₦airaland Forum

jaymejate:
Wait abeg! I'm still looking for the gear oh

It's at the back of the steering.

Which again if not Benz?

doctorbabs:
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Read Bible said Give hard drink/Beer to those who are perishing, wine to those who are in anguish Proverb 31v6

Reasons why it isn't a sin to drink alcohol. I see.

The "perishing and anguish".

Read Bible said Give hard drink/Beer to those who are perishing, wine to those who are in anguish Proverb 31v4[/quote]I now know better!

Bolognese:
She died in Nigeria... Happen to Know her

Oh, I see.

I share your grief too.

Destined2win:
This is not good. Appendicitis surgeries is one of the commonest surgeries na

Sad one indeed, i pray God gives the family the fortitude to bear the void she left behind.

As Nigerians, we would have slaughter the doctor or hospital if she were to die in a Nigerian clinic. Didn't see anything like such.

sweetilicious:
Hers was ruptured.Its a dangerous stage with little survival.Thank God my sister survived hers when it happened to her.She was vomiting and had extreme pains.We wondered if it was becos it was her first pregnancy not until we ran test and got to find out it was ruptured appendicitis.Its not easy

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Thank God for her. That is the cause of the rupture please.

Destined2win:
This is not good. Appendicitis surgeries is one of the commonest surgeries na

Sad one indeed, i pray God gives the family the fortitude to bear the void she left behind.

As Nigerians, we would have slaughter the doctor or hospital if she were to die in a Nigerian clinic. Didn't see anything like such.

sarahade:
Please leave me alone. You have not proved anything this are just words from the Internet. Stop assuming being just doesn't have 50 meanings. It's a simple word stop adding 100 to it.

Leave you alone? Is anyone holding you in the first instance, hope you know holding you is worse to holding a red hot coal? Huh.

Internet words indeed, 500 meanings for the word "just" in the ayat (Quran) or in the dictionary I guess, now you nailed it, there is no need to continue educating ourselves on this subject anymore going by these your assertions.

WA Salam alaykum waramahtuhllah wabarakatuh.

Lanretoye:
pole wey light no dey since 7months ago,my gf sikira will do that without hand gloves and ladder.

Safety first. Let me advice you and your so called Sikira that life no get duplicate

sarahade:
Prove that it is not.
Please stop quoting me. no be by force to stay in a polygamous relationship. I disagree with your opinion sheekenah.
Go and sleep

The proofs you requested for are in the books of tafsir, tafsir ibn katheer is in English if the Arabic could be a little difficult to understand

See, I am not here to argue for or against polygamy, everyone with his/her cross and if you must know, this is my 11th year in wedlock as a monogamist, who is contented with my darling, lovable wife. I am more concerned with screwed interpretations of Allah 's ayat by proponents of polygamy and those who do not. Read my earlier posts in this subject and I don't dabble into frivolities.

If as sincere Muslims, whether in favour or not, that is ones cup of tea, just don't misinterprete ayat with your wishful thinking or thoughts, this is what ahlul kitab do that made them to perpetually sink into manifest error and disbelief.

If we must talk, talk from the cup of knowledge, not from "skyscraper", better, silence is adorable. It is not about how fast our fingers are on the pad or how many likes we get from our numerous online friends whether they understand the subject or not.

Quoting you is germaine to discussions like this because everyone will account for all his/her deeds in the day of accountability, whether those deeds are oral or through actions. Our mouths, hands, eyes, ears etc will all give account. To avoid being quoted, decorum is as well important, tell us succinctly what the Quran, hadiths, tafsir or the ijma of rightly guided scholars say and interpretations.

Thanks for your candid advice to go to bed, in fact, I have done that and already awake before reading it.

Salam alaykum waramahtuhllah.

sarahade:
What is being just if not to love us equally. And I know that a man that one woman cannot satisfy 100 will never satisfy him they will still have gfs because the problem is not with the woman but the man.

Oh ho, there you go. Please, which scholarly explanation, tafsir, ayat(s) gave the word "just" to connote loving equally? Your answer could put all these fireworks to rest Masha Allah.

Frolic:
I can't understand a damn thing from this post young lady. Can you pls drink coffee, calm down, then try to come again?

