₦airaland Forum

civilserva:
Where are the cows?

come down north and search for it

ADAlBEKU:
After giving Buhari your votes he is not protecting you.
Buhari love his migrant Fulani jihadist than the average Northerner

that's wrong sir I didn't give buhari my votes neither did my household
yeah he loves his Fulani jihadist but I tell you they're sitting on a time bomb

EdiskyHarry:
these northerners should know that buhari will not remain in power for ever, there will be a president that will not take this rubbish from them.

pls be specific

it's Fulani herdsmen not northerns in quote

vincentjk:
My dad once narrated to me a tragic story of how a man fell inside a pit somewhere in the bush in a bid to run away from high way robbers.

Their bus was robbed just like your cousin's but unfortunately in an attempt to run for safety he fell inside a pit, his family would call him on phone and he'll be pleading they look for him inside the bush around the area assuring them he's alive but can't get out of that pit...

Days passed by and unfortunately his battery ran down and that was the end for that man. I felt bad when I heard this sad story

May God locate your cousin brother for you op

nawa o but was it concrete pit that he couldn't try digging steps to come up or why did his family members nur try enough?

I meant no bad blood but this is all about life and death

afilaka:
Am tired of you guys,after all this kidnapping story,u guys stil travel that route....u tink those news that have been trending online about the kidnappers on that road are all lies. My cousin and her husband were kidnapped last year a day after their wedding too, they were released after payment or so.

Now again,another of my cousin wants to get married from that side , every1 in the family wish him well,no1 wants to b kidnapped.

ok suggest please suggest other route for us to pass cause as it is at the moment we don't know any other route apart from the Air nautical routes

GamalNasser:
The same Ikpeazu Buhari begged to escort him to London ?

you meant after licking his ass hole endlessly?

ForeThinker:
Inside life

Him yan d same language with them naa

lmao

GamalNasser:
Smart yet Buhari and Tinubu are your leaders

I'm not surprised u guys aren't wise that's why you can have ikpeazu and kanu as ur leaders

ngozi20:
Ok. I will try to find away to repair this relationship. I didn't mention this earlier but she gave my cousin a large amount of money when he was returning home. He didn't ask her for it, she just wanted him to be comfortable back home until he returned to her. Maybe I will try to pay back the money to her. Thanks for the advice.

would money try fixing it? I doubt and you trying to pay it back to her might not be of great help why's cause she gave him out of her free will and he didn't steal/ scammed her of it

but I'll suggest gifts seriously, and constant visitation to her together with either ur friends or her friends when the relationship is getting repaired you can now try paying her back

and for her to give him money after breaking her heart tells one thing and that's how good n kind hearted she is in person, she isn't a type of person to loose relationship with tbh as for that ur cousin he's just few seconds to putting you urself in trouble I wouldn't help such a cousin again coz he definitely doesn't know what he wants and that tells his actions

ngozi20:
No wahala and thank you. I understand your concern. I don't know why/how I allowed this to happen. I knew he wanted papers but we have friends in common that say I should dtay away because she won't stop crying. I don't want to disturb her.

don't stop visiting her be stubborn and rugged, visit her with gifts meet other friends. the ones asking you to stay away are probably those who's protecting her, hate you or she's poisoned their mind against you

so look for more friends to accompany you, continue searching n searching, don't stop till you've got someone who would listen to you n believe you. wear on a sober look, break down in tears to if possible to show how serious you are. trust me persistenceis the key to repairing the relationship

ngozi20:
He's back home now but he is very angry with the girl for reporting him. Unfortunately, he doesn't think he is wrong because he is allowed to have 4 wives. I did explain to him that polygamy is illegal in this country but he thought that he could eventually change her mind. In regards to her helping me, you're correct. She has helped me in the past. I I just don't know what to say at this point because she's very devastated and I know she also dislikes me and will never trust me again for not telling her that he was married.

she's devastated that's definitely sure and yes she'll want to vent the anger on you don't be discouraged. she has helped you bfr she'll do it again which I'm 100% sure

best thing to do now is if you know some of her friends visit them, explain in details and be emotional so they'll feel for you and know ur not at fault, let them follow you to her house let some words follow and a constant visit if she doesn't agree 1st to the 5th time she'll definitely forgive you bfr the 100th time coz she'll see n know how serious you are

I'm very serious and I know the reason why I'm asking you to repair the broken relationship with her it's very important coz ur a foreigner there and it's worst to start keeping enemies with those hosting you. do this and thank me later

ngozi20:
She terminated the pregnancy.

