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Sureplug123:
education and what do you do for a living?

Oh, I get!

I'm a NSE/COREN certified engineer, worked in the power sector for a while.

Learnt some marketing and business skills alongside.

Now preparing to set up my business, taking some business management training courses at the moment and learning a foreign language.

Sureplug123:
What's your major?

Major in what aspect?

Sureplug123:
are you an introvert?

I always say I'm not an introvert but I don't enjoy hang outs. I only go out for shopping & work.

Sureplug123:
introvert ke... You dunno what's going on

What's going on? #Confused 🤔

toujurs:
You just need to be ready to compromise, you might not meet exactly the kind of man you want, but if you meet close to what you want, please accept him.

OK 👌 o

Sureplug123:
what's your type of guy?

Single, hardworking, clean,

toujurs:
you are an introvert. You need to go out. Forget all these online dates or boyfriends. Most are not serious and play too much

Thanks anyway.

toujurs:
look stop being delusional, and i hope you are not broke. It's not about having a category of men, you should as well consider if these categories of men would want to settle for a 31 year old, while there are so many younger girls with good career path. You should as well be willing to cut down your own taste.

All man to his taste. Many of that category want to settle for younger and the others want mature ladies. So, it's divided

Sureplug123:
And most importantly, someone that shares your dreams, right?

Yes, and I share his too.

toujurs:
You women don't listen, now just look at, socialize with people, you won't. Smile when spoken to, you won't. Try to be engaging in conversation, you won't. Try to show interest, you can't.

Now you are online, begging for a man, as time no dey again.

Look let me advice you, it would difficult for you to find a quality man, but it good as you have, come to the conclusion you've not been handling your love life well.

So i would help you. At 31, most guys would just want to sleep with you, and move on, so you need to be very smart, and open minded, and as well study the guy, because you engage in anything sexual. Because i do know, how emotionally attached you women become once you have sex.

Try to understand, and learn to compromise. And be engaging. While having a conversation.

Go out, more often spend your money on yourself, so you can look good and smell nice. Read books so you can communicate well, and how to socialize..

Be generous, in the little way you can, don't be a selfish person.

And lastly delete this thing you posted here, you can find a good man here, with positive intentions, with that age, and this "Pick me" request. Hot guys would come for you, badly.

Go out, and meet people. Either mall, church programs museums, art gallery anywhere. More often..and ditch off all these online relationships.

I have tried.

Thank you, I appreciate your contribution. I'm just so bad at going out that I'd rather find something to do inside than dress up and go out.

Sometimes when I'm out, I'd remember the many things I have undone, I'd be itching to run back home.

Cassandraloius:
God will provide a good man for you.

Thank you Ms. Cassandra

Sureplug123:
I like them for their honesty, maybe too honest sometimes 😊. I have a question for you, seems you already have everything planned out, why do you need a man? For kids?
You didn't mention your tribe.

😇 I need a life partner to do the rest of life together and have kids.

I'm a mixed breed of 2 tribes: Delta/Ondo.

Elidrisy20:
She's not serious, instead of her to look for a husband, she's looking for a partner

Oh God!😫 which kain talk be this?

Is a husband not a life PARTNER of a woman and vice versa?

extol1:
No issue, I would have loved to apply but a lot of guys would have email you. I won't want to be empty of progress to those that are already asking for relationship with you

Nobody has emailed me 😩

Sureplug123:
She's an Aries.

Yes I'm Aries.

extol1:
What if the person possesses all things character but doesn't reside in neither of the state mentioned, what would be the fate of the person

All the things I stated above are about myself. So if he's resides in other states, maybe we can still work things out.

But I prefer single men from 31 upwards.

JASONjnr:
Distance will be a barrier tho but don't let the kids around here to make you feel bad about your decision...


It takes a powerful woman to take bold steps!

And I appreciate you for this!

Thank you Mr. Jason. I'd deliberately ignore responses that sound humiliating/childish😊 because I know the category of men I created this for.😊

Namaster:
All these and no pictures.

Funny.

I don’t like taking pictures

advanceDNA:
U don't need a man that will be controlling , looking for submission, respect and what u will bring yo the table....u know u women that like that...
. ..with all this fine ambition....sky is ur limit....
Dey ur dey....pay ur bills, build ur own house and enjoy ur life on ur own terms

I'd like to procreate, to have children to pass on my knowledge and my wealth and to have them within the confines of a blessed marriage.😎

Hashabiah:
I read your post but what you just told the male populace doesn't benefit us in anyway. Rather , you should be telling us what you can bring to the table ...not your ambition

I'd ignore you. We are not on the same level of thinking.

TooResilient:
She'd be 31 soon.

Looking for a life partner 31 to 35 years.

She's settling up her business.

She doesn't want yoruba and igbo men because somehow she's not been fortunate with them in the past.

She has big dreams and big life goals like becoming a CEO and also a citizen of a first world country, also promised that her children will be first world citizens to give them a good future.

