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Religion / Experience Is Not What Happen To You, But What You Do With What Happen To You. by uchkochi(m): 1:07pm On Mar 12, 2022
Experience is not what happen to you, but what you do with what happen to you.

So many people spend their lives gathering experiences without using them, they are bold to talk about their experience in so and so but fail to utilize it for their own benefit. Experience whether it is negative or positive is vain, except vital lessons are drawn from them and put to work. Matthew 7:24. It is only those that learn from their mistakes that see the miracle that lies in it.(Paraphrased by me)Experience is a boost to life's C.V if you can put them to work in the positive.Be blessed in Jesus precious name.

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Religion / The Past Is The Greatest Thief, It Can Be Caught And Jailed By Ignoring It.... by uchkochi(m): 4:13pm On Mar 11, 2022
THE PAST IS THE GREATEST Thief, IT CAN BE CAUGHT AND JAILED BY IGNORING IT AND FOCUSING ON THE FUTURE.

The past is a thief of the future, so you must ignore the past. If when I check your album and all I can see are pictures of the past then you need some pictures of the future. Where are your pictures of the future? Because if you set it before you then you will eventually enter it. What are you constantly seeing? What is in your album, you need to create a picture of the future, houses that you will build, places that you will go, impact that you will make before your time on earth is over. Its time for you to download from the heart of God through the bible.

You need to decorate your room with pictures of the future, you might not be there yet but you can get the pictures of your imagination and place them on your wall. I curse every effect of the past on your life in the name of Jesus. From today as you apply the words of this teaching, God will not only confirm His words over your life but He will begin to perform them in the name of Jesus. Be blessed. The Lord is perfecting all that concerns you right now in the name of Jesus.

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Romance / Biblical Truth About Divorce. by uchkochi(m): 1:47pm On Mar 11, 2022
What God has joined together let no man put asunder. Mark 10:9. So for this reason divorce should be discouraged.

But do you know that it is only what God joined together that must not be put asunder.
Not when you join yourself together or family join you together. Is it really God that joined you together? And this does not indicate being joined together in church. You can be joined in church and not joined by God.

Marriage has enough challenges but if it is God that joined you together He will find a way. Also know that God can join you together and you still refuse to play your role and hence lead to divorce.

The devil also joins people together to mess up their future. Should that marriage continue?
Romance / Only Marry A Woman That Can Give. If You Find A Woman That Can Give..Marry Her. by uchkochi(m): 5:25pm On Mar 10, 2022
Women are not wired to give they are wired to collect. Hence they receive sperms, more so the position of her private part is for receiving.

They are wired to collect. So if you find a woman that gives marry her. Abraham servant knew this so Rebecca that gave him and his camels water qualified to marry Isaac.

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Religion / If You Find A Woman That Can Give You Please MARRY HER. by uchkochi(m): 3:20pm On Mar 10, 2022
Women are not wired to give they are wired to collect. Hence they receive sperms, more so the position of her private part is for receiving.

They are wired to collect. So if you find a woman that gives marry her. Abraham servant knew this so Rebecca that gave him and his camels water qualified to marry Isaac.

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Religion / Until The Spirit Or Power Behind A Problem Is Destroyed, That Problem.... by uchkochi(m): 6:35am On Mar 08, 2022
Until the spirit or power behind a problem is destroyed, that problem will remain unsolvable. Right now I attack the spirit and the power behind that problem with the consuming fire of the Holy Spirit and the Precious blood of Jesus Christ. You are free.

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Religion / Finally This Is Your Day Of Restoration At Last. In 7 Hours You Will Shout For J by uchkochi(m): 8:10am On Mar 06, 2022
Finally this is your day of restoration at last. In 7 hours you will shout for joy.
Religion / Hope Your Name Means Something Good. For Abraham And Sarah To Fulfil Destiny... by uchkochi(m): 5:46am On Mar 03, 2022
Hope your name means something good.

