₦airaland Forum

instigating and inciting violence against an entire tribe, or tribes?? that is tantamount to treasonable felony. NNAMDI KANU deserves to be in jail.

osazeeblue01:
We need peace. Nigeria should please release KANU.

kpele abeg no kill person ooo. Sorry oo

Kastonkastroll:
Dey no born dem well I swear down. Imagine these ipob touts threatening the Indian police in their own country...

What nonsense. My blood don dey even boil. I wan fight

if you remember, boko haram was only killing Christians when they first started. And they were all happy. that's why the northern leaders didn't speak against the sect. But then the issue degenerated and they started killing their fellow Muslims... How tables turn..

amjoseph19:
An igbo adage says "Talking without seeing kills a child and not saying what you saw kills an elder".
Boko haram is what it is today is because of the Northern Elders, Initially they saw it as a window to bring GEJ tenure to ground, they saw it as a perfectly opportunity to soil the name of GEJ not knowing karma is a bitc.h.
At first, if they had openly denounce boko haram, if they had openly condemned this blood sucking sect, boko haram wouldn't grown to this extend. They were all also the news calling on GEJ head. Our incumbent president once said asked the then administration to stop killing their innocent boko haram, he even went ahead to generalised it, that an attack on this blood sucking demon is an attack on the North. They thought that boko haram is GEJ problem. They didn't see it as their problem.
For Boko haram to be a thing of the past, they have to be a grass root battle.. They have to be change in ideology. They people from the north have to see boko haram as a major problem, they have to see boko haram members as their enemy not as a family member nor as a coursemate. If such is not done, I bet you kill one boko haram member, 2 will join them.
May God grant us peace.

What do you mean by "90 percent women are guilty of emotional affairs"??

lezz:
I do not advocate cheating in marriage from either partners.

But when it does happen , if it ever does, it serves no purpose running for the exit door. What's the point?

The balance of a home is always in the hands of the woman as is the power to rail her straying husband in.


And yes, women should be meek, it is their only undisputed strength.


90 % of women are guilty of emotional affairs as men are guilty of physical affairs.

Are we advocating mass divorce ?

Hahahahahaha....

shaboti:
God punish you where ever you are. Keep your stùpid advice to your sisters and daughters only.

GOAT

One bottle of shawarma for you

babygirlfl:
I have no problem with women who decide to stay with a cheating husband. It's her choice. What I have a problem with is when people try to make women feel that they all have to stay with a cheating man. When people make such women an example for all women to follow. Also it is very annoying the way everybody thinks they are in the position to give married women advice. Men quit advising women and start advising yourselves. Start telling your fellow men to save their marriage by not cheating or better still, give them manual on how to act maturely and keep a cheating wife.

Olosho?? Seriously?? Have you or your brothers, friends, nephews and neighbours slept with her? Be sensible. The whose education you debunk sounds way more educated and enlightened than you. You don't go calling women whores for airing their views which are right.

rainyday:
Olosho...u still dey talk!!! Ur parents just wasted their money sending u to higher institution, u for go learn saloon work. Block head. U never jam, quote me again. Na ur type no dey fit talk for husband house. Karuwa

You should have said this long ago, other than trailing someone who was probably right. Why did you have to wait so long to be "frank"?

rapmike:
OP, to be frank to you, its seems like you are trying to water down adultery by asserting that women should be patient with cheating men but you know that men cannot be patient with cheating women.

I can assure if it was the other way round, your uncle is most likely to divorce her, probably with some beating too. To me infidelity in both sides is not acceptable or justifiable. You just alluded that Men are goats( goats are the best example of such behavior around here).

That said, its true that Patience and Forgiveness is needed in marriage. Patience in deciding what to do next and forgiveness is also needed.

Go back and read her post again... You will find that dearestaramide gave the first insult. Daretodiffer was very right. She gave her opinion which is very very correct. What's wrong with airing your views, since when did that become a crime in an open faceless forum?

Men (nigerian men) have a lot to learn but they don't know. When God thou shall not commit adultery, did he say only the men were to cheat?? NO!! Many Nigerian men really feel its their birthright to cheat and even feel their wives should be priviledged to have them. That's Sad. Mind you, not every woman is sad, depressed, and bla bla bla. No!! A man cheats and you're advising the woman to handle it "maturely and learn", learn what exactly?? Answer this honest question.. CAN YOU ADVICE MEN THE SAME?? As you advice women to be mature about it, kindly advice men to do the same. That way we would have a saner society.

I've lived with whites for years and can tell you they're different. They respect their wives and are apologetic and beg their wives when they cheat. But No, most nigerian men wiould even beat you when they are the ones that cheated. Respect is reciprocal.

arabianights:
I have gone over the op\s write up several times and read in between the lines.how many women do you feel are living with cheating ,lying bastards?If every one was to walk out based on that then trust me,state of emergency on marriage would have been declared.

you and i both know that a very high percentage of marriages have a cheating partner much as the writter did not analyse,YOU MY FRIEND HAD NO RIGHT TO INSULT HIM.


you have gone ahead to prove to the whole world as the op stated, that you are ill mannered and frustrated and possibly depressed and of course very unhappy.JUST VIEW YOUR CHOICE OF WORDS<ABEG! for goodness sake ,if you wont repect your self then please respect we other readers.[/b]

God bless you abundantly, we need more minds like yours in Nigeria. A man cheats and they are asking the lady to "learn". Learn what?? We should be advising the men not to cheat than blaming the women for not handling their husband's cheating "maturely". African mentality is sour.

daretodiffer:
I find the title and your post really insulting to women. You used the words 'mature and learn'. Do you assume that we are stupid or what? I do not understand what you are trying to achieve?

