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Na waoo. i now see why Naija girls and their marriages hardly stand the test of time. Here in Atlanta, there was a similar case. It doesnt cost you nothing to take care of your husband. washing his clothes is part of it. we all have cultures in our country Nigeria. Let me ask all the women? How would you feel if your father inlaw or mother inlaw see their son wash his clothes and you sitting down there doing nothing all in the name of been westernised? you know what the asnwer is.

Ladies, dont bring these curse on yourselves. Do it for the sake of your marriage even if you are dating.  My wife is an American and married for 9 year. She has been doing laundry for me since that time. She works as a human resources director in a fortune 500 company yet she does it. working is not an excuse. she also cooks like any woman out there that works. she loves Naija and will defend any naija anywhere.

naija and her culture is sweet. dont destroy it in the name of western lifestyle.

For a start, I dont think i can ever be a president in Nigeria. because of where i come from Niger Delta. Do you think it will happen when hawks like hausa's , the Yoruba's and Ibo's are there.
i have ideas on how to make this nation great but its needless as other ethnic nationalities dont consider me a Nigerian when it comes to governace but if its oil revenue, yeah i am a Nigerian. F****k all Ya'

Fellow nigerians.
i am just sick of all these Mutallab of a thing. few days ago , i went for a job interview in Atlanta. while perusing my resume the lady interviewer asked if i was Nigerian. i told her Yes Mam. the look on her changed. Mine changed too. On my way from the 18th floor of the building, i felt like dying. Is it a crime to be Nigerian trying to make a living elsewhere. I mean honest living without Fraud out there, 419. I needed this job so bad and now its mutallab.

My point is i  believ the God i serve.  Mutallab can never make me loose a job i should be getting cos i am Nigeria.

I have posted a link on what nare saying the we are all linked to the wahabis in Saudi arabia. God forbid.


http://www.modernghana.com/news/257271/1/nigerian-muslim-jihadist-and-al-qaida-ties-started.html

Ford windstar are good cars. the way you make your bed so you stay on it. if you maintain a car it wil serve you well. naija mechanics does trial and error in fixing your car. a sensor error will cause him to open where he is not suppose to do.

Ford makes nice and durable cars. If you love a windstar go for it. make sure you do good oil change, flush the transmisssion when due, when ever there is a check engine light, please dont let the mechanic touch that car untill you put a computer diagnostics machine on it. it could be a minor thing like changing the gas cap worn out.

Dele giwa will be the first to welcome her. life is like that.

rest in peace, Ndidi Amaka IBB

I cant believe Nigeria can be so dumb.

Check out this link.

http://news.yahoo.com/s/nm/20091227/wl_nm/us_security_airline_nigeria_feature_2

reports says the Nigerian is asking for medical attention already. make una see .

@No2Atheism.
You are right.  This is an opportunity for the country to split along 6 geoploitical lines. The Boko harams can have their country and the rest should never be labeled as a terrorist nation.

I predict This could be the begining of the Brookings institute CIA commision report on the disintegeration of Nigeria son. CIA are already in Nigeria. They should start  attacking their positions with drones in the north. I and my my family can not be labelled as a terrorist. I refuse to accept this for all peace loving Nigerians

OH Boy. I get to hide my Naija kpali when i dey travel oo. Cos to be a naija is problem already. i go alway use my Yankee to wakaa. God Abeg ooo

Yeah. AP has confirmed the man is a Nigerian. This a link to Associated press.

http://hosted.ap.org/dynamic/stories/U/US_AIRLINE_ATTACK_ARREST?SITE=NJMOR&SECTION=HOME&TEMPLATE=DEFAULT

This is getting serious, i just head on fox news that another man have been removed from a flight in amsterdam. he was flying on Delta and the plane was a Detroit bound flight. i will try to get the link as soon as i get more info.

i hope its not another Nigerian. That will seal the fate of most nigerian travellers as everyone from nigeria will be a security risk in the air.

This is the link

http://www.foxnews.com/story/0,2933,581232,00.html

yeah, no kids been th reason. they agreed to part ways .

@ Tinyata,

I think you are right. Both post are related.  I know both of them. Ok . lets call a spade a spade. They are close associates.  The married man in question came to the states some 8 yrs ago and settled with a AA lady. She is a perfect lady. infact you can hardly tell shes not naija. The first time i met her, was when i took my sister for a job.
Infact the moment she knew we were from Nigeria, the interview was practically over. The husband too is differnt Niaja. Nice, easy and always proud to be a naija any where. Infact the company he works, most naija came through him too.

late last year or so, the mom called and started asking questions and since then things has down, down------. the mom thought that the son was not telling the truth about his potency. the mom happens to be a registered nurse in Naija. When the result came i saw it and the girl friend in question ( Doc) also saw it.

