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Romance › Re: Want To Ask Her Out But She Just Finished *4 Hungry Man Size. Shld I B Worried? by Tunchi101(op): 11:28am On Dec 31, 2015

Cutehector:
she fat abi

nahh. she just get body

Romance › Re: Want To Ask Her Out But She Just Finished *4 Hungry Man Size. Shld I B Worried? by Tunchi101(op): 11:27am On Dec 31, 2015

QueenValerie:
No she has a healthy appetite.Sides she's still growing,she needs to eat

healthy appetite? seriously??

Romance › Re: Want To Ask Her Out But She Just Finished *4 Hungry Man Size. Shld I B Worried? by Tunchi101(op): 11:12am On Dec 31, 2015

softappless:
so 4 d fact dat she finished a hungry man size, u are afraid to take her out right? mayb she feels comfortable in ur place, when she goes to a restaurant, she will eat in a moderate manner. "u shud be happy she ate in free spirit in ur house.

even I can't finish 2 hungry man size,talk less of 4

Romance › Re: Want To Ask Her Out But She Just Finished *4 Hungry Man Size. Shld I B Worried? by Tunchi101(op): 11:07am On Dec 31, 2015

joliyp:
op u can lie o

honestly. why wld I lie abt it huh

Romance › Re: Want To Ask Her Out But She Just Finished *4 Hungry Man Size. Shld I B Worried? by Tunchi101(op): 11:05am On Dec 31, 2015

aprilwise:
Nairaland has become a waste bin anybody can dump any dirty thought. Very soon u will read my girl friend fart in my presence what am gonna do? Nairalanders pls advice me. Nonsense posts.

dude if u really know u ain't interested in such threads, u shouldnt have bothered opening this one.

Romance › Re: Want To Ask Her Out But She Just Finished *4 Hungry Man Size. Shld I B Worried? by Tunchi101(op): 11:02am On Dec 31, 2015

softappless:
@OP where is she? at home or a restaurant? i dnt get u

home with me

Romance › Re: Want To Ask Her Out But She Just Finished *4 Hungry Man Size. Shld I B Worried? by Tunchi101(op): 11:01am On Dec 31, 2015

Cutehector:
So leme get, u took her to indomie joint to ask her out thr?

lwkmd she came over

Romance › Want To Ask Her Out But She Just Finished *4 Hungry Man Size. Shld I B Worried? by Tunchi101(op): 10:55am On Dec 31, 2015*

Really don't know what to do? Advice needed

Romance › Re: Why Good/Deserving Guys Never Get The Girls. (Verified By A Few Lady Friends) by Tunchi101(op): 11:10pm On Dec 30, 2015

Teempakguy:
This nice guy issue again . . . Well, i have a few tips for any nice guy looking for an upgrade . . . Without actually going through a total personality change like this article is suggesting.

1. NEVER laugh at your own jokes first. Don't ever try it. If you tell a joke, make sure you don't laugh until she does. That way, if it's not funny, she won't even know you told a joke, and you can move on with he conversation without her thinking you're boring. At least a few of your jokes will click, she will laugh, totally unaware of the countless tries you've previously made.

2. In the presence of a competing guy, who might be hotter or maybe have a better chance, GTFO. Seriously, leave them. Vanish. Staying around will lead to eventual competition. Which will lead to unfavourable conditions. You want to be the sly snake. Not the foolish lion.

3. Keep her on the edge. You WANT to watch a horror movie with this girl. You want to beat her in a spicy pepper eating challenge. You want to tell her a totally sad story. You want to show her your secret hideout that no one knows(a total lie of course. But who cares.). In short, you want to bring her into a world of constant change. Where everything is totally unpredictable and nothing stays the same. Eventually, you'll trick her into falling. Totally easy.

