Asekhamid:
Bro I know its going to be hard but you have to get over her..
Her breaking up with you was a time bomb waiting to explode anytime(and it just did)..
But count yourself lucky you were able to dodge a bullet...
Let Her Go....the guy who is filling up her mind with surely dump her soon and then she will realise the good guy she disposed earlier and want to come back,and by then am sure you wouldn't love her again..

I know it would take time(days,weeks even months) but you will forget about her...

My advice for you now is
-Delete everything about her(pics,number,chats,everything I say) bkos a quotes goes "out of sight is out of mind"..
-start talking to or hanging out with other people(avoid being alone most times) both make and female and you will see how Much you have been missing on in life.
-Start engaging in any form of exercise or sport like wieghtlifting,football,basketball
-But a playstation or Xbox game and start playing(either by yourself or with friends)
-Start chasing your goals in life and invest to create a better future for yourself...I assure you by the time you start making profit and doing well,you will forget about one ungrateful BITCH..

And my advice for your next relationship...always keep this in mind when dealing with your next girlfriend:

(1)Never get entangled to someone you cannot walk away from...
(2)Your Peace of mind is worth everything
(3)Always keep your options open..never let her be the only girl you are talking to...let her see you have more beautiful girls as friends and she can be replaced ASAP(I repeat don't tell her,let her see it and get jealous)
(4)Don't try to avoid drama with a girl...they love drama and tension...but don't be the one to start it..
(5)Never say I love you unless she says it first
(6)Never show emotions to her like jealousy or cry in her presence(if you are very sad or concerned,talk to your male friends instead)
(5)Always give her space once in a while kos she has her life to live and you have yours(so you don't appear needy and desperate..let her miss you Small while you chase your goals)
(6)spend more for yourself than her....she is her fathers responsibility and not yours
(7)Never treat her like a Queen if she doesn't treat you like a KING

You didn't loose her,she lost you
She lost a Diamond while searching for stones
Enjoy your life bro and don't let anyone feel you don't deserve to be loved..kos you do

YOU are the PRIZE

Thanks very much!!!!wow!!I'm really grateful!.

I was the one talking about the girl I'm scared to loose yesterday... So she finally break up this morning and blocked me instantly.... I'm really heartbroken... even with the thing have done for her....it's just too much.. Don't know how to get her off my mind .�

iPrevail:


You sound like the dumbest thing alive on this planet
Bruv you've ruined my mood with this sh!t.

so ever since then have just being scared it doesn't ruin my business if i leave her..

majemuoluwa28869:
Give the lady a breathing space and you will enjoy your life

there was a day we both went to an Alfa...and the Alfa asked me who my fiancée was...I then tell him she's the one....the Alfa then said I must not leave her...that if I leave her that things will go rough for me...since then she have being reacting anyhow so i can just apologize everytime.

Prodigee:
Bro no vex say I use harsh language. Tins like this dey vex me. I guess you are probably catching feelings and you scared. But look at the situation critically and ask yourself these questions:
1. Is someone else's happiness worth your sadness?
2. All the money wey you don spend on top her, e yield anything positive? E beta make you chanel all of it into investments or business
3. She dey add value to your life? Is she even worth it? You never marry am sef and all these dey happen
Think about all these and see if that relationship should still continue. As it seems, it just a one way situationship as you are the only one making an impact.


Na me talk am!

bro thanks alot o..you really nailed it..thanks very much brother.

Prodigee:
Bros let me be frank with you. You are the biggest mumu ever. How can you be doing charity on an ungrateful tin like that liability? I'm sure you no dey send N1 to your family, but you go dey waste money on top vagina matter. See as she just dey manipulate you. Guy you had better drop am like thrash. There are many fishes in the sea. Keep it moving man!


Na me talk am!

Thanks bro

Good evening nairalanders...I really need your advice...there's this girl we've being dating for more than a year now...I just feel I'm been to nice to her...she'd always take me for granted..whenever we've issue she'd say I shouldn't let her change to me and do what she doesn't wanna do...she'd say she can't tolerate me anymore...she'd read meaning to meaningless stuffs...and I'd end up begging her...she'd even block my number..lol..,I'll have to beg her to unblock me...I actually provide every of her needs...i haven't missed any before... If I don't have I'll definitely promise her and I'd do it...I even send her money even without her asking,she'd say I'm insulting her with money all because I sent her money and not replying to her messages immediately,.but she will never appreciate the next day....so on Thursday she called me on phone and she actually told me she's having infection...I then said on Saturday I'd definitely send her some money so she can treat it...so on Saturday I actually sent her some money..it's much though....so suddenly this morning she just messaged me giving me attitude...even without appreciating what i did yesterday.. so i just have to let her be..she then start sending me different kind of messages that she can't tolerate me ignoring her and treating her bad all because I'm providing her needs....how the hell I'm i treating you bad??she just start saying different kind of thing... uploading different kind of status"a girl can love you stupidly and stop talking to you"....she'd just start ignoring my messages won't read it and she'd be online,she doesn't even call like before...but I'm always scared when we have issue that another guy will have her..�have tried alot for her...even at the point of paying her rent..�please advice me nairalanders...I really need your advice about this....and please no insult... Sorry for the bad grammers.