For Abraham and Sarah to fulfil destiny their names needed to be changed from ABRAM AND SARAI TO ABRAHAM AND SARAH. Words are powerful, when someone calls your name, the person is not just calling a name but saying a word by invoking the meaning of your name to align with your personality. It is time to change bad names to good names. Even the bible says a good name is better than riches. Adam named everything and they took after their names. It is time to find the meaning of your name. It is easier to be delivered when you have a good name and experiencing a bad thing THAN when you have a bad name. Your name must be changed today. I see things turning around for your good in Jesus precious name. Receive grace and wisdom to do so in Jesus precious name.

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Religion / Understanding The Universal Law Of Tithing. The Truth Everybody Tithes Conscious by uchkochi(m): 11:17am On Feb 28, 2022
UNDERSTANDING THE UNIVERSAL LAW OF TITHING. THE TRUTH EVERYBODY TITHES CONSCIOUSLY TO GOD OR UNCONCIOUSLY TO THE DEVIL. IT IS A LAW.

If you will not tithe, you will keep struggling. There are things you must know about tithing;

1. Tithing is what God uses to test you if you are matured enough to handle great resources. Just 10 percent of your increase demanded by God will keep you eternally away from struggles.

2. The Poor can become rich by tithing, the rich can become poor by not tithing. God is no respecter of persons.

3. You are where you are by your decision to either tithe or not to tithe.

4. Tithing is the easiest instruction God gave us in scriptures that commands the greatest future. Indebtedness, losses, sicknesses and diseases, frustrations, begging are all evidences of a NON-TITHING LIFE.

5. Tithing is the simplest instruction because God didn't ask you to go and look for money from somewhere, it is from what comes to your hand that you pay your tithe. If nothing comes to your hand, then you are justified not to pay your tithe. But if something comes to your hand then you must tithe if things will stop being tight for you.

6. The tithe is what you remove first before any other thing.

7. You cannot pray the devourer away, you cannot fast the devourer away, you can only tithe the devourer away because it is only God that can rebuke the devourer because tithing is a universal law. He said "bring ye all the tithe and I will rebuke the devourer...." Malachi 3:11.

8. Where you pay your tithe is as important as paying your tithe. You only pay your tithe to churches or ministries or men of God that meets your spiritual needs. 1st Corinthians 9:11, Galatians 6:6.

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Religion / Pain Most Times Endows You With Grace Faster Than Prayers. by uchkochi(m): 10:28am On Feb 26, 2022
PAIN MOST TIMES ENDOWS YOU WITH GRACE FASTER THAN PRAYERS.

In life what you will be bouyant of, you will first be bankrupt of. That financial challenge is because in no time you will be wealthy. That delay in marriage is because you are going to have a good home. That sickness in your body is because the healing power of Jesus is about to flow through you. That delay in child birth is because you are not going to give birth to just any child.

Jesus on earth was not born into the house of a lawyer, a doctor but a carpenter. Why? Because He was going to die by the cross redeeming man so he needed to get used to WOOD, the cross. Moses was born and kept in the water because he was going to confront the Red Sea.

Your challenges are pointers to your destiny. There are some levels in life you can only get to through pains. Your pain will not be in vain in the name of Jesus. Your time has come.

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Religion / How To Identify Enemies Of Progress. They Are Envious And Jealous... by uchkochi(m): 10:21am On Feb 26, 2022
How to identify enemies of progress.

They are envious and jealous. Once you notice anyone with a strong spirit of envy and jealousy RUN for your life because they can kill or allow what can kill you or cause you pain to come to you. Songs of Solomon 8 vs. 6. Do not pray for them to change because the truth is that they cannot change, they can only be exchanged with people that wants your progress.

Pray like this where you are; SAY LORD JESUS EXCHANGE EVERY ENEMY OF PROGRESS IN MY LIFE WITH PEOPLE THAT ARE WILLING TO HELP ME MAKE PROGRESS IN THE NAME OF JESUS CHRIST.

