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Please nairalanders help me..come to my aid..gambling has eaten me deeply.. please help me how can I stop this..? I'd determine to stop and still go back to it again...please nairalanders help me..this virtual game of a thing has finished me financially.... please help me.

Good afternoon nairalanders...I'm new to this and it's my first time been on here..please I need your candid advice...there's this girl we've being dating for a year now....we going to 400L now,she has a friend she lives with in school...then an issue came up between the two of them whereby my girl just have to packout of her house...this my girl actually used her house rent to sort her friends birthday and buy cloths for her birthday... i wasn't even aware before not until she later opened up what she was going through in this girls hand...this girl rubbished me and my babe..saying her parents isn't capable of taking care of her...saying alot of things..my babe mom give her this money for rent even had to borrow it she squandered it on her birthday without getting anything in return...she doesn't even wish my girl an happy birthday neither did she even present her any gift,...she lived with me throughout last year before the covid start this year... She promised to cut things with her and their words won't be more than greetings...so on Wednesday she was telling me something about a pregnant departmental mate...so i was shocked and i asked her where she heard it from...she then said she heard it from her...she actually went to Ibadan from ondo to visit her sister so she actually go to her house to visit her....and I was shocked after all the promises you make that you will never have things to do with this girl again and greeting greeting is okay...so I challenged her and tell her you're getting closer to this girl again..,this same friend advised her to double date when she was with her ex because she doesn't hide things from me....so I told her you've to pick one is either me or her...she said she's gonna go for her...that if I'm not okay with her been with her I can end things with her...putting all the faults on me..defending her and i was just really shocked....so i refuse to reply her messages since Wednesday now she keep telling me its over and keep pleading again..keep breaking up and begging again..,she'd end the relationship and start pleading again,so nairalanders I'm confused...I really need your advise....I'm sorry if my grammers are bad and please no insults please...thank you all in advance.