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Romance / Leave Women And Make Money, Be Established First. Dating A Lady And Still Trying by uchkochi(m): 7:11am On Nov 14, 2021
Leave women and make money, be established first. Dating a lady and still trying to make it will slow you down. They will distract you and still leave you for someone who has made it or is making it.

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Romance / Verbal Abuse Versus Domestic Violence. by uchkochi(m): 11:06am On Nov 10, 2021
Everybody is hung up on domestic abuse by men against women. Nobody spares a moment to find solutions to the equally devastating verbal abuse men suffer in the hands of their wives. It is worse because men can't discuss what their wives do to them for fear of scorn and derision. They suffer in silence. Timebomb.

Unfortunately, the Nigerian society has little or no support systems for this kind of situation. Little or no counselling services. It's been mostly left to the church to deal with. What happens when the man doesn't go to church? What happens when the woman doesn't believe in spiritual intervention? These women are raising daughters. Their daughters are hearing and seeing how they speak to and treat their husband. What kind of wives will they grow up to become? Those that treat their husbands as kings or those that believe husbands are nothing but verbal punching bags?

We've all agreed and rightfully so that a man has no business hitting his wife. So how then do you stop a wife raining verbal missiles at you? Leave the house? Okay. But you'll return and it will continue. What next? Leave again? For how long?

Recently, I visited a senior friend, an important man in the society and while we were downstairs gisting, the voice of his wife could be heard upstairs. She was spewing unimaginable bile against the man. She called him all sorts of unprintable names. Impotent, wretched fool, miserable man that was nothing when she married him, etc. This is a well respected man. A father of 4 children. She tore at his very core and mocked everything society respected him for. She said he'd soon crash and she'll be there to laugh at him.

I was so uncomfortable as I beheld the man. He was shrunken before me. He was deflated. He tried to gamefully continue the gist to distract me but it was not working. The woman's vitriol was a ceaseless torrent. Uncomfortable silence ensued. I excused myself and left his house.

I was really sad.

You want to know the truth? This is what most men go through in their houses. They labour and toil and build respect but when they return home, the one who ought to speak to the king in them tears them to shreds and tries to deflate their self-esteem. When they are outside, they try to act cheerful and happy but back home, they are shrivelled because the person they live with makes it a point of duty to verbally assault them.

A sad story comes to mind. There was recently a Nigerian Ambassador who was recalled because his wife released a story to the press that he beat her. She also released pictures showing fresh injuries on her body ostensibly inflicted by the man.

In a dramatic twist, their children came out to debunk the stories and said their mother faked the injuries to embarrass their dad. Grown up children.

A particular sentence by the 1st son saddened me. He said it was as if their mum woke up every morning with one mission in life: how to make their dad miserable. They said they were witnesses to how their mum constantly harassed and abused their dad and wanted the whole world to know that their dad was not who their mum was painting him to be.

Yes, opinion shifted on the scandal but the damage had been done. The Ambassador was recalled and nobody heard from him again.

A family is currently at odds with the widow of their son and brother. The wife was constantly verbally assaulting him. Nobody wanted to visit them because each time they were around, it was always quarrel and the wife would call him unprintable names. Even in their presence. When they try to interfere, she will give them their own. The man died recently of heart-attack caused by high blood pressure. He was in his late 40s. The family insists his wife sent him to his early grave with her verbal torments.

Our bars are filled with men who are afraid to go home to their wives for fear of what verbal torment they will go through. Men are finding every excuse to travel because they'll rather be anywhere than in their own homes.

