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You're simply a product of the failed educational system. It's not your fault.

Speak with facts of shut the fvck up and go read a book.

The fact remains that men are more populous than Nigerian and in the world at large and as such there is a higher number of unmarried men than women.

PythonAmaka:
With present wars as was centuries ago, there was a growing population of windows among women as men were prevailed to take them as wives. Less was expected of women than bear his name and bear him a child. Although, education has enabled her share a sense of belonging with him quite much.

Higher population of women still hasn't explained the fact that the more the number that are married off to men yearly, the more the number of unmarried ladies increases.


-python amaka

You're a wise man.

Jiang:
Wow.....you will be a terrible husband, am absolutely sure you will divorce ur wife & get a sassy looking girl immediately ur wife gets older.

If a woman is good enough to be my wife, mother of my kids, STAYED with me from when I dey manage, when I blow she will always be by my side even if shes an illiterate & even shes sick NO WOMAN will replace her. I rather govern without first lady than bring one gold digger to rip where she did not sow

Wise words from you? Lmao. That is "future impossible tense". It's like fetching water with a basket.

You can't give what you don't have my dear.

isthatso:
My dear you keep abusing me then you will come back to be engaging me trying to get some wise words from me.

A man knows when a woman is below his level, if she stays with him while he is struggling deep down he knows he is managing her, even if he tries to stay loyal, once his eyes clear and he has gotten over the slump, he will now look at his woman and realise that he can do better and the rest is history. even if he stays loyal to her he will acquire a mistress

Another thrash.

All over the world , men are tasked with doing the most risky jobs. Male soldiers go to war and lots die in the process. Men work in mines and when casualties happen expect no women to die. Men are the electricians and builders and climb tall scaffolds when working. Little errors could often cost their lives. There are mostly male armed robbers. Lots of men are acoholics who damage their kidneys with excessive drinking and die later. Men work with heavy equipment in factories and some machine malfunctions can be harzardous and cost their lives.

These are few of the proven reasons men die way earlier than women. Stop saying nonsense on this thread.

isthatso:
Fear Nigerian women and save your life, women become stress one they get married and they turn into monsters the older they get. Once you marry and have children their interest in you is only in your ability to provide for the children. basically no one is looking out for you, so the stress eventually kills you.

Nobody is forcing you to marry so please us the sermon. The bolded is another jargon.

Northern women don't leave polygamous marriages even if they're married to gatemen or other "abokis" so the notion that she stayed because of money holds no water.

My dad's ex-worker is a northerner from bauchi. He has 4 wives presently despite his economic situation none has left him so say something else.

isthatso:
Why would I want to marry?

Nigerian women are 2 a penny, greed, insecurity and materialism are your downfall. if you are a success you can have 4 women and they will all know about each other and none of them will go anywhere because no one wants to miss out on the jollof. I dont need a wife to have children and I want to live long to enjoy the fruits of my labour so why would I marry and let 1 woman kill me before my time?


The wife of the governor elect, did you hear she packed out? If he was a poor man she would walk out, but Nigerian woman cannot leave money no matter how much she has already..FACT!!!

And you know the second wife will not have other sexmates how?

Amanda4life:
I will prefer my husband to marry another wife than having a thousand and one sex mates

I pity any woman who'd have the misfortune of marrying you. Shameless!!!

isthatso:
because they always kill their husbands with stress and nagging. Men with sense carry a side chick.

Thrash! But thanks for telling us you will die before your time. [s]

isthatso:
My dear, I can already see from the tone of your posts, you are the kind of woman that either doesnt find a husband or gets dumped or your husband finds a mistress or your husband becomes a drunk, spends all his time in a beer parlour/bar because he wants to come home as late as possible in order not to deal with your stress. It is obvious a man married to you is destined to have a mistress otherwise he will die before his time.

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Can you speak with actual facts? You keep making these unfounded claims and it's quite suprising.

Please when you take stats of these sidechicks to know they're more in number than single men?

Do you know that the last census showed that there are more men than women in the world?

Go to any hospital and check the sex ratio of births. You will find out for every 100 female birthday there are at least 103 to 106 male births. This is almost consistent throughout the entire world not just in Nigeria.

So since there are more men in Nigeria than women how can there be more sidechicks than single men?

Chaiii, you're just making a monkery of yourself with all these fvckery.

isthatso:
Polygamy isnt for everyone but you only have to look at the number of single women in Nigeria who are side chicks and mistresses to know that, there is no one size fits all. People should be able to do what works for them. Most of the single women are mistresses and side chicks anyway to married men so who is fooling who?

