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Business / HELP! Somebody...Anybody. by udumosam23(m): 8:01pm On Dec 13, 2022
1. My business has crashed. (Wrong business move, victim of fraud and theft, partners sickness)

2. Left me with debt to partners and investors. (Totalling 2.1m only)

3. Creditors are dragging me with police to pay back. BVN is been blacklisted because of loan default.

4. Family traumatised over the drag and wife hospitalised for tension related sicknesses.

5. Salary not enough to sustain family and initiate debt repayment plan.


WHAT I NEED.

1. A fingerprint scanner and laptop to replace the stolen and damaged ones. 700 naira cash to serve as floating capital also pay for expired shop rent. Then, I'll work out a debt payment plan and gradually pay off all my debt within 24 months.

OR

2. An outright loan of 2m. To pay off 50% of my debt, revive my business and put my family together again.

If you're touched to help out pls call, text of chat up via WhatsApp.
08066016141.
Family / Re: I Have Arrested My Wife by udumosam23(m): 7:02am On Dec 08, 2022
co787:
My wife and daughter traveled to her village in August for 3weeks and they were supposed to be back before the school resumption but she changed her mind saying her mother was seriously ill that she has to extend her stay which was fine by me and when they returned back I noticed that she has lost so much weight which I asked her why she said it was due to the stress of caring for her sick mother which is normal.

She is her only daughter and oldest of 4 her younger ones are boys so they cannot take care of their mother better than her. Here is the reason I got her arrested, during her stay in the village, her 14 years old brother raped my daughter. This is one of the reason she overstayed in the village. She didn't tell me anything about my daughter being raped she and her mother had decided to give her treatment and cover the idiot that repeatedly raped her and when she came bck she didn't say anything to me but she confided in her prophetess which in her turn has started spreading news until it came to my ears that my own daughter was raped and her own mother has kept quiet and I can imagine if it was a member of my family that did the abominable acts the whole world would have heard it and she would have done everything in her power to put in prison.

But because it is her own brother, she has decided to keep quiet and not knowing the world is small and not secret is hidden forever. I took my daughter to the hospital the result has confirmed she was tampered i was devasted she has been the best wife to me and she has helped me and my sisters to reconciled in the past but what she has done to me it is unforgivable and I have arrested her and when I bail her I will divorce her and take custody of my daughter.

I don't know if I need advice or not but your input and suggestion are welcome I will be reading all your comments.

Like you're very temperamental. For you to have arrested your wife, lock her up and make up your mind to divorce her, shows the kind of person you are. If you can do this to her who is not the culprit, what wouldn't you do to the main culprit who raped your daughter?

I'm sure it was because of your personality that your wife couldn't open immediately to you, probably waiting for the child to heal first.

Calm down. It's an unfortunate incident no doubts, but you should rather focus on how to build your home stronger to combat this menace. The society has generally degraded to a level where we have one beast in almost every family.

Don't take it too hard on your wife, she was caught in the dilemma of protecting both her child and her brother from you.

Her mistake of keeping it from you was borne of the thought of your reactions, which as it seem right now is evidently unreasonable.

Sorry if I'm coming hard, but this is my thought.
Family / Re: How Are You Coping With The Current Economic Situation? by udumosam23(m): 1:14pm On Dec 04, 2022
annayawchee:
Honestly..

Life has never been this hard.
Inflation is just high,
Standard of living is just high,
Landlord choose this period to increase their rents.

Nothing is cheap, not even food..

Xmas is just 3 weeks away.

I've reduced my expenses to be barest but e still choke angry...

How una dey cope??


My salary is 52k, my business has collapsed leaving me with a debt of 2.1m. some creditors has called the cobs on me, others are threatening to sue. Children are asking if we'll go home for Christmas, wife is sick.

With all of these happening at the same time, me self, I can't even totally explain how I am coping but I'm still coping.

All I know is that I'm still alive and miraculously I still somehow feed my family and provide basic needs. We will all survive it Las las.
Family / Re: A Sample Of Bride Price In UGEP, Yakurr LGA Of Cross River State (Pictures) by udumosam23(m): 12:51pm On Dec 04, 2022
PoliteActivist:


Note the word dialectal. Any word can mean anything in a dialect. But there is the universal meaning (see below). Please don't use the word homely unless you are saying a girl is unattractive. I see it on NL all the time, and finally decided to correct it.

Noted.

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Family / Re: A Sample Of Bride Price In UGEP, Yakurr LGA Of Cross River State (Pictures) by udumosam23(m): 6:41am On Dec 04, 2022
PoliteActivist:


Homely means UNATTRACTIVE!

See below


Also means friendly, kind, gracious and cordial. Pls consult a broader dictionary.

Family / Re: A Sample Of Bride Price In UGEP, Yakurr LGA Of Cross River State (Pictures) by udumosam23(m): 11:26pm On Dec 03, 2022
staga:


Same can't be said for the men.

I honestly can't vouch for the yakurr man in marriage. Like the Yoruba men, we are generally polygamous in nature and are very notorious of been irresponsible to our children. But that also is changing.

