TwoNoLove:

I can't tell, am not the last born. I was once taken to the village, but I find it difficult to relate, cause I don't even know how to make new friends. Only my dad's brother talk to me, One told me I have to be a strong man, Life must show me it darkest side, but am the one to decide if I'll be in the dark or light. Did he mean I should keep enduring??

You should have gone to a school very far away.

You have to make up your mind to live far away from home even if you have to do petty jobs to survive. Set yourself free o. In Yoruba, “ja ra e gba”

SweetCunt97:
You should have gone to a school very far away.

Judging by his narrative, I believe it wasn't up to him.

TwoNoLove:
Am really down guys.
Nobody loves me, everyone hates me, my father doesn't even care for me
This is my Short Story

Have any of you experience that? How do I do? How did you eat that Grimm?
Am thinking of leaving the house!
But is that a good idea?
I need your help please, especially from parents.
NOTE: Am a male not a female.

You sound pathetic. Grow a spine.

CanadianNaija:



You sound pathetic. Grow a spine.

You sound stewpiid. You need to shut the 4k up.

TwoNoLove:
Am really down guys.
Nobody loves me, everyone hates me, my father doesn't even care for me
This is my Short Story

Have any of you experience that? How do I do? How did you eat that Grimm?
Am thinking of leaving the house!
But is that a good idea?
I need your help please, especially from parents.
NOTE: Am a male not a female.

I am sorry about everything you're going through.

There's nothing wrong with you. The thing is that your parents are narcissists and you are the family scapegoat. The one everybody in your dysfunctional family chooses to ride on to boost their ego.

They will never change.

There is a solution but it's not an easy one. You will have to leave your family house because they will ruin your life.
You see, I experienced the exact same thing you're going through and it was tough. It was like living in hell

Nobody can understand that your own parents are the ones giving you pain but I do. I believe you. I'm on your side. I'm your friend.

You need to have a plan to be financially independent so you can move out as quickly as possible. Start doing online jobs or any jobs in your vicinity.

Is there a friend/classmate you can stay with on campus? A nice church member you could squat with until you graduate? Tell them your parents don't like you staying out and you tend to miss important lectures as a result.

You might notice that I'm emphasizing on leaving the house because honestly, it's the best solution. Nothing else will work.
No amount of obedience or washing plates or coming home early will work.

Your family is toxic and abusive and they will never change. Please find a way to leave that house. At least until you finish your ND program. You can then decide if you want to establish contact or not.

You're strong. You are not averagely smart. You're very bright and intelligent. You're the best. You're an overcomer. You will do well in life.

This site was very helpful to me. This is the site. r/raisedbynarcissists
I hope it helps you too

Your parents may also be going through rough times and not be fully conscious that they are taking their frustrations out on you.

Speak to your mother about the way you feel. If she doesn't change , then we would take it from there.

Make sure as possible to focus on your academics so that all your mental lows can be behind you in the near future.

TwoNoLove:

I can't tell, am not the last born. I was once taken to the village, but I find it difficult to relate, cause I don't even know how to make new friends. Only my dad's brother talk to me, One told me I have to be a strong man, Life must show me it darkest side, but am the one to decide if I'll be in the dark or light. Did he mean I should keep enduring??

He means there is a hidden story about your real family.
They might be hiding your real mom or dad.
Start digging.

Be mindful as many of the advice I have read here would land you in more mess. At this time, you do not have the economic strength to fight and these guys wouldn't take you in should you act stupid and leave the house.

Work on yourself and be assertive on things that pertains to you.

TwoNoLove:

I know God loves me, but is it his plan for me to suffer like this??

life itself is nt bed of roses, u re only 18 u got better life ahead. Dont lèt these situation hold u back from being wat God wants u to be.

merieam16:
life itself is nt bed of roses, u re only 18 u got better life ahead. Dont lèt these situation hold u back from being wat God wants u to be.

I will not let it