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Monalisa185:
nah...on the contrary... I amend a broken heart

hmm, I hear you

Monalisa185:
for?

seems to me like you broken a lot of hearts

Monalisa185:
it's obvious na

smh

1.Family Detachment

One sign that she may be cheating is that she detaches herself from your family. She may also stop hanging out with your friends as well. The reason women do this is out of remorse. Basically, she feels guilty and will feel less pain if she isn’t immersed in your life- including family or friends. Remember, the less mental baggage she has holding her back, the easier it will be for her to commit the deed.

2.Consistent Nagging
The days of harmonious communication are
gone when a women decides to do nothing but nag. Basically, she will find every excuse to lash out and argue with you. The reason a woman will do this is to justify her deed by rationalising that it wasn’t working out with your anyway. It helps eliminate a lot of her guilt. So if a woman starts to point out every flaw and starts arguments about every little thing then it could be a sign that she has been unfaithful or is going to.

3.The Mysterious Friend

One telltale sign that a woman is being unfaithful is that she has a mysterious friend who slowly makes a bigger impact in her life.
Whether it is a co-worker or someone that she knows from school, she may keep him a secret as well as may be hesitant to share information about him with you. It really doesn’t take a rocket scientist to figure out that something out of the norm is happening here and you should speak with your significant other about it be.

4.Deflecting Simple Questions

When your girlfriend starts acting suspicious and starts to avoid very simple questions then this could be a sign that she’s hiding something. If she immediately repeats your questions back to you before answering then
chances are good that she’s searching her mind for a lie. On the same token, she may become very defensive when you ask her questions about her whereabouts or future plans. As a general rule of thumb, if she starts to deflect information that she used to volunteer in the past, she is hiding something that she doesn’t want to tell you about.

5.Shift in Priorities

If a woman is involved in heavy romance with another man then she will definitely start to shift her priorities away from yours. All of a sudden, she won’t have time to see you and she will start to break-off regular meetings that you used to have with her. Also, if there is a sudden switch in dates for particular events like dance-lessons or work schedule then she's probably making them to see her new fling.
Basically, anything action that is designed to create distance between you and her could be a sign of infidelity.

6.She Looks Sexier More Often

A woman who is cheating will go way out of her way to make sure that she is looking as best as she can before leaving the house. The reason she does this is to dazzle and impress her new fling as much as possible. Remember that way that she dressed at the beginning of your relationship together? That is how she is going to try and present herself when she does something wrong. She’ll wear new jewelry, clothing, and even makeup. She’ll even wear
these things to places where there is really no need for them like the mall for example.

7.She Becomes More Independent

Part of trying to break it off with you and having her romance with her new guy is that she wants to be independent from you. The earlier she starts doing this, the less of a burden it will actually be when the time comes to leave you (if and when she decides to do it). Basically, she will start to drop her vocabulary from “we” to phrases that favor “I”. However, what is more important to watch out for is that she will stop speaking with you about future
plans. In short, she will start acting a manner that dictates that she no longer needs you to hold her hand. Whether or not she is actually going to leave your or simply create more space for your “double life” it is safe to say that she
doesn’t want you in the picture. The reason she does this is because she can’t build up the nerve to tell you that it is over and that she wants to start over with someone new.

8. Have Low Sex Drive

This is probably one of the biggest telltale sign that a woman is unfaithful. Essentially, she won’t be interested in having sex with you anymore. And if you do make love then it will only be when she wants it. Another reason why
she will have a lower sex drive is because she doesn’t want to continue and string you along. Chances are good that she’s already engaging in sexual activities with her new partner if she isn’t sleeping with you anymore.

9. Have Secret Schedules

A woman who is being secretive about her schedule is more than likely hiding something. For example, does she hide her whereabouts when you call her? Does she always “go away on businesses”? If she is gone a lot of the time
and not telling you where she is going or when she’s coming back then chances are good that she’s seeing someone else. As a general rule of
thumb, the less you know about her itinerary the more worried you should be about where she is and who she is spending her time with.

