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[quote author=~Sauron~ link=topic=186544.msg2979178#msg2979178 date=1224711245]Scofield??
I am not jealous. [/quote]yes scofield
Well you should

[quote author=~Sauron~ link=topic=186544.msg2979163#msg2979163 date=1224710895]Who would u rather have??
Liv Tyler or Kemistry?? [/quote]Lol
true i wud rather have wentwoth miller than sauron anyday

[quote author=~Sauron~ link=topic=186544.msg2979136#msg2979136 date=1224710411]Menage a trois??
No white chic in ma bed anymore. . . . .I repented. [/quote]
Ok, why do guys see in white chick anywayz? is because they take a lot sh.it from u guys sexually??

Danke:
i can imagine a 35 yr old man marrying an 18 yr old girl

na who go pressurize pass

Tell me . . . but
I wouldnt condone to a 18yrs marrying a 35yrs old

Sistawoman

[quote author=~Sauron~ link=topic=186544.msg2979096#msg2979096 date=1224709448]Well. . . . . .I agree with you.

The issue of marriage is DEEP.
Men love their freedom and marriage(these days) is an entrapment.
It means i cannot just decide i want to go to Glasgow and party like i used to without informing ma partner.
Ma buddies can't barge in on a saturday afternoon with drinks to come watch football with me without permission. . . .
It's FUCKERY. [/quote]Roflamo . . . . . . .
Now you are confessing the real issues and might i also add that this include the fact there would no more be menage à trois for you anymore with ur white chicks

Danke:
@tope

i remember d third girl in my family,her first suitor came when she was 17,that day my dad chased d guy out of d house politely
seriously especially if d girl in question is very cute,as in beautiful,sm of them men don't want to waste time,because of fear of loosing d babe

what of those men that don't even know u from adams but the very first day they see u,they will tell u outrightly that they aint interested in boyfriend ang girlfriend thingy,they want marriage,I'm talking out of experience here

please men pressurize ojare,most of the women that pressurize men ,do it of frustration,maybe because of age not being on their side any longer or sthg,but u hardly see a young girl pressurizing  a man for marriage,its not as if they r no young girls doing that,but comon this people r in no hurry

Rofl. . . . . . . .
I believe nowadays more men do pressurize girls into marrying esp if the guy is alot older than the babe

[quote author=~Sauron~ link=topic=186544.msg2979076#msg2979076 date=1224708910]Commitment phobia is inevitable. . . .

For a woman, all she wants is the white wedding dress and the glamour surrounding it. . . .
She cannot see beyond that wedding day and think about the aftermath . . . . .
Questions like. . . . .Are we financially strong to be alone together? Do we have sufficient funds to start a family?
Some certain standards have to be met BEFORE most guys can walk the aisle with their women and until then, PHOBIA, PHOBIA PHOBIA!!! [/quote]I quite agree with the words in bold but even if some guys are financially stable they still chicken sh.it about it, so that isnt an excuse to me, you both should help each other out thatz what marriages are for anyways for better 4 worse abi

Danke:
men also pressurzie women for marriage

a woman will tell a man that shes not ready,maybe because of school or sthg,u need d see d way d guy begs d woman and promises to be understanding

all this men that marry 18 yr old,sm of this girls aint in school yet,and their parents smtimes will not want them to get married just like that,i tell u that men swear wt d last drop of their blood promising heaven and earth to see her through school no matter what

yes woman take d lead but smtimes men also pressurize d women too,so drop d blackmail

God bless you

Roflmao . . . . . . . .
oh gawd

[quote author=~Sauron~ link=topic=186544.msg2979023#msg2979023 date=1224707700]Small price??
Who presses for the marriage? Man or Woman??[/quote]Well . . . . .That dependz but i gotta keep real so i have to say mostly its the women but having said that why do you guys have commitment phobia anywayz, why do u have to wait until the girl ask or pressurize?

[quote author=~Sauron~ link=topic=186544.msg2979008#msg2979008 date=1224707412]Noted!!!
It seems u have a very decent CV.

