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SpicyJosBabe:
Yes, well not my fault for the making. Atheism is very odd in Nigeria because the overwhelming majority of Nigerians are religious So u guys have to put up with us.
And tell me, why do u guys woo religious ladies in the first place? And u guys will not tell the lady at first until when the lady now finds out deep down later



Yes and thank God u know. There is really something wrong with atheism and that's why women (who are smarter and more sensitive naturally) see no reason in practicing such lifestyles with no reasonable benefit.
You guys should stop chasing religious women!

@first bolded;You are very wrong.The majority of Nigerians are not religious.The majority of Nigerians practice what can best be referred to as "religiousity".Daz all @second bolded;I have already explained this in one of my previous posts.As an atheist male based in Nigeria,there are very few atheist women in the state.What else can i do but to have relationships with the women around me who are into one religion or the other?If i could,i would have nothing to do with any woman involved with any religion but what other choice do i have in Nigeria?Mastur.bate or turn gay?As for the other question,why should any atheist tell anyone he is an atheist in the first place?Isnt the practice or non-practice of any religion by an individual a personal/private issue?Do you erroneously believe everyone in Nigeria is as ignorant as the majority who literarily carry their bogus religions on their sleeves?...Child please @third bolded;With this conclusion of your post,i now know this your whole story is a lie(why i'm i not surprised).You simply created this bullshitt tale inorder to indirectly attack atheists and their beliefs.I aint gat time for religious nutcases like yourself.Your deluded and smug self-righteousness,lies and arrogance disgusts me.So kindly bugger off

firstking01:
Let him go look for an atheist and marry...everytime an atheist wants to marry a christian sister, abi dem no get atheist sister for that their gathering ni??....nobody is neutral in life, it's either you are serving mamon or serving God....also, self righteousness can never take you to heaven cos i see people type here that some atheist have good character than a christian, this is fallacy in the higher oder of enthropy system...let him goan marry from his believe, it's as simple as that.

There is a very very very small pool of atheist women available to atheist men in nigeria and a man has got to "burst a nut".So what other choice does he have but to manage the women available to him?Aint no male atheist in nigeria actively seeking to get hitched with all these christian and moslem nutcases everywhere.We are just compromizing.Daz all

SpicyJosBabe:
Thank you dearies. I guess before i take any decision i have to really have a heart to heart talk with him on so many issues and i guess i will take my final decision and conclusion based on his responses.
I will go back to him and see if we can make arrangements and plans of the present and future compromises and sacrifices we are bound to make if we are ever going to be together. If he will be willing to compromise many things i will accept him, if he won't i will have no option but to leave him because it is very obvious that a die hard atheist and a comitted religious person can never really be together.

Our society is a dominantly religious and christian society and so atheists really have to make a lot of compromises to be with we christians.

Such arrogance!!! Simply because you have a pus.sy and you are a christian which make you falsely believe you are superior to others.I've got two words for you...FU.CKK YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Emodeee:
So you expect ladies to come and share their experience? Keep waiting. All those guys wey dey share their experience, them enjoy am. Some of them wish it was now. You see them saying, how they wish the aunty could come and be doing those things now. Even though they enjoyed it then though but they nvr knew what they were doing. the aunties took advantage of their innocence. You know say small pikin nor dey get fluid, so no risk of pregnancy, dats why those aunties used them then. Any female who shares her experience here will be stigmatised. Except the ones that are bold enough to speak out and not scared of stigmatisation.

This is the major reason male sex abuse victims keep quiet.If the female sex abuse victims didnt enjoy their experiences,why should the males enjoy theirs?Males dont experience trauma yes?We should always be strong and show strength yes?I dey laugh at your ignorance

Berlynn:
i doubt if any female here will share their experience tho

There have been many threads about female sexual- abuse and near rape- experiences on nland.What is very rare to see are threads about male sexual- abuse which is also very common.There was a thread about male sex abuse that got to the homepage last year and thats about it.I am not surprised though,issues affecting males are largely ignored by the nigerian society

thickgodess:
I came across a thread dat said....Those Big Aunties That Disvirgin Us When We Were Small https://www.nairaland.com/3380877/those-big-aunties-disvirgin-us and i was like....the molestation carried out by men we far greater I could remember one day that i came home from school, no body was at home and the house was boring. Our neighbor that used to put on generator that time was at home and the gen was on and i was like.... Let me go and watch film, when i got there, I greeted him as usual and he let me in. After some minutes, he asekd me to sit on his lap. I innocently accepted. Then i felt something under, before u know it he started using my ass to massage his d!ck....i was so confused, but i knew within me that it was wrong. Then he started to remove my undies, and continue rubbing it. It continued for some time. The day he wanted to penetrate, it felt very painful that i screamed. I was lucky that he never penetrated me fully I can't even remeber his name sef.... Men are very wicked

@first bolded:where did you pull that fact from?Your arse i suppose.Like every other crime involving women,sexual- abuse is always carried out on the "down low" by women and never given thesame amount of attention like those committed by or involving men @second bolded:i have heard this same song too many times.Tell me another story @third bolded;ahh...finally we get to the main purpose of this thread.You desire sympathy from readers which fifty to sixty percent will be male and you concluded your deluded post by stating 'men are ' wicked".Very foolishly done

Single women above 30 years always come with "excess baggage"(they are world-weary,bitter at the world and at men, physically depreciated and emotionally scarred).I want nothing to do with them.Thesame way i want nothing to do with single mothers too

LucifersTongue:
Naija students be taking pics of outside view of buildings and flowers (abi na grass) like it's forms 90% of the weighting factor for ranking the quality of schools.

