*She asked a question in a general Group on a WhatsApp platform*.
I responded to the question professionally.

She tagged my response and typed: *"you're an idiot"*

Upon thinking through her response, I calmly replied: *"Thanks so much. Now that you have pointed out my attention to this idiotic part of me, I'll surely work on it, God bless you my dear..."*

*And the whole platform shook. Over 118 people commented. They were so surprised by my calm response. Of course she was terribly bashed to the extent that she "left" the Group.*

*An hour later she called me to apologise* for how stupid she's been etc. I forgave her and we became friends.

Then I later ended up handling her premarital counselling sessions.

Two days ago, on my Birthday, she and her husband surprised me with a gift worth over $10,000. This was a year after she called me an idiot.

*Life Lessons from this experience:*

*1. MATURITY:* Your reaction to negative feedbacks  or situations shows how mature you are.

*2. CHOICE:* You have the power of choice whenever anybody does or says anything offensive to you.

*3. SELF CONTROL:* If someone calls you anything negative and you lose yourself and begin to fight or shout or do anything terrible, you only prove them right.

*4. SILENCE IS GOLDEN:* It is better to keep quiet and let people think you're a fool, than to open your mouth to enable them confirm you're truly a fool.

*5. DISCERNMENT:* You cannot throw both the baby and the dirty water away from the bathing bowl because the baby had pooed in the bath water.

*6. POSITIVE POWER:* You have the power to win people through your maturity and composure and not through overly being more sanctimonious than the person.

*7. POSITIVE IMPACT:* Life is all about people. If I had responded to her negatively, I would have lost a friend forever.

*8. WISDOM:* There are people who are sent to you by God to help your journey in life to be worthwhile, your  meeting point might be at a fighting point. Be wise, even when you're angry.

*9. HUMILITY:* She was humble enough to call and apologized.

*10. RECONCILIATION:* Maybe there's someone you need to reconcile with today, go ahead and do just that.

We can all get Better with Ourselves, with these 10  key lessons.

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A DIVORCED SINGLE MOTHER WROTE:

I am writing to you in order to make someone understand that it's good to appreciate our partners despite their flaws.

I am 32 years of age.

My ex husband and I dated for 6 years.

We where best of friends.

I waited until he completed college and started work.

My family and his family then met.

We got married and had a son. (7 years old now).

My husband was short tempered at times but our problems started when I wanted to make him feel he couldn't control me.

Every time we argued, I would pack my bags, go to my family and explain.

My sisters would phone my husband and shout at him.

If he was controlling me I would always dare him that if he wished, he could divorce me.

I never wanted divorce.

I just had pride and I never wanted to look like a loose woman in his eyes.

One day I pushed him so hard that for the first time he beat me and locked me outside.

I went to my family, my family took him to the police, every time I looked like I was being abused!

But to be honest, I used to abuse my husband emotionally.

He was arrested and detained.

I was asked by his family to withdraw the case.

I felt that what I was doing was wrong.

My husband was never a violent man, he did what he did because I pushed him to the wall of which he openly knelt down and apologized.

I withdrew the charge, and we reconciled.

After three months, I packed my bags after a small issue and he remained alone.

After two days, I
received a call that he was in the hospital.

My family told me that I shouldn't go there because it would look like I was begging him and my sisters believed he was feigning the illness.

All this time, people felt sorry for me like I was the one being abused.

He spent a week in the hospital, after he came out, I just received a divorce summon.

I wanted to say no to divorce, but because I felt this pride, I wanted him to change his mind and beg me.

I called him and said he would get the divorce because I lived like I was in hell.

When we went to court, I wanted to make him pay, so I told the court that I needed his properties to be shared.

To my surprise he openly told the court that whatever he and I acquired together should be given to me, all he wanted was divorce.

We were divorced in 2009 July.

Now, my husband is married, whilst l am here wasted!

My family members are gossiping about me.

I depend on what my ex husband gives to my son for survival.

I know I wasted my
marriage.

I am here telling all wives that they should be careful how they get advise.

Don't be cheated, don't entertain family interference in your marriage my dear reader.

Even my young sisters are much more respected than myself.

Those who encouraged me to get divorced are now teasing and bad mouthing me.

Please ladies, be vigilant in your marriage.

Thought it wise to share my story to save your marriage.

There is no benefit in pride for nothing.