10.You Become Irrelevant

What is worth than a girlfriend who nags about every little thing? How about a girlfriend or wife who doesn’t even know that you exist? While it may be hard to imagine, it does happen to a lot of guys. Their significant other simply pretends like they are not even there anymore. Keep in mind that this may happen right away or little by little. A woman who is no longer interested
in you and becomes interested in another man will automatically start to pretend as though you don’t even exist.

Tunchi says so

Berrylite:
Good evening everyone. I had wanted to coment on this issue but I have been restraining myself. However I will now speak up now.

Asthma has a cure....

The cure is 100& herbal and I have seen my father prepared the combination for many people and they we cured for real...I have given out the combination to someone here a long time ago, but Neva came back to tell his testimony....

Pls, Its been up to five years I gave it out here, so I gat to look for it. When i find it, I will come here to contact the OP and I give it FOC. Thank you

I would really appreciate that miss. You would help save a life

klassiquette:
I'll seriously not advice the constant use of inhaler ...

Why please?

kokomilala:
There is .He needs a vasodilator.

what is the use if I may ask

1. Yoga pants. The whole point of yoga pants is that they cling to you(r butt) like a second skin. They’re not comfortable or fun when they get all bunchy and weird. You did not pay a silly amount of money to wear diaper-chic to yoga.

2. Jeans constantly slide down your body. You’ve tried belting, hemming, holding, and jumping up and down like an asshole and, still, your pants will not stay up. You’ve probably broken the belt loops on at least one pair of jeans from all the times you’ve pulled on them.

3. Squatting makes zero difference. You’ve spent enough time on Jen Selter’s Instagram to know that even if you were to stop everything and squat for a living, you would still never look like that.

4. You conform to the shape of your desk chair. Forget about being exhausted or excited to leave work, by the time you stand up for the day, you are more concerned about the fact that your butt might very well be flatter than it was before.

5. You cannot twerk for poo. Similarly, you cannot back, back, back it up on the dance floor. How does Miley do it

6a. The timeless classic “Baby Got Back” hurts your soul. You know every single word — not for its brilliance, but for the fact that you have to look busy somehow when the song comes on. Shouting about not getting none unless you got buns, hun, is better than acknowledging it.
6b. You rejoiced when “Rack City” arrived. Until you got to the part that suggested you should wear a poncho if you ain’t got no ass. You don’t want to wear a poncho.

7. You must buy bathing suits as separates. Bathing suit shopping is so fun, until you realize you have to sort through double the racks to get your mismatching pieces.

8. Riding bikes hurts. The built-in cushion is nice, but basically ineffective without some extra (natural) padding.

9. You can’t sit on anyone’s lap. People complain that “you are just so bony, OMG!” Down you are pushed to the bottom of the clown car that holds you and your friends going to da club. Guess what, I have no extra padding, remember? Ouch.

10. When people who have actual butts say they are jealous of you. I’m really sorry that you’re hating on your wonderful curves. Let me try and twerk real quick to make you feel better.

11. Bubble butt is so much more fun-sounding than pancake butt. Pants don’t slide off a bubble butt. Bubbles are round and fun! That being said, pancakes are delicious and, ultimately, do not go to your ass, so...

#Copied

He actually didn't use to be asthmatic. Started in his early 20s, what can he do?

I'd give Dasuki

Add Yours

Considering their power in arms and man power, who do you think stands a chance.

Please this is noting but a hypothetical statement. Just for knowledge sake.

For me it's the church

I've not regretted anything more than opening an account with this useless bank

Cholls:
My brother yes!

have you had an experience?

misspicy:
OP explain demanding

. Materially

Most likely my friends that have dated an igbo girl keeps giving me the same complaint that igbo ladies are way more demanding than the yorubas. How true is this?

This one is an Original by me
'For You, There Is Nothing I Won't Do
'With You There Is Nothing I Can't Do



Still Looking For A lady To Tell That To Though

Drop Yours Guys

For me, it's a No!

lilmax:
tunchi101 dont leave this comment hanging

Are you ready to share in house maintenance?

