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This problem was existing between me and my fiancée, and I was not comfortable allowing her to join her colleague in the morning or close of job. Buying her a car is not the problem; we have not married and agreed that I will buy her one as soon as we get married by first quarter 2010.

I would have drop her off in her office everyday, but my problem is very unfortunate as we live in different directions; she lives in Ago Palace Way, Okota and works in Marina, while I live in Punch Estate, Along Lagos – Abeokuta Expressway and works in Lekki Expressway. You would see we are in different directions.

I have made a point of duty to be giving her monthly stipend of fifty thousand naira for transport, and advise her to always pay for two or three seats instead of taking a cab. If I call her she would close late, I will tell my driver to wait for her and drop her in her house, then I would go home with staff bus.


Men have really spoiled this world, and will never trust my fiancée getting so close to any man.
I have a car + a driver and made a stipulated rule not to carry any lady in my car except her condition is pitiable. I am a man and was once in the world, I see ladies as un-trusted people especially in Lagos. I have experienced them so loose that I kept wondering if we are heading to the end time.

I have come to realized that girls make it as a policy that you must give them daily/weekly/monthly allowance depends on what you agree with her.

I was giving my last girl friend N50,000 allowances per month, this is not a joke. But now no way for any girl who would demand allowance from me.

Although you must buy her gifts or give her cash to do her hair, but not on allowance basis as I was been fooled by this girl. Infact I don’t want to date any poor girl that will depends on my allowance; I want to settle down and looking out for babes who works in reputable organisation, e.g., telecoms, banks, oil & gas. So babes over to you, if you are interested and not to depend on allowance hit me straight away on 234-018229751.

So guys be wise and stop giving any girl allowance, you better give that allowance to your mum instead of girl you don’t secure as your wife.

Marketing job is what I hate most in my life; I am a man and I so pity all these young girls / ladies what they experienced from their male customers.

Some crazy banks / organisations would set outrageous targets for them to meet, and what would you expect these young girls / ladies to do in other to save their jobs.

Coming to this issue, I really blame the man because he knew she is married, and I strongly believe he is married too. My advice to you is don’t visit his office alone, always visit his office with someone, and don’t accept any lunch or dinner with him. In the first place, why should a married woman accept dinner from a guy without her husband? Tell him politely that your husband would not like hearing him calling you sweetheart.

Some men behave themselves so low that you would think they are under spell to run after any woman. If I were a lady, I would have given some bitter lessons to these useless and crazy randy guys; so that when next they come back if at all there is a re-carnation, they would distance themselves 100 meters from girls.