As a man, you should have known there is more to these knee jack reactions.

Am just mildly surprise though.

The fireworks are not normal.

Ridwan66:
As-salaamu aleiki my sister in islam, I see no reason why you should divorce your husband because as a muslim, no one is promised 100% smooth life and this is part of those tests that would come our ways. Remember that getting married to as many as four wives by muslim is his religious obligation or are you trying to say that you can allow your husband to be having extra marital affairs rather than bringing her home provided his pocket supports it.
According to an authentic hadith, women are the majority inhabitants of hell fire not for a reason but jealousy like this is one of the many criteria and also remember that the most detested halal in the presence of Allah(swt) is divorce.
I hereby employ you to exercise patience because you never can tell what you may encounter in another man's house, probably a matrimonial house.

With all humility, women are more in hell, not because of jealousy, it is because they are more ungrateful to their spouse. Point of correction.

Please, I won't support appealing to any lady who want to divorce her husband because of polygamy, please let them be oo, it's a free world, the husband should also move on and Allah will Masha Allah provide both of them with more everlasting succour, when we get there, we shall all give account for our deeds.

Pierocash:
So the foreign base ones are not Nigerians,they dnt lie? most of the foreign based ones also started frm local league so i dnt see any logic in his submission

I just tire for the guy jare, mumu dey worry the man small. Rohr abi na Roar, which among the best 23 you select always has his real age apart from say Moses or Leon Balogun?

Even your own age sef dey questionable with what you have just opinionated.

To respected brothers and sisters, polygamy should not be a curse to this ummah rather, it should be a blessing in all front.

Alas, we have mostly made it to be the reverse because of our ways. Example, a polygamous home. There are no department of life without its challenges, surmounting such challenge should be what we should always aim at bihiznillah.

To the abuhs who intend to be polygamous, please ensure you are capable of being polygamous and don't transgress your boundaries, respect your wives the way they should be respected and be gentle towards them. Discern the feminist and their religion of waywardness so that you won't fall into errors. Polygamy isn't a fardh, don't make it one, educate and discuss with your wives if you have to take a new wife, lubricate her ego and make her feel calm. Being fiat is inviting chaos, protect your homes with wisdom, understanding and gentleness but not a dummy like most ladies want.

To the ummus, know your rights as enshrined in the Sharia and don't allow yourself to be shortchanged for vain desires, be respectful to your husbands and exercise restrain, so that you can be guided and be righteous before your Lord. Eschew bitterness amongst yourselves and always do to others what you want done to you.

Don't make halal what Allah made Haram and vice versa so that we won't all fall into errors and we must all ensure we are always on the path of rectitude in all our affairs.

Lastly, Allah says, ﻭَﻣَﺎ ﻛَﺎﻥَ ﻟِﻤُﺆْﻣِﻦٍ ﻭَﻻَ ﻣُﺆْﻣِﻨَﺔٍ ﺇِﺫَا ﻗَﻀَﻰ ٱﻟﻠَّﻪُ ﻭَﺭَﺳُﻮﻟُﻪُۥٓ ﺃَﻣْﺮًا ﺃَﻥ ﻳَﻜُﻮﻥَ ﻟَﻬُﻢُ ٱﻟْﺨِﻴَﺮَﺓُ ﻣِﻦْ ﺃَﻣْﺮِﻫِﻢْ ۗ ﻭَﻣَﻦ ﻳَﻌْﺺِ ٱﻟﻠَّﻪَ ﻭَﺭَﺳُﻮﻟَﻪُۥ ﻓَﻘَﺪْ ﺿَﻞَّ ﺿَﻠَٰﻼً ﻣُّﺒِﻴﻨً.

36. It is not fitting for a Believer, man or woman, when a matter has been decided by Allah and His Messenger to have any option about their decision: if any one disobeys Allah and His Messenger, he is indeed on a clearly wrong Path.

tintingz:
Lol, what's divine in relationship?

People have been into relationship even before religion came. I will say harmony should be the first before family because without harmony there can't be family in the first place in the society.

A family can exist without marriage, marriage was design to make relationship look legal.

That's culture which is irrational, marriage, husband, wife does not make someone respectable, it is just fallacy, Oprah Winfrey is not married, she only has a boyfriend and she's respected round the world.
People can be married and not be respected, respect comes from your character not marriage, our lifes does not ends in marriage.

