i feel for both arguments, but as a trini i grow up in a culture where dating a nigerian is frawn upon, which is sheer ignorance, but as i got older my perception change due to the fact i met a good nija man who is intelligent, funny,sexy,god fearing, and kind,but as i came to the realization that to get a good nija man or woman they must have a lot of western culture in them ,unlike the die hard ones who have never left the shores of nigeria,and if they do pick up good qualities that will make them appreciate and respect other cultures,.  but still they are great differences between a caribben woman and a nija woman, and that is becuse of cultural differences, and that my friends is what most men are attracted to difference, not the norm, unique.