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Religion / Your Heart Was Not Designed By God For Grudges. It Was Designed For Love. by uchkochi(m): 6:45am On Feb 21, 2022
Your heart was not designed by God for grudges. It was designed for love. Prayer is not the master key it is just one key. But every key in the kingdom must be held by the key holder of LOVE. So I believe that LOVE is the master key because without it no other key works.

God is not prayer, God is not fasting, God is not prosperity, God is LOVE. 1st John 4:8. Take that hatred away from your heart please, let go of bitterness. Forgive because your time is now.

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Religion / Making Maximum Impact In Ministry.(for Ministers Or Would-be Ministers) by uchkochi(m): 2:45pm On Feb 19, 2022
MAKING MAXIMUM IMPACT IN MINISTRY.(FOR MINISTERS OR WOULD-BE MINISTERS)

It is very important to know that you may choose any profession, you may pursue any career, you may start any business but when it comes to ministry, there must be a call from God. God is always the caller because ministry is His own department. Now every Christian is called to preach the gospel, but there are some who are separated into the MINISTRY of preaching. Acts 1:8, Matthew 28:18-20.

We have five major MINISTERIAL CALLING or MINISTERIAL OFFICES. God calls people into one or some of these; We have the office of an APOSTLE, THE OFFICE OF A PROPHET, THE OFFICE OF AN EVANGELIST, THE OFFICE OF A PASTOR AND THE OFFICE OF A TEACHER. Ephesians 4:11-12. These Offices are to work together for the perfecting of the people of God. They are to complement each other, not to compete or act superior but to complement each other for the sole purpose of advancing the kingdom of God here on earth.

Ministry is not limited to pulpit or church ministering. Not every calling requires a church planting and overseeing. Whether you open a church or pastor under a church it is God that decides. We have people who never opened a church yet, their IMPACT in the world in trans-generational.
So Pulpit ministry is only a form or medium of ministering. There are many forms or mediums.
To make maximum impact in ministry, you must have a CALLING, you must know WHAT MESSAGE that calling is supposed to convey, YOU MUST KNOW WHERE THAT CALLING IS LOCATED AND YOU MUST KNOW THE MEDIUM THROUGH WHICH THAT CALLING IS SUPPOSED TO OPERATE.

Many have the calling but they don’t know the message they are to preach, no minister is called to preach the whole bible, you may talk about the whole bible but there must be ONE PECULIAR MESSAGE THAT YOUR CALLING IS KNOWN FOR. It could be salvation and repentance like BILLY GRAHAM, it may be Healing like BENNY HINN, It could be HOLINESS like Pastor E.A Adeboye, it could be Faith like Bishop David Oyedepo Or the great Apostle of Faith; KENNETH. E. HAGIN..IT COULD EVEN BE RELATIONSHIP AND MARITAL AFFAIRS, PROSPERITY, SPIRITUAL MATURITY…AND MANY MORE…

You can preach about all of these as a minister but they should all end up hanging under the umbrella of ONE GREAT MESSAGE. John the Baptist preached the message on repentance and the multitude located him in the wilderness. Look at Jonah, that preached a very illogical, non-theological message that God gave him, and yet he was the first man that preached that even affected animals. He preached the message and the impact was generated.

There is also a location and there is a people God is sending you to. You are not sent to everyone, you are sent to some people. Paul was sent to the gentiles, no wonder He made maximum impact, Peter was sent to the Jews and generated impact. There are some people that are sent to build up BELIEVERS WHILE others are sent to RESCUE AND DELIVER UNBELIEVERS. Some are sent to children while others have a youth or a single ministry.

Finally as I conclude, Whatever message God has given you is the message He will back, confirm and bless. It is that message that will prosper you. Stay with the message, stay in the location and continue with the medium.
For church ministers, one secret for church growth is to preach the message you are given and the people God has sent you to will be attracted to come to you. Church grows on the message and not on the advert or publicity. Publicity will only make sense when you are focused on the message God has given you.
God called me to preach to people that I don’t know and may never meet physically February 9th/ 10th 2004. I was still in the university then, how was I to do this? He told me through the internet/ phone, all communication -device mediums. So it is more like a CYBER/MOBILE CHURCH. Ephesians 3:4, Mathew 24:15. I have continued since then and the impact have been tremendous, testimonies of all kind, not because I can preach or write but because I obeyed Him.