4. Make MONEY. . . . apparently, if i don't list this point, nairaland dudes will hunt me down. So, here it is.

5. Don't need her. Want her.
This perhaps makes the most difference. You don't want to find yourself in a situation where you think you can't live without her. The hell! Of course you can. She's just another girl you're attracted to. Probably not going to last a year anyway. You can start needing her after you're hooked. But for now, stop the needy bullshit.

#peace

Nicely said man

Romance › Re: Why Good/Deserving Guys Never Get The Girls. (Verified By A Few Lady Friends) by Tunchi101(op): 9:59pm On Dec 30, 2015

hottest111:
Anyway OP,,, m a good guy still i don't av any probs when it comes to datin d girl i lyk.. I laugh at guys who turn bad just attract women.
Most of my friends re d so called bad boys, yet they sometimes come to me 4 advice when it comes to getting a girl ..
SO 4get, just be confidence n have good conversational skills.
u want counter thread abi ... am coming

Romance › Re: Why Good/Deserving Guys Never Get The Girls. (Verified By A Few Lady Friends) by Tunchi101(op): 8:44pm On Dec 30, 2015

RexKexMilann:
Nice One!

But OP I think It's Time You Peeps cut all These sermons & Stop discouraging the "Nice Guys" Already. If someone Was "born nice" Why try to Chance your "Niceness" To "Meaness" Simply because You want To Lay a Lady? Shiit is Absurd To me!

My point is This, There are no laid down Principles on"Stuffs like these", Its all natural. Just Be your Fuccking self!

sure. That's d main thing

Romance › Why Good/Deserving Guys Never Get The Girls. (Verified By A Few Lady Friends) by Tunchi101(op): 8:31pm On Dec 30, 2015

This article was written by me after a few interviews with some ladies. I actually used to fall under this kind of guys 'Mr Nice Guy '. Trust me when I say it really isn't a bad thing to be a Nice guy but the real trouble comes when you are being too nice.

Enjoy as you read

1. Good Guys Are Interested In The Wrong Set Of Ladies huh

:We all know that it takes a mature man to recognize a good lady. It also takes a mature lady can recognize a good man. If she hasn’t grown enough psychologically or mentally she will be unable to appreciate how rare it is to encounter a guy as great as you! Instead, her focus would be on the popular bad guy around. This definitely doesn’t mean you should become “the bad guy” to get her attention. Just wait for the one who appreciates you. ‎

2. Just too nice angry

. There is a thin line between being nice and being too nice. When you are too nice you let a woman get away with anything which isn't sexy. I was once in a restaurant to relax, then came a lady I used to know. She came to that same restaurant with her boyfriend at that time. to my surprise, after we ate, the guy paid for our meals even after flirting with his lady. Trust me, being nice is cool but being too nice.......Nahh

3. Trying too hard undecided

. It’s ok to be aggressive, but too aggressive is a turn off. Instead, try being assertive. When you are too aggressive you are calling every day, trying to spend every waking moment with a woman. You’re buying gifts, flowers, etc. Now these are all things that women like, but if you are doing it too often it may appear as if you’re trying too hard. You should be able to win her heart not only by doing those nice things, but just by being yourself.

4. Boring cheesy

. You are no fun. The nice guys are typically the dinner and a movie kind. They like staying at home and relaxing most of the time. Switch it up a bit. There’s more to do than dinner and a movie!

5. Too needy cry

. Every once and awhile a girl wants to hear, “I need to see you” or “I miss you.” When you say it all the time you come off as being needy. It’s ok to need or want to see your girl, but please refrain from telling her how you feel every time the feeling arises.

6. So predictable. tongue

We know your every move. What you are going to say or do. We even know how you are going to feel if we say certain things. Predictable = Boring!

7. You’re a pushover grin

. A pretty lady of mine once told me that if she us dating a guy and she can easily get her way with him she would be immediately turned off. She said ladies prefer to have a man who can stand up for himself. She was like 'If I can get over on you, I can only imagine who else can'. Being a guy that is easy to manipulate is not cool! You can’t expect me to be a strong woman and be led by a weak man.

