₦airaland Forum

PulaPower:
Says who..

Been to SA before. Stayed at Midrand then. A white dominated area!

There’s absolutely nothing special in SA. It’s just another country where you have to be paying every gaadamnnn bills monthly.

Nigeria is by far better!

with what you wrote up there, you’ve not been to SA before.

Na one of Una I talk about up there.

Nigeria is better than SA how?

RandDigital:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=S9qX0ShFH0w?si=SU-rhDETTUAVtHrT

The City of Johannesburg’s busiest road, Lilian Ngoyi Street, was finally reopened after two years of repairs.

One person died and 48 others were injured in the explosion when the major corridor, formerly known as Bree Street, was split in two by a massive gas explosion during peak hour traffic on 20 July 2023.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TFsezAtqolE?si=cVrGpLNqWGk2CxhA

Businesses and commuters were severely affected by missed deadlines, as the repair work took nearly 26 months to complete, which was double the initial deadline.

The newly reconstructed road, between Loveday Street and End Street, will be a one-way street travelling eastbound.

The road has been resurfaced with paving bricks, moving away from traditional tarred surfaces.

The JMPD said it appreciates the public’s cooperation and patience during the rehabilitation period and urged continued vigilance as everyone adjusts to the new road layout.

A working country. After, some riff raft will be comparing Nigeria to South Africa.

Islie:
https://dailytrust.com/flood-alert-11-states-may-experience-heavy-rain-this-week-fg/

And e fit no fall.

No accurate weather forecast.

Nothing works in Nigeria.

Islie:
https://dailytrust.com/tinubu-removed-subsidy-without-thinking-about-next-election-gbajabiamila/

Tinumbu cries every night for that goof he goofed on his first day in office after he robbed obi at gun point.

Who tell this nuisance that he is not regretting?

Efuaye:
Maybe they were in a hurry to get the circular out by all means.
However, it takes someone with high intelligence and an observant mind to pick out errors in such write-ups. That's why we have proofreaders.

It doesn’t take someone of high intelligence anything.

The errors were too glaring.

Comfyonos2019:
Is the man he is contesting against having 2 more terms to do.isnt it one term too and power will return to the north

The entity he is contesting against has one term, but he is not a human being.

The UFO has finished the country In his first two years.

Very heartless. He has to go .

RevenuesBoost:
Marriage Is Not for the Weak, Selfish, or Irresponsible Man

Let’s speak truth:

You can marry beauty.
You can marry loyalty.
You can marry a woman with a heart of gold.

But if you’re immature, emotionally lazy, or careless with her trust—
You didn’t marry a wife. You took advantage of a gift you weren’t ready to receive.

Because most marriages don’t fall apart from the outside—
They fall when the man inside the house stops showing up fully.


1. WEAK MEN AVOID HARD THINGS

A weak man shuts down in conflict.
Avoids tough conversations.
Runs from responsibility.

He calls her “emotional” when she just wants clarity.
He calls her “too much” when she just needs effort.

A real man leads with humility, not ego.
He doesn’t just provide—he protects emotionally, spiritually, and mentally.

If pressure makes you disappear, you’re not leading—you’re escaping.



2. SELFISH MEN DRAIN THEIR WIVES

Marriage is not a one-way street.

If you expect peace but bring chaos…
If you demand respect but give none…
If you want her to submit while you do nothing worth following—
You’re not a husband. You’re a tyrant in disguise.

A selfish man wants a servant, not a soulmate.
But a great man? He lifts, leads, and listens.

Marriage requires sacrifice. If you're not ready to give, don’t expect to receive.




3. IRRESPONSIBILITY KILLS SECURITY

A woman can handle tough seasons.
She can handle less money, long hours, even failure.

What she can’t handle is instability—
– Financial recklessness
– Broken promises
– No vision, no plan, no consistency

Her respect dies the moment she realizes she has to carry what you keep dropping.

Responsibility isn’t glamorous—but it’s godly.
If you can't be trusted with pressure, don’t ask her to follow your lead.




4. MARRIAGE REQUIRES CHARACTER—NOT JUST CHARM

Being good to her when things are easy is the bare minimum.

Real character shows when: – She’s struggling
– You’re frustrated
– Life gets hard

If your first instinct is to withdraw, blame, or cheat—
You're not ready to lead. You're not even ready to love.

Marriage isn’t about control. It’s about commitment.
And that takes more than a smooth tongue and good intentions.




Final Thought: Women Don’t Leave Because They’re Cold—They Leave Because They’re Exhausted

Fellas:
If you think love is maintenance-free,
If you treat submission like superiority,
If you demand loyalty but give instability—
You’re not ready for marriage.

Because a woman doesn’t need a perfect man.
She needs a consistent one.
One who protects, provides, and pursues—with humility and honor.

If leadership to you means dominance—not service—
You don’t want a wife.
You want a servant.

And that’s not marriage—it’s manipulation.



Marriage is for men—not boys in grown-up clothes.
Show up.
Take responsibility.
Lead in love.
And build something worth keeping.

Have a blessed day.



Note: This write-up focuses primarily on men. Check out my thread for the perspective on women.

https://www.nairaland.com/8516244/wwww-marriage-not-unteachable-combative

What is all these incoherent gibberish sef ?

Ontop woman matter?

A woman this, a woman that?

Na only them be the living thing God create ?