There are phases and stages, as you a faithful in one, God opens the next one. So be faithful
A minister must see God as the source of His blessings, financially and other wise. He uses people or systems to bless His servants. So it is wrong to demand money from any of God’s people. Tell them to give as they are able not taxing or fixing a particular amount, but let them give to God cheerfully. As a minister you are in God’s payroll because every minister is working in the vine yard of God. So whether you receive seeds or not, God is committed to take proper care of His ministers. So be faithful and God will pay through whatever form He chooses. Be blessed in Jesus name.


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Religion / That Minor Attack May Become A Major Attack If You Do Nothing. by uchkochi(m): 8:18am On Feb 07, 2022
THAT MINOR ATTACK MAY BECOME A MAJOR ATTACK IF YOU DO NOTHING.

John the Baptist's head was cut off irrespective as he was Jesus' cousin. He fulfilled God's will and was still beheaded. He baptised God(Earthly Jesus) but a little girl demanded that his head be cut off. Even Jesus could not help him in prison because he decided to do nothing. Matthew 14:6-11.

When you do nothing about your situation to God it means that you like it and as well you have indirectly permitted it.

Every minor attack you permit becomes a major attack at the end. John the Baptist was first put in prison before he was beheaded. The prison was the minor attack. He would have called down fire from heaven like Elijah did or he would have prayed like Paul and Silas did in Acts 16 from verse 25. He did nothing. If you do nothing God will do nothing.

As a matter of truth, your action of faith is the raw material God uses to work. No action of faith, no miracle. If you look at John the Baptist; instead of him praying he sent people to go to ask Jesus if He was the Messiah?

Before that symptom and sign of sickness becomes actual sickness please do something. Before that shame becomes public, do something. Before that marriage ends do something. Before that head ache deteriorates please do something. Before that favour disappears do something.

If it is to pray, pray. If it is to give and sow a seed please do. If it is to call or send a text please do. If it is to apologise, please do. If it is to visit, do. If it's to send your C.V please do. If it is to make a vow, please do.

Look at Hannah that was believing God for a child for years. She made a vow and God answered her. 1st Samuel 1 to 3.

Instead of asking God to do it. Find out what you must do for a change. If it is to give a sacrificial seed, please do. I believe as you apply action to your faith, God will back it up and honour it with a testimony.

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Religion / Fear Breeds Negative Things Just As Faith Brings Positive Things. by uchkochi(m): 12:36pm On Feb 06, 2022
FEAR BREEDS NEGATIVE THINGS JUST AS FAITH BRINGS POSITIVE THINGS.REJECT EVERY FORM OF FEAR.

Negative things tends to happen faster than positive things because positive things needs faith to work,while negative things works with fear.No wonder God encourages us not to fear in about 365 times in scriptures. Now people fear more than they have faith,and this fear fuels negative things.You were designed by God to work by faith and not by sight.So any time fear enters your heart from today,Cast it out by the word of the LORD in 2nd Timothy 1:7.REJECT ANY FORM OF FEAR.

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Religion / Jesus Is Aware Of The Situation. He Will Turn It To Your Favour Before 12 Noon by uchkochi(m): 6:30am On Feb 04, 2022
Jesus is aware of the situation. He will turn it to your favour before 12 noon today.

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Religion / Arise Because Finally Your Time Has Come. Today God Is Handling That Problem... by uchkochi(m): 5:50am On Feb 04, 2022
Arise because finally your time has come. Today God is handling that problem from the root. No more repetition of thesame kind of challenges. This is your own day of remembrance.
Religion / Nobody's Life Is Better Than Your Own. Rejoice! The Enemy Cannot Take What God by uchkochi(m): 5:47am On Feb 03, 2022
Nobody's life is better than your own. Rejoice!

The enemy cannot take what God gave you. He only devalues it until you stop appreciating God for it. Thank God for what you have.