Did you try asking your aunty if she had any toasters and admirers after marriage? Ask her what stopped her? She is going to tell that she did and it was respect for her husband and their marriage that stopped her. But her husband does not the same respect for her and their marriage yet you will come tomorrow and insult a woman who cheats on her husband. Some men think that it is their birthright to cheat and he does not need to have respect for women. He goes ahead to do so and the world expects the woman to maturely deal with him. Yet you won't stop calling us petty or gold-diggers or less intelligent beings, How can you expect a specie with all that characteristics to be wiser and more mature than you are?


Why should women be wiser and more matured than man? I thought you were supposed to be the leader and the smarter one . Don't you think that the lack of those qualities make it unfit to be in a relationship not to mention lead a family?

The happy ending your uncle told you about rarely happen. You need to be mature to be able to learn that it is just a case out of many.


Moral of my rant:
Don't dish what you can take.
Respect is reciprocal
Every action has its unforeseen consequences

These apply to males and females. Treat people, most especially your partner the way you want to be treated. If they don't mind you treating them like garbage then good for you.

Wow!!! Thank GOD

NICOGRAVITY:
It's not a crime to be RICH and very WEALTHY. I come from a very very very very poor background, but today, my life is being transformed. First I believed it's possible, secondly I acquired education by self sponsoring myself through University, Third, I took up any job I could do whilst am waiting for the better one's to come. TO GOD BE ALL THE GLORY.
You are what you want to be, fight for it, work hard, don't give up, choose your friends wisely, invest early enough, don't self destroy yourself, remain humbly.
Finally, be a good friend With Jesus Christ, for with God nothing shall be impossible.
I'm a living testimony of God's awesome transformation. Amen.

The world has gone sour... But a million dollars Wow

The fear of Vladimir Putin is the beginning of wisdom. Fear the Russians, fear them.

Lmao.... Prayer of the century.

And compared to dangote, he's broke

Demmocrats:
Have you ever seen dangote do.such advert

Don jazzy is becoming stupid

Wow! Happy for them

Lazy Nigerians. Work for your money. How long do we wish and pray for oil prices to rise again?? We didn't utilise that opportunity, that era is gone.

Now is the time to local production and export and decreasing importation... But then, we are too clueless to diversify our economy. Shame!!!

Good!

And so many people still won't believe in the power of GOD. To all the atheists, GOD exists and your perception of him doesn't change that fact.

Jesus Christ the same yesterday, today and forever.

Sick fvckers... You people are the problem with the world. What stup!d google?? Lmao, the mentally deranged Nnamdi Kanu will tell you that the U.S.A is igbo land one day and y'all will believe.

My state now belongs to the igbos.... You need a brain transplant.

NOBLEDANDY:
I will advise to use Google, bc am not in a better position to answer such silly questions... OK.

And some morons will be ranting APC/PDP, Biafra/Oodua nonsense when other nations are moving forward...

Let's wake up, are the whites not humans like us. They don't have anything compared to us in terms of mineral resources, yet were light years behind civilisation. We have failed God.

See your head.... Funny you

Your first paragraph says it all....

wheredemdey:
All these poor boastful boys that flaunt tokunboh cars and semi detached duplexes on 300sqmeters land have all gone awol since Linda posted her banana island mansion on social media....


That's class....i hv absolutely no iota of respect for all these celebrities....they are al struggling boys and girls...heck we might even be richer than most of them

This liar liar...choke on a d11ck....ur post is irrelevant....you lost our respect the moment you lied about losing ur mirage iphone6

Loser and his silllly diva song...go get a job and a life succker

Why can't they just go to Syria and do this??

When bushmeat cathes the hunter

This picture is graphic... Why didn't they add"graphic" to the caption??

Wow!

If you know your boundaries why add cross rivers, akwa ibom, bayelsa, delta, rivers state to your biafra?

This is why africa isn't moving forward. What's your business with a name someone chooses to be called?

vision2022:
Why people from Rivers State, Bayelsa and some part of SS are enslaving themselves with Whitemans name like GIDADO BRIGGS; GOODLUCK JONATHAN; EDWIN CLARK to mention but a few. does it mean they dnt have identity of their own?

I would discard anything that incites violence or commands me to kill people of other faith.... Unfortunately, christian isn't.

Martins301:
Thanks. We need more like this. BTW will u discard christianity if u were told 2 do so 2 make IGR grow in ur state?

Stay on your lane pls...

crestedguy:
Why are u wailing,i wonder how another person dey get headache and u are the one using pain killers