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Family / Re: A Sample Of Bride Price In UGEP, Yakurr LGA Of Cross River State (Pictures) by udumosam23(m): 11:20pm On Dec 03, 2022
Joetttimua1811:
Op drop the address maybe I fit attend as NL family representative grin grin grin grin grin

I don book myself already bro. Make im just provide one canopy for nairalanders.
Family / Re: A Sample Of Bride Price In UGEP, Yakurr LGA Of Cross River State (Pictures) by udumosam23(m): 11:17pm On Dec 03, 2022
vince96w2:
true..s family friend shared similar story

All these stories are just figments of people's imaginations.
Family / Re: A Sample Of Bride Price In UGEP, Yakurr LGA Of Cross River State (Pictures) by udumosam23(m): 11:11pm On Dec 03, 2022
Franzinni:
Dem still dey chop people for ugep?

I know one ugep guy he come work for me that guy entire family nah tiff

His father ... Tiff (retired)

His mother ... Innocent

Him ... Tiff ( active ) he stole my entire office and even swept the room and left with the broom afterwards but he is not the main guy.

His younger brother ... Tiff ( PhD) everything that he touches even if it's in his mind ... It just vanishes ... The guy is So good that he will follow you to babalawo and still babalawo go confuse ... That guy men ... Noooo! That guy nah talented tiff!

Sorry bro, you met the wrong family. We have them in every tribe though.
Family / Re: A Sample Of Bride Price In UGEP, Yakurr LGA Of Cross River State (Pictures) by udumosam23(m): 11:03pm On Dec 03, 2022
menix:
Congrats bro...
Just as someone rightly said earlier, cannibals full that ugep, this I know...

No, you are wrong bro. Probably long time ago yes, but even then, only a few warriors practices such gory act.
Family / Re: A Sample Of Bride Price In UGEP, Yakurr LGA Of Cross River State (Pictures) by udumosam23(m): 10:58pm On Dec 03, 2022
dalass:
This bride price of #15.00 is funny.

However the Papa, Mama, relatives, community money and demands self is more than bride price grin

Wisdom no go Kee some people.

What you're adding with bags of rice, big cans of tomato paste up to 3 different seasonings

Hilarious cheesy cheesy grin

The bride price is traditional thing and must not exceed that amount, and must be paid with different Nigerian currencies. Although some clans have modified the amount to 1,885 to enable all currencies to be represented.

Every other rights are negotiable depending on the strength of the suitor. The yakurr women generally are homely and receptive, respectful and kind. There are still a few terrible ones though.

Cannibalism amongst the yakurr people is a long past history. Although their traditional and cultural activities still pictures these thoughts, they're now far from reality.

I am myself a yakurr man and I married from my community Idomi 8 years back. I also paid #15 bride price and other kepon and lezima expenses took about 130k and it was lauded to be an expensive marriage rites, I was hailed as a man amongst my Kingsmen.

He is blessed whose wife is a yakurr woman. They don't leave their husbands easily.

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Career / Re: Do People Actually Sell Their Soul? Is It Real? by udumosam23(m): 8:01pm On Nov 28, 2022
Worldlychild:
i can do it my condition is hell already

Guy be calming down o. You can trade your property or what you bought by yourself beginning with your boxer, not your soul.

You want trade your soul Na you create am, abi you buy am for market? Do you even know what you're talking about? Take time o.
Religion / Re: Who's Your Favourite Bible Character? by udumosam23(m): 1:59pm On Nov 27, 2022
Jonah. Very seriously.
Politics / Re: Soludo: I Will Sort Out My Differences With Obi Soon by udumosam23(m): 7:13am On Nov 25, 2022
I just like Peter Obi. He doesn't appear to be moved by all these personal attacks.

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Phones / Re: MTN Customer Care Thread by udumosam23(m): 4:46pm On Nov 20, 2022
Is it only me or there is another person who is still paying for his/her LUMOS electricity even after 5yrs.
Religion / Re: What's Your Favourite Version Of The Bible? by udumosam23(m): 11:42am On Nov 20, 2022
minks:
Studying the word of God is always refreshing and spiritually nourishing but studying a version that is hard to understand can make you not to enjoy the experience of studying the Bible.

I love the King James Bible but recently I found that I'm starting to like newer versions like The New International Version (NIV) and the English Standard Version (ESV).

So, what version do you enjoy studying?
Share with us and maybe we could discover new versions of God's word that will aid our knowledge of God.


I bet you haven't tried the New Living Translation. It takes your understanding of the Bible to a whole new level.

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Politics / Re: INEC To Nigerians: Help Us Identify Underage Persons On Voters’ Register by udumosam23(m): 4:52pm On Nov 15, 2022
siralos135:
Isn't it high time INEC consider the use of NIN as requirement for voter’s registration. It will eliminate all this fraudulent act as your NIN can help verify your age.

In fact, and BVN.