SOMETIMES IT'S NOT THE MAN'S FAULT AT ALL, IT'S YOUR PRIDE,AND THE PEOPLE YOU ALLOWED TO ADVISE YOU,SO BE WISE AND VIGILANT IN YOUR MARRIAGE.
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The blessing that is bigger than you is coming your way now. What is your expected testimony? Without expectation there will be no manifestation. What do you want to see this morning?

There were two women available for Jesus to marry. Mary or Martha. Spirituality(Mary), Good cook(Martha). But He decided not to marry so that you can marry. He left the pleasure of marriage for you. You must marry if you are ready and available. In 3 months time you are married.

SIGNS TO KNOW WHEN A GUY MAY BE CHEATING ON YOU, OR MAY NO MORE BE INTERESTED.

Please, before you read, note that this message is not a conclusion, it is only a sign. It is not for you to start being unnecessarily suspicious but it is only a guide for discovering the solution. These are signs to know when a guy is cheating on you, or may no more be interested.

1. When he stops calling for no reason, and when asked why, he always says that he is busy.

2. When he becomes over-caring in your presence, but hardly remembers you in your absence.

3. When he begins to set traps for you to fall in, so that he would use it as an excuse to blame you.

5. When you have to remind him all the time to notice what you are wearing or the hairstyle you just made.

6. When he claims that lack of call credit is the reason why he has not been calling. The truth is that he may be calling someone else.

7. When you no longer see him, even when you stay close.

8. When his love for you seems to increase after you just had sex with him (Pre-marital sex is wrong on its own).

9. When he starts getting angry at every little mistake you make.

10.When he no longer tells you the important details or recent development of his endeavours.

These are some of the signs, the solution is not to put up a fight or get angry or jealous. All you need to do as a lady is to intentionally reduce your own commitment and watch if he will sit up or ask why? If he sits up then you should forgive him, but if he asks why then you must tell him what you noticed. Make him feel you can do with or without him. Commitment in a relationship is not 50-50, it is 100-100. Wisdom is profitable to direct. Ecclesiastes 10:10. Be blessed in Jesus name.

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Every evil day programed into your life is deprogramed in the name of Jesus Christ.

Don't marry your spec marry your soul mate. How then can you know your soul mate. Your soul mate is connected to your soul, not your body. Your soul is made up of your mind, will, intellect and emotion. Now you know who to marry. Soul mate, not flesh mate.

A man's desire is not sex, he can get it from anywhere. A man's desire is not food, he can get that from the best restaurant. A man's desire is not dressing, he sees women even better dressed than you every day. A man's desire is his respect. If you take that from him, you will cause the beast in him to be activated. He needs respect. He needs you as a woman to massage his ego. Act like a queen then he will be your king.

Hope your name means something good.

For Abraham and Sarah to fulfil destiny their names needed to be changed from ABRAM AND SARAI TO ABRAHAM AND SARAH. Words are powerful, when someone calls your name, the person is not just calling a name but saying a word by invoking the meaning of your name to align with your personality. It is time to change bad names to good names. Even the bible says a good name is better than riches. Proverbs 22:1.

Adam named everything and they took after their names. It is time to find the meaning of your name. It is easier to be delivered when you have a good name and experiencing a bad thing THAN when you have a bad name. Your name must be changed today. I see things turning around for your good in Jesus precious name. Receive grace and wisdom to do so in Jesus precious name.

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The Meaning Of Fear To God.

Fear remains one of the strongest weapon of the devil till now. Nothing bad happens to you until fear is found in you. Job was okay until fear stepped in. Job 3:25.

Misfortunes, disappointments, delays, negative occurrences is rooted in fear. If you can take fear out of your mind, you can chase the devil out of your life.

Whatever you greatly fear will come upon you sooner or later no wonder over 365 verses in the bible admonished us not to be afraid. The devil is powerless until he senses fear in you. Fear has torments. Fear comes by what you see and hear. And the devil can manipulate and control what you see or hear in the physical just to put fear in you. It takes faith to deal with fear. And faith comes on the platform of God's word by hearing, reading, thinking and understanding it. It is God's word in you that makes you to be bold when the situation to fear arises. I rebuke every spirit and trace of fear in your heart in the name of Jesus Christ. Fear is fear, don't be afraid of anything, don't be scared of the weather, don't be scared of losing that job, marriage or money. Let nothing terrify you. Philippians 1:28. Fear means you don't trust God, fear means you believe that the enemy is greater than God, fear means that you believe the challenges are bigger than God. God reads meaning to your fear. So FEAR NOT.