Kaliningrad:
https://nypost.com/wp-content/uploads/sites/2/2025/09/2025-trent-nelson-salt-lake-111105653_f9e918.jpg

@Collin Rugg posted;

This one looks like one of the mind -controlled slaves of the US government that they programm for jobs like these , and the countless school killings.

They are human robots that have their handlers and programmers and will obey any command from their programmer.

The handler didn’t program him to kill himself after executing the job.

Racoon:
Everyone Nigerian has the constitutional cover to live, associate and protest against injustice and oppression irrespective of his location.

The opposite can only happen if the constitution have allowed regionalism or the contraption have been disintegrated into sovereign entities. If that has not happened, then STFU.

Thats what they don’t know .

Always shouting go to your state.

Illiterates of the highest order.

iwaeda:
https://punchng.com/fg-to-decriminalise-attempted-suicide-in-december/

FG wants to be the one to kill you.

You can’t kill yourself.

Instead of them to tackle the problems they brought on the masses which are driving people to suicide.

ibedun:
Why did you have children in the first place? En? What do you need them for?

Been thinking about this too.

Broveens42:
https://easternleadexpress.ng/imo-govt-signs-mou-to-build-premium-waterfront-destination-at-nworie-others/?amp=1

Nothing in Nigeria can ever be world class.

Nigerian architects are not creative.

Ba only four-corner building dem sabi .

Augustus79:
With all these travels. Hope a meaningful memorandum will be reached in terns of economy developnent.

😃 If you like, hope against hope.

You better drop your expectations. Not even lowering it.

InfoGuru118:
https://news360ng.com/just-in-tinubu-holds-private-working-lunch-with-macron-in-paris-photo/

Which kind dead trouser Una president wear? 🤔

Gustavowhite:
https://punchng.com/osun-kingmakers-reject-move-to-dethrone-jailed-monarch/

What message are they passing to the younger one ?

That it is ok to be a criminal and a king?


Well, it seems it is embedded in some culture.

Talk about the builder of Lagos, the supreme leader , and now, this one.

[quote author= post=136754125]Hello[/quote]Yes? 😡

EponObi:
Shey na Tinubu cause this one too? Dubai banned Nigeria for years because Nigerians imported mumu cultism into their country; Buhari couldn't solve it.

After many State visits to the Emirate (of which many of you abused Tinubu and said he's wasting taxpayers money and that he went there to recharge), Dubai lifted the ban. Barely two years later, you lot proceeded to abuse the privilege; forcing the Emiratis to modify their regulations.

Now you can't travel there without your family and cannot stay in hotels below 5 stars. That is, henceforth, they only want family oriented and high value Nigerians in their country. The rest of you should stay back and continue crying over bag of rice and minimum wage. Nawa for una.

Must you lie on every thread?

UAE never lifted any restrictions. The FG lied and wanted to scam Nigerians with a new office for UAE visa application before they were caught.

It’s just the same way they lied about Japan 2-3 weeks ago.

[quote author= post=136753364]Source: https://dailypost.ng/2025/09/10/male-travellers-no-longer-eligible-qatar-announces-new-visa-policy-for-nigerians/[/quote]Wetin people Dey go find for that useless desert country?

Apart from the UAE, non of those desert countries look appealing to me as a tourist.

Nothing to do there.

Rubbish .

theredaddy:
With the rate Lagos is getting congested and sandfillings trend ... their is nothing govt can really, keep the drainages free

No matter the flooding in lagos give it 1hr max e go disappear ... Lagosians should just learn to be patient rush rush is not a must

One hour ?

Find another lie, abeg.

Glimpsetv:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BCMEJPQiIrk?si=5d2ZsrUqZ4DfSrUv

This na the Lagos wey one old cargo build 😆

Small rain o.

Na only to steal land and rename street dem sabi.

surgical:
we will soon find out if there is a right time
That was how they told us removal of subsidies is the panacea to all our problems it will help us save money that can be applied to important areas, we have seen the negative effects of that decision
They also told us flotation of naira/ devaluation will cure all the malaise, we've seen how devastating that action has been by accentuating the multidimensional poverty and hardship in the land
Now they've shifted their focus on taxation,
It is just unfortunate that it is the ordinary Nigerians that are bearing the brunt of this their ill thought, try and error policies
They've turned Nigerians into genuine pig for their ideas, learning on the job

😃😃 you think you are talking to a human being?

Save yourself the stress.

Please who knows a good mech or electrician that can reprogram my throttle position sensor with a diagnostic equipment?

My 07 Honda Accord have been going into limp mode, with codes related to the throttle position sensor .

I have replaced these sensor but the issue still persists.

I’ll appreciate any link.

Thank you.

LagosOrigin:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4Xs6T7_FRuc

This is what terrorists would do.. infact, it's a national embarrassment.

Aviation industry isn't oshodi motor Park where anything goes.

Wasiu ayinde marshal should be punished for this act of terrorism.

He was just displaying his agbero tendencies.

Na them be the builders of Lagos .

Nonsense human being .

Hexxah:
Good! This is applicable everywhere. I remember my first year working abroad. On filling my returns, I was informed that I was owing the tax regulatory body a lot of money cause they had tracked my extra revenue from my side hustles via my account activities. All Nigerians must pay their taxes. No more anyhowness

This one fit never go airport before, but he must support any criminal in power.

First year of working abroad indeed .

DiamondsAreFore:
https://thecondia.com/nigeria-targets-tax-leakages-vat/

To what end ??


Emilokan wants to be monitoring our transactions so he can steal from us.

What a criminal we have in power at the moment.