Foreign Affairs › Re: Over 400 People Dead, 1000 Injured As Massive Earthquake Hits Nepal by topemirates(m): 6:39pm On Apr 25, 2015 |
...and we dunno how much Nigeria is blessed?
May God help them, Amen! |
Romance › Re: Ladies Can You Say NO To These Touching Proposals? by topemirates(m): 2:15pm On Apr 25, 2015 |
Toks2008: Your latter paragraph suggests that that man never loved that lady.
Im fairly advanced in age and as a 40ur old man i can tell you frankly that the beauty and the beast story is not 100% fictional
If a man truly loves you and is crazy about you i bet you will b srprised how deeply u will fall in love with him in a short while.
Women are not really visual as some think and that tall dark rich handsome dude will look like a monster to you after he trreats u like poo while that short ugly pot belly illiterate will be as cute as.. when he continuosly shows u how special you are.
trust me,if a woman marries a man who is vrazy aver her and she is not in love with him,with time she will realize how blessed she is but if a woman marries a man she is crazy anout but does not feel same way,she is finished.
I will stop here Very true... |
Romance › Re: Guy Dumps Girlfriend After Taking Her For Shopping.... by topemirates(m): 11:33am On Apr 24, 2015 |
clip: He ran a test for the lady and she failed. The lady should have suggested another lower boutique, to show she can manage resources. Can she truly buy the bag for 250k if it is her money? U nailed it there bro! |
Education › Re: University of Ibadan (unibadan)2014/2015 Post-Graduate Application by topemirates(m): 11:35pm On Apr 22, 2015 |
kunlebabs: you must be high on some cheap shiiiit! Is electrical not different from mechanical. So why is MPH "epidemiology paying 160k and environmental health paying 180k"  Lol, easy bro |
Sports › Re: See What Mikel Obi's Russian Girl Friend Bought For Him As Birthday Gift [photo] by topemirates(m): 10:33pm On Apr 22, 2015 |
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Business › Re: Football Betting System That Guarantees No Loss Of Bet Capital And Steady Profit by topemirates(m): 4:38pm On Apr 21, 2015 |
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Education › Re: University of Ibadan (unibadan)2014/2015 Post-Graduate Application by topemirates(m): 8:23am On Apr 21, 2015 |
boukky23: am here Nice.. Lectures starts next week, hope u aware? 08060173542, holla on whatsapp |
Celebrities › Re: Hacker Leak Oritsefemi's Instagram Chats With Various Chat(photos) by topemirates(m): 7:39pm On Apr 20, 2015 |
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Politics › Re: Showdown In Ekiti As Fayose Mobilises Okada Riders,nurtw by topemirates(m): 1:27pm On Apr 20, 2015 |
Inn okun ooo..... |
Education › Re: University of Ibadan (unibadan)2014/2015 Post-Graduate Application by topemirates(m): 11:03am On Apr 20, 2015 |
No ARCIS stdnts in d house ni?? I go vex o lol |
Romance › Re: Five Ways To Tell If A Girl Has Grown To Being A Lady. by topemirates(m): 11:01pm On Apr 17, 2015 |
A real lady won't 'K' ur text
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Education › Re: University of Ibadan (unibadan)2014/2015 Post-Graduate Application by topemirates(m): 8:26am On Apr 15, 2015 |
Team ARCIS, where una dey o?? Let's relate |
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Family › Re: Nagging Wife — When Nagging Gets Out Of Control by topemirates(m): 1:25pm On Apr 10, 2015 |
tintingz: For a lot of men, nagging is comparable to other forms of torture like the rack and being drawn and quartered. Halting your partner's constant whining is easier than you think. But, if you're looking for a stress-free existence, simply follow these suggestions. Believe it or not, you do have the power to stop your partner's nagging.
Agree with her
Whether you agree or not, just say yes. By simply acknowledging the validity of her complaints you'll be able to buy yourself invaluable time. Granted, the problems won't be any closer to being resolved, but she'll be so pleased that you've come around to her way of thinking that you'll temporarily be let off the hook.
Tune it out
When she cranks up the volume of her whining, crank up the volume on your stereo just like you used to do with your mom or, better yet, simply zone out altogether. Be forewarned, however, that ignoring it won't make it go away. Tuning her out may be a decent short- term solution, but ultimately it'll infuriate her even more.
Pick your battles
You must know when it's advantageous to pick a battle and when it's not worth fighting for. Be complaint and defiant alternately.
Strike when the iron's hot
If her biggest issue is the mess you leave when your friends come over, make an effort to clean it before she has a chance to get into action. These five minutes of work will save you from three hours of mind-numbing, soul-crushing nagging.
Give deadlines & meet them
You're watching a match and she won't stop harping about replacing the light bulbs in the foyer. Just assure her it will be done during halftime or, more specifically, as soon as the game ends - and then do it. In the future, she'll know there's no need to nag you because you always come through on your promise.
Hug her & make a move
Next time she kicks her whining into high gear, kiss her affectionately and try to divert her attention. Hey, it works. Over time, she'll equate nagging with romantic interludes and it'll work for both of you.
Surprise, surprise
Derail all of her arguments with a sudden and unexpected surprise. Bring her flowers, get her tickets for the opera, do something so romantic and out of character that she'll suddenly forget all about the nagging.
