₦airaland Forum

ogugua88: I don't believe in envisioning a fairy tale partner. The one quality I ask is for someone to love/respect me for who I am. And that's about it. Simple and to the point. Do you know how many women list characters for men and dump men because they don't possess 100% of the qualities they desire? Those women remain unmarried. Then, area NL boys will run to Nairaland, complaining of spinsters and reminding them that their biological clock is ticking.

The world is not black and white, but gray. You can list qualities from here to jericho. Someone who possesses any one of those qualities is flawed just like everyone else. The question is, can you deal with those flaws?

Yes, life throws punches, but I expect punches, because such is life. Those who are in lala land, awaiting Prince Nnamdi and Princess Omotola are usually blindsided. What fate has in store for you is hardly ever what one wished for. Expect the unexpected.

You cannot choose to date me. You can wish to date me and I can then choose to reject you lol.

Nayah: Dyt, I think when you talk "gently" as Creamish said you can have some answers, just a question of courteousy and calm

shadshadyz: mhen! if i am that babe i will dump you now cos you are not reliable! and you will continue to remain a cheating fool! cheat!

***hisses****

angiemartinez: hi everyone, am in sm kind of problm. My fiance always tels me am nt submisive n respectful 2 him. Pls I nid tips n advice on hw 2 show ur man respect, thx

Shollypopz: lmao....the truth is she knows you cheated. Even if she decided to believe your lies, it will always be at the back of her mind. Her female intuition won't let her rest. She will then turn to a detective waiting for an opportunity to catch you red handed. And if she does, ur own don finish!

Izuone: My girl travelled to see her child, relatives and parents on the last saturday of may.she warned me to not misbehave but unfortunately last friday i ran into my ex and took her home and knacked her akpako. She came back yesterday and when she came to my house she said the condom that was remaining before she travelled was five but now 3 remains ,what happened and also that it is not the same condom and that i should explain myself and give her two reasons why she should forgive me and why i couldn't hold myself for just ten days. I denied that i didn't use the condom ,that i didn't mess any body but she didn't agree with me. To make matters worse as she was searching the house she saw the old condom sachet and said that they are different ,that i should confess and she would forgive me. But for where ,how me i go confess . I denied and i am still denying. The truth is that there was 3 condoms as she left and i used 1 with my ex but i didn't see that same condom to buy and replace it ,so i bought another type and kept 3 of them where i normally keep condom and hid the rest but i didn't know she will spot the difference btw the two type of condoms. The denial is not working ,so am thinking whether i should confess . I told a friend ,he said that i shouldn't try it.i like this chick ,i don't want to lose her. It's a case of not knowing what you have till you are about to lose it. I need your advice ,how do i tread in this matter.

LilMizzGood: Be my guess and you won't found nothing about me

LilMizzGood: Nope

LilMizzGood: can't say

LilMizzGood: lol think what you want to think, if it pleases you and you feel good about it than so shall it be.

LilMizzGood: lol OMG you r taking that post in a wrong way but hey if that works for you than be my guess and have wrong information of me. I don't dig Nigerian man's sorry to disappoint you.

LilMizzGood: ok food lovers I'm missing Nigerian food. I'm sick of eating Western countries food and it will be another 2 months before I go see my sister who live in another state. The bad thing is I don't know how to cook a good Nigerian food so I need Nigerian Recipe and I'll try to get the requirements of it.

Thx

LilMizzGood: lol this subject is NOT base on my personal life or my relationships, it was just one of those quick questions that needed answering.

to who ever ask why I am scared of catching feelings. To answer you hun I'm not scared of having feelings for someone, I'm scared of getting hurt in return. that's why I don't let emotions takes control of my relationship or my life. Simple and easy no feelings no one gets hurt.

Kimmo: Lwkmd @ these women who don't think they need to learn to cook/waiting for a man who knows how to cook. Surprise go catch u. How many of u can change simple light bulbs? Or correct minor plumbing issues? My brother cannot boil water, but he's able to repair electronics, n sort out leaky pipes. These have nothing to do with his profession, by the way. I said it before, I will say it again to these women. THERE IS A THIN LINE BETWEEN INDEPENDENT 21ST CENTURY WOMAN AND BITTER DIVORCEE.

luckgames: Good woman with strong values
If she willing to learn?
Yes Great
If I live in Nigeria will pay for somebody to cook for us
If we live in the developed countries and she as a good job
Will pay
If cooking is the only problem or her only pitfall

LilMizzGood: Ok most of you people think there is such thing as that.. would you also answer the rest of my question on that subject..

kilimanjaro: I don laugh tire. I swear, craze wey dey your head no get measurement.
Oya, go and read your book. Olodo!

Idowuogbo: Come harder! Give me reasons to treat ur fawk up.

Gambari!

Beync: people talk like some are not born of a woman whether man or woman. U should ask why is it always mother in laws? Once a woman train up her child into a responsible adult, the son should be mature enough to put mother and wife in their appropriate position. Of course I said he should discipline who ever that is faulty. does it mean a man should bit up his wife or mother? did u lost ur sense? So becos we are Africans we cannot speak? Hypocrites. It's still u people dat would compare black women with whites when u want to take advantage of them. Yes now that it's clear the wify wronged, she should be disciplined. Am not bias against anyone. I wouldn't insult my mother in law but if she do, my husband have to talk to her just like he will talk to me if I do.

kilimanjaro: U are daft! Guy believe me, u need the common sense! It's so obvious u lack one. Mumu pikin.
Na me say make your papa no buy u bicycle? Foolish thing!

bittyend: I used to feel invincible and on top of the world, till I got more than I bargained for.. I never thought I could fall in love nor get my heart broken..

Shockingly, I feel in love with this mysterious damsel and she KILLED my heart.. She killed it and buried it.. I have been heartless since then..

I used to cry because of this girl (strange from a guy who has never shed a tear in his entire life).. Run after her like a dog and I did the craziest thing for the girl... But she left me heartless..

I need a new heart, can anyone tell me where to get a new one?

frankgreat: no mata wat ur mother in-law did, u av no rit to insult her...if ur mum do d same will u insult her? lets reason lik d black we are nd stp actin lik d white we r nt..