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FamilyRe: Raped By Robbers And Got Kicked Out Of My Marriage. by TrulyHis(f): 11:22am On Feb 03, 2018
This one weak me sha. You might wanna check this out https:///UYGoWv
RomanceRe: Help! My Fiancee’s Father Killed My Dad by TrulyHis(f):
This is serious ooo but there is nothing forgiveness cannot do. If you truly love her, go on since it just two weeks to your wedding.
Check here to see the possibility https:///XF6PWk
FamilyRe: I Caught My Wife Selling Her Nude Pictures To Other Men. What Should I Do? by TrulyHis(f): 1:15pm On Jan 25, 2018
This is quite pathetic but he will just have to forgive her since divorce is not an option. They should sit, talk and settle whatever led her to that.

I also saw this one on the same site, the world is gradually going to an end. https://dailyfamily.ng/my-husband-is-not-the-biological-father-of-one-of-our-four-children-woman-tells-court/
Nairaland GeneralRe: Abule Egba On Fire As Customs And Smugglers (fayawo) Clash by TrulyHis(f): 7:44am On Jan 17, 2018
where were the Customs when they passed through all the security officials on the road before they got to Abule Egba.
https://dailyfamily.ng/kim-kardashian-announces-third-baby-through-surrogate-mother/
RomanceRe: Signs To Watch Out For In A Right Relationship by TrulyHis(f): 3:39pm On Jul 10, 2017
Niftyrules:
Oga na onto make you PM me ooh make we talk. Owo lo fi n do something. Oya PM me
Abeg Wetin Be PM? I need oooo

@Poster, nice one but why you no credit the source? I don see this same article for www.dailyfamily.ng before
TravelSee What Fuel Scarcity Caused by TrulyHis(op): 1:24pm On Nov 24, 2015

RomanceFor The Fear Of Loneliness & Being Hurt, Man Marries Hot & Crispy Pizza by TrulyHis(op): 2:14pm On Nov 18, 2015
Tired of being lonely a 22-year-old man got married to a pizza in a bizarre wedding ceremony in the city of Tomsk, Russia.

The unnamed Russian man is so deep in love with pizza he even decided to tie the knot with it. Seriuosly. The man believes that relationship between humans are too complicated and the only love he finds true is love for food.

And even after Russian authorities in registry office and the church refused to officially register the marriage, he managed to organise the ceremony in a local pizzeria with the chefs, managers and waitresses as guests.

Commenting on his decision the groom said: “At some point I realised that half of my friends were complaining about their better half, while the others were complaining about the lack of a better half. Love between two humans is a complicated wild thing.

I was grateful that I had at least my love of food and then it came to me that actually love for food remains stable no matter what. Pizza would not reject you or betray you, and speaking quite frankly and sincerely, I love it.

Taking his obsession to a whole new level, the man even hired a professional photographer to remember their big day. At the end of the day a hot and crispy pizza bride and joyful groom were provided with a marriage certificate and enjoyed a fireshow in their honor.

Just imagine their first night as a husband and a wife!

http://www.familyparliament.com/4663/for-the-fear-of-loneliness-amp-amp-being-hurt-man-marries-ho

HealthIf You Want To Live Long,read This (part 4)- A Physician's Testimony by TrulyHis(op): 11:08am On Nov 18, 2015
He is a Physician, a Lecturer at Olabisi Onabanjo University(OOU), Ago-Iwoye. He runs a Clinic called Child Survival Clinic for Infants, he has an NGO and also he is an Assistant Pastor married with children.
Let us we meet Dr Jemilusi


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Dr Jemilusi

FP: How do you get to know about Rapha Heathy Living Institute Sir?
DR JEMILUSI: Actually, my wife had an health issue, we have always been seeing Rev. Tony Akinyemi on television and we usually listen to his programme. We got his details, then she came to him and she followed all the regimen he introduced to her which worked well; so i decided to attend the school. But she didn't come to the school.

FP: As a Medical Practitioner who people believe will be more comfortable prescribing drugs, why the choice of an alternative?
Dr JEMILUSI: I am here for healthy living not so much of an alternative medicine. I am a Public Health Official with the aim of health promotion and disease prevention and as we all know nutrition plays a very important role in health and disease control. Many diseases are associated with faulty diets which is what we emphasize under healthy living and it is what we promote in Public health- good nutrition, adequate exercise, taking unpolluted air, water that is safe, good housing hygiene and sanitation which are very crucial. Health generally is a very big thing, whenever I hear about anything healthy living, I want to be part of it and that is why I am here.

FP: There is this general saying that when a patient takes any drug, he/she will recover from two things- first the sickness being treated and also the effect of the drug. How true is this?
DR JEMILUSI: It is very true because any drug taken has side effects which the Physician may have to manage but generally the natural organic products may not cause any side effect and prevention they say is better than cure. Everybody should be involved in healthy living because you should be in charge of your health. So in Public Health which I belong, we don't really want people to come to us sick, we maintain health, prevent diseases which is all about healthy living and not living a sedentary life.

FP: As a Physician with this added knowledge, what would change in the area of drug prescription?
DR JEMILUSI: It is not really with the added knowledge, like I said earlier I hardly prescribe drug to patients. When a patient is brought in sick, I prefer to know about his/her history before doing anything and in most cases with counseling and following the right approach to health they will be fine.

FP: Will it be proper to say this alternative is better than the Orthodox?
DR JEMILUSI: Let us just say Orthodox has its work to do but natural has no side effect. I will like to advice here that we should all integrate healthy practice.

FP: We want to believe this School has been of a great help?
DR JEMILUSI:....(cuts in)... YES, YES, YES, a very big one and as far as I'm concerned I want to create an awareness and I will definitely invite my Doctor friends. We all need this to live and stay healthy.


http://www.familyparliament.com/4652/if-you-want-to-live-long-read-this-part-4-a-physicians-s-tes
Car TalkAnother Container Accident In Lagos (pix) by TrulyHis(op): 4:20pm On Nov 17, 2015
Another accident involving a container occurred earlier today along Lagos-Abeokuta expressway, Ladipo bus-stop, Oshodi.

Below are some of the pictures taken at the scene of the accident.....