Just communicate
Maybe over time, you have forgotten how to communicate. The next time she starts nagging you, ask her to take a five- minute time out and consider whether she's truly angry about your lack of cleanliness or whether there's a bigger issue at hand. Her nagging about trivial issues might be symptomatic of a larger, more significant problem. Maybe she feels you don't spend enough time with her.
Turn the tables on her
Nobody's perfect, so how about turning the tables on her. Whenever she nags about your unhealthy eating habits, tell her that she also has bad habits you'd like to see her quit. Just keep in mind that the self-esteem of most women is extremely fragile.
Show her the alternative
Life is all a matter of perspective. Sure, you may not be perfect, but at least you're not as bad as your buddies. Show her how lucky she is to have you by inviting your most uncouth friends over for dinner. They'll set the bar so low, that you'll be the king in no time.
Take it or leave it
Tell her there are some things in your life she'll have to accept if she loves you. Given the choice of accepting your faults or losing you altogether, she'll likely make the decision to stick it out.
Take a break
Taking a break may sound extreme, but you'll be able to better appreciate the qualities that brought you together in the first place. Remember absence makes the heart grow fonder.
Shape up
Nagging is the repetition of unpalatable truths. So maybe, just maybe, there's actually something at the root of her incessant complaining. Granted, nagging is a horrible way of communicating, but she may just have a valid point. Listen to what she's saying and see if you can address the issues that concern her most.
http://www.healthguidance.org/entry/6285/1/Nagging-Wife--When-Nagging-Gets-Out-of-Control.html Just smile n stroke ur beads (that's if u have any)... Thank me later! |
Romance › Re: Lets See How Prudent You Are (ladies Only) by topemirates(op): 7:06pm On Apr 09, 2015 |
tohpahz: I'd borrow.. $5 is way too small.. i can't manage my ideal man na.. But u have just $5, let's see what u can do with it.. |
Romance › Re: Lets See How Prudent You Are (ladies Only) by topemirates(op): 4:00pm On Apr 09, 2015 |
Sparkle777: No kids as in baby mamas oo. Of cos, we ll hav our own. Oh! That!!! |
Romance › Re: Lets See How Prudent You Are (ladies Only) by topemirates(op): 3:57pm On Apr 09, 2015 |
teeghurl: $5 is too small jor U r not prudent sis lol |
Romance › Re: Lets See How Prudent You Are (ladies Only) by topemirates(op): 3:55pm On Apr 09, 2015 |
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Romance › Re: Lets See How Prudent You Are (ladies Only) by topemirates(op): 2:22pm On Apr 09, 2015 |
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Romance › Re: Lets See How Prudent You Are (ladies Only) by topemirates(op): 2:21pm On Apr 09, 2015 |
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Romance › Re: Lets See How Prudent You Are (ladies Only) by topemirates(op): 2:19pm On Apr 09, 2015 |
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Education › Re: University of Ibadan (unibadan)2014/2015 Post-Graduate Application by topemirates(m): 1:07pm On Apr 09, 2015 |
truvine: its for Msc Economics Oh! Ok... sorry |
Education › Re: University of Ibadan (unibadan)2014/2015 Post-Graduate Application by topemirates(m): 1:03pm On Apr 09, 2015 |
truvine: @topemirates....are you in Economics ? Pls add me to ur whatsapp group, 08060173542 Thanks |
Education › Re: University of Ibadan (unibadan)2014/2015 Post-Graduate Application by topemirates(m): 12:51pm On Apr 09, 2015 |
tegbeyemi01: Reg has started... Just chcked d site Yea, just saw it too |
Education › Re: University of Ibadan (unibadan)2014/2015 Post-Graduate Application by topemirates(m): 11:42am On Apr 09, 2015 |
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Education › Re: University of Ibadan (unibadan)2014/2015 Post-Graduate Application by topemirates(m): 10:59am On Apr 09, 2015 |
boukky23: Yea dey said they will work on it, know someone else from dat same dept dat z having same issues, so tout it was a general issue with dat dept until I saw ur post. Oh ok! Just don't relent, all d best! |
Romance › Re: Lets See How Prudent You Are (ladies Only) by topemirates(op): 10:55am On Apr 09, 2015 |
Lizzyangel: faithful $3 & romantic $2
if he's faithful, once he become wealthy he won't betray me.
if he's romantic..he can be funny, smart, nd great in bed....and have lovely kids
tall or short,goodlooking, great body,is none of my business
so with $5 I can buy faithfulness and romantic and still have the whole list on my side.
#myopinion Another $5 well spent! |
Education › Re: University of Ibadan (unibadan)2014/2015 Post-Graduate Application by topemirates(m): 10:47am On Apr 09, 2015 |
boukky23: No oo, being waiting for confirmation mail since oo. Av u bn to d PGSchool to know what's up? |
Romance › Re: Lets See How Prudent You Are (ladies Only) by topemirates(op): 10:35am On Apr 09, 2015 |
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Education › Re: University of Ibadan (unibadan)2014/2015 Post-Graduate Application by topemirates(m): 10:34am On Apr 09, 2015 |
boukky23: Pls u r in ARCIS abi, have u done with your clearance Yeah, done that already... u? |
Education › Re: University of Ibadan (unibadan)2014/2015 Post-Graduate Application by topemirates(m): 10:10am On Apr 09, 2015 |
ibrozyconcept: kindly add 08068745750 I don't have any whatsapp group, I dropped my number for them to add me.. Cheers! |