I heard about Yorubas and brideprice too. . .
Even if they take the brideprice away, what about the 45674302857 times that guys would prostrate before he can take his bride?[/quote]That is just small price to pay the parents of the bride for taking their daughter away from them

[quote author=~Sauron~ link=topic=186544.msg2978971#msg2978971 date=1224706680]Go and learn how to cook very we,,.
The way to a man's heart is through his belly.

As per brideprice. . . . .It's tradition.
U can't change that. [/quote]Honey, i dont need learning, cooking is actually one of my forte
As for the briceprice, yorubas dont accept it anymore anywayz but i thnk the ibo igbo still does

[quote author=~Sauron~ link=topic=186544.msg2978923#msg2978923 date=1224705772]Of course. . . . . .

I do loads of vacuum cleaning. . . .I enjoy the task. . .
When a woman is a bit under the weather, the guy MUST help her out.
However, a woman should always make herself available to do house chores.
Tope, should we stop paying brideprice?? [/quote]I think we should really, i would hate the idea of a guy thinking he owns me simply because he paid my brideprice
and many guy do think like that actually so umm . . . . i dont want any guy paying any brideprice on me

Chrisbenogor:
@tope
not saying I cannot clean up, I do so once in a while .

You are just a lazy ass guy

[quote author=~Sauron~ link=topic=186544.msg2978883#msg2978883 date=1224705129]I raise ma hands up. . . . .I cannot cook.
It's not a crime. . . .Just like i can bet u cannot install and configure a wireless network or fix a blown fuse. [/quote]I try . . . . . . lol
Personally i don't have any problem with cooking _{its actually a passion of mine} and cleaning but at least the guy can vacuum at times just to help out if I'm tired or have lots to do.

Wonders on NL

You guys are living in la-la land abeg
So im guessing you guys can even cook a meal for your woman because its a 'woman's job'.

[quote author=~Sauron~ link=topic=186544.msg2978830#msg2978830 date=1224704349]YES!!!
Just like it's ma primary responsibility to provide food, automobile, shelter and designer gear for my woman.
Women can't have it both ways.[/quote]Well, i guess the kind of wifey you are talking about is the one that sit home all day and you give 10 mill at any given time right?

[quote author=~Sauron~ link=topic=186544.msg2978820#msg2978820 date=1224704141]Nobody likes untidyness. . . . . . .but u gurls should give us a break. . . .

We do the math, y'all should do the science.
If there is no food on the table, men pick the blame.
When the house is untidy, women should shoulder the responsibility.[/quote]Well, can y'all atleast put stuff back where you found them instead of dumping it around.

Danke:
so u men can fling ur clothes and properties evrywhere yea?because its d womans duty to tidy up d house sauron?

Ask him ooo

darefestus:
Yes

I saw Tope's reply, quite funny though!

She prolly didn't know it was my Dare.

Yes, i did actually

@poster
I wonder ooo
I just hate untidiness period

[quote author=~Sauron~ link=topic=186024.msg2975009#msg2975009 date=1224625276]U are a good business woman.[/quote]Business ke

[quote author=~Sauron~ link=topic=186024.msg2974991#msg2974991 date=1224625032]Of course!!!!

Say like 10 mil in your account at any given time, will that do?? [/quote]Happy days
New york, Paris, LA and Tokyo here i come, will shop till drop

So i guess you are saying, you wudnt allow you wife to work?
well anyways . . .
For me not work, my husband must earning a hell lot of money and be prepare to take care of all my needs :DSo

u missing the point
So because monica f****d clinton, women are not supoose to work

lol
abi david, shay u gree?

[quote author=~Sauron~ link=topic=186024.msg2974954#msg2974954 date=1224624277]Protection from predators, sexual deviants and sexual harrassments/assaults.
Imagine if Monica Lewinsky was a full housewife. . . . . [/quote]Roflmao, maybe she wudnt have given clinton's best BJs of his life but look on the bright side shes made money n find fame from it
but i will still take my chances

let enjoy ourselves first b4 pikin abeg

What protection and from what
I know i will be a good wifey