African and religious women have been programmed by patriarch dominant men to believe they can't be respected without a husband, it is now a syndrome to many African and religious ladies now, you will see them desperate to marry a man as if their life ends there.

However, to pick interest in few of your points that interest me and require clarifications.

Depending on your idiosyncrasy, whether from science, humanity or what have you, which to muslims are all subset of religion, because in Islam, religion isn't just about worship, it's an entirety, even minutest things you can think of is not left untaught, talk of healthcare, inventions, science, technology and what have you.

The world divine relationship I mentioned doesn't mean religion in totality, it is even more of common sense to an agnostic, unless you are an adherent of "freedom" for males to marry themselves or man and dog can cohabit as husband and wife or maybe you are saying God made an error by creating Adam and Eve as a pair and not Adam and Abraham as we are suppose to believe by "civilization.

Well, am African and proud of being one, you can afford to be European even though you might not naturally be one, it's a choice. As for Africans, it's an hallmark of respect whether you accept it or not, to the Europeans being whatever is their issue. Oprah respected round the world, okay, Oprah you are well respected, that I was told.

Marriage not being a culture in the west isn't a culture to westerners....whether inferiority or superiority complex, time will tell. Anything, African is cultural while any European hogwash is a norm and globally acceptable standard.

seguno2:
Where did he say that here?
Does that justify the ex-convict being given a chieftaincy title?
Who did this to you?

Worst still, the cure to his....was long thrown to the river between Asaba and onitsha, irredeemable.

Zeinymira:
It was funny and I laughed, big deal?

Sure, you are right about the last part
@sarahade, if you are not married yet then as a Muslim woman you have a right to a marriage contract and you can include it there that you don't want him to marry another wife. It's valid. It's permissible. If he's cool with it then he will sign it.

Now you have helped in your little way.

Alhamdullilah and many thanks.

Eno38151:
Guy, what you said is just so stupid on all levels,

1st of all islam is guidance from Allah (the creator of everything) the most knowing so it is not up for debate by even the Muslim not to talk of the faithless like you.

You may feel intellectual by saying you own a set of books, SO WHAT?? What do you think you know, yoi think the other people here dont understand philosophy or your false claim of adherence to the scientific approach,

Islam is above any consideration, so you can take your faithless carcass and join other people that share in your delirium.

And for anybody to post on this page they must state that they are muslims​, as you said you are "above religion" why are you here

If I were you, I would have engaged in more rewarding venture. Where do you want to start from now.....lol. Being delusional is not what you correct spot on, it involves many resources and such resources could better be utilized to less delusional goyims.

A word is more than enough for the wise brother.

sarahade:
My brother don't you ever question another faith because they have a different opinion.
The prophet never mmade it a command to marry more than one but permissible under a condition be just.
But who can be just sir not even with your children so be careful to stop twisting the prophets words.

Permit me to ask you what you understood by being just by the ayat? The ayat I meant.

sarahade:
Na you carry wahala come.

Can't help but smile at this comment. But, remember no one drags with his/her Robb. That was least expected no matter the circumstances.

I seek refuge in Allah.

Billyonaire:
Your words confused you, Yes, I mean no mistake. Your statements confuse you. I am not religious. I am a full human being with knowledge of all the religions in this world. I own the Koran, I own the Bible, I own the Sharia-Ki Sugmad, I own the Gospel of Barnabas and many other books belong to Buddhism, Sikkism, Taosm, Hinduism and I have plenty of Science journals on Quantum Dynamics, Digital Physics, Biogenesis, Astrophysics, Astrology, etc.

I had to tell you this, so you can have a brief overview of the Mind that you are interacting with. I am a sane Human Being without the extremism that comes with Masculinity.

I am Soul with a body and you are Soul with a body and we are Spirit at our core. The fact that Soul is birthed into Planet Earth to experience Life and return to source, and soul made choice to be female or male does not mean Female are less humans that must be controlled by men using the instrumentation of Religion.

What locus standi does a man have, to with the instrumentation of ETs institute a religion to control 4 women and impregnate them and send them out on the streets to suffer with kids begging for alms, while a man glorifies himself with his masculine hormones to have sexual intercourse at will and wish while the female entities remain like slaves.