I'm sorry for the big words I used earlier don't mind me was just emotional how atimes Nigerians take advantage of white guys trust

I have some white ladies I tried to console on what's app about 3 of them sharing to me how Nigerian guys treated and left them all coz of papers. but the big question is why would you allow ur cousin to do such? ehn after you know how the people you live with relate/ behave when it comes to relationships

but my candid advice is you try in every possible way repair the broken relationship with the lady at least if ur going over to her place steadily she'll have no choice but to forgive you or anyone buy her gifts it'll really go a long way

[quote author=ngozi20 post=85883300][/quote]you shouldn't have broken the relationship with her at all even if she believe you did. if I were the one I'll rather keep visiting her, making sure she sees I'm not at fault at least if you continue visiting her, pleading to her/ giving her reasons to see why ur not an accomplice one day she'll definitely forgive you

but I must be frank with you ma'm you've really not done well at all. from the look of things the lady happen to be a good woman who is not someone to loose talking/ relating relationship with. she might definitely be of help one day if she sees ur a good woman

and to tell you the truth she didn't over reacted as long as ur cousin isn't in jail as we speak

thorpido:
Unfortunately,when people are hurt,you don't know the extent to which they can go to express their anger and sometimes seek revenge.
Your cousin SHOULD never have lied.
About getting his visa back,I doubt.

the cousin is an example of a person who gives this country a bad reputation worldwide. now she wouldn't want to have an encounter with a Nigerian anymore and any slight opportunity to devalue Nigerians she'll gladly do/take it

and the niece to instead of apologizing on the cousin's behalf, making sure they still have a good rapol together and ensuring the lady is okay, and still have the grace to have access to the baby after the baby is born. the mumu went to fight with her coz she overreacted. why won't she overreact

ngozi20:
My cousin came to the US and I introduced him to my friend. They really had a good connection and my friend really fell for my cousin. He asked her to marry him and the girl got pregnant. The issue at hand is that the man is already married. I know that my friend asked him if he was married, he put his hand on the Quran and told her that he was divorced. My cousin also promised to show her the divorce papers when he returned home. My cousin can have up to four wives according to his religion but the girl (non Muslim) does not believe in polygamy and was very firm with my cousin. My cousin deceived the girl and she eventually found out that he was married with a newly born baby. My cousin told the girl that he lied because he didn't want to lose her. Long story short... the girl ended the relationship, contacted the embassy and terminated the pregnancy. The guy lost the girl, lost his 10 year visa and lost his unborn child. Do you think the girl overreacted? Am no longer friends with the girl because of her disgusting behavior by contacting the embassy. I believe that she should have just moved on and not ruined his life. Do you think her behavior was too extreme? I now she is hurt but why do this to him? Is there anyway he get his visa back?

sorry to say this but ur ...... for breaking ur relationship with someone who might/ would have still been of a great help to you for a looser. you should even be glad she ain't shot him dead yet like I would have done to him if it were my sister

and No she didn't over react your cousin or whatever he's called isn't fit to stay amongst sane humans cause he's a cheat, liar and a pest infact a bleeping fraudster fugitive and so he should either rot in jail or get deported back and his passport sized for 20years minimum

my optional advice (if u like take it) for you is go repair the broken relationship with that woman, apologize to her and seal up good terms with her and not a looser as ur cousin

farmsupplies:
12000 point of lay available for pick up

why are you scared to include the price?

sholikay:
I created a thread about killing a baby snake by some neighbours while I was away my apartment last week Saturday.



https://www.nairaland.com/5627819/baby-snake-killed-apartment-yesterday




...this night again, we killed exact type of snake... what could have gone wrong?...is their mother somewhere around or in the building?.. help me oo nairalanders...



cc lalasticlala

Lol e don be for you op

they have a colony somewhere in ur home and what can help you now is fumigation and ever necessary steps taken to avoid stories that touch

happy200:
Well everyone is entitled to his and her own opinion, sincerely speaking Mr Buhari is my mentor.