Take pics of your state of the art labs filled with million dollar equipment, pics of an up to date well stocked library, pics of breath taking museums and zoos, pics of standard classrooms and exam halls, pics of rooms meant for humans and not chickens or pigs, share links to tangible awards, achievements and papers your lecturers and fellow students have contributed to their respective fields...

Fuckin' A man!! Fuckin' A!!!! but they don't know because they haven't seen better.They are only exposed to the worst.Then they inadvertently begin to believe the worst is the best.Like I've said,over and over again,
Nonsense!!

ButterFrost212:
But really why are you so bitter? ABU wasn't the best when it came to accommodation but then you can't deny that it was a good school, I'm sure you made friends that still mean something to you today, I'm sure you gained some memorable experience, and hey, bad or good, it gave you a degree, might not be worth much but it's something.... So quit being hateful bro, life is never that serious.

Why would I be bitter?I don't just like people acting like they are the shit_ when they aren't.ABU Zaria alumni keep walking around puffing out and beating their chests that they are "the best".What are they "the best" of?These are thesame students who many couldn't fill simple forms with;Name-,Address-,Age-,Blood Type-,Genotype-....absolute balderdash!!!!
How dare an ugly woman claim she is beautiful...I won't stand for it!.Just look at this thread...only I against six to seven other alumni and they can't even diligently defend their their stance and yet they claim to be "the best"?
Nonsense!!

ButterFrost212:
What should be and what is are two different thing, and in Nigeria "what is" prevails... You're obviously an alumni, I am too, and yes we should all get off our religious high horse and "fix our damn country" but still you and I can't change the fact that religion would continue to govern our thinking and activities in this country and perhaps Africa in general for a long time so live and let's live.. .

That is why we'll continue being the back-water and the pissing pot of the rest of the world.Everything else in your post is too mushy-mushy for my liking

Misterdhee1:
Even the sons and daughters of the most powerful in the country are graduating with First.. Dont u feel they don't need the mindset also.. Stop the self-deception bro!

Sir,how many sons and daughters of the rich attend federal universities nowadays?As for those from "well-to do" families at ABU Zaria back then,all we did was lounge,lounge,lounge because we already knew our futures were "set".It was those from horribly poor backgrounds we always saw with books going to that archaic main library cramming books from mungo parks' era.I swear poverty na bastard!!!Nigerians are suffering but we deserve it

Misterdhee1:
Bitter Truth, u call it ṣe?? Another bitter truth am damn sure of is that, is either you were expelled from the school or you graduated with a 'PASS'.. Can't believe an alumni could be this bitter about his Alma-mata

Unlike many Nigerians,I am above this getting a "2.1" mindset for my life to have any sense of meaning/direction/success.I know for a fact,that a person who graduates with a 2.1,majority of the time isn't as intelligent as a person who graduated with 2.2(maybe he/she was a good "crammer" or "sorted" the scores and this is Nigeria for pete sake;does it really matter what score you graduate with?As long as you have the right "connections"?

ButterFrost212:
now we're talking about mediocrity What has that got to do with anything? Anyway, Nigerians love to worship, we love to pray. Now tell me why there won't be places of worship in a school in the north? Besides do these mosques stop students from studying? No, it doesn't, so how does it defeat the purpose of the establishment? Personally I just think you wish there were more churches than mosques or atleast an equal amount.

Nigerians have got to tone down their prayers and get up from their lazy arses and fix their damn country!!!
No God is going to save us from our miseries.A university has no business being converted into a moslem(like ABU Zaria has become)worship centre nor a christian one.University students are supposed to be above these mindsets but reverse is the case at ABU Zaria and majority of Nigerian "universities"(if not all).I vividly remember an SUG presidential election(before the SUG was disbanded for years by the schools' authourities)where two candidates remained;one moslem,the other christian.The moslem candidate started campaigning for all moslems to vote for him and the christian candidate carried out the exact same actions.Such behaviour at a so-called "university?"A place of supposedly "higher learning" and future "intellectuals?"
Future mediocres.I prefare to call it

barackodam:
Don't be mislead ma'am, of course there are majids everywhere. But unlike what they spread. It's just that every hostel, faculty and institutes has theirs. You know, for example, a faculty of 1000 students and there are 700 Muslims, how do you expect them to pray.

You should see us during Jumu'ah prayers, then you would pity us, we pray on the road. From the main gate to the female hostel. And they say we're islamizing. Yet the two chapels are so big that it's never overfilled

Whether you'll admit it or not,ABU Zaria has been "islamized".The "institution" also admitted too many students(especially from the North)who can't tell the difference between their arse and their elbows.Real talk.

