboi79:
I am proud of your decision... Identity is everything!
Yes bro, just like integrity, identity is gold.
RomanceRe: Why I Lost Interest After Meeting A Pretty And Intelligent Lady by tobeezman(op): 12:25pm On Oct 30, 2025
duduade:
I support you my Brother
Carry on joor
Thanks
RomanceRe: Why I Lost Interest After Meeting A Pretty And Intelligent Lady by tobeezman(op): 12:24pm On Oct 30, 2025
Zonefree:
I'm not sure he's vexed because of bearing native name. The replay the lady gave shows no good will ever come from girls like that.

The young man took the best for himself and his community.



You got point! thanks.
RomanceRe: Why I Lost Interest After Meeting A Pretty And Intelligent Lady by tobeezman(op): 12:22pm On Oct 30, 2025
AVECDEO:
Could you have just mentioned it to her to know the reason for her stand.
Nothing she tells me in this case will be justified. I know myself. She is also a Nairalander, so I hope she sees post if it makes it to front page.
RomanceRe: Why I Lost Interest After Meeting A Pretty And Intelligent Lady by tobeezman(op): 12:19pm On Oct 30, 2025
Exceed15:
If the bearing of native name is important keep searching then.
Okay, thanks. I will keep searching.

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