Everybody is focusing on men as culprits in domestic abuse. Who is talking to the

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Religion / Stop Looking At Money As Something To Be Spent, Rather Look At Money As Somethin by uchkochi(m): 5:56am On Nov 10, 2021
Stop looking at money as something to be spent, rather look at money as something to be invested. Invest in the kingdom of God, invest in properties and asset. Invest in the lives of people.
Religion / Good Morning And Rejoice Because The Battle You Are Fighting Or Have Been... by uchkochi(m): 7:25am On Nov 09, 2021
Good morning and rejoice because the battle you are fighting or have been fighting or the one you fought and stopped because you were tired HAS BEEN WON this very moment.
Religion / Just By Prophecy, Very Dry Bones Became A Great Army. Ezekiel 37. by uchkochi(m): 4:57am On Nov 04, 2021
Just by prophecy, very dry bones became a great army. Ezekiel 37. I prophesy as God have commanded me. "Every dry aspect of your life is turned into a testimony NOW in the name of Jesus Christ". The dry aspect of your life is the part where things are not working. The remaining days of this year will make up for all the losses you suffered during the last 10 years in Jesus name. Every forgotten good prophecy is coming to pass speedily.

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Religion / Your Breaking Point Is Your Breakthrough Point. Until You Feel Like Giving Up.. by uchkochi(m): 10:59am On Nov 03, 2021
Your breaking point is your breakthrough point. Until you feel like giving up God may not show up. That feeling of giving up is an indication that God wants you to give up on yourself and give in to Him. When things get so tough know that your miracle is closer.

The salvation we are enjoying today caused Jesus Christ physical, spiritual and emotional pain. I don't know that pain in your heart right now. If Jesus made it you will make it. Romans 8:32. That pain is over.
Religion / Stop Sacrificing Your Peace For Other People's Joy. by uchkochi(m): 8:33am On Oct 28, 2021
Stop sacrificing your peace for other people's joy.
Religion / In Just One Night. by uchkochi(m): 8:37pm On Oct 26, 2021
In Just one night

Until the time that His word came Joseph was a victim of trials PSALMS 105 VS 19 - 20. He was a victim of delays and disappointment. Nobody seems to understand His. Beloved great men and women are victims of great trials most of the time. Yes they have a vision but lack motion at a time. Their present state looks COMPLETELY opposite of their future expectation. But there is a certain night and a set time When God's word will come to take you out of that situation to your desired expectation. You might not look great but you were born with greatness waiting to manifest.

Friends I like you to know that your word has come. When Joseph’s word came the King sent for Him and loosed Him. Joseph experienced a sporadic over night turn around. Get ready for your over night turn around. Joseph left the prison to the palace in just one night. I don’t know how long you have been struggling and waiting your word has finally come.

The word of God is the womb that carries your miracles. Jacob's name was changed to Israel in just one night. God is a God of one night. This night will be the last night you will be in that condition. You are living your present situation to a permanent location of inexplainable surprises with proofs and evidences.

This is your word; STRANGE PHONE CALLS OF OPEN DOORS IS YOUR DAILY EXPERIENCE FROM NOW ON. THE GUARANTEE OF A LIFE TIME OF HELPS FROM GOD IS YOUR REGULAR TESTIMONY ALL DAY LONG. YOU ARE BLESSED IN JESUS NAME. NO DOUBT EVERY TIME IS GOD'S TIME BUT THE TIME YOU GET IT RIGHT IS YOUR TIME. THERE IS NO DOOR THAT WILL NOT OPEN AT YOUR COMMAND, HOT SPOTS MUST COOL FOR YOU NOW. REJOICE BECAUSE IT IS DONE.

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Religion / Those Who Don't Believe In Paying Tithes Actually Pay Tithe To Losses, Problems. by uchkochi(m): 8:47am On Oct 24, 2021
UNDERSTANDING THE UNIVERSAL LAW OF TITHING. THE TRUTH IS EVERYBODY TITHES CONSCIOUSLY TO GOD OR UNCONCIOUSLY TO THE DEVIL. IT IS A LAW.

If you will not tithe, you will keep struggling. There are things you must know about tithing;

1. Tithing is what God uses to test you if you are matured enough to handle great resources. Just 10 percent of your increase demanded by God will keep you eternally away from struggles.

