So i have noticed that people especially black women, and white hillbillies   seem really angry when a black man finds love with a woman of another race. 
so angry in fact that they have to put down these other woman, saying all types of stereo types about these ladies, and even worse about their children,  so please inform me why it is that some people are such haters?

Onyibaby:

What you don't know would not hurt you,  but then again like Rhodalyn said she could  be doing her own thang on d side.

what you dont know can hurt you real bad,
what if this other woman has a baby for her husband?
that may sting a bit.
or he could bring something home to her that she may never shake (the hiv/aids or herpies warts)
one of those little nasties,
her looking the other way makes her look a fool.

she don care now, wait till she gets wise. the marriage is a sad hollow sounding thing. whats the point?

me thinks ladies harbor too much anger & resentment.
men happy most of the time.
its funny cause woman is woman's own worst enemy

when did this become a hate free for all?
looks like no one likes women in here, no liking black ladies and sure as hell not white ladies, why do we have to try to put shame on some one for wanting to screw,marry for love or paper work, do what ever with these women its sad.
so much hate makes the soul heavy

i would hide my face in shame and anonymously  send him new mattress and some rubber sheets,
don't expect him to want a repeat of this travesty,  i mean you peed on him. and it is a deal, its not like you squatted and let lose but still. next time drink less pee before bed and pray this situation never happens again.

maybe is getting fat for good reason, like the dawn of an ice age or impending drought and famine.  we may never know

perhaps im mistaken but isn't benheart a lady?

no he was aware of them we talked openly about our flaws, and like i said they natural and everyone will get at some point. grow too fast up or out and it will happen

agree maybe he has been sharing himself with others. and this is why he is being harsh now

true child is no your blood, but no need blood to be father or parent you raise baby baby is yours. if you have child with woman later the child is your babies sibling ,no?

you talk like the girl sits in the corner of a dark room snarfing down cup cakes like a rabid hog.
we don't even know what she looks like.maybe she has a big bum or slight belly or maybe she has gained 20lb in a month.
its not fair to say she has NO self control. im sure she has some. slim down if you want

oh and i saw a program about American men loving the fat girls 400lb+ ladies this guy 120lbs feeding this woman cupcakes and candy and getting some freak pleasure out of it,  
there is some one out there for the fat girls

you marry woman no belly, ah is you life do as you please. your momma might not like dis lady true. but what you gon do? you momma may never like dis lady no matter what. and child could grow to be millionaire and buy u big home and make you proud.

my man take out the dog at nite. haha most here too charged about race, love make you do stuff you may not like much like walking puppy in the night, or foot rubs for a good fellow after a long day at work,

oh and the term half breed, oh that seems like a nasty thing to say about some one of mixed heritage, makes it sound like you half kangaroo or something.

agree thank the nurse ooo lordy thank god

hey you talk like hiv is chicken pox or hiccups. is messed up people go around with hiv and other stds like they fine sleep with other and not say a word, even if you do use protection still serious. and no cure. make me scared

my ex look like de zebra all over back and sholders, he thought he was sexy to all woman kind, looks like alien, eyes far apart, strech marks are natural everyone gets at some point inlife, although im not fond of them

ha ha i hope you no false advertise, skinny at first then pack on pounds double time?
no one wants to go home with the blue eyed blond and wake up with a bald head brown eyed leprechaun.
a few pound one thing alot is a different story
sorry if i offend but tis true

hey now!!, that's rude. sad to say but this is prolly his way of pushing you off!!
or at least bruising your ego, you wan lose weight do if not find you a chubby chasing man  to give you some good loving feed to cake in bed,all dis bidness good times ooo

It is a difficult call for you, torn between love and moral issues
if it hurts your heart so then take your self away from this situation. if he loves you he should understand.
it seems to bother you sharing this fellow, in the physical sense.
think about it if he is doing this to his wife, with you, there isn't much to say he wont turn around do the same to you as well, heart break, put yourself in his wife's shoes she has the right to dump him he his breaking the vows they said to each other. just think about it, its a lot easier to break the rules that you have already broken in the past,

i hope the best for you

[color=#006600][/color] hey now, when i met my partner he was married (for papers). i don't know how i feel about that type of marriage seems sad to me.
he told me about it up front. i told him that i liked him but was not about to see a married man, i am no mistress. we became friends but not romantic after a few months he decided to divorce her. they were separated for a few months , he doesn't speak to her got his papers the same month the divorce was finalized we are together time passed we have a child

i would be upset about sharing my bed with another woman, its not right for anyone  she most likely has no idea that you exist, its not right. if he had respect for you both he would be honest with you and her. and just keep it in his pants
sorry girly
peace be with you