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http://www.familyparliament.com/4627/another-container-accident-in-lagos-pix
HealthIf You Want To Live Long,read This (part 3)- Cancer Is Reversible by TrulyHis(op): 4:16pm On Oct 28, 2015
During the Rapha Healthy Living Institute’s last session the FamilyParliament Crew met with a bre*st CANCER SURVIVOR. What medicine (drugs) couldn’t do for her, just a change of diet and lifestyle did even more. She spoke with so much emotion and she couldn’t help but use something to stop the tears.
Her name is Mrs Evelyn Okolo, she used to be into Security Consulting but now an Healthy Living Ambassador. After she attended the first module, she became totally free from cancer of the bre*st that has gulped millions of naira from her family.

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Mrs Evelyn Okolo


FP: Good day Ma, how did you get to know about the school?
Mrs Okolo: it is actually a very long story but I will summarize it. Year 2010 I was pregnant and later diagnosed of bre*st Cancer. I travelled to India for surgery and after I stayed for some time receiving treatment, I was certified cancer free so I came back home. In 2012 around February, I started feeling serious pains again but this time in just some few days it became highly unbearable that I couldn’t lift myself from the bed. Pains everywhere and I couldn’t do anything on my own. I went for another test and I was told it is bre*st cancer again, I was down because of the amount we spent earlier and the fact that it’s back. I called my Doctor in India and he said I needed to come for another procedure. It was in the middle of all these that somebody introduced me to healthy living and he gave me Halleluyah Diet’s site that I should go there and follow what they will recommend. I went there, filled in my details and I started the journey of smoothie and juice(purely fruits and vegetables). Within 2-3weeks of doing that, I was relieved of the pains and I could stand so at this point I felt this is just it. The woman called me again and said since I am in Lagos I should attend a school and she introduced this school to me. Before that session started, I visited Rev Tony and he further helped out on my diet before I came to attend the school.
Since 2012, I have not visited any hospital, I live majorly on fruits, vegetables, I do my exercise and this has affected my family positively. Once I say we are not taking something again in the house that is it. Even my daughter now hates milk and they don’t take junks to school again so I provided alternatives to all these.
In all I will say I am alive through the grace of God because some of the people I introduced this to but couldn’t change their lifestyle are dead.

FP: Are you not here because you are wealthy, some would have loved to attend but they are financially constrained?
Mrs Okolo: It is not everything that is money but determination to live. I know a very wealthy woman in my area that had the same health issue and I introduced this lifestyle to her, she waved it off because she wasn’t ready to change and after some months she passed on.
I will say it’s will power and determination. I spent millions of naira on the orthodox that didn’t produce any result but this hasn’t taken anything from me-it is just lifestyle change, diet(right food) and exercise.
I pulled through because I trusted God in all as well because I remember that woman will always call me to ask if I have prayed and taken my meal when I was supposed to take it. It is not money.

FP: What will be your advice to people out there?
Mrs Okolo: I will say if there is anything you want to do, just be determined and put your mind to it. This is not a hard routine but a healthy one that will take little to nothing from you. When you eat right you don’t even need cream, I can tell you I don’t know when last I really rub cream on my skin.
Again you don’t need to be sick before you start living well.

http://www.familyparliament.com/3922/if-you-want-to-live-long-read-this-part-3-cancer-is-reversib
Poems For ReviewIse Ni Ogun Ise (written By J.f. Odunjo)yoruba And English by TrulyHis(op): 12:46pm On Oct 21, 2015
ISE NI OGUN ISE (Written by J.F. Odunjo)

Ise ni ogun ise
Mura s’ise, ore Mi
Ise ni afi ndi eni giga;
Bi ako ba r’eni f’eyin ti,
Bi ole l’ari;
Bi ako ba r’eni gbekele,
Atera mo’se eni.
Iya re le l’owo l’owo,
Ki Baba re l’eshin le kan,
Ti o ba gb’oju l’e won;
Ote tan ni mo so fun o.
Se ohun ti ako ba fi ara jiya fun,
Ki ile pe rara;
Ohun ti aba fi ara sise fun,
Ni ipe lowo eni.
Apa lara, igunpa ni iye kan
Ti Aiye ba nfe o loni,
Ti o ba l’owo l’owo,
Aiye a ma fe o l’ola;
Tabi ki o wa ni ipo atata,
Aiye a ye o si terinterin;
Sugbon jeki o di eniti nrago,
Ki ori bi aiye ti nyimu si o.
Ti o ba ri awon opo eniyan,
Ti nfi eko se erin rin
Dakun mase fi ara we won.
Iya mbe fun omo ti ko gbon,
Ekun mbe fun omo ti nsa kiri;
Ma fi Owuro sere, ore mi,
Mura si’se – ojo nlo.

WORK IS THE ANTIDOTE TO POVERTY
Work is the antidote to poverty,
Apply yourself to work, my friend,
By working one attains greatness;
If one has no one to rely on,
That’s like being a loafer;
If one has no one to depend on,
One must apply himself to his occupation.
Your mother may have much wealth,
And your father own more than one horse,
If you pin your hopes on them,
Disappointed you will be, I tell you!
You see – what one has not personally suffered for,
Does not last long at all;
But that which we have worked earnestly for,
Lasts very long in one’s hands-
Your arm is a relative, your elbow is your sibling.
The world applauds you today,
If you have much wealth,
The world will love you tomorrow.
Or say you’re in a position of influence,
The world with honour you with smiles,
But become poor and needy,
And see how the world mocks you.
When you see a multitude,
Make mockery of learning,
Please do not emulate them.
Anguish awaits the senseless child,
Tears await the child running here and there,
Play not with the morning, my friend,
Apply yourself to work – the day is going by.


http://www.familyparliament.com/3676/ise-ni-ogun-ise-written-by-j-f-odunjo-yoruba-and-english
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HealthRe: If You Want To Live Long,read This (part 1) by TrulyHis(op): 10:30am On Oct 21, 2015
You are always welcome. You are very correct, truth is what we need IS NOT MORE MEDICATION BUT MORE EDUCATION. We really don't need to fall sick if we do the right thing(s). You can join www.familyparliament.com for other great information on health and family. God bless you and have a productive day.

NICOGRAVITY:
Health is wealth.
knowledge IS POWER.
God bless you greatly for sharing this.
I'm encouraged as I have added so much weight in recent time.
God bless you again and again.
HealthIf You Want To Live Long,read This (part 2) by TrulyHis(op): 10:06am On Oct 21, 2015
Family Parliament(FP) correspondents were at the just concluded module 2 session of The Rapha Healthy Living Institute(HLI) to interview randomly some set of people about the School, their personal experiences and their testimonies.

We met with Engineer Ernest Mbanefo, the Dean of the School who also doubles as a Lecturer of the Institute.