8. You agree with everything, even when you really don’t! :oWhen there is an argument, instead of calling her out on my wrong doings you just agree with everything she says. Regardless of how mean it may make you seem, a man should be confident and honest enough to say how he feels. If there is a problem in the relationship you should be the one figuring out a way to resolve things properly. Don’t just agree with a woman when she’s wrong. Tell her why!

9. Are you insecure lipsrsealed

? Sometimes ladies feel as if the good guy lacks confidence in himself. He’s afraid that he won’t find a good woman because he’s had so many bad experiences. At this point he accepts all the crap and settles for a bad one because he’s too afraid to be alone.

10. You’re lame tongue

. The good guys are usually the ones that weren’t very popular in high school. This is something I can care less about because I wasn’t popular either. However, you have women who don’t like when a guy comes off as corny. He has lame jokes and he usually doesn’t have many friends. He’s the guy whose life revolves around his girlfriend.

11. Too open cry

. Some stuff is better left unsaid. Leave a little mystery for your partner. No woman needs to know all the details of your life. Please don’t go crying around her either. I’ve had this happen. So not cool!

12. Don’t take control cool

. There is nothing more attractive to a woman than a man who can plan out a date without asking for her suggestions. He calls her tells her what to wear, when to be ready, and where to meet. Good guys don’t always do this (Heck, I don’t think many guys do this at all). The conversation usually sounds like, “Well what do you want to do? I want to do whatever you want to do? Whatever you like it doesn’t matter to me!” Dude! It does matter. Speak up!

The common denominator in all of these opinions is this is how most of the women you date will view you. Nice guys finish last (if at all) because after a woman has dated enough idiots and/or bad guys she starts to develop an appreciation for the good guy. The best thing a good guy can do is find someone who knows his worth. At least then you won’t have to be last in line.

Feel Free To Add Yours

Would Love To See A Counter Thread

Tunchi101

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Romance › Re: Is Mouth Action That Bad? The Rate At Which Some People Condemn It Is Alarming by Tunchi101(op): 8:30pm On Dec 30, 2015

Kingsley10000:
i've seen a pix where the guy's tongue was swelling and kinda decaying .......methink thats the resultant effect

Seriously?

Christianity Etc › Please Is RCCG Throne Of Grace Crossover Still Holding And Who Is Going? by Tunchi101(op): 12:40pm On Dec 30, 2015

Been A While I Have Been There And Am Not Sure If The Branch Is Still Holding A Crossover Service

By The Way I Need Someone To Hangout With Male Or Female

Romance › 7 Most Common Reason Why Ladies Cheat. No 4 And 7 Are The Most Painful by Tunchi101(op): 7:37am On Dec 30, 2015

1. He wasn’t there.
Have you ever been in a relationship, yet still felt lonely? This stems from her partner’s absence in her life. In these cases he’s not acknowledging her on a regular basis or he’s not giving her the appropriate quality time necessary to make her happy. Being present both physically and emotionally is extremely necessary if a guy wants his woman to be happy.

2. He cheated.
We are all aware of the saying that two wrongs doesn’t make a right, but some women feel they are entitled to cheating because he did. It is their way of getting back at him in hopes of him feeling the same pain they caused her to feel.

3. She’s just not that into you!
It happens. Women make most relationship-based decisions on emotions. Since we can have different moods a woman can get into relationships and realize later on that maybe he isn’t the one after all. When a man decides to be with a woman, make sure to discuss why she is willing to be in a relationship. If she can’t explain her decision in depth…be cautious.

4. The sex isn’t good enough.
The older I get the more I understand why it is important to wait until marriage for sex. Sex has a way of interfering with your choices in life. When a person has had multiple partners they will find themselves subconsciously comparing sexual experiences. John may have been better at this, while Jack wasn’t all that but he’s a sweetheart. Jake is the better kisser, but Jason is a pleaser. Anyway, I say all this to say she’s probably not happy with his bedroom performance because someone else did it or does it better.

