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sounds like an insecure nut

J girl, you this news woman sha. Is the South that boring

Who am I tripping for o? Gimme a couple of hints

Im only funding ONE war o.

J girl and alagolo are gonna have to find someone else to sponsor theirs

still, I will fund your war

Im well darling. I see you are handling business

Rofl R

aww did a Yoruba woman leave your lame ass?

Marriage is not all about a man providing for his family, it's about a man and a woman helping each other raise a happy family, abi am wrong?

That's the way normal people treat marriage. Egomaniacs however cant stand it.

Least now racists cant say only blacks are responsible for teen pregnancies

Jackal:
Even when these women offer to pay, the reluctance to open their purse is so obvious, buncha gold-diggers.

Hmm.

I've said it before Jackal. You're an egomaniac. Few women find that as a turn on so you still have hope.

So if a man CANT provide for his family due to downsizing and what not, would it be ok for the wife to divorce him? after all he's not doing his duty abi.

alagolo you are mad.

Does any woman HAVE to send a man to the kitchen? Quit being childish. It's not cute anymore.

I think it's funny how men keep screaming 'we're not just walking wallets" yet at the same time you WANT woman to depend on you? Are you people OK?

Feminism teaches women that men are the enemy,

Not true.

Why do people always think people who fight for women's rights are the same as femnazis who are USUALLY bitter lesbians?

Is eldee a "only male child" as well?

there's no such thing, alagolo.

You like making assumptions. As for ignorance, dude let's not even go there

I never said kids in Europe or The States are "better" than the ones in the states. Dont know where you got that shit from.

Just saying kids in Nigeria arent the saints you paint them out to be. They also have bad eggs. The fact that divorce rates in Nigeria are SUPPOSEDLY not high hasnt stopped Nigeria from being dangerous in her own regard, now has it? Hasnt stopped corruption or has it? Hasnt stopped families from producing some horrible children, has it? Pedophilia is the way of life despite the so called "discipline"

Why do people even care about divorce rates in the first place. Naija men are so noisy. What concerns you with other people's marriages? Why not find out the cause of the breakdown of such marriages instead of making ridiculous assumption. Mind your bloody marriages and your ever going higher HIV rates. "Oh it's cos the couples had a disagreement", is that a joke?
If a person would leave their spouse immeditely without trying to put effort(depending on the "sin" of course) would you even say such a person should say married? I would perosnally say they SHOULD get divorced. After all marriage is for those who believe in fighting for it, not for those looking for easy money with a lawyer and that is usually the case. People are greedy(trying to get tax breaks) and rush into marriage, most do it for the fancy wedding and forget that weddings are just one day. I fail to see how i making rational decisions like rushing to get married has anything to do with "equality in the home", Is that really hard to comprehend?

Btw what the hell you have against bingo? You wnat a fit wife yet want her to stay indoors 24/7? Care to tell me how she's supposed to accomplish that? There's a reason why some Naija women become whales after marriage. Cos of dudes like you. I want you fit, but I dont wnat you to go anywhere, Hmmm

Jackal:
@ TOH,

What the heck are u talking about?
Equal rights has elevated these women to the level of men. It means when their husbands go out with mates, they feel the need to do the same.
Hubbies say YES. . . . .Wives say no and conflict develops. Come to the UK and see the lives of these kids being wasted.
Why do we have more indisciplined kids in the western world than Africa? It is because of your stupid beliefs like feminism.
If u don't know. . . .NOW u know!!!!

Apparently since you are a gambari you don't know the history of Yorubaland. Like Negro has shown, women have had rights for a long time. DIVORCE is also allowed

What kind of male says a female shouldnt be allowed to have rights? So you have aproblem with wmen going out with friends? Insecure much?

Hubby says Yes, Wife says No. Normal couples come to an agreement/compromise. Those are the ones that feel their marriage is worth the effort. he so called "skyhigh" divorce rates is manly due to confused people getting married/wanting to get alimony. Has NOTHING to do having rights. What does single moms have to do with equal rights? Most of these single moms were never married in the first place. They fight with their bfs or whomever, think they can get him back by getting knocked up and you guys pay for it through taxes. equality has nothing to do with this. It's the indivduals who atre to blame for this

As for indisciplined kids, lol. The evil white people gave you guys independence how many years ago? and you guys STILL have yet to get yourselves together, even gone as far as commiting fraud in foreign countries. So much for 'african values" in children eh?

T, get on.

all these omo yahooze, were they not raised in African households. Abeg I'm so over this arguement. Same boring crap over and over

StephenP:
LOL. . .If you're gon' to stick with traditional African beliefs, you better go all out with it not just the belief that women were inferior.

Nah. . . equal rights didn't cause that, the indivduals themselves caused it.

Why are you even arguing with these guys? Since when is equal rights the cause for divorce?

Perhaps the fact that segregation was abolished is the reason why blacks are still the criminals in the Western World. How about we go back to Jim Crow laws. Seriously, have some common sense people.

The flavor of the mouth smelling like gbegiri I assume

So true.

They rathwr swallow your head with their elete kpomo

where is Negro from?

Wtf 29? Are you people insane?

dude stop trying to age me.

Who's 30?

*waka*

Negro, Im 13

Bloody pedophile

Negro_Ntns:
TOH,

you all should have sounded back when those messages were directed at women. Did you?

Foolish question. I've been banned on this site quite a number of times for none other than my mouth and how I deal with the bloody imbeciles of this site

Ive just decided to cool down recently. After all it looks malcious to others when you yell at mentally retarded children

Question still remains, where the hell were you?

Negro_Ntns:
Bottom line, if you want a thoroughbred man specie, this is where you find them, in Nairaland. If you want species that wipe off their entire family and then commit suicide then go elsewhere, they are beautiful people and they will welcome you. If you want a beautiful handsome specie that impregnates its own blood daughter and then impregnate the daughter of that daughter, then go elsewhere. If you want a specie that every twitch and skin break in his beautiful and handsome body becomes a syndrome then get out of Nairaland. Only women we want to see here are women that love thoroughbred African specie.

Is there any man out here disagree with me

Dude seriously shut up

Where were YOU when guys made threads stating "African American Women Are 100% Smarter Than African Women"

or "Naija Guys Have Smelly Pussies, How Can I Get With A White Woman"

"Naija Girls Like Money Too Much, I Want A Carribean Chick"

"Carribean Chicks are Better than Naija Girls"

Where the hell were you then?

So because a few of us are saying certain guys of other races are attractive ad what not, you're writing stupid sermons upon sermons? Abeg go and sit down

As for people leaving Nairaland. Everyone on this thread has been on Nairaland way longer than you have so if anyoe should leave, it should be you. Billy Dee.

Btw everyone knows jamaican men are known for sleeping with their daughters.

you're in a fighting mood arent you?

davidylan:
goal no 567 - try one latino chic before you get married.

lol oniranu

They are hot but their tempers are worse than most Naija girls

So be careful

Do Me Is garbage

Banj's Mo Gbono Fe Le is a better song