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Stop sacrificing your peace for other people's joy.Study people and deal with them just the way they are not the way you are.

Don't worry about the people God removed from your life. He saw things you didn't see, He heard things you didn't hear. So rejoice and let them GO.

THE DEVIL USES WORRY TO HINDER PEOPLE MORE THAN ANY OTHER THING.

Beloved we live in a world that is worry driven, people worry about jobs, businesses, money, children, spouses, marriages, missing things, progress. This world has the potential of making you to worry even in the most happiest situation. Worries don't end, you cannot afford to lose your joy because of it.
The bible says in Philippians 4:6; that you should be anxious or worry over nothing... God is very much aware that that in this world worries will come that was why He said we should worry over nothing. John 16:33.

Naturally and spiritually; things become better when you are not anxious. If you are thinking so much on a thing that you need it may not come, but the moment you remove your mind from it, it shows up most of the time when you least expected it to. This is the law of faith at work. Isaiah 28:16. Those issues that are bothering you may keep bothering you if you keep thinking about them. Think of the word of God instead. All you need is rest of mind and peace of heart for that expectation to manifest. The devil is not responsible for the delay most of the time, worries and anxiety causes delays most of the time.

Anxiety is most times confused for expectation. God is committed to bringing your expectations to pass and not your anxieties. Anxieties or worries will delay the manifestation of your expectations, it is on when you stop allowing your heart to be troubled over that issue that it will come to pass. Make up your mind not to be moved whether it happens or not, and you will see it happen.

Giving platform. It is giving provokes your blessings to manifest not prayer.

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That set back is a stepping back for a higher jump. It is not over for you. Rejoice!!!

THE POWER OF THE TONGUE IS WHAT THE DEVIL USES AGAINST PEOPLE. WATCH IT!!!

Many have not yet understood the power of their tongue. The greatest power is that of death and life. Proverbs 18:21 says that Life and death is in the power of the tongue. One tongue carries both life and death.

We live in a world where people are more comfortable speaking negative than positive. You tell someone that they are enjoying and they will start complaining. It's a spiritual cancer of the tongue. Your tongue drives your life. Not your brain, nor even your legs.

Don't make the condition determine your speech, let your speech determine your condition. Next time when someone tells you that you are enjoying reply by saying "YES I AM BECAUSE GOD IS HELPING ME"

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That set back is a stepping back for a higher jump. It is not over for you. Rejoice!!!

In this year of Big Achievements, your massive achievement starts from this very moment. Your captivity have come to an end. Psalm 126. In the kingdom nothing just happens. Every change must be provoked.

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THE HELPLESSNESS OF FAITHLESSNESS

Jesus Christ is coming very soon and one of the virtues He hopes to find on earth is Faith.LUKE 18:8 says,..When Jesus Christ returns shall He find Faith on the earth.The End Time is the Time of Faith.You will only succeed by faith.God is helpless without your faith,the word of God is fruitless without faith.It is time to stop assuming faith.Faith is drawn from the Living word of God.Pay serious attention to God's word and faith will start building up in your heart.Another way to build your faith is praying in the Holy Ghost or praying in tongues.JUDE 20.Receive the grace to grow your faith in the name of Jesus Christ.Your victory shall be total,be blessed in Jesus name.

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Anyone who has made you a project of pain may the God of heaven reply them.Every high powered conspiracy against you this year is destroyed in advance in Jesus name.Fear not! Your testimony is coming early today.

Every 'NO' you have been told is turning to 'YES' now in the name of Jesus Christ.

YOUR LIFE IS NOT A COMPETITION. BEWARE, ENVY PURSUES GOOD THINGS.

What happened for your neighbour that has not yet happened for you does not mean that he or she is better than you. Rejoice with him or her but do not envy. It is possible for envy to step in without you lettting it. It is part of the human nature, but you can kill it by calling that neighbour and letting him know how happy you are.

Someone has said and I believe; that the only difference between HERE & THERE IS 'T'. That 'T' stands for TIME. IT IS ONLY A MATTER OF TIME. God ask me to tell you that no matter what you are going through,IT IS ONLY A MATTER OF TIME.Don't give up, Don't break down,because it is only just a matter of time.God has answered your prayers,He has seen your tears,He has undo the heavy burdens and broken every yoke. But it is still a matter of time.

Why is it only a matter of time? The reason is for your patience to be complete. God does not want to see anxiety in your heart, Philippians 4 : 6.He wants to see patience instead.James 1:3-4. Well you may be saying,you have been patient all this while. The truth is; that patience you claim you have is mixed with anxiety. True patience puts you at rest,that you will not even be bothered whether God does it or not.

