₦airaland Forum

sukkot:
cool. yoruba boys doing big thangs. biafra how market

SaiBuharii:
I hope Ndigbo men never kidnap these girls for their usual end of the year money ritual.

oparaben:
Call her, let her explain. Don't conclude yet. What if she's been in great danger ever since then? Always give people chance to explain before concluding.

HomieQuan:
wait & hear her part na, see u..wot if ha phone ws stolen

misspicy:
Why is it that every answer NL guys give on this type of issue is dat d girl is with anoda man,una no dey ever tink outside d box?
gbogbo yin shey man sun dori kodo so ju kan bi ode bayi gan na

@ucheosefoh af u tried calling her with anoda no number just to see if her number is available its possible she lost her fone or d fone has fault,abt she not caliing u regularly its a matter of understanding,is she bouyant?is she working,dos she have a means of livelihood Because sumtyms girls might be broke and we wouldnt want to say it out,
Anyway its possible its just not.convinient for her to.call or she might be seeing sumone else,atleast tink abt d two options

snakebeat:
It seems like u didn't read the post. This has nothing to do with pride, but self esteem, u want the op to slobber over a girl that couldn't spare one minute of her time to wish him happy birthday? Despite the fact that he called her to remind her. It's so obvious the girl doesn't give a hoot about the op, she is into someone else. I guess the op was blinded by love, that was why it took so much time for him to discern he has been dumped.

Cc: ucheosefoh pls move on! Someone is presently digging that hoe u cherish so much. Don't be surprised u also contributed to this, girls don't like guys who cares too much about them, it's obvious u so much love this girl.

teddybear007:
One thing ve found out is dat guys are always quick to give advice on issues like dis and d kind of advice they give will make one begin to wonder if there are still faithful girls out there. @Op, i believe in giving one a benfit of doubt, dnt be too fast to conclude, yeah is painful that ur girlfriend did nt call u on ur BD and has nt yet called till now, ve u wondered why she did nt call. Why nt throw away ur pride and call her to find out why she didnt call,then from her excuse u can deduce for urself whether she’s loyal or not. I always tell those around me, ‘There is no pride in Love’. Gracias.

MikelEleta:
Call her it doesn't remove anything from u BUT demand explanation cos wen yu ignore as if nofin happened it wud send a signal to her dt she can do anytin nd go scot free. Be a man nd stand firm. It wud serve beta in d long run

Thowbie7:
Ehyah.....i feel for you Mr OP!....The truth and the Fact is that,someone is busy and seriously drilling her hole else where!.....Her oil rig is adequately been explored and exploited to the extent that she's forgotten you existed!..The handwriting is on the wall.....Kindly Move On BRO!

holocron:
Dear exxell,
We can feel the anguish in your soul as you write. But...has it occured to you YOUR SPIRITUAL EXPLAINATION for the malaise you have observed in the black race, is actually the problem with the black race? You (blacks like you), no matter your exposure, refuse to objectively and scientifically study and master your physical and social environment with a view to change things for the better. Instead you are quick ( like the intellectually lazy) to jump to spiritual and magical causes of things.

Please wake up, my friend, open your eyes. The modern blackman is a traumatized being, a victim of historical circumstances. The struggle continues. The lot of the European white you idolize today was not much better than many African societies 1000 years ago. But it was the european rennaissance, when they embraced logical thinking in all things, chose scientific learning and rejected all kinds of superstition that saved them. You too should do the same and preach and convert as many of your fellows as you can, and you would surely see the the change.

Most blacks do not have a practical understanding of their physical and cultural world that will enable them to improve their world. YOU CANT CHANGE WHAT YOU DONT UNDERSTAND. We have our heads buried too deep in the sands of superstition, religion, and magic. This is what causes the irrational behaviour you observe. Its like a man trying to navigate his way with an inaccurate, or obsolete map.

There is nothing inherently wrong with the blackman that cannot be corrected by the blackman by simply waking up.

mrhansome12:
Still on Anambra

Ucheosefoh:
Anambra