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Engineer Ernest Mbanefo
Dean, Rapha Healthy Living Institute


FP: Good afternoon Sir, can we meet you please?
DEAN: I am Ernest Mbanefo, an Engineer by training. I became Rev. Tony Akinyemi’s student about 9years ago and I have seen my health and that of my family changed through his simple bible-based health teachings. We are stronger, healthier, I have been able to impact other lives through the truth I know about healthy living and I have testimonies to back it up.

FP: Sir, can you tell us how you get to know Rev. Tony?
DEAN: I met him 11years ago as a Christian and my experience with him got my attention. I have had the privilege to sit under his teachings which caught my attention because he has a simple way of making people see why health is better than healing. I followed his recommendations through and eliminated all the things he talked about that are slowly destroying our health. I started to listen more and my children have never had malaria. No health challenge in my family, so I became an Evangelist for healthy living to other people. I followed him, read his books, attended his seminars and listened to him on television.

FP: Being a learned person, with what’s obtainable in our society where people are so resistant to change but would rather prefer to follow the status quo, how was it easy for you to accept him totally, change your lifestyle, diet and that of your family and how have you been able to convince people?
DEAN: I fully agree with you, all of us respond differently to change. Most would rather stay with the old way which they believe they know. Taking people away from the familiar to do the unfamiliar takes a lot of effort. These are part of the reasons why doing the unfamiliar is hard for people;
1. Habit: we are creatures of habit and so we find it difficult to accept new things
2. People don’t just want to change which as you have said, they are resistant to change.
3. They believe what the Doctors prescribe because Doctor said the way to go is drug, they have to follow that.
But, reality is God the manufacturer gave us His prescriptions which are easy and are His standards for healthy living. (Genesis 1:29), When followed they are beneficial and I’ve seen the result just by simple proposition that are not complex. To convince people is easy because my life and that of my family is passing the right message.

FP: You talked about right and wrong breathing during your lecture, Sir how can one breathe wrongly?
DEAN: It’s based on the principle that God gave functions to every part of our body. Nose is for breathing and stomach is for digestion. The right way to breathe is to breathe in through the nose which warms it, filters the air then send it to the lungs where nitic oxide a vasodilator is produced to help in normal breathing while mouth can be used to let out the air and not breathing in through the mouth. Even during exercise, air should be taken in through the nose not mouth.

FP: Concerning exercise, some people think it is for fat people so it is difficult to get the slim ones to exercise. How true is this and what can be done?
DEAN: What they need more is education. Exercise does a lot for the body because we are created to move. Whether thin or fat, you have to engage in exercise for oxygenation and detoxification of the body. Everybody needs fat and from experience, some slim people have more fat than some fat people because their muscles have not been trained. Beside the Body Mass Index (BMI) which is the first step but not the final, Body Fat Index should be known so that you can know how fit you are. Some slim people living sedentary life with age when the muscle mass reduces, fat takes the place and they still maintain their looks.

FP: How has the School done so far and how is the acceptance by the people?
DEAN: Very good question, so far we have been creating awareness to tell people they can take charge of their health without falling sick. Responses have been great and on the average number of Student we have is 50. In 2years, we have trained over 300people with the sole aim of moving them from awareness level to becoming Ambassadors/Evangelists of Healthy Living.
One of the objectives of the school is “To help people increase their healthy years.” It is not about just living but staying healthy. Not using the money they made in Nigeria to treat sickness in India which they may never recover from when there are safer and healthier alternatives. One of the challenges is the problem in our food industry which is where people are getting stuck the most, killing themselves slowly.
The acceptance too has been very encouraging because we have results. There was a case of a Couple married for years with no issue, by just tweaking the food they eat and lifestyle; they now have twins. It’s about replacing the bad with the healthy. The school is growing and we hope one day it will cover the entire landscape.

FP: How affordable is the School?
DEAN: It’s indeed very affordable because we did a benchmark and we saw that in some places people pay more. We also give scholarship for people that are interested but have financial challenge.
Another benefit is you can leave the school and change your career. We have people with million naira businesses who got the idea from the school. There was a woman who after surviving Arthritis, started organizing seminars and also has a shop where she sells smoothies and natural juices.
It’s an investment as well as an opportunity for career change.

FP: Your general advice Sir?
DEAN: My simple advice is “Follow the healthy way because healing is costlier.” The School is open to all, so take the advantage.

FP: Thank you for giving us your time Sir
DEAN: You are always welcome and if there’s any other thing I will be glad to fill the gap.

http://www.familyparliament.com/3627/if-you-want-to-live-long-read-this-part-2
HealthIf You Want To Live Long,read This (part 1) by TrulyHis(op): 9:55am On Oct 21, 2015
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It is a surprise seeing a Pastor who owns a church to also be running a health school, with hundreds of people flocking into the school, one can not but wonder what it is all about. That was our thought when last week we went to Rapha Healthy living Institute at Ikeja Lagos, where people were been giving lectures about Healthy Living, healing and vitality.
Rapha Healthy Living Institute is a school founded about 2years ago by Tony Akinyemi an America trained natural health expert. The sole aim of the school is not about making money but to raise healthy people, help people recover from hitherto incurable diseases, to raise Healthy living Ambassadors, who will propagate same wherever they find themselves.
The school is all out to impact people with the knowledge of healthy living.
Rev Tony said and I quote' "What people need is not more medication but more education"
He told his students who gathered in their numbers from within and outside the country that "Once people are well educated about the necessary steps to take, then diseases will be a thing of the past. Truth is,you can live your whole life without falling sick but it doesn't just happen on a platter of gold. There are things you need to do; which basically are all about simple addition and subtraction. Eliminating harmful things and replacing them with the healthy ones"

According to him "by simple change of life style, eating a well-balanced diet and engaging in exercise can prolong the number of your days? Make you live above diseases like Diabetes, Arthritis and even cancer. But as simple as it seems, people still find it difficult to do them and that's why the number of people that have died through forks and knives (what they ate) and sedentary living are more than people killed by guns and bullets.
The importance of healthy living can not be overemphasized, you just have to change because that's inevitable and the result is beneficial"
According to him "You can not be doing the wrong thing and expect to have the right result. Whatsoever you sow, that you shall also reap.
"The first principle for improving health is KNOWLEDGE; and the second principle is to eliminate health-destroying substances and habits from our lives. The second principle is derived from the first, because until we know what is right, we may not be able to do what is right.
He said,Remember, God gave us a prescription from the Bible; Genesis 1:29, " And God said, Behold I have given you every herb bearing seed, which is upon the face of all the earth, and every tree, in which is fruit of a tree yielding seed; to you it shall be for meat."
At the last session of the school, we had interview sessions with a lot of students who are in the module 2 of the school to share their experiences with Familyparliament team and we got testominies about how the school has helped in changing their lives completely. Helping many to reverse diseases and restore total health through the power of information which leads to change of lifestyle and doing vigorous exercise.

