I’m a single woman in my 30’s and my problem is that I cannot find a man and I honestly have no idea why. I’m attractive and all my friends say I’m a nice person. I’m aware that you can meet a man at any time, not just when you’re out socially on Saturday nights, so I never step out of the house looking anything less than perfect. I keep to my trim figure, dress nicely, well-groomed and, because I was aware I was being too choosy, I’ve tried hard to give men I don’t even fancy a chance. But now men just don’t seem to find me attractive at all. I don’t get chatted up though I make sure that I look friendly and approachable when l’m out. l’m at my wits' end and honestly don’t know what else to do

This what you should do.

Attend social event.
Meet people
Volunteer for an NGO
Go to church and join a group.
And above all, be approachable.

Good luck in your quest

Sister calm down your man is out there just pray God sends him your way

Relax

mayb i'm dat special man....... single too

Your happiness is not tied to a man. Live your life the best way you can. A man will come when he is destined to come. But if you are desperate there is always online dating.

Hell just put your pic on Nairaland many will seek you out

Cos you are not bread

Who told you that you are attractive Pictures or i dont believe the attractive part of your story.

Relax, he is on his way

You ladies don't know that when you are at your peak of beauty and curvature, you have to utilize it to get someone permanent in your life....but you jump from bed to bed, say no to the good guys, run after the players and slowly and steady the peak years pass you reflect back and you've achieved nothing relationship wise.

You then settle for anything, become easy to get.

Maybe ur not actually attractive!

Maybe you have linda syndrome

Dnt stress it, to each with his or her own time........urs will soon come

upload pic for dem to see u now .. likewise u said there dnt chat u .oya drop ur number nd see wat happens ..

I wanted to play the blame game, but I realize this isn't really a nice place to do so.

erm, keep hoping and believing, he would definitely come. and don't get desperate, even if you are, don't show it. else some people would just come and take advantage of you.

Attitude is key. On the other hand, prolly u kit up too much and tat may scare prospective admirers

You have created 5 topics today hope no problem

But you started it now? Turned us down for the supposedly big boys! Abeg carry your wahala dey go romance section jare