In that office visit to the doctor, they profered several solutions and none was accepted cos age was not on the lady's side. she is more than 45 now.

that day , they talked and his wife told him it will be selfish to keep holding him down knowing that nothing matters now than having a child for him. But she cant for now. She cries about it daily. She even said she will if posible assist in any way she can.

The girl confided in me that the reason she had to let the Northeasterner in was to get the married man off her back but she keeps going back. Its obvious he loved her and she does too but for the prevailing conditions on ground.
There is a lot going on that was not mentioned too. I will keep you guys posted.


He is going home ( first time in 8 yrs) cos he is been recalled back home to Naija. Infact he is so scared to go home now. since january he keeps putting of the trip to naija. But his girl friend say he should go home to deal with the issue once and for all. ( comming from a polygamous home, being the first and only child from the first wife) they might take him out for inheritance issues. I feel for this guy. He is miserable every time you see him. He works, make good money, but i doubt if what happened Michael jackson will not befalls this guy.

Lets be carefull and sensitive to issues like this. The girls sees what non of us cant see. She cries with him too. I have witnesses it before.

I pray daily for them .

I am going to cut the story shrot. A brother that lives in the states is in deep shit. He is married for over 8 yrs without children from the AA woman. They ve gone everywhere  including surgery and no kid. infact the last one, the Doc says the man is ok
The woman had a child b4 they got married. Now They want to go their seperate ways and its getting hard. The child is used to the man she calls her Dad and the parents are already telling him to come back home. How is he going to go about breaking the relatinship he had built for yrs and that f the child he call his child.

We need lines . i mean corrrect lines to drop the bomb and how is he going to handle it. This a case of Things fal aprt ( Ikemefuna )

Ideas please.

Fu, k u Bolagun12, Totoeater.
Infact F u k all ya,

thats y Naija is full of injustice and we cant do nothing about it.

na una sabi.

@ poster,
Ukwani people are not Ibo. period. i can give you several examples.

languages:

1. when an ukwani wants to end a discusion especially with elders. they end it with ( Ishiegwali) thats not igbo. the Urhobohs call it (Misegwari)

most ukwani names are sometimes Bini like.
infact let me get these facts and get back to this thread.

please be patient with me.

@Bolagun12

I think you are the person in question. see how you are attacking the guy. No one is asking you not to do what you are doing to him. Its obvious that you like the guy and still wanna eat the cake too. what do u call that, Ashawo. I pity you oooooo.

If you like change your name. This thread has to stop. cos both of you need to talk. You do care for him and you know he does too. who are you decieving? Bobo1 and 2. yes both of them.

the reason is that you have done so much damage to bobo 3 already and dont know how to go about it. Every one has conscience thats why you cant let go. When you get home, cry your heart out and tell yourself the truth and The Good Lord will see you through.

Parents: stop adding to the pressure of living abroad to your kids out there. take note nairalanders.

My Post na the last oooooo/ i go shoutooooooo

@. how u dey, i was like u until i joined nailraland. today, i have met a lot of friends and i don being eat toto already.
I dey yankee sha. holla me : stksuga@yahoo.com.
make u waka well ooooooo

Please, Please and please.

This thread has to stop now. I live in Atlanta and i happen to know the people involved, i.e the poster if he is or his surrogate and the girl in question.

I hate when private issues like this has to be brought online. its sad. Both of them are good friends and i cant believe they still have not hit of yet. Nice man and the girl a good person too. I think she is just to confused and the pressure the poster is putting on her is also making the girl in question scared too.

They go out a lot and do alot together. Dont mind what he is saying that he is going to turn off his phone, there hadly any day that goes by that they dont talk. she dont see him the way he does. its evident she derive emotional pleasure from bobo 2 and physical pleasure from the poster. she wants poster to console her when something goes wrong with bobo 2.

parents: dont put pressure on your kids out there so they can make good decision.


Please stop contributing to this thread. Abeg una ooooooo. Both of them dey kolo for each other even when she is with bobo2.


No more contribution. mine should be the last. Otherwise i go mention their names and all the parties involved.