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C2H5OH:
Lol abi wetin you say I talk? You think he getting it?

I missed the part where I am supposed to be your wife.

Rofl . . . . . Omo i think there might be a girl somewhere o
u call say u dey come home n 5hrs later  . . . nobody wey resemble u

stillwater:
I do that a lot too and what do I get continuous emotional torment . Yes, you have to compromise in marriage but not to the extent of being beaten black and blue emotionally. That's why I've decided not to keep my mouth shut.

You lot can call it nagging.

God bless u n me

C2H5OH:
LMao Lmao LmAO

Mwahaha classic cheater cop-out response.

Better hire Cheaters to investigate his lying ass.

Not even a call: hey hunny I am running some errands on my way home so i might be a little late

Gbam

@poster
I change my mind sef . . .go out n enjoy urself

[quote author=*Hauwa* link=topic=267333.msg3801465#msg3801465 date=1241053254]heavy egusi soup with heavy poundo will keep him at home sleeping  [/quote]This is ur ansa to everything  . . . oti like oun je ju

ima1:
ya i have expressed it to him, but i feel like he doesn't care. i am not scared of him or talking to him, but its just that u tend to ignore things to avoid conflict

Yes it is good to ignore sometimes but not always babe

[quote author=~Sauron~ link=topic=267333.msg3801454#msg3801454 date=1241053057]Tope, you are taking this issue way too personal.
Wetin be your own?

Ima is not scared to talk to her husband.
She doesn't want to come across as a nagging wife does not mean she's scared.[/quote]Lmao . . . .she just come across as really laid back . . . . the ones men chances because they hardly complain
Wish i can marry her husband for just 2weeks he will see pepper

@poster
Noooooooooooooooo . . . . . . Getting pregnant will not solve ur issue

My dear telling him how u feel isnt nagging even tho most men seem to see it as that . . . . . .I am not going to hide who i am or what i dont like because i dont wanna come across as a nagging person. Never

u shudnt be in relationship where u are too scared to talk to ur bf talkless of ur husband.

ima1:
Been married for like 2 yrs, dated for like a yr b4 getting married, and ya i have just ignored things he says or does bcoz i do not want to be a wife that nags, i feel like he doesn't really appreciate me (i mean u don't really know what u have until u lose it)

Mehn. . . . . i really feel 4 u
The one worst feeling any woman cud ever have experience is to feel unappreciated. . . . . talk to him, tell him how u feel. let him say u nag. . . . . .always say how u feel

[quote author=~Sauron~ link=topic=267333.msg3801418#msg3801418 date=1241052427]Haba, these questions are too personal.[/quote]Well i dont why the guy is acting as if he is still single

ima1:
thank you all for ur advice.

i never asked him where he was just to be a nag, but it was because i prepared dinner and everything and he called to tell me he was coming home, and 5 hrs later no show, so i decided to go to bed cuz i have classes the next morning, and he walked in, i let him put his things down and was asking if he ate outside, cuz it was late and i put the food back in the fridge so it doesn't get spoiled (since i did not know when he was coming home). funny it was the first time i asked him and he blew things outta proportion. i was alone at home and it sucked just being there alone.

i think maybe i need to have a life outside us. i try to keep busy with work and school, and he tells me we need family time, so when i am available he ups and leave with no info as to where is going. i have been supportive but would hate to be taken for-granted.

Im sorry but how long have u guys been married??

How long did u guys dated for b4 u marry each other??

Have u always kept quiet abt everything he does because u dont want to come across as nagging person?? If so big mistake.

OgidiBoy:
God dey sha, no condition is permanent

When u start rolling in millions lemme know

[quote author=*Hauwa* link=topic=265244.msg3801394#msg3801394 date=1241051930]ogidiboy, you sure no stretch for ya yansh so? you really sure? with fried plantain that you love, tell me there ain't no stretch? maybe too hard to see ya back?  [/quote]Lmao . . . . .im sure he does

OgidiBoy:
I'm not getting out of nothing, when you find me a wife to marry my broke ass then I can see how I  answer your question my dear

Its a pity i dont have friends that are into broke negros

davidylan:
Before we jump into conclusions here . . . we have only heard Ima's side of the story. How did she ask him? Nicely or aggressively? Was he stressed or in a bad mood when she asked the question? There is a way to win over your husband . . . its not by being dismissive.

