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Confused on how to say this.
There's this girl I really like we have been dating for awhile she's supposed to be the perfect woman for me but she is a victim of paedophilic rape
She was raped by a neighbor for weeks when she was 8 years old.
The issue now is whenever I try to have sex with her the minute there's penetration she starts crying and is thrown back to when she was being violated
She feels she needs to see the man who raped her so that she can get closure but she doesn't want to bring up the issue with her parents because it almost tore their family apart
Am in need of a way to help this girl. She's a good person and deserves a good life and a good family in the future but this needs to be dealt with so that she can have that
I don't know if I can be able to get someone for her to talk to preferably in Benin
Although she's unwilling to talk to anyone because she's afraid her secret will get out there and she doesn't want the stigma that comes with it
Somebody please help me help her
And mods push this to the front page ASAP
Abeg help a brother