₦airaland Forum

MikaelDare:
What was the age difference?
And did you two continue working in Same place?

1. Like 4 or 5 yrs difference
2. And no, I left before her,but she also left later.

Political correctness gone wrong... I hope Europe, and UK survive this malady

CorperKola:
So you are not responsible compared to dangote or otedola abi
I understand what you are saying but In this context, your point is really pointless, i cant call it dumb

You mustn't compare with "dangote or otedola". What makes them a standard,money?

Dpsychologist:
Marriage is one topic that will never stop shaking tables, and today, we’re going to drag one uncomfortable truth into the open.

👉 Many women don’t actually marry the man they truly love or feel sexually attracted to.
👉 Instead, they marry the man who is ready — the one with money, stability, and seriousness, even if their heart isn’t fully in it.

After the wedding, sex becomes a duty — something she tolerates just to have children. But once she’s done giving birth, the pretending ends. No more intimacy, no more affection, no more spark. What’s left? A cold partnership where both partners are simply co-parenting under the same roof.

This raises tough questions:

Is marriage in today’s world really about love, or just about timing and convenience?

Can attraction and passion be “manufactured” after marriage?

Is society’s pressure forcing too many people into unions built on endurance rather than happiness?

And for men: are you sure the woman you married actually desired you — or just settled because you were available?

The truth is, pretense in marriage always has an expiry date. Once the acting is over, reality kicks in. That’s why many homes lose their intimacy after kids arrive.

So, Nairalanders, over to you 👇:
Do women really marry who they love — or just who is ready?
And men, how do you know you weren’t just “the available option”?

Let’s debate this. No holding back.

Marriage is not about "love"
Take it from a married man.
Marriage is responsibility

cityboylagos:
https://eyesoflagos.com/tiwa-savage-speaks-out-i-didnt-leak-my-sex-tape-to-stay-relevant/

But you can remind us about it to stay relevant

Tflex01:
There is nothing essentially wrong with the video but that Dickson is one of the Igbo guys on twitter that want to be from Lagos by force. He and many people from his tribe want to be writing Lagos as state of origin even when they are aware that their parents came from hundreds of kilometres away. 😂

Double standard

People please say something...
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BlackViper:
https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-15118203/PMs-decision-recognise-state-Palestine-UK-2trillion-reparations.html

People rather choose to sound politically correct these days even if it makes them look intellectually deprived.
What point is he trying to prove by recognizing the state and emboldening a terrorist group along the way ?

judewrites:
I have seen the pastor on tiktok...he's based in sierra Leon with a prophetic ministry.

While the spiritual controls the physical, it's the spirit of Mammon for him to ask to be compensated with 1000 dollars $ for a previous spiritual help.

Why didn't they appreciate him since?
Na when Dem get another problem,Dem find am come.
Dat one too na scam.
Do you how much spiritual labour he invested in the first case?

alphonsoolajide:
“I Prayed for Her Visa” – Nigerian Pastor Demands $1,000 From Member, Threatens to Pray for Deportation

https://eyesoflagos.com/i-prayed-for-her-visa-nigerian-pastor-demands-1000-from-member-threatens-to-pray-for-deportation/

How much babalawo alfa Dem dey charge for their services?
Make the woman pay up abegi.
If na alfa babalawo dey charge like this he for no make news.
But once he says he's a pastor, everyone jumps on him

Nlfpmods,et al... Don't just view and click away, please say something and save a life.
Thanks

It's a Kanayo O. Kanayo video, but I don't know how current that is.
The video wouldn't upload here. I guess it's due to the size.
Can someone kindly verify?

I don't know if this is a current message.
Can someone help me verify, please?

He said PPRO made him say Police doesn't need to ask you for any permit during their routine check.
How true's that?

I don't know if this is a current message.
Can someone help me verify, please?

He said PPRO made him say Police doesn't need to ask you for any permit during their routine check.
How true's that?

I don't know if this is a current message.
Can someone help me verify, please?

He said PPRO made him say Police doesn't need to ask you for any permit during their routine check.
How true's that?

nairalanda1:
The usual tales on nairaland

Pastor not named

church not named

Plus someone is so lazy that they forget to dobule check what they are sending....

Tell me another story...like the one where a pastor fell in love with a prostitute and married her, and they had 11 children...

