@poster

I will suggest that you take sometime off to xray your previous relationships, your roles and their roles. They cannt be all wrong.

Becoming bad would not change anything it would only cause more harm.

Sometime soon u will find the lady that will appreciate and love u for who you are.

Goodluck!

Dear all,

I really appreciate your words. Its a very terrible thing to be a cheat, until it i found myself in this condemnable act, i never imagined i could fall a victim of it.

Although it is not good to give excuses for our actions, but i know most of you will agree with me that it is not just a function of being a bad girl, but when your emotions are involved then its a very difficult situation. I m making conscious efforts to amend my ways.


@tumfulu

You dont have to be nasty, we all have our frailties and thats why we are human.

The circumstances beyond our control is a strong oposition from my parent. They have given me a thousand and one reasons why i cant marry him.    

1) Age differnce is too much, he is 10yrs older i m in my late 20's.

2) That the marriage would be stressful cuz of raisin the kids later in life,  

3) That he must have been frivolous with women for him to have stayed this long

4) That our interests will differ in a couple of years to come etc

The circumstances beyond our control is a strong oposition from my parent. They have given me a thousand and one reasons why i cant marry him.

1) Age differnce is too much, he is 10yrs older i m in my late 20's.

2) That the marriage would be stressful cuz of raisin the kids later in life,

3) That he must have been frivolous with women for him to have stayed this long

4) That our interests will differ in a couple of years to come etc

Dear All,

It is with lots of pains that i m writting to you pease help. I had this relationship that lasted for about 8months. This guy was very good to me and I really love him too. Unfortunately as a result of circumstances beyond our control we both agreed to part ways.

Honestly it been very truamatizing for us, everytime we see or talk on the phone we cry out our eyes, several months after our break up, we both are now in seperate relationships, but have become CHEATERS this makes me feel very misrable.

Please how can i get him out of my life, although its very painful and sad, but i hate to be a cheat, and if i dont take this decision he will not either.