Nobody's life is better than yours. You must understand this to enjoy absolute peace. Fat people are seeking to lose weight, thin people are desiring to gain weight so this gives room for worries. And worry washes blessings away.

Single people wishing to be married, while some married people want to be single again. Some are not contented with their jobs.

Be contented and thank God for where you are that is only when He will take you to where you ought to be.

Lack of contentment is a spirit. It makes you wanting more. Your desire for more may make you mourn. Always wanting the latest is a wrong spirit because you give your mind to the devil to feast on with negative ideas. You start seeing what you are lusting for everywhere you look. Why? because you lack contentment. Your life is not a competition. 1st timothy 6:6.

Needs never end you just have to be contented otherwise you may lose your joy and peace. Receive grace now in Jesus mighty name. I curse that spirit of covetousness..

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Religion / Before 6 O Clock, 6 Testimonies Will Overwhelm You. by uchkochi(m): 11:56am On Jan 30, 2022
Before 6 o clock, 6 testimonies will overwhelm you.

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Religion / From Shame To Shine. by uchkochi(m): 2:46pm On Jan 27, 2022
FROM SHAME TO SHINE.

The area of your greatest shame will always be the spring board for your greatest glory. Enjoy the mockery now because that is only how great men are made. There is blessing in that trouble. John 16:33. Childless Abraham finally became the Father of nations. Christians and muslims respect him. Rejected David is still the most celebrated king of Israel even after 3000 years. Crucified and resurrected Jesus is still the giver of life today.

The Sage Kenneth Hagin was buffeted with Sickness and disease in his younger years but was used mightily in the healing ministry. If you are wriggling in poverty just know that your prosperity is unmatchable, It is only a matter of time. Delay in marriage is because your marriage is about to be a wonder. Ishmael can come easily but not Isaac. Isaac took time because a child and a proper child are two different things. That delayed blessing is coming to pass now in the name of Jesus Christ.

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Religion / Progress Is The Only Thing That Will Happen To You Today. by uchkochi(m): 7:44am On Jan 21, 2022
Progress is the only thing that will happen to you today.
Religion / They Barbed Samson's Hair But They Forgot To Put A Barber To Keep Barbing Him. by uchkochi(m): 6:02am On Jan 19, 2022
THEY BARBED SAMSON'S HAIR BUT THEY FORGOT TO PUT A BARBER TO KEEP BARBING HIS HAIR. THE HAIR GREW AND RESTORATION CAME. WHAT YOU LOST BEFORE IS COMING BACK TODAY. THE ENEMY CAN STOP SOMETHING BUT IT'S ONLY FOR A WHILE. HE CANNOT HOLD WHAT BELONGS TO YOU FOREVER. TODAY I COMMAND HIM TO RELEASE WHAT BELONGS TO YOU IN THE NAME OF JESUS CHRIST.

IN THE NAME OF JESUS CHRIST, AS A WATCH MAN, I CUT OFF THAT INVISIBLE HAND ALWAYS PULLING YOU BACK WHEN YOU ARE ABOUT MAKING PROGRESS.
Religion / If You Can Win In Your Mind, Then You Can Win Anywhere Else. by uchkochi(m): 2:57pm On Jan 15, 2022
IF YOU CAN WIN IN YOUR MIND, THEN YOU CAN WIN ANYWHERE ELSE.

The bible revealed a profound truth in Proverbs 23:7, That as a man thinketh so is he. This is the core determinant for any form of victory. You cannot lose any battle unless you first lose in your mind. As a man thinketh so is he. Not as a man prays, not as a man studies, not as a man gives, not as a man works. Isn't it funny that a whole lot is tied to your thought? Again the bible says that you should guard your heart with all diligence for out of it are the issues of life. Proverbs 4:23. THINKING IS LIVING. THINKING IS WINNING. Once you can drive failure out of your mind then you have succeeded in driving failure out of your life. THINK ONLY POSITIVE THOUGHTS. Philippians 4:8. Your life is getting better in Jesus name.

