₦airaland Forum

holyghost:
well, pride is a decease of the mind, OK don't think right and suffer shame all Ur life.

in my opinion women should help when it is necessary, the law or tradition was made to make man succeed and not to make man fail?

what is wrong with women sponsoring the wedding show?
look if you see your MR right but his pocket was wrong, Fix it quickly OK!
here is what you should look out for b4 u sponsor,


1 Ask God for directions 1st

2 is the Guy cooperative ( reason well with you, i.e very compatible with u) remember no pretence on his part O!

3 has he got the penitential to be up /independent after d wedding is on( to avoid 4ever depending too much on u)

4 has he got any record to show that he was once a real man ( i.e b4 he lost the command of his cash)

Please. note that this forum is not just for jocks these thing are really people real problems so when u post be helpful and matured life is a market place if u throw a stone it might hit Ur sister or Ur Daughter badly.

Women should also note that not all women were created to marry and not all married were destined to reproduce it's God's design for life to be uneven, so to him give the glory( he is the most Wise)

FL Gators:
Woahhhhh
Woahhhh

*rub my eyes* Woah!!!

oyinda.:
keep running that posh british mouth of yours. and what will you do if I refer to you?

oyinda.:
why? please explain to me

sharrap there

Am Alone:
E bi like say you want make POVERTY use you do press UP for inside the Marrage Abi!!

davidylan:
True words my brother . . . but the fact is God wont come down and force the choice on you. According to the bible it is you who is doing the finding . . . you better find well well.

$osisi:
Tufiakwa!

TOPE2000!:
Lmao . . . . . its cheap of u to collect the money

davidylan:
Different strokes for different folks . . . i like to take my time before reaching important decisions like who to marry. Shotgun approaches dont work for me.

davidylan:
i'm not a fan of marrying someone you havent physically known well for at least 1 yr. No going home to pick a wife for me.

$osisi:
Terrible
and things like this leaves the man with a terrible impression of women and some women may have to suffer for the sins of the other women
These people going to Naija to marry should better be very careful
I've heard so many horror stories.
One was even carrying belle when she arrived un-beknown to the husband
When eventually she announced her pregnancy and they went to an OBGYN, the scan showed that the belle was already past 5 months meanwhile the girl had only been here 3 months and the last time they saw each other in Naija was over a year.

oyinda.:
why would she want to pay your mortgage in the first place?  
very funny

$osisi:
I don't know what became of them
But it was really very sad.
and the man was heartbroken for a while
The girl pretended to fall in love with him in Nigeria and just used him.When she arrived here for good 2 weeks,she refused to unpack her bags and wouldn't let the man (her husband) touch her.
He thought she was just a virgin that needed time to losen up
for where?
he went to work and Fedex delievered a plane ticket and the girl disappeared
She left him a note and phone records showed she had been communicating the lover man since arrival.
Some women can be very wicked

$osisi:
Morenike.women are just as heartless.
haven't you heard stories of women in Nigeria who have boyfriend's over here that they wish to be with but they use some other person in the guise of marriage to come over to America and immediately desert the husband for their lovers.
It happened to my in law

TOPE2000!:
Very right thing
i cud open appreciation thread for u sef for that statement.

$osisi:
Is this my husband?

TOPE2000!:
Awwwwwwwwww . . . . . . .where have u been all my life?

~Sissy~:
very serious

$osisi:
Very wrong my brother
haba!
even if  na Togolese men wey dey wear blouse
It is still wrong

$osisi:
It's a little different when a man goes home to marry a wife.
It's a totally different thing if it's the woman going home to find a husband
It just looks wrong

TOPE2000!:
ya think . . . . .?
I still dont know why my ip was banned

Secretz:
Thank you jare! This was my point before. If he can't do that, then what hope is there for the marriage? or his position as the man of the mansion? But I still believe the woman can chip in too. I just don't think he should open his mouth about wedding if he can't put his 'fair' share down at all!! 

TOPE2000!:
Berra dont talk .  . . else na ban

TOPE2000!:
My broda. . . .see me see trouble o
she even banned my ip address for no reason at all but some ppl r more intelligent computer wise

TOPE2000!:
Lol . . . i no fit shout