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Vikky014:
swthrt. pls focus on ur present relationship. dt ur so called first love is a loser. stop picking his calls . lemme tell u he jst got served by a girl dt is y he is calling u and begging. he shld beg God instead. that time u waste crying can actually be used for smething meaningful.

My major concern is that his calls are just coming on the basis of seeing me to apologise face to face cos to him he felt av not forgiven him...but remembering what I passed through in his hands...I don't just feel like seeing him
rather I kept on having this feeling of piercing a dagger right in his heart....
God help me to heal!!!!

2sex:
Will you fools stop insulting the girl? Are you all mad? Better let that babe be else thunder that will strike your insultive hands is building up...

Bloody hypocrites.

He who is without sin should throw the first stone.

Who here hasn't fallen mugu to one girl or babe before.

Bloody Nigerians with hight altitude of pretence.

OP, no mind them o... Some done even do worse.

I understand why u acted that way o jare. But you see the world isn't fair to any of us.

Now you are wiser... In your next relationship, don't do ANY of these things u listed up there.

thank you dear....God will provide answers and meaningful ones to yr problems

There won't be any reasonable response and advice cos guys of nowadays are scammers.. G guys 419ners...every of them wants to make quick money...God help us all

benedictnsi:
Babe...... Your story is a touching one but when I saw the last sentence, I bursted into laughter..... "She is a secondary school graduate and you are are University graduate"........ I mean, how on earth do you think it will be working out easily.

You level of understanding is far different from hers which is most reason why you should @least be careful with her......

As for her and her boyfriend or Fuckfriend, I will advise you to jettison all they are doing, just mind your own business no matter how hard.

To avoid spreading your news as she does anytime you tell her anything, you have to adjust........ Tell her @least 25% and keep 75% to yourself that's if it should be a secret...... This is my own Logo-mate

Thank you Benedict..your advice kept me on the right track...so far
God bless you, may you find good answers and advice to your questions..Amen

PunkyVeer:
You sound like a 1st class bytch to me. Period. I don't care about you being a fellow woman. I call it as I see it. You still haven't answered what her black bony frame have to do with secrets. How about answering that?

Lolzz , funny you. Am not good at abusing people...to me
her bonny frame made her look very masculine n rough...with dat her boyfriend isnt that proud to move about with her publicly..which i noticed severaly

i advise u to try as much as possible to read n digest threads before commenting....
i dint say evrything here...if i have, u would av been shedding tears now even if u are a man.

vizkiz:
are you sure its your friend or you? Cuz I don't know how you got to know so much about the shiit happening

Shes my friend n not me....
thats why i said she doesnt have a secret...She tels me evrything d same way she tells evrybody everything

PunkyVeer:
The question should be: how do you stay with someone that thinks she's better than you? This roomie of yours doesn't deserve to live with a haughty cùnt like yourself. Seriously, what does her education background & complexion have to do with her inability to hold secrets about her own fucking life? Sounds like you envy her or maybe you want the mooching boyfriend for yourself. Where your own man at?

u are so funny..i dint say am better than her..my gf is waisting her time on a man whom wil never marry her..shes living in a world of fantasy...am only advising her i dont have any motive watsoever. her situation makes me feel sober
u feed a man morning afternoon and night yet he doesnt at least get u a tuber of yam.
i canever envy her cos i av my man who takes proper care of me..who believes am his responsibility and not d other way round.
i dont no hw to insult people buh u are my felow woman reasoning this way...

Pls N/L....i need yr candid advise

am a young lady whom is currently living with a felow lady in ogun state..my pains for this my friend is this she has a boyfriend whom sucks her dry and is stil sucking her..
She came to me one day and told me dat wen i went to wrk her bf came to her and told her to borrow her 5k which she said she doesnt av..out of anoyance he refused eating her food...meanwhile according to her he borrowed 100k earlier las yr in the bid to process his flight ticket...yet til today he hasnt traveled...
Again she told me she was sick n her boyfriend collected money from her to buy drugs buh ate it n came bak for another money which she gave. her question is...is she d one to buy drugs for herself or her boyfriend
my gf is not too fine.shes very black and bony.
most times her bf doesnt like her to see her off..most times wen we hang out together is either he starts pressing his fone or he distances himself from my gf..


the one dat broke d camels bak was wen her bf asked for my name on facebook before my gf..which i told him, he sent a request n started charting me up on watsap, in order to avoid names like BOYFREND SNATCHER,UNGRATEFUL SHEGOAT etc...i told my gf dat am chatn wit her boyfrend on watsap and dat he sent me a request. she said i should not reply n accept his request which i did.
she bursted n started narrating her ordeal which i advised her not knowing that everytn i told her she told her bf.

to cut the story short. Whatever we discussed she tells everytn to her bf and everytn she and her boyfrend discusses she tels me even how they make love and d last time they did. my own is i keep it to myslf n learn from it.but her own is she tels everybody including neighbours of how they make love...

the truth is, am tired..if i keep quiet it wil b like we are keepin malice...if i say,d whole world wil hear wat i said n how i said it

WAT DO I DO..
N/B: she is a secondary school graduate and am a university graduate.