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During The Exercise Session
(You must be able to lift yourselves as husband and wife- no pot belly)


Many that were living with diabetes arthritis, Fibroid etc that are now totally cured without drug shared their amazing testimonies. You will read the testimonies of women giving birth in their fifties and many more in the part two of our report on this uncommon school.
So, join us on this journey as we bring you people's living testimonies and what you need to do to stay healthy for life.
To know more about the school visit: http://www.tsfhli.com

http://www.familyparliament.com/3602/if-you-want-to-live-long-read-this-part-1
TravelThe Gulf Of Alaska Where Two Oceans Meet by TrulyHis(op): 11:54am On Oct 13, 2015

BusinessCustomer Service Week Special by TrulyHis(op): 3:28pm On Oct 07, 2015
It's the Customer Service week and a lot of creative displays have been going on ranging from the banking sector to the telecommunication sector. I was at a branch of WEMA Bank today and they were all dressed in native. Seeing them on native got some customers asking question since today isn't Friday.

see pictures below:

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And these other ones are from a branch of FCMB & Etisalat respectively.

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PLUS I got a message from etisalat which reads;
"You Are Our Everyday HERO!Thank you for giving us an opportunity to serve you. Happy Customer Service week."

And from me to all of you; HAPPY CUSTOMER SERVICE WEEK!


http://www.familyparliament.com/3086/customer-service-week-special
RomanceAre You Single & You Want To Enjoy A Blissful Marriage? by TrulyHis(op): 3:00pm On Sep 18, 2015
Are You Single Still Searching Or In A Relationship And Want Your Relationship To Lead To An Excellent Marriage?
It takes a lot to make that work out well as you are planning it to be and one of what it takes is using the right pillars to build after laying a good foundation. If the pillar is wrongly laid, be sure the house will soon collapse. Though a lot of people; singles and married alike believe LOVE is all it takes for any marry to be successful; LOVE is just one pillar out of many and even what a lot of people call LOVE is PURE LUST. That four letter word is an acronym on its own ;
L- LISTEN
O: ONENESS
V: VALUE EACH OTHER
E: EMBRACE & ENCOURAGE EACH OTHER.

Are you seriously in need of the wisdom needed to have a solid marriage that all your mates will envy? Do you wish to put an end to all these incessant break-ups? Then….

BE OUR GUEST @ LAGOS SINGLES & MARRIED CONFERENCE to learn more
FREE registration @ http://www.totalfamilylife.com/lsc/
Date: 27th of September 2015. Time: 2;00pm
Theme: PILLARS OF MARRIAGE
Ministering: Pastor Bisi & Yomi Adewale
Song Ministration: Benita, Aperire, Proverbs 360, Living voices
Featuring: - Book Bonanza, Fire Prayers, Dynamic Teaching, Free recharge Cards, etc
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FamilyAre You Single & You Want To Enjoy A Blissful Marriage? by TrulyHis(op): 2:48pm On Sep 18, 2015
Are You Single Still Searching Or In A Relationship And Want Your Relationship To Lead To An Excellent Marriage?
It takes a lot to make that work out well as you are planning it to be and one of what it takes is using the right pillars to build after laying a good foundation. If the pillar is wrongly laid, be sure the house will soon collapse. Though a lot of people; singles and married alike believe LOVE is all it takes for any marry to be successful; LOVE is just one pillar out of many and even what a lot of people call LOVE is PURE LUST. That four letter word is an acronym on its own ;
L- LISTEN
O: ONENESS
V: VALUE EACH OTHER
E: EMBRACE & ENCOURAGE EACH OTHER.

Are you seriously in need of the wisdom needed to have a solid marriage that all your mates will envy? Do you wish to put an end to all these incessant break-ups? Then….

BE OUR GUEST @ LAGOS SINGLES & MARRIED CONFERENCE to learn more
FREE registration @ http://www.totalfamilylife.com/lsc/
Date: 27th of September 2015. Time: 2;00pm
Theme: PILLARS OF MARRIAGE
Ministering: Pastor Bisi & Yomi Adewale
Song Ministration: Benita, Aperire, Proverbs 360, Living voices
Featuring: - Book Bonanza, Fire Prayers, Dynamic Teaching, Free recharge Cards, etc
VENUE: NATIONAL STADIUM (N.I.S), Gymnasium Hall, Surulere, Lagos.
Info: 08051512823, BB Channel: C0039CD28
Twitter@parliamentforum

It's Never Too Late To Enjoy A Happily Ever After

Please Don't Miss It.
FamilyMAID FROM HELL: See What Kenyan Maid Allegedly Used To Cook Boss’ Meal by TrulyHis(op): 3:51pm On Sep 16, 2015
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According to reports, the 19-year-old Kenyan girl pictured above was caught on CCTV camera and arrested for allegedly using her urine to prepare a meal for her ‘madam’ and her family. She reportedly claims she did so to avenge the harsh treatment meted out to her by her boss.

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Investment10 Most Mineral-rich Countries In Africa by TrulyHis(op): 3:20pm On Sep 16, 2015
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When it comes to the stuff bling is made of, Africa is enormously bountiful. Its mineral deposits make it one of the richest natural-resource-laden places on Earth and everyone wants some. The following are the most mineral-rich countries in Africa.

Botswana – Diamonds

Botswana is home to 35 percent of Africa’s diamonds, most of which are gem quality, and is the world’s leading producer of diamonds by value. While the country also produces other minerals including copper, gold, nickel, and soda ash, diamonds remain Botswana’s main industry and account for the bulk of its gross domestic product.

Democratic Republic of Congo – Diamonds, Copper

The Democratic Republic of Congo is estimated to have more than $24 trillion worth of untapped raw mineral ore deposits, but even so it remains one of the greatest producers of diamonds (34 percent) and copper (13 percent) in Africa. However, the DRC continues to suffer from corruption and crime, and has been forced to shut down many mining operations to curb illegal activity.

