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@ JohnKent abi na JohnC*nt: thats my own personal opinion! it irritates me!!! seem to be one

Tufiakwa! aru emee! AJIGBA KWA IHEE OJOO! i saw one yday sef! if not for Corps i'ld hv SPAT ON HIM

I understand that Daddy GO is trying to cleanse the church, starting from its workers, but what i think all christians need is an inward cleansing,
its not by what u wear to church, what about what is ur your heart and what u do in ur homes.
i know of a couple in redeemed, workers for that matter, had a child outside wedlock, like that wasnt enof, the girl moved into the guys house without any matrimonial proceedings(church, traditional, court) and what do u say to that? not like they do not know the gospel, they are workers,
only got married some months back,
Christianity is more of an inner soul thing, if u are born again, ur convictions wont let u wear certain things to church, u dont even need to be told not to, the Spirit of God would not allow u think of it.
, i think what is needed is a total rededication to God!

ha ha, oga poster!
maybe u r surrounded by women of fallen bossoms,
my mum after how many kids has more succulent bossoms than i hv.
and wetin concern u wt woman wey don born 4 pikin?

My parents are a perfect example, mumsi's dad was RICH in every sense of the word, popsi dad died early and their family was a write off!
But popsi's swore that none of his offspring wld ever suffer what he went thru, was a houseboy up to uni, was only able to pay school fees cos he got a scholarship
His perseverance, determination and God's grace saw him thru.

So back to question
Is it possible to marry a poor guy? YES!!! As long as he has made up his mind not to remain poor!!!

bim4u and chiejik, am touched! GOD BLESS U GUYS, may God meet u guys at ur point of need. and my u be rewarded in immeasurable fold. IJN Amen

@ Poster my own 2kobo:
Lets be realistic here, how easy do u think it is adjusting a family from a 250k budget to a 90k one.
u have a wife and son in question, if u were single, it wont be much of a problem, but considering two extra mouths

Secondly u say ur wife is in 3rd year in Uni, are u the one sponsoring her or is it her family? does she have a part time job or is she solely dependent on u? do u pay her school fees, accommodation, and upkeep? am sure u know the consequences of -150k from ur salary

From what u said the only enticing thing in the new offer is the free accommodation. talk to ur wife about it, if u guys come to a compromise, fine but

In my candid opinion, stick ur ass to that job, @least till wifey is out of school and maybe has started workin. with ur years of experience it wont be soo difficult switching jobs when u want to

LOL!!!! am just seeing this
OMOOOOOOO!!!!! what is he spoke?
why will the gial not leaved him?

@Poster u said it in ur post, well let me rephrase
Romance - Finance= Nuisance,
its not all about money, but it takes some cash to maintain a lady!

Tanwinjin:
Facebook is hang-out spot for a lot of weird, attention-seeking exhibitionists: self-deniers, new-money Nigerians (who have just arrived Dubai, London to buy a Polo shirt or a LV bag), gawkers, pretenders ("I am happy but the truth is I am a miserable sod looking to be noticed), etc. Nairaland? I don't know yet. I heard there are a lot of smart, naughty folks here. Whether that is true or not, we shall find out in the days ahead.

@Tanwinjin: SECONDED

Hello Nairalanders,

why is it that some parents are so class conscious? especially when it involves their daughters getting married to a guy whose background is not as flamboyant as theirs. my flatmate is facing serious problems with her parents because her fiance does not belong to the 'creme de la creme' status of her parents. infact the other day on the fone her parents told her off that they were disappointed with the kind of man she wants to marry. just because his folks are not in their 'class', is this fair? what do u guys think?

And i was just wondering if there is anything wrong if a girls family should assist their son-inlaw attain some level of financial stability or independence.
Am asking because my flatmate wants to ask her dad who is a well established politician in nigeria to fix her fiancé up in a better job considering that they already disprove of him.

Hello Doc, i must really commend ur good works on this thread. keep it Up and the good Lord will keep blessing u.
1.I just wanna know if there are any implications in using Tampons during my period. I find them comfy but i dont know if its generally ok
2. I also notice that after my third day i begin to see lumps or clots of blood, thats causes horrible pain when coming out.what causes this.
3. my period doesnt dry up on the th or fifth day i notice some dark brown discharge and use pant liners for like another 3days, is that normal?

Thanks

Hi poster, this is a really sad one.
I'ld advice u talk to someone elderly in ur family whom your dad really respects and obeys or a priest or something
I dont think telling ur mum is the best option right now since u have talked to ur dad previously and nothing has changed.
Also the nigerian society doesnt favour this kind of situation, ur mum might just be hurt and helpless.
Also pray seriously about it, and all the best



and stop spying ur dad's mails

Mr Fine.boy can u interprete this;
I have dated a guy for about 2years and i my dream i see myself all dressed up for our wedding. he was already at church waiting for me to walk in. when it was time for my dad to walk me down the aisle he was nowhere to be found. when i asked my bro he said he was at home and he said he wasnt coming for the wedding, then i woke up.
, what does that mean?