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Religion / It Takes Trials And Tribulations To See The True Colour Of Human Heart. by uchkochi(m): 3:28pm On Jan 09, 2022
It takes trials and tribulations to see the true colour of human heart. God is allowing that challenge to show you the true nature of your friends.

Religion / Whatever Has Been Programmed To Cause You Pain This Year I Depogram In Jesus Nam by uchkochi(m): 3:21pm On Jan 09, 2022
Whatever has been programmed to cause you pain this year I depogram in the name of Jesus.

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Religion / The Devil Uses Worry To Hinder People More Than Any Other Thing. by uchkochi(m): 1:21pm On Jan 04, 2022
THE DEVIL USES WORRY TO HINDER PEOPLE MORE THAN ANY OTHER THING.

Beloved we live in a world that is worry driven, people worry about jobs, businesses, money, children, spouses, marriages, missing things, progress. This world has the potential of making you to worry even in the most happiest situation. Worries don't end, you cannot afford to lose your joy because of it.
The bible says in Philippians 4:6; that you should be anxious or worry over nothing... God is very much aware that that in this world worries will come that was why He said we should worry over nothing. John 16:33.

Naturally and spiritually; things become better when you are not anxious. If you are thinking so much on a thing that you need it may not come, but the moment you remove your mind from it, it shows up most of the time when you least expected it to. This is the law of faith at work. Isaiah 28:16. Those issues that are bothering you may keep bothering you if you keep thinking about them. Think of the word of God instead. All you need is rest of mind and peace of heart for that expectation to manifest. The devil is not responsible for the delay most of the time, worries and anxiety causes delays most of the time.

Anxiety is most times confused for expectation. God is committed to bringing your expectations to pass and not your anxieties. Anxieties or worries will delay the manifestation of your expectations, it is on when you stop allowing your heart to be troubled over that issue that it will come to pass. Make up your mind not to be moved whether it happens or not, and you will see it happen.

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Religion / Live Strong To Prove Your Enemies Wrong. by uchkochi(m): 8:31am On Jan 04, 2022
Live strong to prove your enemies wrong.

Religion / If The Table Is Refusing To Turn To Favour You. God Is Changing Your Seat Today. by uchkochi(m): 8:54am On Jan 03, 2022
If the table is refusing to turn to favour you. God is changing your seat today. Psalm 23:5.
Religion / If The Table Is Refusing To Turn To Favour You. God Is Changing Your Seat Today. by uchkochi(m): 8:55am On Dec 31, 2021
If the table is refusing to turn to favour you. God is changing your seat today. Psalm 23:5.
Religion / Christmas Is Not Just An Event, It Is A Person. by uchkochi(m): 1:03pm On Dec 25, 2021
CHRISTMAS IS NOT JUST AN EVENT, IT IS A PERSON.

Christmas is not just an event, Christmas is a person. The reason for the season is Jesus Christ and as a result of this He will visit you remarkably and tremendously this season, you will be more than surprised.

The bible says in ISAIAH CHAPTER 9 vs. 6 to 7

For unto us a child is born and unto us a son is given; and the government shall be upon His shoulder and His name shall be called wonderful, counselor, the mighty God, Everlasting father, the prince of peace. And of the increase of His government and of peace there shall be no end.

This is what you should expect this celebration season, since Christmas is more than an event.

1. …and His name shall be called wonderful; from this season you and everything that concerns you shall be full of wonders. Every challenge bows to a sign. The wonders of Heaven will be –cloud your House. A tearful favor is your portion now.

2. ….and His name shall be called counselor; your steps shall be ordered in the right direction, you shall be properly guided to places of good things. The steps of a man is ordered by the lord. You will never find your self stranded in any area of your life. You will always know what to do.

3. ….His name shall be called Mighty God. This season the Almighty God shall be your defense. He shall protect you and your family, no satanic installation against you will come to pass, you are shielded in the blood of Jesus. What can only be described as mighty is what you shall experience this season. Amen.

