sloo1, i live in Oshodi and work in Amuwo Odofin.

MKO, tell me how else you want me to contact you (email?). I don't know much of herbs. I have not been a fan of herbal drugs, but i have heard people say they are good. So, i can give it a shot. Because of its unknown side effects, i want to get the best to treat me no that.

Years ago, i suffered from terrible illness that my personal doctor found very difficult to narrow down. About four years ago when i relocated to Lagos, my new doctor confirmed it was Staphylococcus. First, it came with slight feeling of internal burns at my joins. Later, stomach rumples, abdominal disorder, occasional feeling of sharp spikes on my balls, followed. The worst of it all is, some times my entire body will be on fire, aching as if i had some rough gravels circulating round my system. Even my eyeballs, my lungs, ears, head and foot were not spared. My lungs would feel so cold as if i had pneumonia even during the hot weather. I urinate often (about 2 to 3 times in the night) before the day breaks, yet my blood sugar level has been confirmed normal. By the time the waka-about inside by system is through with me, my body would be heating like a thermal plant. Sometimes, my urine will be as hot as boiling water. Lets i forget, my anus also scratched like hell especially after defecation.
When i met this doctor, he had me on a double-round treatment. After, the treatment i became well. Now, after like one year of the treatment, the problem has resurfaced with even more fierce symptoms. I don't know how that happened. Please, Nairalanders with similar experience, please share. Help me on how you handled this. It is killing me. Just recently, i went for fertility test, the result confirmed my sperm count is getting low and motility has also been affected. From what i feel, i am beginning to think this bacteria infection is already in my blood stream and may cause even more problems if i do not address it now. Should i continue with the medical treatment (i have lost interest in that) or should i go for herbs?. Thanks for your anticipated suggestions.

Thanks soulglo and bellong for your wonderful comments. I have actually told her how i felt about the attitude, but she wouldn't just stop. When we have misunderstanding, i always like us to sit down and talk about it. This is because i am someone that believes in communication as a conduit for managing relationship conflicts. But my wife-to-be does not believe in discussing it. Instead, she might even felt i am talking too much. OK, today i came back from a night work this morning and being too tired i went straight to bed (though not yet asleep). A neighbor knocked on our door to ask me for screw driver, but i wouldn't lift a muscle because i was too tired. He went to my wife washing outside who then proceeded to present the request to me. I managed to get up and gave the guy the tool. Then when i returned, i pleaded with my fiancee not to wake me up to answer peoples calls whenever i am resting from the night work of the previous day. This i told her disturbs my rest which i always want to have before hurrying out for another night duty. To my amazement, she screamed, telling me that i am being non responsive to the needs of people around me. I sat her down to let her know that even without me telling her, i expect her to help me ward off noise and disturbances when i am resting from the overnight job. But she couldn't even let me finish, and boom, off she walks out on me-AGAIN. I don't have any problem with human relations and i associate with others a lot. Any other day (that i am not on night shift) is an exception. I don't know how to always let her know how i feel about things without her misunderstanding the whole thing.

I was engaged to my fiancee some time May this year and we are seriously planning for our wedding next year. But ever since she joined me in Lagos three months ago, i have learn she enjoyed walking out on me each time we had an argument. For more than four times now, she did the same thing, even when i was trying to make some point clear. I am beginning to see this as a disrespect because it's really getting to my nerves. I have told her to stop doing that, but she wouldn't listen. I love her, but i don't think i can put up with this for long. Please, fellow nairalanders, i need your wise counsels on how to handle this.
Best regards