South Africa – Diamonds, Gold, Aluminum, Copper, Platinum, Coal

South Africa has been the richest economy on the continent, in large part thanks to its enormous mining industry. While diamonds and gold constituted the largest portion of South Africa’s initial mining interests, the discovery of many other minerals allowed the country to diversify its investments. South Africa is the world’s largest producer of chrome, manganese, platinum, vanadium, and vermiculite, and the second-largest producer of ilmenite, palladium, rutile, and zirconium.

Tanzania – Gold

Though it is the fourth-largest gold producer in Africa, Tanzania earns just under 3 percent of its gross domestic product from the mining industry. Future years may see that number grow as the mining sector expands. Tanzania also has impressive deposits of iron ore, nickel, copper, cobalt, silver, diamond, and more.

Namibia – Uranium

Though Namibia is blessed with a wide variety of mineral resources, its 46 percent of the continent’s uranium stashes helps bring in nearly a quarter of Namibia’s annual income. The mining industry of Namibia is on the rise, and outputs are increasing significantly each year.

Mozambique – Aluminum

Though the mining industry in Mozambique only accounted for 1.5 percent of the country’s economy in 2012, the sector is expected to expand by more than 10 percent in the coming years as coal and gas become more and more widely mined. As it stands now, however, Mozambique is still a critical producer for aluminum, with 32 percent of Africa’s supply.

Zambia – Copper

Zambia is home to somewhere between 65 percent to 77 percent of Africa’s copper supply, far and away the leading producer in Africa. With several prolific mines, the country is able to create jobs for its citizens while contributing to the nation’s overall gross domestic product. Being a good conductor of heat, copper is used mostly for electrical wiring in the building construction industries. It’s also alloyed with iron and other metals to make brass and bronze and it’s used to make cook ware.

Guinea – Bauxite (for aluminum)

Guinea is responsible for more than 95 percent of Africa’s bauxite production, while Ghana accounts for the remainder. An aluminum ore, bauxite is crucial for aluminum production. In 2005, Guinea was the only African producer of alumina — synthetically produced aluminum oxide –– and the country continues to hold its critical place in helping with the world aluminum demand.

Niger – Uranium

With 44 percent of Africa’s uranium supply, Niger is one of the continent’s leading producers. Exports of minerals account for more than 40 percent of Niger’s exports. Though Niger also mines for cement, coal, goal, gypsum, limestone, salt, silver, and tin, its northern Agadez Region — a desert just northeast of Niamey — is known for its large uranium deposits, and has had mines operating in the area since 1971. Since it is naturally radioactive, uranium is most commonly used in the nuclear power industry to generate electricity.

Ghana – Gold

Ghana’s export trade is significantly bolstered by its mineral riches — 37 percent of total exports are minerals. Ghana is Africa’s second-largest producer of gold after South Africa, and holds more than 15 percent of the continent’s supply. Of the country’s mineral exports, gold contributes more than 90 percent. Ghana has also begun exploring further when it comes to mining its bauxite, manganese, and diamond reserves, but gold remains the focus.

http://www.familyparliament.com/2447/10-most-mineral-rich-countries-in-africa
Politics5 Things You May Not Know About Helen Mukoro by TrulyHis(op): 3:08pm On Sep 16, 2015
Helen Mukoro, The Nigerian Born Woman Running For Presidency In Spain

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Helen Mukoro is the first woman and the first immigrant to run for Spain’s presidency. Helen Mukoro is the presidential candidate of her new opposition party, Union De Todos.

A few things about her:

1. She is the first woman and an immigrant to emerge presidential standard bearer of a political party in the European country.

2. She was born in Delta State and migrated to Spain in 1992. Before her migration, she worked at the Ministry of Agriculture, Benin City, Nigeria. Deployed to Governor’s Office (Women Affairs Department) as Agricultural Officer, to help the rural women in Agriculture, and Asaba when Delta State was created.

3. She founded the party Union De Todos, and in May she became the first Nigerian-Spanish candidate to run for mayor of Denia in Spain’s eastern province of Alicante. Mukoro lost the election.

4. She runs a legal firm and has worked as a legal consultant at the Red Cross Society in Spain. She served as CEO and president of the African Europe chamber of commerce and CEO and president of the National Agency of Forensic Experts, Mediators and Technical Professionals of Spain and Europe.

5. Mukoro is an author and holds various academic degrees.

The 2015 Spanish general election is scheduled to take place on or before Dec. 20.

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FamilyDoctors Discover Unborn Twin Inside Woman Which Had Been Growing For 40 Years by TrulyHis(op): 2:51pm On Aug 19, 2015
A shocked mum has told of her horror after doctors discovered an enormous mass in her ovary that had been growing inside of her for 40 years.

Jenny Kavanagh initially visited doctors to have a contraceptive coil implanted, but after medics insisted on an ultrasound of her ovaries due to her age, they spotted a 10cm mass growing in her left ovary.

Worried experts even warned it could rupture and kill the 45-year-old, and later discovered it was her undeveloped unborn twin which had grown inside her from birth.

The discovery was complete with face, an eye, tooth, and long black hair like Jenny's.

Logistics officer Jenny, from Twickenham, London, said: "I feel very lucky that they found it and removed it before it killed me.

"I try not to think of it too much because I don't want to feel sad about it.

"If I'm honest, I did feel sad when I first saw it, because of the size and weight of it, it had already been likened to a baby.

"But I try not to feel sad about it. I try to remember that it had no heart and no brain.

"And that it would have almost certainly killed me if they hadn't found it and removed it.

"But in one sense there was grief, mixed with happiness.

"It was like a baby, but I was still glad it was out of me."

Divorced Jenny grew up in London, but moved to Cyprus in 2005 with her then-husband, to escape the 'rat race'.

The mum-of-two admits she has always avoided doctors and has never visited a gynaecologist, but had no problems with either of her pregnancies.

But when she started to have heavy periods she worried it might be due to a coil she had fitted 15 years ago and went to get a new one.

The consultant scanned her abdomen and while her right ovary was totally normal, the one on the left side had a 10cm dark mass, in May this year.

Her doctor assured her it was unlikely to be a cancerous tumour - and probably a teratoma or cyst - but Jenny was worried.

"I thought the worst," she said.

"He advised me it would have to come out regardless.

"If it twisted or ruptured it could kill me."

After tests proved inconclusive, 11 days later Jenny when under the knife for a three-hour operation to remove the mass at The Mediterranean Hospital of Cyprus.

Doctors agreed to take a photo of the mass on her phone and showed her it when she came around, explaining it was a mass of cells which had been inside her since birth.

When she looked at the snaps she was shocked to see long strands of dark hair, just like hers.