She's already working towards achieving that.

She's a bit stubborn in terms of pursuing and achieving life goals which some men don't like about her.

She's quite ambitious.

Not an introvert but loves staying indoors.

She's tall/dark/averagely thick/on low cut because she doesn't like making her hair(maybe if cajoled by her lover she'd make hair).

Resides between Lagos/Ogun.

The email attached to this account has been deactivated but you can reach her on lovey.dovey93@protomail.com for a serious relationship.

No jokes or play, she wants a man that really wants to get married.

It's a clear post. Read to comprehension before you respond.

Besides, this post is for mature men, if you're in your 20s, kindly avoid this thread. Thanks.

Hashabiah:
This must be a very delusional woman. Only a simp will take this damaged woman with high expectations

How am I damaged?
All I listed is about who I am, not what I want the man to be.

Please read to comprehension.

She'd be 31 soon.

Looking for a life partner 31 to 35 years.

She's settling up her business.

She doesn't want yoruba and igbo men because somehow she's not been fortunate with them in the past.

She has big dreams and big life goals like becoming a CEO and also a citizen of a first world country, also promised that her children will be first world citizens to give them a good future.

She's already working towards achieving that.

She's a bit stubborn in terms of pursuing and achieving life goals which some men don't like about her.

She's quite ambitious.

Not an introvert but loves staying indoors.

She's tall/dark/averagely thick/on low cut because she doesn't like making her hair(maybe if cajoled by her lover she'd make hair).

Resides between Lagos/Ogun.

The email attached to this account has been deactivated but you can reach her on lovey.dovey93@protonmail.com for a serious relationship.

No jokes or play, she wants a man that really wants to get married.

Christistruth00:
Adaka Boro's People were with him and till today they still Celebrate Adaka Boro day

He is their no1 National Hero

Gen Ironsi and Ojukwu should have granted the Niger Delta their Referendum for their own Region as had been agreed with the British before independence

Don’t be fearful. Anything is possible. With the way Nigeria is poorly governed, that common Fulani herdsmen, no government has been able to put a stop to their atrocities, I don’t think they are strong enough to fight a well prepared state government that want to dissolve from Nigeria. If any state prepares well, spend that money, set their communities ready on all sectors independently, with a call for assistance from the higher powers like USA and co, they can part ways.

They just need to start with border building on their territories, change of officially spoken language and building within every necessary things to stand independent.

They will win.

Another question, did Adaka Boro sensitize his people, did he really prepare for it before he started his campaign?

Was he communicating with his people in the language everybody understands or his indigenous language?

Christistruth00:
Ojukwu killed 150 of Adaka Boro's men and Gen Ironsi regime sentenced him to Hang
It was Gowon that free Adaka Boro
Adaka Boro was sentenced by Gen Ironsi regime to be hanged in December 1966 but Gowon Coup saved him

Was Adaka Boro fighting for the dissolution of the entire Nigeria or the independence of his state?

Christistruth00:
Adaka Boro tried it but Gen Ironsi and Ojukwu didn't allow him to go

Did they k*ll him? If they did, how did it happen?

Do you think with the way Nigeria is now that people want a dissolution, their people will not protect their leaders that is calling for a change?

If they change to their local language, don’t you think there will be more loyalty among their state people?

I just believe anything is possible if the people are strong willed. Home & abroad citizens can fight for their independence.

It can work if their state governor/government can be true to them, else, Ko Le Work.

Iamanoited:
1, THERE MUST BE A 3/4 RESOLUTION OF THE STATE COUNCIL OF TRADITIONAL RULERS.

2, THERE MUST BE A 3/4 RESOLUTION OF THE STATE LEGISLATURE.

3, THERE MUST BE A YES MAJORITY REFERENDUM OF THE PEOPLE OF THE STATE.

4, THE CURRENT GOVERNOR MUST PROCESS ALL OF THE ABOVE AS A BILL TO BE PASSED BY A 2/3 OF NASS.

ORISA37
YOU CAN NOT OPEN YOUR EYES AND ALLOW WASP TO ENTER.

Honestly, you are right. But it can happen if the people of that state unite. Join hands together to fight till independence.

The first thing to overcome is language. They should change their official language to their native language.

The next is build a strong territory on their borders and secure to prevent intruders.

All other developments can follow internally before they finally break out.

EreluRoz:
It's not possible in Nigeria. It can only happen in countries with a good working system.

Nothing is impossible oga mi, it only takes a group of strong willed spirits to overcome and standalone and the intervention of higher powers to put a stop 🛑 to the Nigerian government if they want to be an opposition.

EreluRoz:

It’s only a question right? What do you think?

Can a state, even though surrounded by other states, make their original native language their very own official language, develop herself all around, build and raise her borders high like China, fight for independence against Nigeria and really win it?

Just like inside the South Africa Country we have Lesotho country.