Some people just hate this man for no just any reason. I 've been searching for any single reason that I can hold-on to but I didn't see. Please guys let's just be sincere for once this man is innocent and capable to handle our great country Nigeria. I'm ready for constructive argument

If he likes he should be ur projector or tormentor......the Question is who cares?

thatfinegirl:
So I met this girl recently.....we became friends. I kinda notice that she is an introvert but we are good Sha


I recently caught her crying....according to her she is tired of being an introvert she really wants to make friends but she can't just help it......
It feels impossible for her to really mingle with people.

She feels she is the one with a problem but sincerely I tried talking to her that she should be herself and not Pressure herself into something she won't be comfortable with but she does not seem convinced instead she was asking questions like "am I a bad person"...etc
I really want to help this girl.....any advice on what I can do to help me


Introverts in the house pls I need ur help....how do u guys cope?

we cope nooni

BabaRamota1980:
Consider it a determination to eliminate enemies of Yorubaland. If you and your brothers are enemies of the land you will be eliminated!

you should face ur weapons of war to the killer herdsmen or any Fulani you see around.....we Hausas are peace loving people but when fight comes we don't chicken out we face it

sulasa07:
Holy Shiiiit!Beating wounded people to death.That's the Nigerian Army's way.Even people wey no wound sef,dem go beat am with their boots and the person go return home to die.
Police and SARS go kill you with their gun while Nigeria Army will kill you with beating.

tho I know what it is catching the sect of people that have been a pain in the butt and has also been responsible for the death of many of ur comrades......you wouldn't want to give such person an easy death to

BabaRamota1980:
When Nigeria's time is up...no one will delay its collapse one hour past its expiry time.

Nigeria's expiration date is visible on the horizon.

For the past 9months not a week goes by that there is not some public face off between North and South.

Even if people do not want to fight, the tension is so high it has become a living threat and people are frightened sufficiently that some have resolved to start stock piling weapons of attack (not defense). I am one of those.

I am sorry for gatemen and mesuya in my area.

I'll consider this a threat against my brothers

and I hope you know the ratio is 10 > 1

Gwilym:
The idea behind saving her is so that she can give more evidence in order to bring down the whole cartel business in Mexico.

you meant to say the authorities don't have an idea where she's been living? this is a lady who goes out with her killer cartel squad and can be arrested by the authorities if they really wanted to

the army had to defend themselves and business as usual arrest her, treat her and she bails herself out with alotta money

GeoAfrikana:
Wouldn't you people be the first to say they're saving terrorists?

I'm not saying so

Bodydialect57:
Yeah, l think you are right. But was wondering why efforts were made to see her live if not for her to face the full wrath of the law.

As you have rightly pointed out, her days of reckoning has come and gone. What a waste of a life that could have been a blessing to humanity!

not sure tho but it'll be business for the police (knowing Mexican police are more terrible in corruption than their Nigerian counterparts)......rescue her, make her live and get a whooping sum of money from her in bribe, organize a jail break and hear she's gone dark for the main time atleast

reasons why El-chapo was jailed in the US and not transferred back to his home country coz US knows his percentage of escape in detention at Mexico is 99%

Bodydialect57:
Trying so hard to see her alive is so she could face the consequences of her actions.

you can't be to sure for a Mexican cartel.......if she's arrested sooner or later she'll either escape or bribe her way out

God has opened her case file and surely her days of reckoning has come n gone

armadeo:
Flogged to death..

Well to plan insurgency that is an apt reward. Fully supported

the bandits strong sha if I were the one I was beaten with that type of wood the Army used that day.....just 3 strokes only would hv sent me to my creator

armadeo:
They will put a bullet in her head and the videos will circulate on SM.


Meanwhile live by the gun die by the gun

putting a bullet in her head is even easy.....the one I witnessed around Kaduna, Nigerian army successfully repelled an attack on their check point around that Forest side mehn the injured bandits were flogged to death. it's the first time I'll ever pity a criminal

Lol isn't it emotional to see an Army trying so hard to rescue her to an hospital even after knowing she's killed lot of their members recently.

I'll come back to speak on what Nigerian army would have done to her if it were them but for the meantime she should rest in hell at 21

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I hope this man still remembers his son is serving a jail term in the US

keep smiling there mumu man