Like i said, "if you want" i.e if you can handle it

Not sure if you know you're just beating around the bush.

Dude, struggling is struggling. Wether above your level or beneath your level. struggling is the keyword here and any man who can be ungrateful and discard a woman who struggled with him is a demon. There are lots of women who were "above" their men and helped them financially only to be discarded like a used toilet paper. If you don't see a problem with that then I just pity you.

isthatso:
you spent all you time abusing, you didnt get the point. it's not about struggling or not struggling. it's about who you struggle with. As a woman never marry a struggling man or struggle with a man who is above your level. You know in your heart when someone is above your level, even if in the short term he is struggling. Many wives of successful men today struggled with their husbands and their husbands dont mess with them.

We have heard stories of how uneducated men put their girlfriends through school and at the end the girls leave them for being "uneducated".

Question: Are those girls morally right for doing so?

Banter1:
what if the first wife is not educated?

There's never a shortage of stupid people on NL.

Lmao

PythonAmaka:
Was the first wife reportedly divorced from him?
Is she being denied her matrimonial and conjugal rights?
So, what's your stress?


-python amaka

Such mediocre words could emanate from a dark soul.

Regarding the insult, hey don't think I don't know you insulted me "subtly" in your other reply to me. So before pointing fingers learn to take your own advice.

In the real world people murder people everyday. Rape, assignations, beheadings, theft, armed robberies happen every day. Does that make these vices right? You are proof that common sense is truly not common.

Your last statement is your portion.

isthatso:
my friend, educated and enlightened people offer arguments for or against a point of view. You started out by abusing me, nonetheless I indulged you by responding. Every post you have abused, if the argument was about who can abuse the most, you would win but that is not the real world.

In the real world you can love your wife all you like, if you are not pulling your weight and she is capable of finding better she might leave you and nobody will blame her, similarly if your wife cannot fit in with your success, even if he doesnt dump you he will find a mistress.

Keep on abusing while another woman is enjoying your husbands success you helped to create.

If men are entitled to more than one wife can you tell us why the 2003 census showed that men were more populated in Nigeria than women? And can you tell us why the global population statistics show that me are more populated in the world than women?

Going by your "men are polygamous in nature" logic and how men are entitled to 2,3 women etc, If that were even remotely true shouldn't be at 14billion women and 7billion men?

Lmao

PythonAmaka:
Snakes are much more fearsome. Snakes have multiple sex partners with no emotion attached and could kill its female lover a second after sex while move on to the next.

Evidently, women hate competition. But quite fairly, every man is entitled to more than one wife. It is most likely and very often circumstantial seeing a man tied to a woman all his life.
More effectively, Okafor's law naturally activated.


-python amaka

You really have zero oligodendrocytes and Schwann cells in that empty skull of yours?

For God's fvcking sake is this about polygamy? This is about a man putting a new wife ahead of the woman of his youth just at the time and totally neglecting his first wife and you come here to spill this thrash?

If the man simply married another wife (which is not a problem since they're both Muslims) , but made his first wife who (probably has been with him through his trials and tribulations) the first lady then it would not make headlines.

Infact let me not waste my time further, not everyone has brain cells to comprehend simple things.

isthatso:
isnt it ironic that the same western world that forced Africans who are naturally polygamous to marry one wife (forcing many African women become mistresses and side chicks) are the same people now trying to force us into accepting same sex marraige.

Think about this, you cant marry 2 wives but a man can marry a man..go figure!!!

Forget about foreigners, you are an African, if you want marry 10 wives

I'm telling you. I pity anyone who wants to suffer with any Nigerian man. The odds are against such woman.

yettymuse:
Suffer with any man at your own peril!!!!

You must also have adequate brain matter to be able to understand that it takes a rational human being to not be a ungrateful asshole.

isthatso:
you must have sense to recognize sense

Still senseless. Sorry

isthatso:
Women dump men for better all the time, men dump women for better. if you dont want to be dumped upgrade yourself, make yourself indispensable and undumpable....as a man or woman!!

You can abuse me all you like but's it's a fact!!

So? Africans truly have very black, ungrateful hearts.

Sleevia:
May be she is an illitrate.

You must be very stupid. Just hear yourself. So someone is good to suffer with you but not good enough to reap the harvest with you?

