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tope5000:
Do u socialise at all? if u dont i suggest u start asap.
I have always said no guy own a girl until he put a ring on it . . . . .go out, have fun, go on date . . . .laugh ur head off

Monicaa:
I agree with that statement there and that's something I have to put in mind. There are a lot of loving guys out there but sometimes I still remember my ex and feel he is better than some of what they o and that makes me withdraw.

Romeo4real:
@monicaa-
The first thing to understand is that this is not unusual, and many people go through this at some stage in their lives.
The second thing is to accept the way you feel, and stop beating urself up, or feel guilty abt it. If you dont accept there is a problem, you will never start the journey of finding the solution - which brings me to the 3rd thing.

You confirm the relationship was not that great, but you miss him - The reason is that there is a way he made you feel, or the relationship made you feel, that is now missing in ur life or present relationship.
Do bear in mind this might have nothing to do with him (how nice he was to you), and may have everything to do with you (something abt him/relationship made you feel god abt urself).

This is what u have to identify. Once you know this, or meet someone who makes u feel the same way, it'll be a lot easier to move on.
Do note that moving on odes not mean you forget. It simply means u accept the loss, and the way u feel, and just get on with life or ur future relationships.

Many posters assume this is a simple black/ white issue, without understanding the intricacies and complexities of emotional entanglement.

tope5000:
dont blame the poster yet. . maybe the girl is Amber Rose
im sure u'd woo her for 2yrs. . . no?

tope5000:
I agree but i bet if i list my own must have the way u listed urs . . . .the dudes in here will cry me a river

tope5000:
Amen

it does look irresponsible but hey. . . . nothing can be done

ibkaye:
I agree

MrCrackles:
Fair enough
I still maintain both of them are not responsible enough!

tope5000:
Basic
Guess i dont want to know the essential and main must have

MrCrackles:

Children are gifts in this case, but still the husband shouldav used his common sense

What happened to protection or wanking?

Why did the wifey open the floodgate of heaven and allowed it unprotected?

No disrespect but it is pathetic!

tope5000:
The poster said 5. . . . . .but come oh . . .are u planning on having two partners?
cuz i doubt if one girl will have all these qualities

wanville:
Treetop20, u stalker!!who gave you all that information about me

FL Gators:
awww, I like your [b]FIVE traits.[/b]

@Sissy
Anytime, you know you can count on me

follypimpi:
No wonder all the Foundation Makeup is now scarce in the market,you use it all KMT

oyinda.:
where is the lie? is it the "i cannot be with you" part or the "we are too different" part?

oyinda.:
what is the greatest lie u've ever told ur partner?

FL Gators:
Nawa o.
I;m a triblistic. Isit safe for me to say no?
Maybe because she's Igbo.
Don't think too much into it darling, not everybody that says Igbo hates Igbos