4. …He shall be called everlasting father, the prince of peace. Your peace is unending; I command every storm in the name of Jesus to be still. I say PEACE BE STILL. God shall always be for you so nothing can succeed in being against you. You are going higher and higher.

Your peace shall know no end, your joy shall know no end, your favor shall know no end therefore every HARASSMENT ON YOUR DESTINY COMES TO AN END TODAY. COMPLIMENT OF THE SEASON.

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Religion / Remove Your Mind From Things They Come Faster And Quicker That Way. by uchkochi(m): 7:40am On Nov 14, 2021
Anxiety has several physical, emotional and spiritual problems. Be anxious for nothing. There is a help that comes when you remove your mind from your needs they just come when you least expect.

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Romance / Domestic Violence Versus Verbal Abuse. Which Is More Offensive..read... by uchkochi(m): 7:21am On Nov 14, 2021
Domestic violence versus verbal abuse.

Everybody is hung up on domestic abuse by men against women. Nobody spares a moment to find solutions to the equally devastating verbal abuse men suffer in the hands of their wives. It is worse because men can't discuss what their wives do to them for fear of scorn and derision. They suffer in silence. Timebomb.

Unfortunately, the Nigerian society has little or no support systems for this kind of situation. Little or no counselling services. It's been mostly left to the church to deal with. What happens when the man doesn't go to church? What happens when the woman doesn't believe in spiritual intervention? These women are raising daughters. Their daughters are hearing and seeing how they speak to and treat their husband. What kind of wives will they grow up to become? Those that treat their husbands as kings or those that believe husbands are nothing but verbal punching bags?

We've all agreed and rightfully so that a man has no business hitting his wife. So how then do you stop a wife raining verbal missiles at you? Leave the house? Okay. But you'll return and it will continue. What next? Leave again? For how long?

Recently, I visited a senior friend, an important man in the society and while we were downstairs gisting, the voice of his wife could be heard upstairs. She was spewing unimaginable bile against the man. She called him all sorts of unprintable names. Impotent, wretched fool, miserable man that was nothing when she married him, etc. This is a well respected man. A father of 4 children. She tore at his very core and mocked everything society respected him for. She said he'd soon crash and she'll be there to laugh at him.

I was so uncomfortable as I beheld the man. He was shrunken before me. He was deflated. He tried to gamefully continue the gist to distract me but it was not working. The woman's vitriol was a ceaseless torrent. Uncomfortable silence ensued. I excused myself and left his house.

I was really sad.

You want to know the truth? This is what most men go through in their houses. They labour and toil and build respect but when they return home, the one who ought to speak to the king in them tears them to shreds and tries to deflate their self-esteem. When they are outside, they try to act cheerful and happy but back home, they are shrivelled because the person they live with makes it a point of duty to verbally assault them.

A sad story comes to mind. There was recently a Nigerian Ambassador who was recalled because his wife released a story to the press that he beat her. She also released pictures showing fresh injuries on her body ostensibly inflicted by the man.

In a dramatic twist, their children came out to debunk the stories and said their mother faked the injuries to embarrass their dad. Grown up children.

A particular sentence by the 1st son saddened me. He said it was as if their mum woke up every morning with one mission in life: how to make their dad miserable. They said they were witnesses to how their mum constantly harassed and abused their dad and wanted the whole world to know that their dad was not who their mum was painting him to be.

Yes, opinion shifted on the scandal but the damage had been done. The Ambassador was recalled and nobody heard from him again.

A family is currently at odds with the widow of their son and brother. The wife was constantly verbally assaulting him. Nobody wanted to visit them because each time they were around, it was always quarrel and the wife would call him unprintable names. Even in their presence. When they try to interfere, she will give them their own. The man died recently of heart-attack caused by high blood pressure. He was in his late 40s. The family insists his wife sent him to his early grave with her verbal torments.

Our bars are filled with men who are afraid to go home to their wives for fear of what verbal torment they will go through. Men are finding every excuse to travel because they'll rather be anywhere than in their own homes.

Everybody is focusing on men as culprits in domestic abuse. Who is talking to the

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