₦airaland Forum

Daataane:
In recent time I begin to wonder what men actually benefit from marriage. My wife treats me like a cotten wool on top scale . You know what I mean? .. zero respect . She can talk to outsiders, laugh with strangers ( men) but can nagg at me for just no reason . ...... Men I don't even know my offences most times .

Have you ever cheated on her?
Be honest...

I thought this woman said she has given everything in her hands, where did 100 million come out from

Men are clearly more obsessed with marriage than women because why are you people annoyed at a woman that doesn't want marriage? Is marriage by force?

Why do men want women to crave marriage sef? Leave us alone abeg, what a very mumu topic, I can also bring videos of other old women online that don't regret staying single.

Behave normal to your wives una no go gree, now women have started despising marriage because of all your cheating and abuse the next step you people are taking is to post scare tactics video about old woman that wish they got married.

Authoreety:
your husband owes you love not respect...
You are the one who owes him all the respect

So wives don't owe their husbands love at all at all? You believe man and woman can get married to each other and the woman has zero love for her husband in her heart?

These people are terrorists, not bandits.

kiddaz:
True... I have seen this way back in Abuja and I have even seen guys on here boasting about using it on girls.

Very sad and evil. May God protect me and my loved ones.

Its very real, men and women need to be careful, its not only women using charm and love spells in relationships, I have seen comments by men online who want to use spells on unsuspecting women. Everyone needs to be prayerful.

Are there actual married men on Nairaland?
Wow
Actual responsible married men? On this kind of website?

advanceDNA:
lol…. U made a rape apologist comment which I pointed out, you now tried to turn it into an insulting contest by calling me low testosterone… like wtf….?? but its me that dont understand the words i use?? Mayb u should re-read all uve been typing and see if u would say the same if ur daughter was involved

Forming intelligent?? Baba ..it’s a simple crime that deserves justice ….there is no forming intelligent here… even illiterates, tgat know nothing understand what justice means….
but all u are doing is justifying wrong calling it all sorts of names… insulting me for looking at the issue from the angle of the victim….. if na ur sister them rape and beat.. u wont be here saying all these??

so as u share ideas …What were u expecting ?? That we will agree with your rape apologist comment?? Of ourse comments cant all be the same…. So why u Dey cry as I point out your rape apologist comment??

More justification?? Baba… rest… e don do… i see say the matter pain you as I tackle you for saying all most men will rape their maid..

marry as how?? Ur comments are just weird….first u claim most men will rape their maid, now it’s marriage…
oga there is victim here naaaa… for someone claiming intelligent , u cant even see that my comment is addressing the issue from the victims angle…
U are just pained i called out ur dirty comment claiming that most men will rape their maid…. .. baba rest..



lol…. Ur insults just show u realised how dirty your comments but too immature to admit .. so u are only only trying to justify it just as u claimed most men will rape their maid…

Thank you for your good work on this thread, sorry about the insults you had to tolerate while educating the rape apologists and mad men that came to type rubbish here.

I am shocked by the comments of many men on this thread supporting the rapist and blaming his wife.
Then again I am not so shocked because I know how many Nigerian men reason like wild animals. Some of them are even advicing the wife to forgive and cover up his crimes because he is a father and his children need him and because she cannot survive financially on her own if she leaves him. If that's the case then our Nigerian leaders are not wrong to forgive Bokoharam and Bandits because after all they are also fathers and their wives cannot survive without them.
Rubbish reasoning from criminally minded men everywhere. If the wife was the one that forced a boy into sex with her they will be all over this thread screaming and insulting all the women on earth.

So people really believe that Tinubu is passing this EO to reduce corruption? Somebody that is planning to loot as much as possible from the now redirected NNPC profits in order to fund his 2027 election.
You people make me laugh.

Watch and see, the NNPC money being paid into Federal Government account will still not reflect in anyway on Nigerian economy. No be city boy the drug smuggler again? Make una dey watch na.

Ovieemmanuel:
shey the man is not afraid of STD abi. He would just sleep with any woman without condom?

Condoms don't protect against every single STD.
Condoms break during intercourse. They are not 100% safe.

Bahamas95:
The last time I checked condoms are still being sold at the pharmacy.

Condoms don't protect against all STDs

Condoms burst/break

#stay faithful to your partner.

