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merieam16:
life itself is nt bed of roses, u re only 18 u got better life ahead. Dont lèt these situation hold u back from being wat God wants u to be.

I will not let it

Shuuu

Hmm

Cool

ststyreal:
Are you sure they are your parents? Y you see come dey do like " Didiri" ( sorry to have use the word) like this at this your age. Be smart and bold. Or are you crippled nii? You are too slow, please be positively smart. This country will push you at a corner and use you as a stepping stone if you are not smart.
But above all, talk to your creator, tell him to make you that man you desire to be. Dohhhh, man up please....

I've talked to God no reply, but I'll keep seeking his face.

tobechi20:
Fake a suicide scare. Write a letter expressing how you feel and put it where they would see them with a sniper close by.

Really I can't do that

Karleb:
Tell your course advisor, HOD or any lecturer you can confide in.

Ok I will

Tony142:
Do more of what they complain about, the more they complain the more worse you should do, if they complain that u came back late at 5:30pm, then next time come back at 6pm, if they complain that u came back late at 6pm, then next time come back late at 6:30pm, if they complain u came back late at 6:30pm, then next time come back at 7pm, see the more they complain the worse you should do, now here is the secret, when they keep complaining and you are getting worse and worser, a time will come when they will be tired of complaining and they will finally leave you alone




freedom is not free, you have to fight for it

Ok I will try that sir. They usually told me if I know where I will live the life u want let me go na. But in as far am under their roof am under their control
This is said by My mother

mariahAngel:
Whenever you feel down and unloved, feeling inadequate and unworthy of people's love, always remember that GOD LOVES YOU just the way you are. That is the love that matters most.

I know God loves me, but is it his plan for me to suffer like this??

Exc2000:
Are you disable?

Can't you raise your hands as well?

Have you let others scare you so much you type " , I have no right of beating anyone, they gonna kill me."


Guess what man... You. Have to man up and put up a fight even if they would kill you, the first time you fight back you would get abit of your lost self esteem back...

It's not easy but it is very important , for your life and that of your kids, may God give you the courage he gave David against Golaith


.

Amen Sir, they really weakened me, but I'll be stronger and take my chances this time.

heniford2:
dude you need to go crazy like way mad at your FAM if your brother hit you up find something to hit the hell outa of him when the finish eat do not great anyone refuse to pack plate and have talk with your dad tell him the way his acting towards you will make you leave his house never to come back again be bold stay on ur own if your joke alot stop it stop association with anybody in the house come back late next intentional if he beat you ask him why the next day come back late again he will stop, stop crying like a baby ur a man mehn

The One and only time I went to the village On of my uncle told me that's You're a man, but really that family weakens me. I'll try what you told me to do. He never gives me his time. Except if I post on social media like Facebook, he'll ask what am I even using Facebook for? So I want to be bad? And all sort of bad talks and leave me alone. I don't know how to talk to him boldly

espn:
Are you sure they are your parent?

I can't tell, am not the last born. I was once taken to the village, but I find it difficult to relate, cause I don't even know how to make new friends. Only my dad's brother talk to me, One told me I have to be a strong man, Life must show me it darkest side, but am the one to decide if I'll be in the dark or light. Did he mean I should keep enduring??

yanabasee:
Then there must be something that you aren't doing right....


It's either you are dull and or you are stubborn.... or something.

Am not stubborn, I don't fight or disobey,
About being dull, definitely I am not much brilliant, imagine living without friends except only that few hours you have in school. During the holidays I feel am in hell!. Am averagely brilliant

Exc2000:





You solve violence with violence


Beat up your brother at slightest provocation or Atleast slap him hard if he tries to beat you, yell at your parents.. intentionally sleep at your friends house and switch off your phone

If you don't snap out of your timidity, your whole life would be miserable, everyone in Nigeria would Lord it over you and ride you like a donkey



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Read well please, I have no right of beating anyone, they gonna kill me. I said my brothers beat me every slight mistake I made

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Front page please, I need much advice before I lost my life

Am really down guys.
Nobody loves me, everyone hates me, my father doesn't even care for me
This is my Short Story

Am 18th years old but have zero experience of live, I was caged at home,I have no friends and at home no one plays with me or advice me.i keep on getting dull, I realised I have to work hard when I met my school friend John,he tells me not to worry about my parent since they do pay my school fees,I told him that's not even the issue. I have no one to teach me at home,no one to help me do my assignment and even remind me to read since am a kid. Now am in ND 1, in a polytechnic close to our home, my dad Never let's me attend 4 to 6 o'clock lectures so I won't come home late.i When I am not at home by 6 o'clock, I just have to know that he is going to beat the hell out of me even as I am now.
I tried to behave mature and show Prove am no longer a kid,but my brothers and sister never understand, am not the last born but I am the one to was the plate,clean the floor,and even pack the plate my junior brother eats from. Ain't that wickedness, both my elder brother and sister beats me the way they wants if I made a slight mistake.
When I went to the polytechnic all my new friend are talking about how their parents love them and how they have good time with their father and mother, I NEVER HAD THAT. Except Only when they scold me,even when they do I only apologize and keep quiet.
Now it's getting out of hands,I can't go to school because of the beating he gave me day before yesterday, bruises all over my body, reason is because I came home 5:30 I wanted to attend an EEC 116 Course from 4 to 6 o'clock. I came home late, he nearly killed me.

Have any of you experience that? How do I do? How did you eat that Grimm?
Am thinking of leaving the house!
But is that a good idea?
I need your help please, especially from parents.
NOTE: Am a male not a female.