₦airaland Forum

Hotstepper:
she is after what she will gain from you. Dhe is suppose to be encouraging you and not comparing you, afterall, she doesnt know what tomorrow is. For crying out loud, she works so she should even help out. I dont buy the ideology of men doing the spending when the woman is capable of helping. As someone said already,  if she cannot build a home with you, then let her go and find a ready made man,

Gbam

Lmao @ fatsos

Bro kay shud stop disgracing Nigerians abeg

which kain light did i see

oyinda.:
and the smart award goes to Tope200. how much effort did it take to dig up that hidden bit of post. Such excellent research  
you are hereby appointed the supreme judge on NL's court of law  

I gladly accept it  . . . u r hearby sentence to 1mnt ban for posting before reading

big_bumper:
OK, so we are going with Tope2000's words that the OP caused the guy's insecurity, i.e. TOPE HAS FINALLY AGREED THAT THE GUY IS INSECURE AND I AM SURE IT IS NOT BECAUSE OF HER FEAR OF LOOSING SHARON TO SISTER AMEBO NO 1
Phew, another one bites the dust

I aint convinced yet
lol. . . .the man wasnt a control freak though

C2H5OH:
LMAO Yeah she did.  And then she boinked on it.  She said the devil made her say it.  

here was where she said it

what do you suggest the girl should do? If she's not cheating on him anymore how can she gain enough of his trust to be able to visit her male friends w/o the bf casting shadows of doubt?
Should the bf also be more forgiving towards her? etc

be careful of wat u cuz it wud be used against on NL's court of law

oyinda.:
tope, how do you know? she said she wasn't cheating. she was chilling. lol
don't twist her words now.

Lol . . . if i remember correctly, u also said she cheated . . no?

big_bumper:
Tope2000, you too saw something for you to suggest back then that the guy was insecure na,

True but my own agrument is still . . . the girl must have caused that insecurities

Oh I get it, oya don't worry i will make sure you have Sharon all to yourself tonight without that interfering intruder Sister Amebo who is always turning up unannounced and at the wrong time, you have my word

Now put on your thinking cap again and think back to what it was that made you come to that conclusion that the dude was insecure

Lol . . . .sauron never wanted u two

https://i41.tinypic.com/10z7214.jpg

so hands off

stillwater:
I don't think I'll take it easy with a bf that leaves work to "chill" with a girl. And you even failed to pick up his calls after that? Personally, the bf is finished.

From the post, you already had trust issues, why pour kerosene in the fire?

You asked for advice, well you just have to beg, that's all.

Finally we have ppl that are saying some sense here

big_bumper:
So why was she UNCOMFORTABLE THEN

It is either because she is cheating or because she is scared of him, simple.

NOW judging from her story which unhelpfully keeps changing every minute, and the fact that another girl is in the picture, and her thread title which is that she wants him back, which of these 2 aforementioned option is true of the OP?

Its because she is cheating

.amebo no1:
this was the first time for heavens sake

this is simply a case of a young teen feeling funky cos she gets to see men asking her out, a case of her young girl feeling she knows it all but in the real sense is dumb, being submissive isnt in her dictionary cos she feels shes arrived
i honestly pray the man gets a better lady, men are not fools, the process of marriage starts
in a relationship, if the woman isnt submissive or wants to leave a life of her own, the dude is out




BTW iyalode stop making up things, stop adding story to the story

God bless you
I think iyalode is being sarcastic

.amebo no1:
iyalode you are wrong, go thru all her threads you will see where she said, hes never asked her who shes with before

all the guy did was ask a simple question

a question i ask my man smtimes, and a question he asks me too, if you are not hiding anything why not tell the truth

Tell them

oyinda.:
lol. she's a bad girl. skipping work to chill at friend's house.  
but isn't it funny that the bf wasn't concerned about the bills and his gf getting fired.
all he was concerned about was the gender of the friend. lol talk about trivial.

Lol . . . are u serious?

big_bumper:
Tope2000, that above, is the reason she wants him back at all costs She even said she can no longer breath again, lol

LOL . . .how does she know that the girl was in love with her guy?
It takes one to know one o
She knew that because she has feelin for her male friend too . . . . . so she sensed those sign from that girl too

oyinda.:
Why can't she tell him she is at a guy's place Undecided Isn't it because she was scared of his controlling nature

thank you big_bumper for getting the point. Where did you find that quote? I didn't see it in her original post but I deduced  that was what she meant and I was right!!
She didn't tell her bf where she was because she was scared. . . not because she cheated.
Her bf doesn't like her to be with her male friends so of course she will lie to him or ignore his calls when he asks.
That's why I said they're both at fault.

The poster is a liar . . . i told u somethings are different in all her 3 threads

big_bumper:
Why can't she tell him she is at a guy's place Isn't it because she was scared of his controlling nature

Iyalode . . . its because she has something to hide jare
If he is so controlling why does she want to win back his trust  else it shud be good riddance to bad rubbish . . . no?

modified

oyinda.:
lol. Repeat to yourself: It is okay to think for yourself. it is NOT ok to follow band-wagon at all times.
oya start repeating 

Its def michellin . . . . im sure of it

~Sauron~:
Nope.
They are Siamese twins co-joined in the hip.

Lmao
I bet they both have been guilty of this offence . . .cuz i dont know why they are defending the poster so badly

oyinda.:
lol. can you post those stories here if they're on other threads so we can get to the roots of the matter?  
this is like detective work .lol

She aint worth the effort

davidylan:
this girl is funny. Trust is a "trivial" matter? Respect is "trivial"?  

Wait till your bf skips work to "chill" at another woman's house.

Lol. . . is oyinda michellin

oreofemi:
can you kill for your love

my boyfriend told me that he can kill for me now that i have a baby for him, do men really mean that or they are joking

Good for u
Kill ke . . . . say wetin happen

oyinda.:
she was chilling at her friends house not cheating. lol

Actually I re-read the topic and NOWHERE on there did she say that she ever cheated on her boyfriend.  
her writing is not very clear most times so it can be hard to analyze it. It's also easy to imply a lot of things she probably didn't intend to be implied.

Honey we are quoting from 3 different threads
She posted this story three times . . .with some bits removed whenever she re-post it

davidylan:
I wonder . . . perhaps she'd just shrug it off as one of those things.

Shrug wetin off, abi no be us women

Some women thinks that men are ganging up on the poster so they are backing the poster up cus she is a female . . . . . .pity
What she did was wrong  . . . PLAIN and SIMPLE, nobody shud try and sugacoat it

oyinda.:
yes he has reason not to trust her with her male friends. I said that before. lol  read my first post.

what do you suggest the girl should do? If she's not cheating on him anymore how can she gain enough of his trust to be able to visit her male friends w/o the bf casting shadows of doubt?
Should the bf also be more forgiving towards her? etc

If the script was flipped. . . .shey you wont mind if ur bf ditched work and went to his female friend's house too?

slap1:
as in leave her finally or let her be?

LET HER BE, ARE U WITH HER CUZ OF SEX?

davidylan:
Ibk . . . na wa o . . . you get sense pass all these people.

LOL
Sista michellin wont be ibkaye's friend anymore