5. She’s boy crazy.
What can I say to this? I guess one guy is never good enough for some women. There are different kinds of “boy crazy.” I personally am boy crazy, but only when it comes to looks. I enjoy observing the opposite sex. However, you have women who enjoy “experiencing” the opposite sex. She’s usually the girl who is able to discern whether or not he is packing. Yes, the “weenie genies” are out there!

6. She’s sexually curious.
Curiosity killed the cat…literally! If a guy dates a girl who doesn’t have a lot of experience sexually she may begin to be curious of what it’s like with other guys. This is the girl that wants to sow her oats. When a guy meets a girl who has little experience in the sex department make sure she has a good head on her shoulders. If she is still immature in her thinking it may lead to issues in the future.

7. You created a monster!

When he met her she was average. She looked averaged, dressed average, etc. Since she’s been with him, he’s upgraded her swag. She is getting attention she’s never received before and now she feels she deserves “better.”

Oh and by the way…women are better cheaters! Maybe I’ll write about why…‎

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Romance › Re: 16 Ways To Know He Is Using You. No 11 Is The Most Common Among Naija Guys by Tunchi101(op): 11:52pm On Dec 29, 2015

MRBrownJ:
FIXED

sadly, too many women believe that if a man is not ready for marriage (when they are) then he is automatically using them

Most of d so called fixed things are a direct counter to the post. This ain't a debate man.

Nice counters anyways

Romance › Re: 16 Ways To Know He Is Using You. No 11 Is The Most Common Among Naija Guys by Tunchi101(op): 11:33pm On Dec 29, 2015

asadike:
Very true. Thk u for exposing them. but op e be like say u don do them tire.

not necessarily. Let's just say I have been paying close attention wink

Romance › Re: 16 Ways To Know He Is Using You. No 11 Is The Most Common Among Naija Guys by Tunchi101(op): 11:13pm On Dec 29, 2015

pet4ril:
Why I'm finding it hard to believe this post huhhhj
Okay, end time guys/niggas and post

what's there that's so difficult to believe grin

Romance › 16 Ways To Know He Is Using You. No 11 Is The Most Common Among Naija Guys by Tunchi101(op): 11:05pm On Dec 29, 2015

1. They never kiss you unless it's leading to s*x. This category of guys would never even hold your hand in public grin

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2. They never make time for things that concerns you. They are only around when its in their interest. My sister, sharpen up; your noting but a cure to his boredom. cheesy

3. If you like, date a thousand other guys, they don't care, so far you are available when they need you. When person no be recharge card undecided

4. They spend much. Most of the time, guys see their spending on ladies as investment. grin

It's unfortunate most ladies don't realise this. This happens to be a bad sign because at the end of the day after spending and you refuse him what he wants, O.Y.O na I'm you dey lipsrsealed

5. He Never introduces you to people that matter to him like his family or friends. It's a pity most ladies don't take notice of this cause it's definitely a red light sign undecided

6. Conversations with such guys are mostly naughty and having to do with sex. wink

7. He never commits no matter how long it takes. cool

8. He Never(rarely) takes you out on dates. This is because he doesn't want to be seen with you; so therefore, home is where he wants to be. To put bluntly, he is embarrassed to be seen with you. angry

9. Guys like this are mostly interested in chatting or texting because chatting is impersonal. Hearing ones voice has been proven to be a sign of affection; so therefore, they rarely wanna hear your voice. tongue

10. They only calls or visit when its late. You ask yourself which kind of people are patronised only at night time?? kiss

11. Constantly request for n*de pictures from you. Some d*ft ladies would keep sending them thinking it would make him love them more. I laugh in hebrew grin

12. They are always very good with their words and at the end of the day, they never keep to their words. Some guys in this set can tell you to head for the pit in such a way you would look forward to the journey. cool

13. He really never has anything meaningful to say when you are together, so all you do is sex.

14. Always trying to get you drunk. I don't have to tell you what is most likely to come next undecided

15. He would never open up to you i.e discuss things that matter to him with you. And some girls still stick around huh

16. ADD YOURS GUYS...

Ladies, don't forget that a Fish that is in hurry to teach an airport would surely come back as Titus Sardine grin

Tunchi101

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Politics › With All We've Experienced,What Do U Suggest Shld Be The Penalty For Corruption? by Tunchi101(op): 5:46pm On Dec 29, 2015

As A Knowledgeable Individual, What Should Be The Punishment For Corruption In This Nation?