What about STDs? Should wives also keep quiet and be treating diseases because their husbands are animals that lack self control?

But Ned admitted in a phone call that he physically assaulted Regina
Are we really blaming the victim of domestic abuse for leaving the house of her abuser?
What kind of cesspit is this Nairaland sef?

https://www.instagram.com/reel/DQ0RsXWCHC6/?igsh=MTAzZ3pzY2s4Z2hkeQ==

See how this man has started creating problems in his polygamous marriage, must he come out and tell everyone his third wife is the one making the marriage worthwhile? How will the other wives and children of other wives feel after seeing him openly favor one wife over the others?

Only evil and selfish men support polygamy, no sane man will want polygamy for his daughters but they want other people's daughters to go through it.

Kalulu44:
In as much I like your sympathy for them but to me I have no such. Majority of them are just gullible. I used to be a commercial driver and I have given so many of them lift both from my heart and from passengers. But most of them missused it.
You won't believe I once offered a babe among them that came to preach their nonsense to me a job and promised to be given her 2k everyday for her t.fare and feeding for a month till she get her first salary.
She declined saying Neolife will soon make her go to America.
Till date she's still trekking and emanciating in the hope of going to America by Neolife.
According to her she has spend over 300k of her personal money on Neolife.
The truth is majority of them has been hypnotized if I can put it that way

Would you have helped her for free without asking for sex in return? Just asking, no offense.

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Helpout12345:
Nobody forces or can force any woman to marry or stay in a marriage with this propaganda.

There's propaganda and there is reality. Anyone that's not stupid should be able to see reality.

This is one of them when you look around you. Divorced women with multiple children find it hard to date single men.

You can be emotional as you want to, but that doesn't change the reality.

It's same way women were using emotions to say men have same biological clock like women in the other thread. Reality in our lifes and surrounding says otherwise.

@bold, good. So we should discourage infidelity in husbands instead of threatening wives to stay with unfaithful husbands because it will be hard for them to date single men if they divorce.

I work in Healthcare and have seen and heard cases of men transmitting incurable diseases to their wives because of their sleeping around. This propaganda of trying to force women to forgive cheating husbands is nothing but pure evil.

If as a man you cannot masturbate your excess sex urges instead of cheating on your wife, then make sure you inform whoever you want to marry that you believe it's your right to cheat so she can know what kind of selfish bastard you are before marriage.

oz4real83:
Any woman that leaves her marriage because her husband cheated, not because of continuous violence, such a woman is the worst fool and has tendency for promiscuity. Cheating is wrong, but no matter what you think, it is always a man's world and cheating by a man is not enough to leave him especially when he is remorseful and apologises

Will you give your own daughter this kind of advice?

Kobojunkie:
Just imagine! Caregiver wife to his parents, and later on, hospice wife to OP as well. I can only imagine the kind of things that go through her head when she tries to reason her situation. Of course, that is assuming she can reasonably do so with 3 children; her mind may not even be able to fathom what she has done to herself.

The Op's entire writeup really pissed me off, and the worst part is that he will most likely cheat on her with other women because he didn't marry her for love.
I just pity his wife Sha.

cr7lomo:
Women for u.. .. a man will not do that...men are wired to help and take up responsibility.... this is why I don't agree with women gathering momentum in the workforce... women don't help to uplift, unlike men. U will see OBO, Don Jazzy , VDM ,Burna , Wizzy , Naira Marley and alot of men uplift others ...but Tiwa , Destiny Etiko and the rest of females will never do that... reason why u women are few in the industry..

Do you also wish this same thing for your female children?

Men and audacity sha
Imagine if a woman started a topic to say she only got married because she needed a husband to provide for her aged parents.

ExudeLoveToAll:
Woman divorce 80% of the time, men do tolerate way more than women else that 80% will be for the guys initiating divorce.

It's not in Nigeria that women divorce 80%.
Its in Western countries. In Nigeria, men don't tolerate more, they cheat more and brag openly about being naturally polygamous.

Women are also fed up, it's a problem of both genders.
That's because marriage is unnatural. It's against human nature.
Humans need variety and excitement to be happy and marriage to one person is opposite of that.

Thank God he mentioned that it happened more than 20 years ago.

Olamak1:
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