2. The Poor can become rich by tithing, the rich can become poor by not tithing. God is no respecter of persons.

3. You are where you are by your decision to either tithe or not to tithe.

4. Tithing is the easiest instruction God gave us in scriptures that commands the greatest future. Indebtedness, losses, sicknesses and diseases, frustrations, begging are all evidences of a NON-TITHING LIFE.

5. Tithing is the simplest instruction because God didn't ask you to go and look for money from somewhere, it is from what comes to your hand that you pay your tithe. If nothing comes to your hand, then you are justified not to pay your tithe. But if something comes to your hand then you must tithe if things will stop being tight for you.

6. The tithe is what you remove first before any other thing.

7. You cannot pray the devourer away, you cannot fast the devourer away, you can only tithe the devourer away because it is only God that can rebuke the devourer because tithing is a universal law. He said "bring ye all the tithe and I will rebuke the devourer...." Malachi 3:11.

8. Where you pay your tithe is as important as paying your tithe. You only pay your tithe to churches or ministries or men of God that meets your spiritual needs. 1st Corinthians 9:11, Galatians 6:6.

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Religion / What Makes Marriage Last. by uchkochi(m): 7:57am On Oct 24, 2021
Because you married in church does not mean that your marriage is approved by God and blessed. It is not where you marry but who and why you marry. It is your mindset that determines how long your marriage will last. Some marriages of our fathers and grand fathers lasted this long even though they never wedded in church.

It is not sex styles that keeps a marriage. Bonding in marriage is not sex but communication and understanding. Some marriages without children are more happy than those with children.

Marriage is all about both parties input. It is what you allow and what you disallow that makes marriage last.

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Religion / No Matter How Good And Experienced A Fisher Man Is He Can't Catch Fish In A Pool by uchkochi(m): 7:29pm On Oct 21, 2021
No matter how good and experienced a fisher man is he cannot catch fish in a swimming pool. Your environment affects your achievement. Watch your company.

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Religion / If You Don't Get That Testimony You Have Been Waiting For And Imagined Then God by uchkochi(m): 7:21pm On Oct 21, 2021
If you don't get that testimony you have been waiting for and imagined then God didn't send me. He just told me that THAT VERY TESTIMONY IS HAPPENING NOW. Proverbs 23:18

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Religion / Your Past Is PAST, Let It Go.... I Know You May Not Be Able Until You See RESTOR by uchkochi(m): 3:36pm On Oct 21, 2021
Your past is PAST, Let it go.... I know you may not be able until you see RESTORATION. Joel 2:25. I decree your complete restoration now in Jesus name.

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Religion / Not Everybody Waiting For Your Story To Change Is Really Waiting For It To Chang by uchkochi(m): 3:16pm On Oct 21, 2021
Not everybody waiting for your story to change is really waiting for it to change for good. Some are waiting for it to be worse. But as God lives today you will laugh out. You will not be laughed at.
Religion / This Is Your Night Of Mercy. The Consequences Of Your Intentional Mistakes... by uchkochi(m): 8:44pm On Oct 20, 2021
This is your night of mercy. The consequences of your intentional mistakes and errors are canceled. The good you deserve that has been denied you is released tonight in the name of Jesus.

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Religion / Depression Is The Spirit Of Death. It Affects You And The Way You See Things. by uchkochi(m): 4:26pm On Oct 20, 2021
Depression is the spirit of death. It affects you and the way you see things. It promotes fear and anxiety. It is the devil's last card. But it disappears at the appearance of joy. Right now I release the spirit of joy into your life now in Jesus name. You shall live and not die.
Religion / Are You Living A Holy Life Because You Fear Hell Or You Love Heaven. by uchkochi(m): 4:57am On Oct 20, 2021
Living a Holy life because of fear of going to hell is like trying to bribe your way. Live a Holy life because you love God and want to obey His every word, the Bible.
Religion / Ignorance Vs The Devil. by uchkochi(m): 8:14pm On Oct 19, 2021
Ignorance is worse than the devil. It is the truth you know and apply that makes you free. It is not the prayer you pray. Ignorance is equivalent to darkness while truth connotes light. The only cure for darkness is light. Today I decree the darkness over your life is removed at last. John 1:5.
Religion / The Force That Stops You When Ever You Are About Rising Is Stopped Now In Jesus by uchkochi(m): 7:03pm On Oct 16, 2021
The force that stops you when ever you are about rising is stopped now in Jesus name.