Dating And Meet-up Zone › Book/Register Of The Singles In The House 2015/2016 by Tunchi101(op): 12:06pm On Dec 29, 2015

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Romance › Re: Is Mouth Action That Bad? The Rate At Which Some People Condemn It Is Alarming by Tunchi101(op): 10:28am On Dec 29, 2015

Adanna28:

you don't look like a nigerian

Romance › Re: Nigerian Girl Shamelessly Talks About Foursome She Had With Her Friends [PICS] by Tunchi101(m): 9:41am On Dec 29, 2015

EroticAngelina:
she ain't ashamed of her disgusting self
her mates are getting married and making it in lyf, she's here sharing dickzz with her shameless friend.

I no blame her sha..
.#NaDasuliCauseAm

followed ur comments for a while now. You seem very judgmental but u really don't look like d type. Whatsoever people choose to do is their decision and it has got no after effect whatsoever on ur person. It isn't an attractive trait for a pretty lady like you

Romance › Re: Why Do Men Cheat? by Tunchi101(op): 5:51pm On Dec 28, 2015

kaziblake:
Abegi story,you guys are all the same

you might be right but don't forget that a few bad oranges in a basket doesn't mean all oranges are all bad

If u want a proof, try me wink

Romance › Re: Why Do Men Cheat? by Tunchi101(op): 5:31pm On Dec 28, 2015

Oma307:
Is this question coming from a male or female before i answer it

male

Romance › Re: Why Do Men Cheat? by Tunchi101(op): 5:28pm On Dec 28, 2015

Estharfabian:
You Nairaland folks are just so predictable....

I knew y'all would come wailing on my mentions in No Time!

SMH

Romance › Re: Why Do Men Cheat? by Tunchi101(op): 5:25pm On Dec 28, 2015

MrsPhyno:
Go read the bible sir, I can't rly be quoting upandan.... Something about how in Christ there is no slave nor free, man nor woman, etc....
Altho I don't see what my father has to do with the point that (lemme just say some here so that ppl don't come and try to bite my head off) men sleep around like animals

Hmm

Romance › Re: Why Do Men Cheat? by Tunchi101(op): 5:20pm On Dec 28, 2015

Michizzy:
Because they are adventurous and inquisitive in nature. They want to know the differences between each and every woman they see.

please don't tell me any guy has cheated on u shocked

such a guy deserves to be stoned, hanged and stoned again grin

Can we ping eachhh oda wink

Romance › Re: Why Do Men Cheat? by Tunchi101(op): 5:16pm On Dec 28, 2015

MrsPhyno:
Haha well I can't be 100% sure na
But my pops is a real Christian and hence he's not a man.... so I won't take it back

Ermm, why is ur dad not a man cos he is a Christian?

Romance › Re: Why Do Men Cheat? by Tunchi101(op): 5:05pm On Dec 28, 2015

rawpadgin:
easy, easy young lady

if ur boyfriend is cheating on u then u prolly a log of wood on the bed

u need to up ur game & watch that supposed cheater stick to u pu-see

u direct man

hitting d nail on d head. Dat one sef dey

Romance › Re: Why Do Men Cheat? by Tunchi101(op): 4:56pm On Dec 28, 2015

Yungwizzzy:
You probably don't know women cheat more, but are just conservative unlike men who show off their stupidity any time

. Hmmm. You might be right

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