Hey guys age is just a number i agree, but when there are compatibility problems and issues arise between us he always says "maybe if i was ur age i would have understood it that way" or  "i senior u well well so if i say its like this just believe me". i know he doesnt mean any harm and says it jokingly but y does he always emphasize on that? it makes me more uncomfortable.

@Jennykardy: LMAO @ u!!! i really wonder whats wt u n this thread?
i see u r catching ur fun with ur mediocre thinking, did u even attend a school?
anyways am enjoying ur ranting and display of ignorance and foolery, 
dont stop  ,  continue, when u r tired u can take a hike off this thread!!! [size=14pt]Au revoir[/size]

webb jamie; good advice, especially coming from a guy.


@maggieblack, i personally wld not mind someone around 2yrs older than i am. i guess the problem i hv wt this guy is that of compatibility b/w us and most times i wrongly blame it on the age,

Gaaaawwwd!!! I cant stand seeing 30 roaches at the same time, i just had goose pimples reading it

@jennykadry
take a look @ other sensible comments and take a queue!

@poster, am sure u r a joker,
na Frank Einstein write am

i dont get, whats wrong with putting on a halter neck top and pants(i guess u refer to trouser)?
i thot it was even smthing like a tube top and bum short
I guess she left from her husbands house and if he didnt restrain her from putting that on, u shldnt be bothered

Posted by: jumie
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Do you love this man?

Does he have all the qualities you want in a man?

Is he capable of accepting you the way you are?

How do you feel around his friends, can you mingle easily or you have to act like a small kid?

What about his siblings, how do you relate with them and are you okay, with that?


@jumie: theres so much sense in these Qs, thankx a bunch.

I noticed Edo men are usually jealous and domineering
i hv noticed toooo
And they crave for Respect like their lives really depend on it. i hvnt noticed that in my sisters fiancé though, but some of his friends i have met do.

stop acting silly!!! U musn't comment ok!

Hi nairalanders, Please how do u convince your parents that someone who is not from ur tribe is good for u?

My elder sister has been in a relationship with this guy who if from Edo for a while, they intend getting married and he wants to do the introduction in Christmas this year,
However we were brought up in a home where we never really discussed anything about relationships with our folks so they dont know this guy except for once mumsy met him at home, so most times we confide in ourselves.
The guy is Edo and were are Igbos. I and my sister have absolutely nothing against intertribal marriages or relationships.

The problem here is that my aunty (mums step-sister)who grew up with us was married to an Edo guy ended up in a divorce with the guy after only 3years of marriage. We dont know how to tell our parents about this guy considering the case of my aunty and how much the whole divorce thing affected the family. Also my sis wants him to familiarise with  other members of the family but is not soo convinced if they will accept him. We have prayed about it and the guy has been a bit understanding. From what i have seen so far i guess he will make a good husband, he's not perfect though but they complement each other. He's siblings also approve of my sister as well,

how do we go about it?

Posted by: jennykadry
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One of them women that wants to pursue a career first tto the end before they get married

I will pray a prayer for you: I pray you dont end up being 35 and still remain single, and may you not lose your future husband in jesus name, amen

@Jennykard: thanks! but that reply was rather unnecesary, and sorry u dont need to pray yet because i will never remain single at that age! if u read between the lines i said [font=Lucida Sans Unicode]i wish to lay a foundation for a career[/font] , and by that i mean my education at the moment, pls dont deviate from the purpose of this post!!!! thanks

Hi everyone,
i dont know if its just me or does anyone else think a 10 year difference between a guy and a lady is rather to wide?
I am 23 and i have this friend who wants to settle down with me. However he is 33, 10 years older than i am, and am a bit unconfortable with this.
though he said he plans to settle down dis year.
I am yet to formally update my parents on this but most other people that know this say there is nothing wrong with the age thing,
However i am not in a hurry to tie the not soon as am currently undergoing my masters and i wish to lay a foundation for a career soon after.,
I need to hear from neutral sources,
thanks everyone

did i forget to add,
madam Sia hope u've learnt not to wash ur *christian and atheist issues* in Nairaland again, lil labake might just be spying,

LMAOOOOOOOOOOOOO
havent had a hard laugh in a long time,
i suspect foul play here tho this story just made my day, is dis the sugar coated guy she was talking abt?
, all the gal did was seek peoples opinion, which she may choose to accept or just ignore and follow her heart.
y is he acting up?
infact the 3 in this episode Sia fuller to loverboy(funaya) to tatafo (labake) deserve an award; u roles were well played!
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but seriously make the guy no vex, no be so madam Sia mean am