I decided to write about cheating Boyfriends & Husbands, although I know there are some cheating wives and girlfriends, my post today is going to concentrate on the cheating husbands & BF's. So, wives and girlfriends listen to me- your sexual action with your your partners has no power in keeping your husband or boyfriend from cheating or committing adultery. It's only the grace of God. Why will men cheat? Because they can't check their unholy sexual desire and don't have the fear of God. It's not that they can't, they won't. A man's desire for unholy sex makes him uncaring and nonchalant to the repercussion of his actions. A man who decides to ignore God's commandment 'THOU SHALL NOT COMMIT ADULTERY', will definitely bring the wrath of God upon himself. I hear a lot of people even women say 'what does the wife want again, does he not pay school fees, does he not give her housing allowance, does he not, does he not! Hellooooooo, Love is not in money, it's in the heart. The consequences is so magnitude that it hurts God, it hurts your spouse, Children, and finally the entire family. Funnily, it hurts the mistress too, it may not be now, but karma is coming to all the side-chicks. So ladies, how do you get past this, I believe that christian women suffer the most in their relationships and marriages. They have this notion, it's their duty to change their husband by what they do and don't do. A woman can't change a man because she loves him, a man changes himself, because he loves her. God want us to be happy, and that our most important soul agreement is with our 'OWN' soul, and the life we need to cherish and honor most is also our' OWN'. I believe God forgives sins but repercussion remain, stop digging deeper now before its too late-MEN.......


CC: Lalasticlala.....hope it makes front page

Is dah All Is dah All

jedyjedy:
D story is too stupid to be believed.

thanx very much for the insults....but i also want to let u know that no one knows tomorrow...
u dont know how yr own bitter experience in life wil sound to someone else.....
dat way u wil know how painful and cruel life can be...

THANX ONCE MORE

Oahray:
If this story is true, *some unpalatable text missing*

pls u can as well add d unpalatable text missing

Larablink:
sincerely I understand how your feeling.but seriously you took alot of nonsense from him.
There are limit to what you can take in a relationship and for love.my dear go on with you life,don't allow him to spoil the new life your trying to make. That man don't deserve you,going back to him will be degrading yourself..

thanz dear Larablink........am not making any plans of going bak to him.....indeed i took a lot from him...in d name of love and tolerance...wat can i say...it was just my first relationship.....wat do i know about dating...
i believe he is more experienced than me.....and thought he is right in all he does.....
my happines is " i found someone who realy apreciated me and everything am doing...a man who respects my feelings and detests seeing me cry....i thought men are like my ex..

God knows best

iceberylin:
OMG..........taught this kinda girls dont exist



Is he so handsome or what




Forgive me buh you mumu die.

tanx for the insult.......i gladly appreciate and at d same time happy av learnt my lessons.....thank u again

I wish dem de best....

i feel u are to be blaimed partly cos most times we control our actions......

yr desire to shine fast overwhelmed you......cos u should know dat sleeping wit a man old enough to be yr father is out of place..

u should av gotten yrslf somtin doing in skul to help yr mum n yr skuling......

stuffs like selling wears..jewelries etc wuld help u alot

2people:
Forgive him but dnt go to see him oh
just cal or send a text (i warn again dnt go to see him) telling him u av 4givn him
THIS WIL HELP U HEAL