And you won't ever hear them tell this kind of story about Imam and Mosque o

eyesoflagos:
https://eyesoflagos.com/shock-in-osun-woman-dies-mysteriously-at-boyfriends-house/

I don't know why people still have to be doing boyfriend and girlfriend at this age and time

Rip to the dead.

If the death dey one kind,we for suspect foul play

naijapikin2:
Dingbats... They will soon be attacked by islamic fundamentals

By that time,it would be too late

Fenrir:
Argr

For men like you some of the old of laws of all cultures should still exists


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Tcjjdp30iNg?si=2IHPgY7QSKMKypKe

Dude
I didn't know people are still this jobless!
I didn't reply 3 mentions and you're still here bleating.
You get a life, dude

By the way, your question wasn't rhetorical.
You should go figure

Fenrir:
Did I say you haven't? Or did I ask if you have?

Dont try and twist things fella though you silly men are good twisting to suit your narrative

You did

Fenrir:
I said Asian not American
And how would you know?

Ive seen and lived 153 countries with cultures and people you dont even know exist

Have you ever left Nigeria or is your only view of the world through screens?

The fella British, yes
The black woman British, yes

The wife Asian

Wakawaka
What did you get from the 153?
And what made you so sure I've 'never left' Nigeria?

Local champion

Fenrir:
The wife Asian not white you can tell from the voice and accent

Stop saying white this and white
Black men and African cheat more then anyone and its been proven without a doubt that women in Europe and America cheat alot more than men and its been proven by blood tests of the children and paternity fraud

30% - 40% of men in Europe and America are raising kids that are not theirs without knowing it to the point that in france a husband is not even allowed a dna test its just his child by law

And that wife is most likely Filipino or that based on the accent and the way shes pronouncing her words

Shes definitely not Chinese, definitely not Japanese and definitely not Vietnamese

African women actually cheat the least in marriage but put up with cheating the most

Their accent leans more towards British than American

officialwdhtv:
Lady shows up to couple's home claiming husband has been dating her for past 3 years

Take a listen!!!

#wetindeyhappentv


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Vmiij4I2WY4

Yahoo boys 😀
They really messed with this woman's sanity.
To think the man's wife took sides with the confused woman...why are women like this?

starpower:
Confused. As in who will be his witness, at my place of work I prefer only giving my office contact. Make no enemies come prank me. Won't someone embarrassing me in front of my family.

Your house is not that hard to trace,trust me

armadeo:
Lol. That cup has more value to you than anyone knows. People will wonder why you treasure the cup.

What are you trying to say?
Are you calling him a drunkard?

jmoore:
Nigeria should accept the deal na. Just charge USA billions of dollars and use part of Sambisa forest to resettle the deportees.

Let's diversify the economy..

Even enlist them in the army to fight terrorism

AMINDA:
I see you fell for the propaganda as was intended. This 5% excise duty was proposed and rejected/removed in the new law. It has no existing effect whatsoever, so there is nothing about current tariff reducing. The government is just fishing for achievements by attempting to squeeze water out of a rock.

They have purportedly suspended a 5% tax on telecoms but Nigerians are to start paying 5% tax on refined crude from next year. They may even decide to suspend this proposed tax on fuel by December and rhen celebrate it as an achievement. Who is deceiving who?

Exactly
Check out Chris Ngige's government of those days,it was exactly the same... hassle for popularity and legitimacy,by all means

wellmax:
She’s prolly talking about MILs from her tribe. They do that a lot.

It's alright to make this about tribe huh?
You sound so intelligent right now

Islie:
• NATCOMs calls for tariff stabilisation on calls, data

• Subscribers decry poor telecom services, accuse NCC of inaction



https://guardian.ng/news/succour-for-172m-subscribers-as-tinubu-cancels-planned-5-telecoms-tax/

Tinubu dey try him best sha....we had a similar experience with ngige in Anambra that year

press9jatv:
https://www.facebook.com/share/p/1Eownt4oHA/

https://www.facebook.com/share/p/1DsZaryha9/

This is a good development but it should be extended to others states too, especially in the East and the North

TheStranger:
I remember when Amdman was selling it for 1.7 million before "I will pight kwarupshun' entered and everything changed

The economy they claimed to be salvaging is still a huge mess and they still find a way to justify the suffering.