"The whole thing was so surreal I think I needed to see them to get my head around it all," she said.

"We cannot know for sure that it was an unborn twin, but the doctors said it most likely was a stem cell that I have had from birth.

"It is possible that there were twin embryos and one enveloped the other.

"The fact that it had long black hair - just like mine - a face, with one eye and one baby tooth makes it more believable.

"It's difficult to describe how I felt when I saw it. I felt shocked, very scared, horrified and it felt like an alien was inside me

"The doctor said it was like an ectopic pregnancy but that the ovary protected it.

"He said there would have been two embryos and that I was the stronger embryo and enclosed the weaker one.

"It was a stem cell that didn't stop growing, and the ovary protected it and stopped it from rupturing.

"But the bigger it grew, the bigger the chance of a haemorrhage.

"When I showed the picture to my mum she was really sad - saw it as her unborn child, and my unborn twin."

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Romance10 Signs You're Dating An Emotionally Unavailable Man (or Woman) by TrulyHis(op): 2:10pm On Aug 19, 2015
Have you ever met someone who "romantically" knocked you off your feet -- as in "Hi Mom and Dad... you're not going to believe this, but I just met the man of my dreams!"

But, sadly, a few months later, your conversation changed to, "I can't believe he turned out to be so emotionally unavailable, and commitment-phobic."

There are people who chronically meet and date individuals who, at first, seem so perfect for a warm, loving relationship. But when those same "in love" people take off their rose colored glasses, they realize the person they thought was Mr. Right was really Mr. Wrong . How did they not recognize this? How did they miss the obvious warning signs before they became intimate and gave their heart away?

Answer: it's so easy to become intoxicated during that early infatuation stage when you meet someone who fits your pictures and seems like the perfect match. ("He's so good-looking," or "What a gorgeous woman!" or "What an exciting personality! or "He's so rich!" or "She's so hot in bed!" or "He wants the same thing I want: to settle down and have children."wink

For those of us who've been in a relationship with an emotionally unavailable person, we know the pain of not being able to get close to the person we love. Our deep love for them can put us in denial of the fact that they are unavailable for an intimate, close relationship with us.

If a person is serious about finding an emotionally available person for a committed partnership, there are whole categories of people who should be avoided: people living in another state, those who are still married or in love with someone else, and people with addictions - be it workaholics or drug addicts.

The "booby prize" in life is trying to understand or change the behavior of an emotionally unavailable person. (Only they can change themselves.) People can be unavailable for both healthy and unhealthy reasons. They may have suffered through a troubled childhood experience that has wounded them or they now have higher priorities such as their career or taking care of a sick parent. Perhaps, they are recently divorced or widowed, and legitimately not ready to get involved in an intimate relationship. Then, there are those who are too afraid of taking the risk of falling in love because they have been hurt too much in their previous relationships.

Ironically, most emotionally unavailable people are easy to spot, quite transparent, showing you their true colors, right from the beginning. Here are the top 10 signs you are dating a person who is not ready for a committed relationship with you. If you notice several of these signals in that person, it may be time to ask yourself why you're still in a relationship with them. Are you really serious about wanting to be in a committed relationship?

10 Signs You're Dating an Emotionally Unavailable Person

1. Sexually Fast. Beware of a person who wants to become sexually familiar quickly. Often they are seducers just looking for another conquest. Or, if they are over-focused on s*x it may be because they don't feel they have anything else to offer. Once the relationship becomes too intimate, they'll cut and run.

2. A Real Charmer. Look out for the person who is quick to flatter and compliment you without really knowing you. Often these people "do" charming (as opposed to "being" charming) and are adept at communicating and appearing enthusiastic and enthralled. It's a well-rehearsed act. Their focus is on short-term intimacy, appearing to be open, revealing and vulnerable. In reality they prefer the chase to the catch.

3. Complains about Past Relationships. In a discussion about their past relationships, they will denigrate their former partners. Their relationship break-ups are never because of their behavior or the problems they created. The failures of their unsuccessful partnerships are always based on the faults of their exes. They lack the maturity to take responsibility for their mistakes in their past relationships.

4. Can't Pass the Screen for Intimacy. Make sure to probe a new person to find out why past long-term relationships did not work and ended. Ask questions to discern whether failure occurred because of their inability to develop intimacy or other issues that would give you pause for concern.

5. What They Say. Often emotionally unavailable people will say, "I'm just not good at having a relationship," or "I don't think I'm ready for marriage." Believe them! In this case, they are not lying. But don't fall into their trap: there is something terribly seductive about trying to be "the one" who turns them around. Don't try. Accept their negative pronouncements. This may be the first and only time you'll hear them speak the truth (as they know it).

6. How They Treat Others. Especially when out in public with them, notice whether they treat others with kindness or contempt. For example, if they are rude to a waiter or taxi driver, it may be indicative of their pent-up anger. This is a signal that they are a demanding and emotionally abusive person who will one day turn their anger on you.

7. Their Character. Avoid someone with a big ego, filled with conceit, who tries to win favor by bragging about who they are or what they have. This is a red flag that signals their low self-esteem and lack of emotional health. Emotionally healthy people who have done some sort of personal development, by contrast, show a quiet confidence that says they can be intimate and committed despite their flaws.

8. Watch Out for Perfectionists. Emotionally unavailable people tend to be perfectionists, always looking for the fatal flaw or character defect that gives them permission to exit a relationship and move on. In reality, they are debilitated by their own self-criticism and fear of being rejected. They are so frightened of intimacy that eventually they'll find an excuse for leaving a relationship. (The booby prize is thinking that you'll ever be good enough to meet their impossible standards.)

9. Self-Centered Behavior. Beware of someone who operates the relationship as if it should revolve around them. These individuals set the agenda for a relationship, control it, and won't be inconvenienced by having to modify their routine or the plans they've made. This type of emotionally unavailable person is commitment-phobic, and not relationship-oriented. They are inflexible and loathe having to compromise.

10. Elusive Conduct. They seem to be available only when convenient for them. Your requests for more time with them are met with excuses about how hard they're working or how tired they feel. Even after a seemingly intimate weekend, they can disappear for long periods with no regular contact. Their actions are incongruent with their words. It's easy for them to utter an "I love you," and then act in a way that is unloving.

If you notice that the person you're dating exhibits several of these signs, don't waste time trying to convert or change them. Just accept that they are not a fit for you. This will take discipline on your part, but it will save you from great emotional disappointment and allow you to be free to meet someone for a healthier relationship that has a future. The choice is yours.

