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Python25to30:
This is deep

Imagine if the elder ones travel abroad and very successful they would turn u to slaves normally. Family are the worst in my opinion.
Family are the devil themselves as na only them fit build u or break u

1.In this case, the older ones can’t even build you because they can’t even build themselves. That zeal & fire is not there. You even have the zeal more than them.

2. They can’t also destroy because communication has been cut from their information/update suppliers. Even where you are, whether it’s still in naija or you’ve japa, they don’t know.

You are 4 siblings, & you’re No. 3. You’re close to only your last the No. 4 but you see the oldest 2, they don’t give a fvck about you & last. They hardly care about you 2. They don’t speak to you both.

But there are your parents who communicate with you all. Your parents don’t really care about the relationship among the children as long as they’re calling you all individually & you’re picking & responding that you’re fine.

Your parents in fact cares more about the two older than the two younger. They send the eldest some money monthly to support her and go as far as selling some property to help the second oldest with his travel expenses but you see the last two, you only receive “how are you?”, “I’m just checking up on you to know you’re fine”.

You also noticed that your parents received information & update about you & shares it with these two older (it’s like sharing your info with people that don’t like you) and this always works against you most times (spiritually) when people that don’t even know already knows what’s going on in your life.

So you’ve decided to cut the parents off, you stopped sharing updates about yourself to them. You & the youngest are like the siblings that have each other’s back. In fact you’ve resolved that your younger sibling is the only family you have.

You even have first-hand info that if anything happens to your parents, there’s no inheritance for you. The two older will definitely take over everything & because they don’t even like their younger siblings, what do you expect? You as the 3rd, you’re already doing well for yourself, God is blessing & providing for you and you are not reliant or expectant on any inheritance, so what’s the point? Everyone can go their separate ways in life. You are even doing better & more successfully than the two oldest & the closeness was never there right from young.

In a nutshell, you have resolved that the only family you have is the youngest & you’re fine. No negativity & the spiritual battle has been reduced because the less your enemies know about you, the less spiritual battles.

Am I right? If you were in my position, what will you do?

Tohsynetita1:
You can have your source of income and still be submissive and respect your husband now.

What is your definition of submissiveness and respectfulness of a woman in marriage? I hope it’s not accepting all the man’s good and bad ways of life? Or doing everything in the house alone while she doesn’t do anything for herself to earn living?

Fiscus105:
Experience as HE or SHE?

Which type of wisdom wants to come out from guy that doesn't know her gender?

I think you need to check purge urself out first.

Eh bien! As long as you pick one or two lessons in the message, my gender doesn’t matter. My experience is my experience. ✌🏾

Kobojunkie:
But Nigerian men in general can't stand women who don't worship them. Their first complaints are usually that they are not respected and adored enough; And we all know that only the women who bring v@gina and praises alone to the table are best able to tolerate them and their egos best?. So, do you realize you are also informing them that the respect and worship of their egos, something most of them have been trained to expect in marriage from their partners, is of no real value.

Tooooo. Thanks for your contribution, but they should learn to understand that somethings are more important in marriage than bloated ego.

Dear men,

If you want to marry any type of woman, think about your children and how they’re likely going to turn out as it would depend on the kind of mother you gave them.

Children grow up with their mothers as their role models. Why? Because their mother is the only adult around them that they look up to. You, you’re always at work or outings with your friends and rarely present with them like their mother.

Type 1: if your wife doesn’t like to go out, work and earn or doesn’t take her job/skill seriously, there’s every tendency that your children will be lazy, lacking zeal to do anything, easily get tired of working, lacking creativity. They will follow suit even at their older age. They will be dependent on what others give them, just the way your wife was/is dependent on you.

Type 2: if your wife is ambitious, achieving, despite creating time to care for the children, trust me, it’s not rocket science, your children will follow. They will find motivation in your wife, their mother.

Therefore I urge you, brother. Don’t settle for a woman doing nothing for herself or not earning anything. Don’t settle for the one that will be worshipping you because you are feeding her. Don’t settle for the one that only has her v@gina and praises (“isimili jiofor” - in Judy Austin’s voice) to offer you, else na your children I pity.

Talking from experience. Peace ✌🏾

Ajoray:
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Stricker321:
How do married men cope with this situation? My wife wants sex like max of once a week. If she can even reduce it to twice a month she will do it. Even the once a week is usually a struggle. At night, she will say she is tired, in the morning, she will say I am disturbing her sleep.

This has caused quarrels, we have discussed, but before the blink of an eye, she has returned to her old way. I am determined not to sleep with another woman, but the struggle has been terrible.

I am just wondering why it has to be this tough and stressful to have access to my wife?