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Religion / God Expects You To Answer Every Challenge First And Foremost With Joy. by uchkochi(m): 9:09am On Oct 14, 2021
God expects you to answer every challenge first and foremost with joy.

Don't allow it pull you down. Re-ject it, refuse it. Fight the good fight of faith. Joy is the cheapest and most potent medicine.Proverbs 17:22. As far your joy is intact, your victory is sure. A man was given two weeks to die from cancer, what he did was to be watching cartoons to make him laugh and in 7 days cancer disappeared. Rejoice and again rejoice. Avoid people and places that kills joy.

If losing money will not take your joy, the devil will not touch your finances. The devil only attacks what will make you lose joy. The devil attacked Job because he wanted to attack his joy. The devil thought the money, children, wife were the reason for Job's joy.

The reason for your joy should be Jesus, this is what secures dominion. Listen to this; if you can visit every challenge first with joy then victory will spring forth quicker than you expect. John 16:33. Don't wait for God to give you money first before you rejoice. Rejoice first and it will come.

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Religion / Don't Marry A Man, Don't Marry A Woman, Marry A LIFE PARTNER. by uchkochi(m): 4:56pm On Oct 10, 2021
Don't marry a man, don't marry a woman, marry a LIFE PARTNER. Don't marry for beauty, beauty fades. Don't marry for shape, child birth may unshape. Don’t marry for money money can finish, something can happen that may affect the money, cars or houses. Marry for destiny and purpose. Make sure you are physically attracted to your spouse. You may not be that beautiful but be attractive. Beauty is outwardly indicated but a good character, composure and wisdom can be attracting.
Religion / That Good Prophecy Over Your Life Is About To Be Fulfilled. by uchkochi(m): 7:14pm On Oct 07, 2021
That good prophecy over your life is about to be fulfilled. You will see the evidence within 12 hours.
Religion / The Rapture, The Coming Of Christ. If You Miss Heaven You Wont Miss Hell. by uchkochi(m): 3:41am On Oct 05, 2021
THE RAPTURE, THE COMING OF CHRIST.

Beloved the rapture is very close, what is happening right now on the earth is exactly what the bible say will happen before the rapture. Matthew chapter 24. The rapture is a catching -up moment for Christ-like believers who will still be alive when Jesus comes. 1st Thessalonians 4:17. When Jesus comes, Christians who had died will first rise up to meet Jesus in the air, then everyone who is alive that is born again and living a Holy life will then be caught up to be with the LORD. As the rapture is taking place, simultaneously the Holy Ghost will be leaving the earth. The reign of the Anti christ will begin immediately.

The rapture is the wedding feast between Jesus Christ, the bride-groom AND Christians/the church His bride. Matthew chapter 25 carefully explains this. After the rapture; Christ-like believers will be celebrating and enjoying with Jesus in the air for seven years while the Anti christ will be reigning on the earth for that same seven-year period. The people that will be left behind on the earth then are sinners and people who profess to be Christians but still live like sinners. Well there is another opportunity for them, to suffer till the end of seven years. Now this is under probability because the Anti christ will torment those that refuse to take the mark of the beast, they will live in hunger, they will look for death but death will not come, they will cry and wail, they will look for the word of God but they will not find it, they will regret not living like Christ before the rapture. At the end of seven years, if they still remain strong in the faith, Jesus will then rescue them to come and meet the first set that was raptured seven years before. Then we will all come back to this same earth and enjoy without pain and sorrow for 1000 years before going finally to heaven. The reason for coming back to the earth is to get used to a bit of the life style in heaven so that when we get there we can fit in. In the same vein, those who still refused to accept Jesus Christ during the seven years of tribulation and those who died before the rapture without accepting Jesus, will suffer for a 1000 years before they will be cast into the lake that burns with unquenchable fire forever. Please believe this, the best time to embrace Jesus is now. Even the devil knows that he has but a very short time.