Let's flip the table. If this was a woman who left her husband to marry a "governor-elect" what would your reaction be? Let me guess , you'll call her a hoe and a gold digger?

You are truly demented with no one to tell you.

isthatso:
Some women are not programmed for the big time, they become a liability. Just look at Patience!

Not every woman who struggles with you is good for you when you succeed. Painful but true!!

If you have lofty ambitions in life, struggle with a woman that will also be good for you when you succeed.

This idea that Nigerian women struggle with men is BS, women struggle with you because they see your potential, not because they are doing you a favour. If a woman see that you are going nowhere AND she can do better, she will dump you like a bad habit.

God does not bless false prophets. Infact it is written that they will face a harsher punishment than the average person.....in hell of course.

Nukilia:
God bless the Pope! We embrace criminals in the form of politicians and business men and cast a stone at other sinners...

And who told you Christianity supports homosexuality? That a pope "may" support such doesn't mean it's allowed in Christianity. There are tons of verses condemning it.

MillerJnr:
Don't use the word "religion" say "Christianity"because I have never seen where Islam supports gay, cuz if it's the other way round you would have used the word "islam". let's not twist.

Go and read I Corinthians 5:12 - 13. Also read Titus 1:9 - 16 ( especially verse 13).

In one of the above verses it even talks about excommunicating wicked people from among the brethren. In another it talks about "judging" fellow brethren.

That do not judge verse is the most abused verse in Christianity. Anyone can keep living in their sin with the "do not judge" excuse. Crap!

There i

magicminister:
I used to be extremely Harley towards gay but as I matured spiritually, I began to understand that God gave us the mandate to love everyone as he loves the church. Same bible also asked us not to judge.

I am still not a fan of homosexuals but no one is perfect and i Can’t judge.

Did the pope reject homosexuality? The pope has always been sympathetic to depravity and has never condemned homosexuality even though he's had numerous chances to do so publicly.

HigherEd:
He is right. Reject homosexuality not the homosexual.

Pope has said worse so what's not to believe here?

obembet:
I don't believe this news. Pope can't just say this nonsense.

Let me believe that its fake news from hungry bloggers. Not u oop

Bla bla bla. What did Jesus do? Let me tell you, following a man will only lead you astray. Instead of using the pope as a standard why not use Jesus as a standard?

Jesus always told sinners to go and sin no more. Jesus told the adulterous woman the same, told the Samaritan woman the same and told all other sinners he came in contact with the same.

That is the difference between Jesus and man. Man(pope) knows he has to be politically correct to not anger people but Jesus Christ fears no one and is a no respected of persons and says the truth just the way it is.

Muscomide:
“Giving more importance to the adjective [gay] rather than the noun [man], this is not good. We are all human beings and have dignity. It does not matter who you are, or how you live your life – you do not lose your dignity.There are people that prefer to select or discard people because of the adjective."

Wow, this is deep from the Pope. Any gay bashers out there who don't stop to reflect on this is a lost cause. Focus on the the man, not who he chooses to share his bed with.

Are you tired of Jesus?

Giddymoney:
Tired of Christianity, don't know what to believe anymore

It is your useless mother (who raised to call women hoes) and all the women in your family that are hoes. Fvcking inbred son of a deranged prostitute.

Brandonx:
Exactly what happenes when the daddy isn't in the picture. When I see guys acting like sissies it could only mean one thing, no father figure in their lives. To all father's out there please make out time to be in your sons live these hoe's don't know how to raise a son. They are only going to make him weak like a sisy.

Are you kidding me? People do this to their biological kids everyday in America.

bukatyne:
How painful.

Would she do this to her biological child?

Oga just shut up if you don't know what feminism is. This is transgenderism,
not feminism. Bobrisky that is claiming to be a woman, is he a feminist?

You have to understand that this is the devil's plan and it's working so far in America. Now people can get lawsuits in some states in USA if they address a man as a man if he doesn't want to be addressed as such.

cozy1993:
choosing devil over God what a shame in this world taaaaaaa see what liberalism has cause
feminist people now will b saying what is wrong with God punish who bring Dis feminism come nija e for dy oyebo land alone

The bolded is already happening at an alarming rate. It is all over America, Europe and Australia.

bluefilm:
The illuminati agenda with their gender blurring program.

Soon, children will not even know if they are boys or girls anymore.

Welcome to the New World Order.

Doctor Jesus in action

donbachi:
OPM port harcourt