Tell her you’re not getting enough from her & if by a week’s time there’s no improvement you’d be looking outside. Maybe she’d sit up

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pelusi:
I traveled outside the country for 8 months now while my family is in Nigeria.

Now I will be returning to Nigeria next week. For this 7 months, I kept myself and did not mess around(slept) with any woman.

However, it's not that I don't trust my wife, but atimes I have an instincts that she may not hold herself like I did and may have fallen in hands of men.

Where I come from, it's an abomination for any married woman to sleep with another man because of the dare consequences it has on the husband of the adulterous woman.

Now I'm coming back soonest,I'm scared if she has slept with another man and I was suggesting before sleeping with her to sit her down and ask her to sincerely tell me if she has fallen in my absence,so that necessary things(cleansing) can be done before I sleep with her.

On the other hand, I'm reasoning whether asking her such will cause a misunderstanding in the marriage.

Please advise on the best way to go about this.

Just go ahead with the cleansing so that if she's clean, you're lucky & if she's not clean, you'd have cleaned her before sleeping with her.

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Orlu13:
cry my sister...cry more

Your mama & your sisters & the females in your family usel3ss.

Until you learn to respect Nigerian women.

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Orlu13:
ur tears are delicious

Lick it more. Your mama useless, she is Nigerian

Orlu13:
The first time Nigerian women are useful

You mean your mom & other females in your family are not useful??😞

Na wa o

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Because real men don't like expired products.

Shut up, no dey describe your mama as expired to the public. Respect women!

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Dear Sister,
Virgin or no virgin,

Never, not even in your next life should a man, a mere mortal, ordinary flesh & blood like you, probably not a virgin himself, likely sl£pt with countless women, many of whom you're smarter than, many of whom you're hard-working than, be the determinate of your marriage worth.

Any man that 'you're not good enough for marriage in his eyes' because you're not a virgin or because of your past when himself perhaps has a horrible past (different s£xcapades with different women) can go kiss dusts. The man that will adore you will come and yes, he will adore you irrespective.

Just stop giving them your body until they marry you.

TooResilient:
Dear Ladies,

Your body, your rules.

No man born of a woman has the right to ask you "what's your body count?". He has disrespected you already.

No man born of a woman has the right to tell you "but you're not a virgin anymore, free yourself" after you've made up your mind to stop and wait for a proper marriage. Stand your ground, the one who will love and respect you despite, will still come.

No man born of a woman has the right to call you "evening newspaper" because you decided to give yourself some time, when himself is probably getting married late, he's a broke-ass or doesn't have anything going on in his life.
Tip: they hate being called 'broke', 'broke-ass', shame them back in retaliation. They can't take what they give.

Be content with what you earn after your hardwork (business profits, salaries, wages, etc.). Looking for free money to live extravagant lifestyles (human wigs, expensive clothing, expensive rents, etc.) will leave you exchanging your body for them. Is your body, your dignity, your self-worth worth those vain things? Big NO!

Lastly, you don't even have to be religious to live rightly.

Have a good life.💞💕
From a sister

Ladies, keep sharing to other females.

You can still stop and wait till your wedding night.

Virgin or not, you're absolutely worthy.

adewunmioladele:
Thanks for this. I am blessed reading this and I hope it does the same with others. Thanks for sharing

You're welcome darling. Please share with others

Dear Ladies,

This tread was created specifically for you.
Share to as many young women as possible.

We are our guide.

condensedmilk:
Instead of you to advice our young queens to strive and preserve themselves for marriage you are here justifying immorality.

In an ideal society, Marriage is solely meant for a virgin woman.

You quoted one part and left the others. I guess the others are not moral advice enough for them, right?🤨

Go into the ideal society and marry the virgin woman that you deserve after keeping your virginity as a man.

Dear Ladies,

Your body, your rules.

No man born of a woman has the right to ask you "what's your body count?". He has disrespected you already.

No man born of a woman has the right to tell you "but you're not a virgin anymore, free yourself" after you've made up your mind to stop and wait for a proper marriage. Stand your ground, the one who will love and respect you despite, will still come.

No man born of a woman has the right to call you "evening newspaper" because you decided to give yourself some time, when himself is probably getting married late, he's a broke-ass or doesn't have anything going on in his life.
Tip: they hate being called 'broke', 'broke-ass', shame them back in retaliation. They can't take what they give.

Be content with what you earn after your hardwork (business profits, salaries, wages, etc.). Looking for free money to live extravagant lifestyles (human wigs, expensive clothing, expensive rents, etc.) will leave you exchanging your body for them. Is your body, your dignity, your self-worth worth those vain things? Big NO!

Lastly, you don't even have to be religious to live rightly.

Have a good life.💞💕
From a sister