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RomanceDo You ‘turn Toward’ Your Spouse? by TrulyHis(op): 1:51pm On Aug 19, 2015
We are wired to connect in relationships.

Intimate emotional and physical connection is the goal of every couple when they marry. For decades, relationship experts believed that marital connection required self-disclosure, sharing intimate, personal thoughts, being more open and removing the emotional barriers between spouses.

In 1990, researcher John Gottman began videotaping hundreds of couples in their day-to-day lives talking like they normally talked. He expected to see successful couples involved in countless small examples of self-disclosure and personal sharing. He was wrong.

Successful couples spent most of their time talking about ordinary things that seemed to make no difference to anyone, such as “breakfast cereals, mortgage rates or the baseball game.” They rarely talked about their deep, inner feelings.

Gottman realized emotional connection doesn't result from lowering emotional barriers. Instead, connection results when one spouse reaches out to the other and the other takes hold. Lowering emotional barriers helps, but couples won't connect until one reaches out across the gulf that separates them and the other accepts the outstretched hand.

Gottman calls reaching out a “bid for connection.” Successful couples make countless bids back and forth; each accepting the other's bid. Their bids often look remarkably inconsequential. It doesn't matter. What matters is that the bid is made and accepted.

For example, one spouse says: “Honey, here's a funny comic strip … .” If his or her spouse replies, “What's it say?” in an interested tone, the bid is accepted. If the spouse responds, “Don't bother me, I'm busy!” the bid is rejected.

Bids can sound like requests: “Can you help me for a minute?” “How's your sister doing?” or “Let's make love tonight.” Bids can involve almost any subject, ranging from small talk or humor to problem solving or talking about future goals. They can also come in different forms:

Verbal: “How was your day?”

Facial expressions: a smile or blowing a kiss.

Affectionate touching: hand-holding or a hug.

Playful touching: Dancing or friendly wrestling.

Gestures: Opening a door, or handing a needed utensil.

Vocalizing: Laughing, sighing or groaning “in a way that invites interaction or interest.”

Responses to bids come in three basic forms: Turning toward the bid, turning away from the bid, or turn against the bid. Your spouse asks: “How'd things go today?” Turning toward your spouse means replying: “It was hectic! The customers were crazy, but we made it through.”

Turning away: You ignore the question and ask, “Did we get any mail today?”

Turning against: “As if you really care!”

Ways of turning away from bids include non-responsiveness, dismissiveness or interruptions that move to an unrelated matter. Turning against your spouse's bid for connection can involve put-downs, insults, belligerent responses, criticism and character attacks or defensiveness. Turning away and turning against your spouse's bid results in fewer bids by your spouse and the inevitable destruction of your relationship.

Successful couples turn toward each other with a head nod, an “uh-huh,” an affirmative “OK” or “sure,” a validating statement of agreement or empathy. Accepting the bid for connection encourages even more connecting bids and makes the relationship stronger.

Every couple has a choice: They can turn toward each other's connection bid, or they can turn away or turn aggressive. Most connection bids involve matters that are insignificant by themselves and would take a matter of seconds to turn toward.

But that momentary decision to turn toward or away from a bid, made countless times over the years, will make or break your marriage. The next time your spouse makes a connecting bid, understand its importance and chose to turn toward your spouse and toward a healthy, successful marriage.

http://www.familyparliament.com/1458/do-you-turn-toward-your-spouse
PoliticsBREAKING! Palace Denies Death Of Ooni, Says He Is Still Alive by TrulyHis(op): 2:31pm On Jul 29, 2015
Vanguard reports that there is no truth in the reported death of Osun monarch, Oba Sijuade Okunade, the Ooni of Ife.

The Royal Traditional Council (RTC) of the town, on Wednesday, July 29, stated that the paramount ruler is alive and in good state of health.

The group, which has the traditional chiefs and title holders in Ile-Ife said Oba Sijuade is not only alive, he is also preparing for his son’s wedding holding Sunday, next week, in Lagos.

Ooni of Ife, Oba Sijuade Okunade is not dead, according to palace sources


Vanguard stated further, that sources close to the foremost traditional ruler revealed that the traditional wedding of the new couple took place last weekend in London.

While addressing newsmen at the House of Chiefs located within the premises of Ile-Oodua palace of the Ooni, Lowa of Ife, Oba Joseph Ijaodola, who spoke in Yoruba, said the media report that the respected monarch died in a London Hospital of an undisclosed ailment, was not true.

Secretary of the RTC who spoke in Ife, the Ladin of Ife, High Chief Adetoye Odewole, said the Ooni is hale and hearty and he even spoke to the chiefs on the phone few hours earlier.

“Those behind the death story are enemies of Ife and as I speak with you, chiefs have not heard anything like that. This is not the first time such rumour will be carried about our father.


“They did it in 1984, also in 2004 and now, these people are coming up with another rumour. Oba Sijuade remains in sound state of health,” he was quoted to have said.
Meanwhile, reports from the palace have it that people have been denied access to the palace of the monarch, as many people have thronged the royal home of the revered Oba to confirm the reports.

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FamilyRe: 10 Women Christian Men Should Never Marry by TrulyHis(op): 11:51am On Jul 29, 2015
Good Day House, The Second Aspect Of This Post Is Already Available. So You Can Check "10 Men Christian Woman Should Never Marry" As Well. It's Now A Balanced Equation. We Pray For You, You Will Never Marry Your Enemy.

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Family10 Men Christian Women Should Never Marry by TrulyHis(op): 11:42am On Jul 29, 2015
As women, we grow up dreaming about whom we’ll someday marry. We watch countless romantic movies and read fairy tales about Prince Charming. We have Pinterest boards for planning the big wedding day. We make lists of traits we’d love to see in a future husband, longing for Mr. Right. Often our expectations loom big. And in our quest for the happily ever after, we may start to feel like we have to settle.

Often when our interests are sparked and feelings are flowing, we can get swept away and even lose sight of what is true. Yet, love doesn’t have to be blind. There’s no reason to settle for relationships that are unhealthy or even harmful.

God cares about you. He cares about the one you marry. And you can trust He will give guidance or even some red flags to be aware of along the way.

10 Characteristics that Should Raise a Red Flag:

1. The Unbeliever – Marriage can be hard enough at times, add to that the pressure of deeper spiritual disconnect, and you may be in big trouble when the normal stressors of life occur. Missionary dating and marriage will be a road of extra struggle. If you hold vastly different spiritual beliefs now, don’t falsely assume you’ll get him to “turn around,” or change his ways later. It may happen, but it may not. Be careful not to settle for less than what God would want for the spiritual health and care of your marriage.