Be patient because God has already answered your prayers,He has opened your breakthrough doors,but He is checking your heart whether you are patient or anxious. So receive grace to be patient.

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COOKING GOD'S FOOD.

EVERY FOOD HAS ITS OWN INGREDIENT. THE FOOD OF GOD IS THANKSGIVING AND THESE ARE THE INGREDIENTS.

1. JOY; True thanksgiving must be instigated by joy; if you are not joyful then you will not be grateful. I know that you have not gotten exactly what you wanted for this month that is why you need to thank God. Look behind you, you have been traveling on road even in the air and you were not involved in any crash. Surely God has been good to you. A depressed person is no candidate for God’s blessings. Joy is a choice, please choose to be happy. When you are not happy no matter how bad things might be it will only grow worse. Depression has never generated solution anywhere. So put up a bright face. I speak joy into your life, the joy of the lord. You don’t know what you have missed carrying a straight face. You can laugh your way out of that predicament. Nothing works without joy. Being joyful is the ever winning life. Just like a fish cannot survive outside water God cannot help you without joy, so it is up to you. I see the joy of the Lord pouring afresh on you.

2. PRAISE; the bible says in psalms 67 vs.5. Let the people praise thee let all the people praise thee so shall the earth yield her increase. You only reap your financial harvest through praise. Thanksgiving is generated via praise. Oh! How is wish you will see the importance of thanksgiving. When you praise God you commit God to raise you higher than where you are. You are long overdue for your harvest, its time to engage the sickle of praise. I thank my God because i know that you finally know what to do. Rejoice right where you are, begin to praise God from the depth of your heart. i see God changing your level.

3. OFFERINGS; for your thanksgiving to be complete you need an offering. Look at what psalms 96 vs. 8 says. Give unto the lord the glory due unto His name: bring an offering and come into His courts... When you thank God with an offering you send your seed to go ahead to speak in your favor. Your offering speaks for you when trouble comes. God remembers your offering and your burnt sacrifices. PSALMS 20

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TWO THINGS KILLS JOY.

a. REGRETTING THE PAST

b. COMPARING YOURSELF WITH OTHERS.

YOUR JOY IS RESTORED IN JESUS NAME.

GOD WILL CONNECT YOU TO WHO YOU HAVE BEEN LOOKING FOR TODAY IN THE NAME OF JESUS CHRIST.

No matter how hard the enemy tries. He cannot stop you.

Where you are now is the lowest place you will ever be. From now it is only forward you will be going. Proverbs 4:17.

Just by prophecy, very dry bones became a great army. Ezekiel 37. I prophesy as God have commanded me. "Every dry aspect of your life is turned into a testimony NOW in the name of Jesus Christ". The dry aspect of your life is the part where things are not working. The remaining days of this year will make up for all the losses you suffered during the last 10 years in Jesus name. Every forgotten good prophecy is coming to pass speedily.

PAIN MOST TIMES ENDOWS YOU WITH GRACE FASTER THAN PRAYERS.

In life what you will be bouyant of, you will first be bankrupt of. That financial challenge is because in no time you will be wealthy. That delay in marriage is because you are going to have a good home. That sickness in your body is because the healing power of Jesus is about to flow through you. That delay in child birth is because you are not going to give birth to just any child.

Jesus on earth was not born into the house of a lawyer, a doctor but a carpenter. Why? Because He was going to die by the cross redeeming man so he needed to get used to WOOD, the cross. Moses was born and kept in the water because he was going to confront the Red Sea.

Your challenges are pointers to your destiny. There are some levels in life you can only get to through pains. Your pain will not be in vain in the name of Jesus. Your time has come.

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THEY BARBED SAMSON'S HAIR BUT THEY FORGOT TO PUT A BARBER TO KEEP BARBING HIS HAIR. THE HAIR GREW AND RESTORATION CAME. WHAT YOU LOST BEFORE IS COMING BACK TODAY. THE ENEMY CAN STOP SOMETHING BUT IT'S ONLY FOR A WHILE. HE CANNOT HOLD WHAT BELONGS TO YOU FOREVER. TODAY I COMMAND HIM TO RELEASE WHAT BELONGS TO YOU IN THE NAME OF JESUS CHRIST.

