Now that my girl has bleeped up.i have been restless. i just have the feeling that i shd find someone else.But my problem is that, i do not believe there is any girl i can count on again. i have experienced this kind of maltreatment from 3 girls now. i have always been faithful but all they do is to turn me down.then, i think i shd stop showing that i love them, maybe that will help reduce problem or what do you think?

It could sth bout u and don't be in a haste to blame or judge the gurls

all d best!

aww, sorry booo, since all the girls have failed and you can't  believe in any girl again, why don't u try guys? who knowz, you might find happiness there

@Hotstepper: lol. Haba pity the guy now
Man keep faith. maybe you will find the one you will turn down one day? 

When you say three girls have turned you down what do you mean ?
Was it that they rejected your overtures or they were unfaithful or they broke the relationship ?

Which ever one it was I will advice you look inwards into yourself to see what you are not doing right.
Three girls have  turned you down by time your are 24  Then maybe it is not the girls who have the problem.

Are you too demanding ?
Are you too effeminate ? Heterosexual women do not want a man who is more like a woman in emotion, action and attitude
Are you too possessive ?
Are too insenstive or too sensitive ?
Are you too gentle and too nice ? Doing all they ask you to do and never being in control of the relationship. Most women like men who are in control.
Are you a lousy lover ?
Have you got some terrible body odour ?

There countless questions to consider but the base line is to find out what you are not doing right.

Maybe you should ask your last girl friend why she is turning you down and let her sincerely tell you so that you can stay making corrections

It's soo sad that nice guys end up gettinng shit from ladies so u sef go out 2 town n have fun.U fit go bar beach sef if e 2 hard u.at least der u fit carry go, just cheer up man n try sleeping around 2 ok?I bet u'll feel better

funloving! na wa o! you just think i am the problem.no! i seems you don't get my points right.it's not what you are thinking.I got all your points but i am not in any category. thanx.
may be i am too gentle.thats all. so teach me!

@poster

I will suggest that you take sometime off to xray your previous relationships, your roles and their roles. They cannt be all wrong.

Becoming bad would not change anything it would only cause more harm.

Sometime soon u will find the lady that will appreciate and love u for who you are.

Goodluck!

D-U-H . . . . . old topic. - 2006

The guy is probably dead by now. or maybe got himself a new girl!!

Busta:

D-You-H . . . . . old topic. - 2006

The guy is probably dead by now. or maybe got himself a new girl!!

LOL . . .haba . . . .Busta, Naijas' mortality rate ain't that bad . . .dead keh.

Nautillus:

LOL . . .haba . . . .Busta, Naijas' mortality rate ain't that bad . . .dead keh.

hehehhehe. . u neva know.
It been years back

Abi topic don finish ni ?

The poster does not need to reflect back, its unfortunate that wen a guy is good, gentle,faithful there is always a possibility dat he gets hooked to a lady with opposite character.

@poster

Search yourself and mend your ways !

zignor:

what about money? Are you always broke?

ask am oh!!

Or ,maybe you dey find people wey no be your level. It takes a focused girl to date a good man beneath her class.