2 Cor. 6:14

2. The Abuser - You are worth far too much to be abused by anyone. Ever. Move quickly away from anyone who brings you physical, verbal, or deep emotional harm. It’s not worth it to attach yourself to one who desperately needs help and freedom himself. You are not his saving grace. That is God’s work. Marriage is built on deep love and respect and this is most certainly no way to begin. See the warning signs for what they are. Believe you are valuable and precious to God. Say “no more” and move on.

Ps. 11:5

3. The Addict – This man needs freedom that can only come by admitting there’s a problem and seeking counseling, professional help, and the strength that God can bring. Addiction to alcohol, drugs, or pornography will lead to destruction. And though your relationship may seem to challenge him in the right direction, don’t be fooled that he’ll so quickly “give it all up for you,” without the aid and accountability of professional help. You are not the one to set him free and your role is not to try to change him. Only God can.

1 Cor. 6:12

4. The Narcissist – If your boyfriend cares more about what he looks like in the mirror on any given day, than what you do, or can’t seem to get enough of his “greatness,” you may have trouble ahead. No matter how handsome, talented, and charming one may seem, marriage is built on the word “together.” If the relationship before marriage seems a bit one-sided, emphasis on “his side,” it may be destined for struggle. Your life should be greatly cherished by the man who calls you his wife. Humility, compassion, love, and respect towards others are much more admirable characteristics than simply the externals.

2 Tim. 3:2-5

5. The Controller - What seems to be disguised early on as “I’m only trying to help,” can really be a deep need for control and a heart of jealousy. This man will dominate and strive to make every decision for you, decide who you should spend time or who you should no longer see. The one driven by control needs will have continual issues with whether he can “trust you.” Often, under the grasp of the controller, you may start to feel like you can hardly breath. It’s suffocating. It’s supposed to be, that’s how he holds you in his grasp. Be free. This is not your problem to fix. It’s God’s.

James 3:16

6. The Angry, Hot-tempered Man – A man who cannot control his temper before you’re married, will most certainly be a man who cannot control his temper after you’re married. In most cases, it will worsen. No matter what our personality type, it still doesn’t give us room to plow over anyone in our pathway with harsh words and rants. Take time in different scenarios to see how he responds, especially under pressure. How does he act on the ball field? In traffic? When the waiter gets the order messed up? When the pressures mount at work? When you’re running late? The key is – does he realize it’s an area of weakness that he desires for God to help him change? If the answer is “no,” steer clear.

Prov. 22:24

7. The Man Still Tied to Mama - We all love a man who loves his Mom. There is deep respect for those who care for and show love to their parents. Yet sometimes the lines get blurred. When the guy you’re dating still has every bill paid by his parents, they control every decision he makes, and he cares more about what Mama thinks than what you think - newsflash – struggle is ahead. One of the number one causes of divorce is relationship difficulty with in-laws. No family is perfect, but be sure you’re both on the same page when it comes to leaving, cleaving, and uniting as one. If there is trouble with drawing healthy boundaries before you’re married, there most definitely will be trouble later.

Matt. 19:5

8. The Flirt, Cheat, Tempter – Behaviors established before marriage are not going to magically go away once you say “I do.” Sexual sin can be a deep trap of the enemy and once ensnared in these destructive patterns, they are difficult to break. The mistakes of the past should hold no control over our present and future. Watch for behaviors that signal trouble. Is he respectful to women? Does he flirt with your best friend or the waitress at dinner? Is he begging you to sleep with him? Red flag. Be careful that you have wisdom to see the true heart before you enter covenant relationship with one entrenched in sexual sin. You are worthy of respect, the one who loves you, will wait for you.

1 Cor. 6:18

9. The Liar - Every marriage must be built on trust. Without this as a firm foundation, you’re in for trouble from the beginning. So what about those “little white lies” you started noticing along the way? In reality, there’s no such thing as little white lies. Any lie is meant to hide, deceive, or manipulate truth. There is no room for dishonesty in a healthy, loving relationship. It’s a dangerous trap and you will always be left wondering what he’s hiding.

Prov. 19:9

10. The One with Destructive Money or Work Habits - If you’re supporting your boyfriend and paying for everything now - this may not change much later. Is he a hard worker? Does he have a job? Is he a workaholic? Does he have secretive spending habits? Addiction to gambling? Insurmountable debt? Once married, these patterns can worsen when the stressors of family life and responsibilities mount high. Money problems and financial struggles are one of the main causes of divorce. Have the discussions before you’re married. Decide upfront if the two of you can agree on the big issues.

Prov. 13:20

One truth – Nothing is impossible with God. Absolutely nothing. If you find these traits in one you love, or even in yourself, the hope is that He doesn’t leave us on our own to try to figure it all out. He brings help and healing for any situation.

There is no pit too deep, no road too far traveled that His love can’t reach us still. There are no bags from the past too big for Him to shoulder, and help us to unpack, one small piece at a time. He will not grow weary. He will never give up on us.

While You Are Waiting:

- Pray that God will guide and give you wisdom. Ask for His protection and help in making the best choices about any relationship. Pray for His truth to bring freedom.

-Believe the best about yourself. You are valuable, you are treasured by God. Do not believe the lies that you are “less than,” or need to settle for one you can’t fully trust, or may not treat you respectfully or lovingly.

-Trust Him with your future. We may not have it all figured out or be able to see what, or who, is ahead. But He knows. His timing is perfect. His ways are good. He’s often at work behind the scenes where we can’t see. Don’t think for a minute He’s forgotten you. He cares. And He has the power to do great things

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CultureRe: Okunade Sijuwade, The Ooni Of Ife Is Dead by TrulyHis(f): 10:36am On Jul 29, 2015
Surely There Is An End To And Of Everything. Rest In Peace Kabiyesi.


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CrimeRe: Father Poisons Baby To Divorce Wife by TrulyHis(f): 10:33am On Jul 29, 2015
Why Take The Life Of An Innocent Child Just To Get His Selfish Desire Fulfilled? This Is Pure Wickedness.

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FamilyRe: 10 Women Christian Men Should Never Marry by TrulyHis(op): 2:17pm On Jul 28, 2015
Thanks For The Comments, Please Expect The Second Aspect Of This Post Tomorrow; Which Is "10 Men Every Christian Women Should Never Marry"

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