There is no other time to live like Christ other than now, Many people are saying in their hearts that Jesus is coming, Jesus is coming, why has He not come? Beloved, the moment you die now, your Jesus has come, because there will be no more hope for you to be raptured on the first or second set. The rapture is close prepare your heart and your life, prepare your family, preach the word of God, live and practice the word. May the grace of our LORD Jesus Christ, the love of God and the sweet fellowship of the Holy Spirit rest and abide with you now and forever more in Jesus name. Luke 18:8, Ephesians 5:27.

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Religion / Before 12 That Protocol Will Be Broken. by uchkochi(m): 5:54am On Sep 28, 2021
The tougher it gets, the closer you get to your testimony.Before 12 that protocol will be broken.

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Religion / Good Morning. Do Not Mistake An Enemy For A Friend And A Friend For An Enemy. by uchkochi(m): 5:29am On Sep 28, 2021
Good morning. Do not mistake an enemy for a friend and a friend for an enemy. When you notice envy in a person please AVOID that person. Do not indirectly or ignorantly give your enemy a bullet to shoot you or a sword to kill you. Your enemies are exposed in Jesus name.
Religion / Stop Impressing People And Depressing Yourself. by uchkochi(m): 4:11pm On Sep 26, 2021
Stop impressing people and depressing yourself.
Religion / What Almost Entered Your Hand Last Month That Was Some How Delayed. By The Power by uchkochi(m): 12:58pm On Sep 26, 2021
What almost entered your hand last month that was some how delayed. By the power vested on me as God's messenger for this hour I decree before this month ends it will happen with the speed of light in Jesus mighty name.

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Religion / Those That Don't Want You To Smile For Long Will Cry Forever. by uchkochi(m): 12:44pm On Sep 26, 2021
Those that don't want you to smile for long will cry forever.
Religion / When The Diagnosis Is Wrong The Prescription Must Be Wrong. by uchkochi(m): 2:32am On Sep 25, 2021
When the diagnosis is wrong the prescription must be wrong. When the enemy is pretending to be a friend and you cannot see it your problem will continue. It is only when God exposes the enemy that your destiny changes. As you are reading this now that stubborn problem expires in Jesus precious name.
Religion / People Will Not Be Happy With Your Poverty Nor With Your Success. Just Do Your by uchkochi(m): 2:41pm On Sep 22, 2021
People will not be happy with your poverty nor with your success.

Just do your thing - you are the one to enjoy or suffer!
Religion / Until You Need Help. God May Not Help You. by uchkochi(m): 9:48pm On Sep 16, 2021
Until you need help. God may not help you. You need to feel helpless for God to help you. Tonight God will help you. Psalm 121:1.

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Religion / Faith Is Acting As If It Is So,when It Does Not Seem To Be So,so That It... by uchkochi(m): 8:28pm On Sep 13, 2021
Faith is acting as if it is so,when it does not seem to be so,So that it can really be so because it is actually so.Hebrews 11:6.It will never look as if it so until you act as if it is so.Share this testimony with me,A girl was looking for a job and after several months she was still without job,not even an interview.But one day she decided to act as if she had gotten her job already,she woke up early in the morning and went out as if she was going to work.She kept this routine for one week,until miraculously a bank called her to resume without interview. Your faith needs to be demonstrated to be celebrated. Receive grace to demonstrate your faith in Jesus name.

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