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Politics / Re: FALSE USA Moves To Checkmate Dollar Stockpile In Africa FALSE by udumosam23(m): 12:13pm On Nov 05, 2022
Now this is the real deal.

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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: NPC Launches E-recruitment Portal For 2023 Census by udumosam23(m): 8:46pm On Nov 01, 2022
ObiaboAdoka:

Same here oo


Use Chrome browser
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: NPC Launches E-recruitment Portal For 2023 Census by udumosam23(m): 8:43pm On Nov 01, 2022
FaceTanke:
NIN verification unavailable


Verify your NIN

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Politics / Re: Photos From Obidients' Rally In Yakurr LGA, Cross River by udumosam23(m): 7:14pm On Oct 11, 2022
How come I didn't even hear about this rally so I can attend? I mean, how far is Ugep and Idomi that they'll organise rally for Obi and keep me in the loop? Like are they maaaaad?

Naa, we will do this thing again, this one is for ugep people, we will do for yakurr.

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Education / Re: Gbajabiamila: Deal Sealed, ASUU Strike Over In Matter Of Days by udumosam23(m): 8:02am On Oct 11, 2022
GavelSlam:


Most of you want ASUU to "teach government a lesson" because you hate government.

Guess what?

With the statements from the award courts and the registration of rival unions, ASUU could see the writing on the wall.

They were being fragmented and totally caged.

Students need to go back to uni.

That's what the government always asked.
The only people who said no were ASUU.


I can see how they're asking for what is good for us and not their children.
Education / Re: Gbajabiamila: Deal Sealed, ASUU Strike Over In Matter Of Days by udumosam23(m): 7:27am On Oct 11, 2022
BeardGangJnr1:
FG rendered ASUU handicapped already,
Xccept u are hatching a plan to disobey dual Court orders....u have zero options other than resuming... regardless of the offer presented to UU, by FG (Buhari, Ngige and Reps speaker) undecided

How many institutions have you seen obeying court order in this administration? What has happened after that?

This case can't be settled by court injunctions, it will still end in a round table discussion or woe betide the students that will learn under the ASUU that the court compel to resume without meeting their demands.

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Politics / Re: Imo Women Arrive For Rally To Campaign For Tinubu, APC Candidates by udumosam23(m): 12:47pm On Oct 05, 2022
I go try convince my mama to vote LP, I go buy her bag of rice too to make up for wetin dem promise to offer her.

Las Las if she still no gree comply with me, I go hide her voters cards on the day of election.

BTW, how come my mama get 3 voter's card? All her age group get either two or three too. Yet INEC dey disqualify people for same reason.

You see this election, wether by nook or by crook, we don decide for Obi/Datti.
Events / Re: Can A Wedding In Nigeria Cost Less Than 700k? by udumosam23(m): 10:00am On Sep 29, 2022
Depends on venue. I completed mine in my village with less than 600k. It was one of the best. Started the plan in PH, was told 450k only for venue and decoration.

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Crime / Re: Evans Sentenced To 21 Years Imprisonment For Kidnapping by udumosam23(m): 3:06pm On Sep 19, 2022
TOPCRUISE:
Justice Oluwatoyin taiwo. Same Judge that sent 2 brothers to life imprisonment for armed robbery now sentence Evans to 21 years imprisonment for kidnapping.
I don't understand this judges anymore.

I wonder o.
Crime / Re: 2 Brothers Cry After Being Sentenced To Life Imprisonment For Armed Robbery by udumosam23(m): 3:44pm On Sep 15, 2022
That was harsh. That lawyer must have been badly pissed.
Religion / Re: Prelate Akpanika Emerged Through Transparent Process - Presbyterian Church by udumosam23(m): 4:06pm On Aug 23, 2022
For the first time, I have seen the name of my church in the FrontPage of nairaland. This is good.


From glory to glory.
Religion / Re: Prelate Akpanika Emerged Through Transparent Process - Presbyterian Church by udumosam23(m): 4:01pm On Aug 23, 2022
Lifeemetu:
From Glory To Glory







Am Life Idika
A Fashion Designer based in Enugu
Whatsapp me on 08022620407


Happy Presbyterians

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Politics / Re: Ndoki Community Of Rivers State by udumosam23(m): 2:13pm On Aug 19, 2022
popez:


How so?

Had a friend who will always want us to go to the stream to bath or wash. Won't see him again for about 3 or 4 days even if I look for him, he isn't always at home.

He'll show after about 4 days with either soap or bunch of clothes only to ask again that we go to the stream.

He never answered the question 'where have you been'. Till this day I never know where he actually lives.


Lived with my in-law when he was only a teacher. Now he is a multimillionaire. Yet everyone around him including his own brothers and sisters are struggling.

Each time time I visits he's kinda scared and doesn't come back home, last time I visited, he hurriedly entered his room and didn't come out till I left.

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Politics / Re: Ndoki Community Of Rivers State by udumosam23(m): 10:36am On Aug 19, 2022
Spend most of my childhood days in one of the Ndoki community. Umuagbai precisely. Those folks are kinda weird.

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