OrangeDream:
Bad belle.. Go & die


Which one ya school produce

Continue laughing and praising those who fucked_ up your country,your life,your familys' life and the lives of your generations unborn.Make I even join you laugh sef
Hahahahaha
Hehehehehehe
Hohohohohoho
Kikikikikikikiki

barackodam:
Replying you is an utter waste of time.

I'm done on this topic you ABU rejectee

I'd only reply you if you have anything different to say

Barackodam,my baby boy,you're breaking my heart with these words of yours.If I said anything that hurt your feelings.Please na,forgive and forget na.
*Singing*
Pls don't go!!
Don't gooooooooo!!
hehehehehehehehehe

ButterFrost212:
well considering it's a northern school located in the north and pioneered by sir Ahmadu Bello himself, I don't see why there shouldn't be mosques everywhere. To each his own, if you don't like the mosques , walk pass, no need to point out the obvious...

A university is supposed to be a place of higher learning."Islamizing" or "christianizing" a university,defeats the purpose of its establishment doesn't it?You won't know because like many Nigerians,you possess a mediocre mindset

Just look at their pathetic level of thought.Proudly listing criminals,shady characters and pieces of shits_ as their alumni;Adamu Mu'azu?Jerry Gana?Ahmed Makarfi?Atiku Abubakar?
Like I always say,Nigerians deserve all the hardships,miseries and sufferings they encounter in their daily lives.Pathetic, loserly excuses for human beings

Gaddafithe2nd:
Bro, don't argue with the guy again. Which Federal university in Nigeria has enough accommodation? None. Though have not been to ABU, but I knew guys that went to school. Your school is beautiful.

He can't argue with me because he has nothing tangible to post on this thread.Just empty chest-beating.Na by "beautiful buildings" people dey rate "universities?"Abeg go siddon for corner make better people talk

FINAL SCORE
Traware:5

Barackodam:0

barackodam:
Garbage?

ABU Zaria, garbage?

Like I said, you think shallow. Although this has been your most reasonable thing you've said today, nonetheless, if a self proclaimed ABU alumnus can call it garbage, I give up on your matter

like I said in my previous posts directed at you,you have nothing reasonable to post on this thread.Just empty chest-beating.I keep listing the terrible flaws of ABU Zaria,you keep claiming other Nigerian glorified secondary schools a.k.a "universities," have the exact same problems.If ABU Zaria has thesame problems as other "universities" in Nigeria,what makes ABU Zaria better than other Nigerian "universities"?They are all the exact same GARBAGE!!!
ABU Zaria wasn't all bad though,it had quite a sizable population of fooooiiiinnnnneeeee Northern belles

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barackodam:
Bro, stop proving your shallow thinking.

Which federal University in Nigeria has sufficient accommodation?

And how many universities can you count that have successfully curbed squatting in hostel?

Why would 8people be staying in a room and be thinking they are enjoying, just hear yourself. The only enjoyment I know is we argue often, between the three hostels who enjoys most. And not as you're portraying it.

I'm still on standby, I'd counter all your fake stories.

Lies, iranu oshi.

I am lying?To what end?All the locations I've mentioned in my posts don't exist in that glorified secondary school ABU Zaria?I received my toilet paper certificate from that sh.ithole and high-tailed the fuck_ out of there.Haven't been back since and not interested in going back for any thing.Like I said,like many Nigerians,you are already used to mediocrity that's why you keep defending garbage

barackodam:
Yes the first photo is the Senate building, so?

Senate building isn't part of the school?

Bro, I wouldn't really counter you for claiming you attended the school, but it seems at the end, you never got a certificate from ABU.

"it seems"

You won't and can't counter my post because you have nothing to say.I don't blame you though,when you aren't exposed,you'll believe your village is the best village in the world or your mother prepares the best soup in Africa.I knew many guys like you while at ABU who believed that glorified secondary school was the shit_ while it was garbage;sharing 4+6 hostel rooms with 9 other guys believing they were living in five star hotels.I don't blame you,your brain is already used to hardship and suffering(I only stayed at ICSA during my 100 level and found my self an off-K accomodation at samaru for the rest of my stay in that godforsaken hell-hole)

barackodam:
And there aren't churches in school?

Fellowship isn't allowed?

Or what are you insinuating?

There is only one catholic church close to "suleiman hall".The glorified secondary school is living on its past,lost glory

Emilokoiyawon:
You are just showing architectural designs. When it comes to an academic institution what is most important is the CONTENT of these buildings. Is the library modern and up to date in its CONTENT? What about the science and engineering labs? Do they have facilities for students to do research? If we want to move forward in this country we have to start focusing on essentials instead of getting distracted by mere shadows.

You 100% are right.I attended ABU and I can tell you the glorified secondary school is a piece of crap.The first photo is the senate building close to the main entrance of the university and the volleyball court

Sparrow13:
Make i find trouble


An ABU student is ahead of you naturally

Nonsense post.Many present and past ABUSITES have cement for brains...CEMENT!!!.All majority of the guys knew was to go to "ribadu hall" every evening searching for arse.Go to "North gate" any evening and you'll see the ladies hopping into different vehicles