I wish but I'm sure I wouldn't be chanced but my lady on d oda hand could make time or probably hire a maid

misspicy:
....odun ofe ke

I can't even stop crying

misspicy:
kikikiki....so those students that are still eating mama thank you will tutor me?....i laugh in spanish



mr man this is how i see this issue and i have got a right to freedom of expression.... ....i don't need anybody to tutor me or agree with me .....
there is a huge difference between social media and the outside world mister

ok

misspicy:
see until you realise that everyone cannot be poor like you,the better for you....and who.says my comments.will bring any body my way,well look up the self independent acclaimed women comments well well and start sending them PM.....they will slave up very well for you

ok

Jolllyjoy:
me blunk kwa ogini?


Am just saying the truth,some of them claiming independent ladies are those with 'demand' on their forehead..

Thank you for this your comment. Dat misspicy be thinking you are on her side

Abbykem:
Kudos 2 my mama. She didn't raise me to depend on guys that's why I keep hustling hard. Just too sad when u see 'ladies' with the mentality that the husby should do everything.

a lady with class!. You should probably tutor @misspicy on ways to b a beta lady. Believe, ladies like you ends up with men with real money

misspicy:
okay thanks for your advice



hustle hard to feed your family.....only sissys wait for help from any woman,its her choice to help you not a must,ask God to bless you beyond waiting for a woman's help because this your mentality is called poverty mentality

My dear, Poverty? you've got no idea girl. I actually feel sorry for you though cause while ladies like u are out there forming feminist which is kind of sexy, you are here looking for someone to feed you.

If you call my mentality poverty mentality, then lemme be in poverty forever

Just keep commenting ehnn, I'm sure some boy with change would take notice of you dear

misspicy:
God bless you.....its all.this lazy ass men.looking for women to feed them that types trash.... yet they will be demanding for respect....confused people

I'm not sure if you're not matured enough to understand what you just read or ur brain isn't capable of comprehending it. All d same, stop being a bimbo. No one is saying a man shld not provide, wot I'm saying is dat ladies like u shouldn't turn urselves to liability on guys head

Grow Up Girl. No Offence

Just For Fun

TheeReaper:
Oh men!!! How many times will you low self esteeme'd males repeat this trash huh?? As long as am okay financially i dont care if my woman support's me financially!!,GOD gave me(male) the responsibility to be the bread winner in my family,so why should i care if my woman support's or not? Na WAH OOO

low esteemed? U real amusing man.

tollyB:
100 percent with you op
my hubby should be able to request a million naira from me proudly as his wife...and I should be able to provide it...

the world would be a happier place with more people like you in it. Nicely said

KashyBaby:
U shud start teaching ur ladies up there to be independent

wish it was that easy. It has become a thing for most of em n trust me when I say it's a real turnoff

KashyBaby:
I agree on this, any lady shud not depend everything to her man...living in this generation where everything are so expensive, modern ladies shud learn how to dig holes too.

a woman after my own heart.

At this century,with the world becoming a global village, providing both genders equal opportunities; it's a pity some ladies,in fact, majority of our ladies still have the ideology that it is the sole responsibility of man to work and cater for the family.

I am not disputing the fact that it's the duty of the man to work and provide for his family ; what has got me talking is that some ladies have turned this to a norm at this age. They go about saying things like, 'if him no get ride, me no fit reply him hi o'.

Well I don't know about you but I think it's only hungry ladies that still go about with that mode of thinking at this age. There is absolutely nothing wrong with you helping your man become that husband / boyfriend you've always dreamed of.

There is this saying that ' the man is the head and the woman is the neck' RIGHT! Girls always forget the neck part in this saying cause if they don't,they would know what the head without having neck would look like.

Ladies I mean no offence but you guys really need to upgrade your mode of thinking. WANT A GUY TO HOPELESSLY BE IN LOVE WITH YOU, THEN BE A PILLAR IN HIS LIFE. IT IS INDEED VERY RARE FOR A *NORMAL GUY NOT TO TREAT LIKE A QUEEN WHEN THAT MONEY COMES