thank u dear i apreciate yr advise..i wil try..GOD bless u

Yes d story may sound so untrue to some of you...but i can swear wit my life that its d TRUTH. pls dont abuse me here cos it wil worsen d whole tin.it wil make me cry the more...i just need a subtle advise
i dont believe that there is sometn like cheating while i dated him..denying him sex was d last tin i never did no matter wat.i trusted him even when my distant friend told me he was askn her out . i dint believe her i told her dat my man is not like dat. she told me she wil send d mesages to me.
he wil always tel me dat he doesnt want me to be movin about alot wit my gfs dat they wil corupt my mind and spoil our R/shp.he wil alwas ask me wat am teln my frends about him. i wil tel him dat i do tel dem his loving caring and Godfearing(truly i was afraid of loosing him.)this is why i obey everytn he says.
during dat period he says he is tired of me. i used to pretend to my friends dat am in a sweet reltnship while its d oposite.i cook wash for him....yet within me am not happy why tins are movin this way....sometimes i wil cry befor him during sex yet it doesnt move him..after he wil send a text and tel me he is sory for makin love wit me dat his mind is no longer in me. he told me last two weeks on text dat he made a mistake dat he messed up.dt it was al his fault. dt i shuld fgve
my results dat period was hell..my Gp went down drasticaly i culdnt concentrate
i dint know that there are stil good men out here..wen i left him i was afraid of going into anoda relatnshp cos i felt dat al men are like him
wen i eventualy told ppl my ordeal...dey blame me for not discusing my relationship.
i am stil crying til today even as am typing dis text....i dont av d urge to see him
i feel anger.hatred revenge,,sometimes i see myslf in d dream beating him

Pls NL's i just need a candid advise..no insult n mockery pls i beg u all

my relationship wit my first love was d worst relationship i ever had, i dont know anytn about dating so everytn he did was all right nd mine was all wrong.
He said he is china based busines man. but he is living in one room wit a family whom he is sharing flat wit.i believ him n evertn he says.....
he wil always tell me his father has a mansion in abuja.his big brother living in malaysia wit family and all dat.his business is booming as wel. buh i was wonderin frm yr to yr he wil never gve me some money to take care of myself n my school...bt he wil always tel me never to deny him sex anytime he requested for it. and i always gv it to him anytym anyday. my relationship goal is d biggest respect i ill give to him is never to cheat on him ever..he wil always tel me dat anyman dat asks me out i should always tel him am in a strong relationship which i do.
we dated for four yrs. each time i want to go bk to skul he wil alwaz complain of biz failure. this was goin on for four yrs.at times conscience mayb wil prik him he wil gv me 2k to take care of my hair wen am bk home. to cut d story short i visited him frm skul one day n told him dat since hw many yrs avbeen datin him he doesnt take care of me upon my level of faithfulnes to him n patience. i told him u always boast of this and dat and yet av nt seen any of it at all. he quickly told me he is fed up. i started beggin him to fgv..for d 11 months i begged him he refused yet he wil subdue me to havin sex wit him in order to make me believe hes fgvn me.yet after sex he wil tel me he hasnt fgvn me.i wil kneel n beg him, he wil tel me to kneel and suck his dick which i always do to appease him so we can forge ahead.al this months av been d one calin.i dont discuss my reltnshp wit my friends cos i was afraid of him. d emotional and psychological trauma was so high dat i lost so many kg. i became as skinny as ever. ppl wil always ask me wat is wrong and i wil lie dat i av thyfoid and malaria which am treating.
this kept on hapnin until he sent a hrtbreakn text sayin dat i should never boda seein him nor calin dat he is sory for playn wit my emotions dat d relatnshp is officialy over..meawhile each time i cal him he wil always tel me to d hearin of his frieds to stop cryin and bugin his line.he wl invite me to his ofice n kip shoutin wat is my problm cant i leave him and forge ahead bfo his friends.
i did not know dat he was already cheatin on me and was already caln me an ex bfor his gfs.
he was teln a distant frend of mine everytn dat was hapenin btwn us d time he said hes fedup. givin her a run down of how i do cal 10 times each day to cry and beg him to bring me bak to d relationship.infact at d same time askn her out.
becos she knew me she fwarded the text mesge to me to confirm if it was true we hav broken up.
for real i need not a soothsayer to tel me its over....i fwarded d text to him and told him tanx for everytn.
he has been beging me to fgv that what he did den was out of amaturity..that he cant do dem nw..he is begin to buy me a car or pay me a huge amount of money to free his conscience but i turned it down and told him to gve dem to d orphanage nd less priviledge
realy i hated him til today.each time i remember wat hapnd den i cry biterly.
am in a sweet relationship which i love n cherish so much.and wil soon get married. bt my ex wil never let my phone rest wit cals n text even wen i told him i wil soon b getn married...
for four yrs we seperated we have not seen each other and he has been beggn to see me....should i see him or not...i feel bad wen i remember d past. nd i also feel it might spoil my relationshp wit my fiancee

smhhhh!!!! after all the suspense.....was thinkin u wil even b thrown out of camp......or somtin strange

I think love and life is a mutual thing.....u feel cheated when u actualy give out wat can also b given to u......so he should gve to u just like u gv to him.....afterall its u n him....just personal