You can choose to hide under the dogma of religion, but as a core Scientist who knows the Origin of Earth and the manipulations of the overlords, I stand against all forms of slavery, including slavery in the name of religions, be it Christianity, Islam, Buddhism etc.

I am above all religions, and I am not bound by the lower earth entities because I know what I am, and I know what you are. Do not allow your Ego to make slavery out of women. I am not interested in your preaching about control of promiscuity, because it is hypocritical to marry 4 wives and expect women to manage your dilapidated dicks because you call yourself a Man. It is idiocy and it is why Islam breed terrorism more than every other religion. Do not defend a religion you did not invent, and do not attack me for Allah. Let Allah fight for himself.

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Now I understand you sir. There is no need to waste precious time.

sarahade:
Please don't ever quote me in your life.
Women take note of the bullying into keeping quite. Only men will attack me from saying the truth no one can be just.
Mtcheeeeew

Aunty can you be calm please. It shouldn't go this far.

Never get angry, laa tagdab, don't be angry no matter the circumstance.

Zeinymira:
Lol @killing both of them...

That was a weighty statement to make, doesn't really call for a laughter.

We should always help ourselves to do good by encouraging and help ourselves by stopping each from aggression.

WA llahu Alan.

Billyonaire:
Religion is not the basis of marriage. Supremacy of religion above love is a disaster. If you have no love for your husband any longer, then by all means, pack your bag and move out. If Islam permits a man to marry 4 wives, then wives should be permitted to have 4 husbands.

Religion should not be an instrument of bias and inequality. Times have changed. Religion shouldnt be an instrument of Masculine control.

Funny some folks will smile and give a million likes for comments like this. No issue, it's a free world brother.

However, luckily for us, our religion has no revised version, it's a divine set of constitution where you are duty bound to practice as laid down or chill out if you are not in sync with. As Islam permits men to marry four, women can as well marry 20 as you are trying to suggest, sure they can, just like we are currently seeing, at least through jumping from one man to another in the guise of partners, girl friends and boyfriends, but not under the umbrella of Islam. This is democrazy, just do as you wish, but we are not for that if you must know again.

daretodiffer:
There is respect for women without husband. Women are people not a thing.

Just because the foundation of a good society has been bastardized, reasons why everyone wants to claim voltron, no issues.

What is the foundation of a good society ?- family and what makes a family- marriage, we are not talking about gays or lesbians, we are talking about divine relationships, between a men and women.

There isn't respect for both man and woman who are of marriageable ages and means and chose not to for circumstances they caused. It's cultural to say there is no respect for a woman who chose not to marry. WA llahu Alan.

Rashduct4luv:
But the attitude towards the Hadith of Fragrance is not ok. May Allah forgive us all.

With all humility, I think she understood the meaning of the fragrance to just "fragrance" or smell, dennotative meaning.

May Allah embellish us all with better understanding of His words and forgive us all.

sarrki:
Fayose that is why the younger generation can never take you serious

You will never be respected as a leader by younger generation of Omoluabi


You are a total disgrace to the omoluabis

Common, why this gibberish, Yorubas are sophisticated people, respect is a universal set, while integrity, being incorruptible are union set. Fayoshit was right on obj jooh.

Korrection:
These guys dey play with us sha

Are you just knowing?

Mouthgag:
Stupîd people

I'm not in support of them but EFE WON'T WIN THE SHOW....



Quote me anywhere.

Bbn is not a charity program nor a poverty alleviation scheme.

I guess she'd have supported him if it was her two daughters the idîot had 3some with



Wasted generation.

Wasted generation is an understatement including the married woman with 10, chai a mother of 10 rooting for nonsense. What has happened to us?

Thank God I am not part of the low life watching what isn't beneficial, better to even sleep than watch.

midehi2:
what is he saying

Just helping with the simple arithmetic if the age she got married matters.

Sarcasm!

midehi2:
exactly my question, shes young

She got married at the age of 28 or 30, the most common age most I wannabe ladies marry these days. This is like after about 13boyfriends,1 boyfriend per year, since most of them started at age 15 with 5abortions to their CVs.