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elvision1:
why you dey fear? na by the Way i suppose write. I dey always use am as between.


e be lyk say e dey do you too.

elvision1:
you say BTW means By The Way but i spell BETWEEN not BTW, bros which way?

elvision1:
SPECIAL PRIVILEGE no be for all sims jorh.

Between all these customer care are clueless. They have absolutely no idea bout data plans. They don't keep up. I have once asked them what to do to qualify for the 1gb for 100naira weekend offer that i used sometime ago in someones' sim and guess what?

Customer Care : Am sorry sir, such a plan doesn't exists.

People that can't even tell you what is wrong with their network when you are unable to browse na wan kon know about wetin u wan use take browse?

Ifedayosteven:
I ve sent u 25mb. hope you have seen it.

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I have 25 mb to share. my number-08153939560

unclesamtech:
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chriskosherbal:
God let your hand be seen in this country.

saintikechi:
nigeria is the first country to elect a stark illiterate as president.

Preciousgirl:
Lol


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Ishilove:
You have a very good point

chronique:
Dude,I appreciate your forgiving nature. But you haven't acted like a man yet. Read my lips: "send that woman to stay with her parents for 3 weeks to 1 month". Don't tell her you're sending her away. Pack your things. And act like you guys are going to spend sometime. With. Them. After the first night,don't. Sleep there. Leave her there the. Next day and tell the parents she'd be living with them till further notice. I can bet my life. That they'd. Be dead scred of what you have up your sleeves. After they've spent 1 month begging,ask the parents to bring her back;don't go there to pick her. Yourself. I can bet that. Your wife will come. Back a better behaved person. You need to show the man in you,and what you're capable of doing. If they mess up next time. That's the only way they can respect you.

ewizard1:
Not with beating!

DevGuru:
UPDATE

I sincerely appreciate the fact that almost everyone here regards this matter a very serious one, this alone warms my heart a little. I have read through every single comment on this thread and I appreciate everyone. I couldn't take down the names of those whose comments aligned with my aim of keeping my marriage, but I thank everyone all the same. I realised from a myriad of comments that informing my people will mean a beginning of the end for my marriage. My daughter too is a major consideration. Above all, she's carrying another 6 week pregnancy. I have therefore decided to eliminate (or maybe suspend as the case turns out) informing any of my family members. I decided to play the records to her while I added some words. I started by telling her that my love for her made me decide to talk to her and not to anyone who would possibly fuel separation in my home like her sisters have done. She was shocked because she had never heard any allegation from me towards her elder ones before. She thought I was crazy and I wanted to bring up what was not. Then I played a little while I summarised the wildest words from her sisters which I heard in other discussion. For the FIRST time, my wife couldn't deny ANYTHING as she was convinced beyond doubt that she had been finished. She cried bitterly as I talked further but did not know what to do. But what pained me further was that it was obvious she cried because she saw that I was going to turn to an emperor and ridicule and justifiably disgrace her elderly advisers, NOT really because I was betrayed.

Right there, I was looking for a particular one to play and then even heard what I didn't hear before. Her eldest sister said she had discussed with some other siblings to intensify efforts towards her job search that as soon as she gets a job, she would have to be sending money home for them to create something for her in their town so she could come settle. She cried further as she heard it too. I told her the implications of what she had done to me with her people and then left her in the room because my baby girl was disturbing me. Anytime our voices are not friendly, she interrupts and cries for attention. I took my daughter to the living room and was playing with her.

After about 1 hour, she came to the living room and fell down before me as she cried further, saying "I'm sorry". Then I asked her to state exactly what she was begging me for - her betrayal or her siblings' offence. She knows me very well, she quickly said her betrayal (even though I knew that wasn't the primary cause of her heavy heart). Then I told her I was willing to forgive her in the spirit of upholding my marital vows to her. I explained further that for the sake of our daughter and the unborn one(s), I was willing to forgive her and build a stronger home with her. She felt a little relief knowing that she was getting back into me. I then said "but from this minute, I'm in a ruthless war with anyone, I repeat, ANYONE who is determined to break my home as I now have to guard our togetherness jealously". I stated further that the only thing I would hold against her was if she ever stood in my way. Just as if a thunder just struck and killed someone dear to her, she cried loudly again saying "she had finished her life". She said she would be the one to suffer in the war I just declared and that I should just allow her to call all of them and tell them never to meddle into our affairs again. I refused to fall for that trick and held my stance that my resolve was not going to change and I walked away. Since then till this moment, she has been like a mourning widow. When it was time for food, we ate together as usual and I've been the one trying to talk now. She hasn't spoken with anyone on phone since then, although I don't know about Whatsapp or BBM chat. Now she's waiting for the next available opportunity when she could plead for her sisters again... only God knows for how long the waiting would be. Let me quickly mention that she sent me an SMS from the bedroom a while ago: I CAN SEE THE HANDWORK OF THE DEVIL IN THIS WHOLE MATTER, PLS LET'S TRY TO RESIST THE DEVIL THIS TIME SO HE CAN FLEE FROM OUR HOME. I BEG YOU IN THE NAME OF GOD DEAR".... I simply replied from the living room: "ON THE CONTRARY HONEY, I CAN SEE THE HAND OF GOD. CAN'T YOU SEE IT?"

On another note, I do not want to assume that she will not tell her sisters, although it might take a while because she knew they would rebuke her for delivering them into the hands of their 'enemy' through Call Recorder. But before she informs them, I think I'd follow someone's advice here too that I should reveal it to someone who could keep it away from my mum and sisters, which is surely my Dad - just to put someone in the know, in case I begin to smell rat poison in my food... lol. What do you think?

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nasonaso:
So sorry sir,
How old were u when u made your first final if you ever did?
You need help and I hope you get it you can count on me young lad and I will be glad to help.

henrydadon:
remind me of the movie akilah and the bee

but sadly keke Palmer is now a hoe in real life

lordkhalifa:
good u watch from behind the scene because irate aba youth are ready to lynch anybody that stand against the will of the masses....

I went to aba weeks ago... People are shedding tears.... Time to end orji's dynasty... Even if neutral person from ngwaland without any connection with orji's dynasty should come out I will wholeheartedly support that person... Ngige liberate anambra from godfatherism while obi finish them off... Now Ndi obodo anambra are enjoying fresh air... That's what we need in abia state

lordkhalifa:
have u written ur will If yes... Kiss ur wife and give ur children the last hug, because u might not comeback alive from the hand of irate angry aba mob