IN THE NAME OF JESUS CHRIST, AS A WATCH MAN, I CUT OFF THAT INVISIBLE HAND ALWAYS PULLING YOU BACK WHEN YOU ARE ABOUT MAKING PROGRESS.

How to identify enemies of progress.

They are envious and jealous. Once you notice anyone with a strong spirit of envy and jealousy RUN for your life because they can kill or allow what can kill you or cause you pain to come to you. Songs of Solomon 8 vs. 6. Do not pray for them to change because the truth is that they cannot change, they can only be exchanged with people that wants your progress.

Pray like this where you are; SAY LORD JESUS EXCHANGE EVERY ENEMY OF PROGRESS IN MY LIFE WITH PEOPLE THAT ARE WILLING TO HELP ME MAKE PROGRESS IN THE NAME OF JESUS CHRIST.

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PEACE STEALERS.

1. Emotional Instability: When you allow your emotion to control you then you are emotionally unstable. When you delete the number of a person from your phone due to a little misunderstanding then you are emotionally unstable. When you put a FULL STOP in your life because of a heart break, then you are emotionally unstable. Not everybody must be your wife or husband, not every relationship must lead to marriage so don't kill yourself if he or she leaves you. Never you allow your external environment affect your internal environment. Don't you know that as a man thinks so he becomes, Guard your heart with all diligence because out of it proceeds the issues of life. Proverbs 23:7, Proverbs 4:23. Control your emotion and you will be keeping your peace.

2. Walking and living by sight not by faith: God made no mistake when He instructed us in His word that the just shall live by faith, and that we should walk by faith and not by sight. 2 cor 5:7, Galatians 3:11. What you see around you can take peace from your heart, so don't live by them, rather live by the word of God.

3. Comparing yourself with others: Never you ever compare yourself with others, Everyone has his or her own time and season of rising. Celebrate others but always know that you have your time. Comparing your self with others can make you miss your time. Life is in phases and men are in sizes. Whatever you cannot buy or get today does not mean you may not be able to buy a hundred tomorrow. So don't measure the progress of your life with that of others. Don't rush into marriage because people are rushing into it. Many married people are wishing they could be single again so as to make a better choice. So rejoice at all times and God will take you higher.

Finally, I decree that whatsoever is tampering and contending with your peace be cursed right now in Jesus precious name.

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Don't marry your spec marry your soul mate. How then can you know your soul mate. Your soul mate is connected to your soul, not your body. Your soul is made up of your mind, will, intellect and emotion. Now you know who to marry. Soul mate, not flesh mate.

FOR EVERYONE THAT SHALL PRAY THIS PRAYER IN FAITH; YOUR JOY SHALL BE FULL TODAY.

LORD JESUS; I thank you for today, I thank you for my life, my health, my finances, my job, my business, my ministry, my academics, my education, my family and my nation. I hallow your name for your faithfulness, your mercies, your protection and your preservation. I give you thanks for all you have done for me, what you are doing and what you will still do today. I appreciate you for a fresh out pouring of your Spirit. Take all the glory for the invisible battles you fought for me, I exalt your name because your word will always be final in my life, the earth and the world at large in Jesus precious name.

Father; even today let your kingdom come, let your will be done on earth as it is in heaven, let your word save men, women, boys and girls today in Jesus name. Let the Holy Ghost convict sinners of their sins, and turn them to repentance. Let your kingdom dominate the earth, Let the church lighten the world, let hell be de-populated and heaven over populated in Jesus name.

Give me today both spiritual and physical food. Both spiritual and physical favours and blessings. Feed my spirit with your word, my soul with your thoughts and my body with good food in Jesus name.

Forgive me my trespasses, open and secret sins, presumptuous and intentional sins. Help me to forgive others and those that may hurt me today in Jesus name.

Lead me not into temptation, deliver me O LORD from evil. Empower me with the grace and the boldness to flee from every form of immorality and give me the overcoming power required to overcome all temptations today in Jesus name.

Take all the praise for the influx of testimonies in and around my life today by reason of your power. I thank you because your word and will shall prevail in my life today in Jesus name. MATTHEW 6:7-15.

Just as you have prayed, YOUR GOING OUT AND COMING IN SHALL INDEED BE BLESSED IN JESUS NAME.(Pls share this prayer and Job 42:10 will be fulfilled in your life in Jesus precious name.

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Don't marry your spec marry your soul mate. How then can you know your soul mate. Your soul mate is connected to your soul, not your body. Your soul is made up of your mind, will, intellect and emotion. Now you know who to marry. Soul mate, not flesh mate.