Now thats another thing

davidylan:
As long as she's not asking in a way that makes it sound like she's suspicious of your every move, i think its a valid question to ask as your wife. I'd be worried if my gf (not even wife) wasnt bothered about where i'd spent my day.

Thanks jare
some men deserve to grow old alone . . . i swear

@poster
Talk to him

[quote author=~Sauron~ link=topic=267333.msg3801350#msg3801350 date=1241050727]It's a big deal if i had already told her where i was going and she kept asking.
Gosh. . . . . .I am going to Finsbury park, i will be back in 2 hours.
Why call him again within the 2 hours to ask the same question?[/quote]I dont think u read the poster's story very well

Is it a bad thing to want to know where your husband is when he goes out and has not returned for like 5 hrs after he called you to say he was coming back home

So therefore she is bound to be worried n have the right to ask him where he has been.

OgidiBoy:
Tope you don come again with your husband and wife question today. When the time comes I'll tell you personally how I handled the issue

rofl
u must have an idea on how to deal an issue like that so tell me. . . . .u r not getting out of this one

@OgidiBoy
will u divorce ur wife if she has stretch marks after u marry her??

[quote author=~Sauron~ link=topic=267333.msg3801320#msg3801320 date=1241049889]And who told you they don't communicate on other issues??
There's nothing in the constutition that says a man should tell his partner everything.
Hell. . . . . .I don't tell God everything.[/quote]Telling ur wife where u were or went is now a big deal ?
So own wife's whereabout is non of ur bizness?

Hahahahahahaha
love nwantin tin

[quote author=~Sauron~ link=topic=267333.msg3801290#msg3801290 date=1241049190]Go out with your girlfriends and have fun.
Leave him alone to do his thing.[/quote]Communication is vital in every relationship.

@Poster
Please dont just start going out with ur friends because ur husband wont tell u where he has been . . . . . .This might have effect on ur relationship later on e.g. Lack of trust

Try n talk to him

B.T.W I op the tone in which u asked him where he was wasnt too harsh? this might have pissed him off

Im sorry to say this poster but u r very stupid
A guy has been cheating on u from day one and u were with for SIX yrs with no commitment whatsoeva??

follypimpi:

Lai Lai,mke sure u ask for a Pink Range Sport.

Lmao . . . . wait how are we suppose to share a car sef?

ima1:
okay here is my question.

Is it a bad thing to want to know where your husband is when he goes out and has not returned for like 5 hrs after he called you to say he was coming back home. i do not want to be a nagging wife, i trust him and don't think he is cheating (cuz he knows i will leave him in a heartbeat if i knew he was cheating).
According to my husband, "a man is not required to tell his wife where is", which i totally disagree with cuz if something bad happens to him, i would want to know. i feel like maybe i am up all in his business when i ask him where he was. what do u guys think.

should i just let him do his thing and do mine, and not care where he goes to or what he does. cuz most of the time i am stuck in the house alone while he is out, i work and go to school full-time and when i have a day off, i just wanna spend it with him but he is not home and i don't wanna be a nag.

so what should i do, go out myself and have my own fun and just ignore him, cuz wats the point of being married.

Was he joking when he said that??

follypimpi:
@tope
Yeah fi real,I was told if they notice ur GF or wiffey is buff they will buy her a CAR to nick her off u(and u lout say 9ija men aint sexy),Pls do oo u might be lucky,no 4get i gave u a head start,we share it 50-50.

Steal me away from bf because of car . . . .Mba
U be ole sha 50-50? . . . . if u no fit take 30 then i no gree

hmmmmmmmmm. . . will be right back

follypimpi:
@Tope

I heared em SE boiz do it alot buy cars for girls.

Really?? in that case i must move to SE area
but come o. . . . . are those boiz yahoo yahoo?

[quote author=inspired_m link=topic=267327.msg3801160#msg3801160 date=1241046413]
Start from Recharge Cards Brov,

Can an African Man Buy Recharge cards for a Girl and Not want anything in return ? [/quote]Gbam
Yeye guys